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Transform Your Life with Steve and Pete provides practical wisdom to help you discover your identity, reject false mindsets, and align with your destiny and purpose. Steve and Pete are both executive life and leadership coaches with years of experience helping people become their best selves.
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Transformation Tip: “Every deep thinker is more afraid of being understood than of being misunderstood.” — Friedrich NietzscheThis week’s talent: IntellectionIntrinsic needs:Time alone to process and reflect, sometimes multiple times a dayTo be asked to share wisdom and insightsOthers to recognize that their thoughts are valuable.Potential blindspots:Because you are comfortable with silence and solitude, others might view you as isolated, disinterested, or disengaged.Some people might think y...
Transformation Tip: “Retrieval is the knot at the end of the string that prevents you from forgetting what you learn.” - Peter C. BrownThis week’s talent: InputIntrinsic needs:A system to store and retrieve information Opportunities to share what you know to help others Time to explore areas of curiosity. “Treasure hunting” Potential blindspots:Unrestrained input can lead to intellectual or physical clutter.You might tend to give people so much information or resources that you...
Transformation Tip: “The best way to predict the future is to create it.” - Peter DruckerThis week’s talent: FuturisticIntrinsic needs:Time to dream about the future Sounding boards to refine the visionA message and community to share the vision. To partner with action-oriented people.Potential blindspots:Because you live in the future, you may find it difficult to enjoy the present moment. Some people may dismiss your visions because they can’t see the future as you do. B...
Transformation Tip: “Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it.” – George Santayana,This week’s talent: ContextIntrinsic needs:To know others' stories, to understand them To know the history of things Time to reflect on the past Celebrate milestonesPotential blindspots:Some people might think that you live in the past and are resistant to change. You are often fascinated by the historical perspective and the lessons it reveals, but others may find...
Transformation Tip: “The price for greatness is responsibility” - Winston ChurchillThis week’s talent: ResponsibilityIntrinsic needs:The confidence and trust of others Freedom from micromanagers Freedom to say “no”Healthy boundaries Potential blindspots:Because they find it difficult to turn down others’ requests, sometimes they overcommit. Too many obligations can keep them from spending time with the most important people in their lives. Hard time delegating - Messi...
Transformation Tip: “If I had an hour to solve a problem I'd spend 55 minutes thinking about the problem and 5 minutes thinking about solutions.” ― Albert Einstein This week’s talent is: RestorativeIntrinsic needs:Freedom to solve the problem To be asked, “What needs attention, and what could be improved?” To be encouraged and affirmed for their contribution Potential blindspots:Because they have an orientation to see what’s broken, others might think tha...
Transformation Tip: “Numbers don’t lie, but they don’t tell the whole story.”This week's strength: Analytical Intrinsic needs:Time to gather and process all the pertinent facts/dataAn avenue to share information To be understood when questioning others’ assumptionsPotential blindspots:Because you ask many questions, people may think that you doubt the validity of their ideas, you do not trust them, or are tough to work with. Your objective and fact-based approach to decision-m...
Transformation Tip: “If you aim at nothing you’re sure to hit it”This week’s talent: FocusPeople exceptionally talented in the Focus theme can take a direction, follow through and make the corrections necessary to stay on track. Intrinsic needs:Clear and compelling destination and goals Clear order of priorities An environment free from constant distractionsPotential blindspots:Those with this strength may focus so intently on their work that they don’t notice when goals ...
Transformation Tip: “Be yourself, everyone else is already taken” - Oscar Wild This week’s strength: Individualization People who are: Intrigued with what makes people unique individual Understand people very well - good at reading people Don't like generalizations Believes one size DOES NOT fit all Intrinsic needs:Opportunity to customize Appreciated and valued for uniqueness Help people get into their zone Blind SpotsKnow more about other pe...
