Resilient Kids Podcast

In this episode, Madeleine is joined by optometrist Keren Dravitzki as they delve into the fascinating world of eye health. Myopia, commonly known as nearsightedness, is a growing concern in today's digital age. Explore the environmental factors that contribute to Myopia, strategies to protect developing eyes, and tips to minimise eye strain and tiredness. Myopia - for families: https://mykidsvision.org Myopia - for parents: https://mymyopia.com/for-parents Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/ Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com

This week on Resilient Kids Madeleine speaks with specialist Brett Harrington about all things ADHD. This episode is filled with insights and strategies for parents raising children with ADHD. Listen in as Brett shares her expert knowledge and we discover that ADHD is not something to be fought against, but rather a challenge that we must embrace and adapt around. Brett's website: https://adhdsorted.com/ ADHD New Zealand: https://www.adhd.org.nz/ Additude magazine: https://www.additudemag.com/ Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/ Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com

In this week's episode, host Madeleine speaks with Te Kahukura Boynton, to explore innovative strategies for imparting financial wisdom to children. Te Kahukura Boynton is a 19 year old Law Student, Entrepreneur and Activist for Māori. Te Kahukura is on a mission to teach Maori financial literacy because she believes that this will reduce disparities in outcomes. You can learn more about her journey by following @maorimillionaire_ on social media or visiting www.maorimillionaire.com Te Kahukura shares invaluable insights to help children understand the profound significance of money, delving into topics such as budgeting, teaching kids the value of money, and how to role model positive behaviours in the realm of finance. How much is too much: https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/titles/jean-illsley-clarke/how-much-is-too-much-previously-published-as-how-much-is-enough/9780738216829/ Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/ Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com

This episode we are joined by Sarah Amy Glensor Best, an author, parenting coach, and mother of 3, as she shares her insightful take on the significance of play in a child's life. Madeleine and Sarah uncover the reasons behind play's importance and practical ways to infuse it into daily routines, fostering creativity and resilience naturally. Covering topics such as what is play, why we play, and even how to use play to explore sensitive topics like death, tune in to discover how to make play an integral part of your parenting journey. Sarah's website: www.powerfulparenting.world Sarah's book: https://www.amazon.com/Changing-World-Childs-Play-Inspirations/dp/0994114214 Interview with Dr Peter Gray: ⁠https://www.rnz.co.nz/national/programmes/afternoons/audio/2018902731/more-play-for-young-people Playcentre: https://www.playcentre.org.nz Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/ Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com

In this episode, we're joined again by children’s continence nurse Lisa Smith, a seasoned professional in the realm of potty training. Lisa imparts her extensive expertise, offering invaluable advice for parents and caregivers. From recognising signs of readiness to overcoming challenges like regression, Lisa's proven techniques and empathetic approach pave the way for a successful potty training journey. This episode equips listeners with practical strategies and many valuable tips. Listen in to learn how to navigate this important developmental milestone with confidence and ease. Free webinar - Going potty over potty training: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4cghPAfuSWw Lisa's website: https://childrenscontinence.com/ Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/ Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com

On this week's interview we hear from the wonderful Lisa Krause. Lisa is a parent and grandparent with years of experience and expertise parenting. She has worked as a parenting educator and a teacher of parenting science. On this episode Madeleine and Lisa have a discussion on the topic of helicopter parenting. Lisa uses the terms “Rescuing your children” rather then helping and guiding them. In order for our children to reach adulthood with all the skills they require they need to be taught and nurtured but also left alone to figure things out. Lisa brings up important questions such as; how early should they start doing chores? When is it okay to let your child take risks that could hurt them? Does your child need assistance or just a listening ear? These questions and more are the backbone of the important conversation that has taken place.  Lisa's website: www.parentcoachconnection.com Madeleine's website: https://resilientkids.org.nz/ Get in touch: resilientkidspod@gmail.com

Heather has been working with parents and parenting professionals for 15 years and offers a unique perspective all the way from Carolina in the USA. In their conversation Madeleine and Heather discuss how hard it is for parents to find their own solutions when issues come up with their children rather then looking for help from professionals. The irony of this being a parenting podcast is not missed. Parents have intuitive sense of what their children need, and Heather provides suggestions for how parents can look inwards to find information in difficult situations.  Heathers website: www.reflectivedialogue.com

