Andrea has made an intense connection with Hope Ybarra's family, and asked experts, doctors, and the detective so many of her burning questions about Munchausen by Proxy. But she's become increasingly fixated on talking to Hope herself as she comes to realize that it may be her only chance to get the insights she needs. In this stunning season one finale, Andrea travels to Mountain Home, Idaho, to meet with Hope Ybarra.
In this intense, emotional back-and-forth, we hear straight from Hope what life is like for her after being released from prison. We find out what she's up to and what she hopes for from the future. Hope listens to her own family—all of whom she's estranged from with the exception of Robin—talk about what she was like before everything fell apart. She insists that she still loves her children, despite what she did. We see the human being behind the monstrous acts that splashed Hope's story across headlines and landed her in prison for a decade.
Andrea asks Hope what might have been done to help her and what she might say to her younger self if she could go back. Finally, she tells Hope that if she really wants her family back, she should get treatment and offers to help her if she wants that.
Hope is friendly and warm in person, but Andrea is left with the unsettling truth that she hasn't changed.
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other cases need to be covered. l understand the importance of addressing the media situation and the potential impact of this documentary. As with all other kinds of child abuse, elderly abuse, disabled abuse, there is a serious and lethal problem with victims "falling through the cracks", running a gauntlet of systematic failures. I have my own concerns with some of the things that experienced professionals are saying re mbp. Constructive criticism is needed in this good fight.
wow! is he ever flippant with his comments. it's not a funny topic so I found this quite surprising.
I respect Bea Yorker's professional perspective on the balance, about medical child abuse. But I disagree with her about reunification, and about how this method of abuse has anything in common with drug and alcohol addiction. I was actually quite stunned to hear her going on and on in such glowing language about the potential of "reunification" between a tortured child and the torturer. Also, "gender stereotypes" are not why the Courts are so inept in regards to this kind of abuse: it is the subhuman status of children that causes the ineptitude and the difficulty of the Courts. The Courts see children as property of their parents rather than as human beings. That is why "reunification" is emphasized above the lives and deaths of children. "Reunification" benefits the parent(s) at expense of the child(ren); "reunification" validates and "heals" the abusers at the expense of the survivors. Abuse and torture, particularly the kind we have been hearing about in these episodes, are a CHO
why did this cut out early?
As an adopted child, believe when I say that Alyssa is still going to feel the loss of her biological mother regardless of the circumstances. It's going to be painful for her for a long time that she won't get the chance to find out (from her mother's own mouth) why the medical abuse happened, nor will she get the chance to forgive her.
I'm a little annoyed with how much she is telling us what this podcast will be about.
just finished first episode on suffer the little children and found the podcast on here. so intriguing and cannot wait to finish it.
"WE" did not make Hope into a monster - she chose to become one Her family is no longer broken apart; they healed as they had to do, without her there to do them harm. I am relieved and kind of proud that the narrator seemed like she was falling under Hope's enchantment, but ultimately did not. Her sharp stern words against instant "forgiveness", against manipulation, against her own irrational hopes, are SO reassuring to hear, regardless of whatever else she has said previously that I thought was misguided.
If you want people to "understand" this pattern of crime, and "address" the patern of crime, and help the victims of this type of crime, then maybe recognize the humanity of children - and recognize that the law, the "experts" and "professionals" do not recognize the humanity of children even if they say a few patronizing words now and again. Recognize that PERPETRATORS are not VICTIMS. Recognize that abusers and torturers are not "disempowered women" - they are adults who have the lives and deaths of other human beings in their hands. Recognize that the "experts" are sometimes - even often - wrong, they sometimes have an agenda. Stand up to the "experts". Challenge them. Investigate their agendas before giving them a platform. Most of all, prioritize the survivors of this abuse. Do not think that forcing them to "understand" the "pain" their abuser was in is of any value to anyone except the abuser. Do not make celebrities and sympathetic characters of these manipulators and abuser
I cannot believe all the absolutely disgusting bs uttered on here by these "professional" "experts". Especially the female one. Also, how can the narrator say the guest has so much "empathy", when she advocates for "reunification"? "Reunification" in cases like this is like saying "f%^& children, they're subhuman". The abusers are NOT the victims. It is NOT that complex.
it's odd how many people don't know what the word mortifying means. It means to be embarrassed but people always use it like it means to be scared. I think it's because the prefix is mort and they think of death.
JFC PLEASE do not repeat the bs that MBP/facticious "disorder" is a "mental illness". it is a method of abuse. it is premeditated, planned, calculated, and purposeful. The experts state that it is a "mental illness", but that creates "mitigating circumstances" and excuses. it creates nonsense in the Courts, where parents who torture their children, up to and beyond death, can create a plausible defense with the assistance of experts, that they "did not intend to" harm, murder, permanently disable their children. It causes the Courts and the public to be confused as to who the real sufferers are, and it causes the real victims to be erased and forgotten.
I think this is going to begin on the right foot. MBP is both a form of child abuse, and a method of child abuse. It is not a "mental illness" in and of itself. The people who practice MBP do not "suffer from" it. Their victims do. And many of their victims do not survive. I am not interested in humanizing these sociopaths, to the point of being expected to feel sympathy and empathy. That strategy is manipulative and creates misunderstanding, of which there is already too much thanks to the experts.
Ughhhh I wanted to give Doug such a big hug. It's such a terrible injustice.
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broken source, none of them play