Transformation Tip: “Empathy is like giving someone a psychological hug.” - Lawrence JEmpathy Strength:You intuitively feel something before it is expressed You will feel others’ emotions as if they are your own Instinctive and powerful Can help translate the functional to the relational How to manage the empathy talent well: Be in an emotionally healthy environment Need to have good emotional boundaries Blind Spots:Can turn co-dependant The need to fee...
Transformation Tip: “The growth and development of people is the highest calling of leadership” -- Harvey Firestone Developer Talent Recognize and cultivate the potential in others Intrinsic Needs Need to work with people or organizations that desire growth Their potential needs to be recognized BlindspotYou see potential in people, but they have to want to change as much as you want it for themIf you become overly invested in someone else’s development you can b...
Transformation Tip: “Realize that everything connects to everything else” - Leonardo DivinciPeople with connectedness strength see links between things which helps bring meaning and value to situations. Qualities of someone with strong connectedness Nonlinear They see unity in humankind Spiritual Intuitiveness Bridge-builders How to manage this talent It is important to be part of a team with a shared vision They will not demand things but suggest ...
Transformation Tip: “Blessed are the flexible for they will not get bent out of shape”The strength of adaptability is powerful! Blind spots: Can be frustrating to people who want to “stay the course”Miss deadlines/running late Can be too trusting The strength can be easily overused Positive Can help others Relationship comes firstVery likable Go with the flow Flexible TipsLook for leadership opportunities You may not be good with planning...
Transformation Tip: “Nothing can dim the light which shines from within.” - Maya AngelouYou will see exponential results if you already have talent in a specific area and try to develop it, rather than try to develop a talent in an area you struggle with. “What if we study what is right with people rather than what is wrong with people?"Your biggest weaknesses hide in the shadows of your strengths Transformation Application: Consider taking the Clifton Strengths assessment: https://...
Each of us is designed with a unique purpose and talents. When we are not working within our design we can get frustrated and burnt out. Oftentimes, this is caused by simply being unaware of our strengths and weaknesses. In this episode, gain practical tools to help you identify the areas where you thrive as well as potential blind spots that may be holding you back. It’s time to align with your design!Transformation Tip: “Don’t compromise yourself - you’re all you have” - John GrishamHow to ...
Many people find themselves stuck in difficult situations because of their need to please everyone around them. People-pleasing can be exhausting and overwhelming. This episode will help you identify the causes and effects of this habit and teach you how to establish healthy boundaries for yourself. Transformation Tip: “I can’t tell you the key to success but the key to failure is trying to please everyone” - Ed SheeranSymptoms of people-pleasing:You find it really hard to say no &...
A big key to becoming more self-aware is identifying blindspots. Blindspots are aspects of ourselves that we have not been aware of or not fully known. In this episode learn practical ways to discover both your positive and negative blindspots to help you develop your EQ and put the best version of yourself forward. Transformation Tip: How do you know when you’ve been deceived? You don’t. How to discover your blind spots:Ask people for feedback - you cannot see your own blindspots s...
Once you've identified patterns of rejection in your life, it's important to know what to do next! In this episode, Steve and Pete give practical tips on how to overcome rejection and move into a place of acceptance and freedom. Transformation Tip: "Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it." -- Charles R. SwindollBreaking out of the rejection cycle is crucial for moving into acceptance. Three C's for breaking rejection: Conviction to make the changeCourage to make...
Do you find yourself constantly looking for external validation and approval? This episode is for you. Learning to approve of yourself (flaws and all!) is key to being able to live in a place of freedom and bring the best out of those around you. Transformation Tip: A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval - Mark Twain If you keep finding yourself in the approval trap, it is an indication that you are having a problem fully loving and accepting yourself. Examples of the ...
HollyKem Sunseri joins the show to talk about how to identify your inner voices to find your true self. Transformation Talk: “Don't believe everything you hear - even in your own mind.”— Daniel AmenWe all have three inner voices: wounded selfprotective selftrue self When you are feeling anxious or if you impulsively negatively react to something, ask yourself: which voice was that? Dig a little deeper to see if there is a wound there or if your actions were triggered by your p...
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