Parenting With Understanding™ Podcast

💙 Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:https://www.secureparentcollective.com Do you try to stay calm with your kids, take deep breaths, count to ten... and STILL end up yelling? What if the problem isn't that you can't control your anger, but that you've been taught to fight it? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why emotional regulation isn't about suppressing your anger. It's about developing a healthy relationship with it. You'll discover: 💙 Why your child's behavior may trigger anger connected to your own childhood experiences. 💙 The three unhealthy ways parents respond to anger: fighting it, running from it, or shutting down. 💙 What your anger is actually trying to protect. 💙 How Mindsight helps you understand your emotions instead of reacting to them. 💙 How to break generational patterns of yelling and become the Secure Parent your child needs. You don't have to stop feeling angry to become a Secure Parent. You need to learn what to do with your anger. ✨ Ready to practice emotional regulation with direct guidance and support? Inside the Secure Parent Collective, we practice the skills of Emotional Regulation, Mindsight, and Positive Discipline every week so they become part of how you parent. 💙 Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ Subscribe to the Parenting With Understanding Podcast and join us LIVE every Monday at 9:30 AM Pacific!

✨ **Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:** 👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Does your child's defiance, meltdowns, or refusal to listen make you feel disrespected, frustrated, or like you're failing as a parent? What if the real problem isn't their behavior, but the meaning you're giving it? In this episode of the **Parenting With Understanding Podcast**, Marcela Collier teaches you how to stop taking your child's behavior personally by practicing **Mindsight**, one of the three essential skills of a Secure Parent. You'll discover: 💙 Why your interpretations trigger emotional reactions 💙 How to separate observations from judgments 💙 The three questions that help you understand the needs beneath your child's behavior 💙 How to respond with confidence instead of reacting **Ready to stop collecting parenting tips and start practicing Secure Parenting?** Inside the **Secure Parent Collective**, you'll practice these skills every week with Marcela's direct guidance, professional coaching, and a supportive community. ✨ **Start your FREE 30-Day Trial:** 👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday at 9:30 AM Pacific. Subscribe and join us LIVE!

💙 Ready to practice Secure Parenting with weekly coaching and support? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com Have you ever yelled at your child... ...and then spent the rest of the day wondering if you've damaged your relationship? You're not alone. In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier explains why repair is not a sign of failure—it's part of Secure Parenting. But repair is more than saying, "I'm sorry." It begins with how you treat yourself first. In this episode, you'll learn: ✨ Why repair is more than an apology✨ The 3 Secure Parent values that make repair meaningful:• Mercy• Empathy• Kindness✨ Why promising perfection keeps parents stuck✨ How to show your child progress instead of perfection If you've ever wondered... "Will my child still trust me after I yell?" This episode is for you. 💙 Ready to practice Secure Parenting with weekly coaching and support? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.

Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective:👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com You've read the parenting books.You've listened to the podcasts.You've saved the Instagram posts. So why is it still so hard to stay calm in the moment? In this episode of the Parenting With Understanding Podcast, Marcela Collier sits down with HIC Parenting Coach Holly Storm to reveal why knowing what to do isn't the same as becoming the parent you want to be. Together, they explore the three core skills every Secure Parent develops: 🧠 Head – Mindsight: Understanding yourself and your child's needs. ❤️ Heart – Emotional Regulation: Learning to work with your nervous system instead of against it. 🙌 Hands – Positive Discipline: Guiding behavior through connection, not control. If you've ever felt like... "I know what to do... I just can't do it when it matters most." This episode is for you. 💙 Ready to stop collecting parenting tips and start practicing Secure Parenting? Start your FREE 30-Day Trial of the Secure Parent Collective: 👉 https://www.secureparentcollective.com 🎙️ New episodes every Monday. Subscribe so you never miss an episode.