50shadesofsingle

 What is BB or Raw sex. Is it safe and how can you be safe.What feels good and what is not worth the risk.Let me take you on my bareback journey and answer your curiosities.Tell me your experiences and thoughts.Happy sexing!V

 Now we all know there’s a social pecking order in the ton but how does it differ with the Delhi gays especially from the mainstream gay culture of the universe. Is it tops and bottoms or is it more complex than that or is it just frigid and a bit of hot air. Let’s explore further and I’d love to know your experience in this bustling metropolis.After all we are our tribe. V

Health is wealth and surely not everyone is promiscuous but everyone must enjoy sex surely and believes in a healthy sex life. With that territory comes the nasties and I want you to champion testing and talking openly about infections as we easily talk about having the viral.It’s time and yes spread love and not STIsHappy sexing.V

What is considered as a big cock? Do you think you qualify for big or are you obsessed with big?Am I big and am I big everywhere or does it change.How big does it need to be to be considered a Top and if not then what.Can you actually tell how big is someone?Let’s explore the journey and dissect. 

What is it to be assaulted and does it always have to be physical or violent?What is your history or assault and where does it stem from.If you were or ever are in that situation what would you do?@50shadesofsingleInstagram.com/50shadesofsinglAlso on podcasts

How was a hetero Punjabi Diwali for you growing up and what’s your earliest memory?How do we relate to it today especially the ones who live away from India. And how does it feel coming back into it year after year.And when do you start owning it and make it your own gay Diwali.Let’s unpack that and fuck societal expectations. 

What would you say your first love is? A man, a hobby, a book, a pet, a parent?First love in my opinion stays with you for your life and doesn’t judge you and keep you afloat.Are you bothered by what people have said about being feminine or masculine or not doing your heteronormative part.. and how has this shaped your idea of love.Varun Singal 

Watching Dahmer on Netflix brought a lot to the surface especially in relation to sexual racism as a POC having lived in Australia and Germany.Do you relate to it and did it also trigger something for you.Is it relevant in Asian society especially in India?Would love to hear your experiences and how you agree disagree with mine.But the point being.Stay you!Varun Singal 

Mirror mirror on the wall.What‘s important to your vanity and how far does it define you?Is it ok to get surgeries to enhance or upkeep or we must yearn to be beyond vanity and be true yogis looking for inner beauty.Watch my journey and where I stand on it for it and by it.Be proud be you and own your vanity.Varun Vain Singal 

What is monogamy and what does it mean for you?Are we monogamous by default or is it a choice.Let’s explore and dissect the insecurities and homosexuality differentiations.Do you agree with my opinion or it’s a hard line for you?Sex and sexualityVarun Singal 

Do you know what are poppers? I’m sure you have heard of them and being new to them also means I wanna share with you live what it feels like. How do you use them and doesn’t it matter whether you’re a top or bottom?I wanna also hear your experience and concerns.Write to me on any platform with the same handle across social media and podcasts.Happy sex!Varun Singal 

Now we’ve all gawked at speedos and cock outlines growing up and did we have access to men around us? Here I talk about what it was like for me for, the first contact to losing my virginity to sex roles as default.What was it like for you growing up as a gay desi in india and abroad and did you have similar experiences too? Whom was your first sex experience from the outside world and how has it shaped you.Let’s talk about sexperiences bebe.Who doesn’t like cock?Varun Singal 

Queer people get to choose their own families or are they forced to. When it comes to families what is family and what strings are attached for tolerating your presence especially in Desi families. Do you agree with my views or how far are you willing to get accepted. Does it come with respect? And what about your partner or love life? Would they cheer the loudest at your wedding or you would be happy to accept whatever you’re getting?What’s it worth.. let’s dissect this.Strength and respect.Varun Singal

How was it like for you to grow not only being socially outcast but also illegal for loving and fucking who you want. I talk about my experience here from being caught by the police as a teenager to coming back to Indian from exile in Australia to make a difference through Simply Yoga - India’s first LGBT yoga retreat in Goa that was shut down back in 2018 and here we are four years later celebrating it being struck out! A lot of work to do and yes we will achieve it.Love yourself and share your journeys and feel free to share it to your social medias.Love and light.Varun Singal

What does it mean to be a slut and when was the first time you heard that word?Would you be offended if someone called you a slut or would you take it as a compliment?In India where Moral compasses are hypocritical and constantly shifting how does one own their sexual freedom?

What is it about? Why do it? Whom is it for? What do we talk about? A little goes a long way.. believe me I’m not a size queen so here we start the journey and I want you right here next to me on it. Tell me what you wanna talk about. What is important to you wherever you are as my fellow desi gay fabulousness.Spread the love and keep shining. 🎇Instagram.com/50shadesofsingle

It’s all happening raw and uncut and let’s talk about sex and all the things about you and me. Let’s talk about all the bad things and the good things that may be.