Sleep is one of the most essential parts of all of our lives. Billie, a sleep consultant with the business Sleeping Lions, takes her time to share our vital sleep is for all of our health. This is especially the case for babies. Billie discusses with Madeleine strategies for getting our infants to sleep. Billie boils it down to how essential it is to be consistent and have a plan and how habits around sleep can begin developing as early as day one!  Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: https://www.sleepinglions.co.nz/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Billie Searing Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

This week we welcome Judith Yeabsley back onto the podcast. After telling us of her own experiences in parenting in season one we have her back to talk about her are of expertise, picky eating. As the founder of The Confident Eater, Judith has ample knowledge and a strong ability to share that knowledge. As a former teacher and a forever learner herself, she understands what it takes to teach and shares her knowledge with care and grace. There is much to learn from this episode with The Confident Eater! Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Sharing not Staring: https://theconfidenteater.com/blog/our-food/sharing-not-staring-especially-for-our-fussy-eaters/ Common Mistakes: https://theconfidenteater.com/blog/picky-eating-support/avoiding-common-mistakes-for-parents-of-fussy-eaters/ The link to the research (in the easy to read format): https://wharaurau.org.nz/sites/default/files/files/resources/Optimising%20Eating%20Occasions%20at%20School%20-%20How%20To%20Support%20Selective%20Eaters%20%28Dr%20Amy%20Lovell%29.pdf And her contact details. Website: https://theconfidenteater.com/ FB page: https://www.facebook.com/theconfidenteater/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Judith Yeabsley Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

To begin season two, our specialist season, we tackle the absolutely essential topic of grief. Grief is something we all have to go through at some point, and having the knowledge of Claire Laurenson in your tool belt is a huge asset. Claire has been doing grief work for nearly forty years, and like all of us has experience working through her own grief. Claire is an amazing resource who discusses many different techniques for helping your children through their grief. Madeleine and Claire are able to flow through a relaxed conversation on such an important topic and Claire’s immense knowledge is well and truly essential listening.   Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Claire’s Website: ⁠https://griefrelief.co.nz/⁠ Skylight:⁠ https://www.skylight.org.nz/resources/loss-and-grief⁠ Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Claire Laurenson Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

In this episode we speak to another highly experienced professional about the important topic of poos and wees. Lisa Smith is a children’s continence nurse and has been working with children and families for many years. You will hear Lisa explain how the bowel is like a second brain! Truly. The bowel is impacted by our emotions much like our brain. So the topic of poos and wees is actually a complex and important one. Lisa’s knowledge is a crucial resource for families needing more information about number ones and number twos. Toilet training is not the end of the road, and we are sure adults listening will learn important tips to make sure our health is kept in shape. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Winnie Weka and Mr Poo – on Lisa's website  www.poosandwees.org.nz C for Constipation and watch the video, E for Enuresis and watch the videowww.kidshealth.org.nz  Youtube: wee, poo and you   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBOeiPmi5Ro&t=75s Squatty potty video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YbYWhdLO43Q= Lots of children’s resources on Toileting, wetting and soiling www.continence.org.nz  Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Lisa Smith Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

Madeleine has a conversation with Liz Andrew-Brake, a person Madeleine met when they were just a child. Liz now has a toddler of 17 months and comes to talk about managing tantrums. Their discussion revolves around founding balance in responding to tantrums. Liz is an experienced social worker, so her knowledge and Madeleine’s expertise leads them to create a toolbox to deal with tantrums. Managing emotions is always a tricky journey, but their conversation is a practical model for all parents. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Liz Andrew-Brake Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

This week, after a short break, we are back on the Resilient Kids Podcast with a special interview with optometrist and clinical researcher Alex Muntz. Muntz provides real and concrete evidence that shows the importance of understanding the effects of screen use on our children. He and Madeleine discuss this in detail whilst remaining balanced in their perspectives of screen use with children. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Alex Muntz Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

Parenting 2 kids under the age of 2 could be considered an Olympic level sport. Whilst extremely rewarding and fulfilling it certainly comes with it's many challenges. Anna and Madeleine have a conversation about these challanges and these rewarding experiences. It is such an important time of growth in their brains so the way parents approach this time is key. Madeleine and Anna provide a comprehensive look into this and Anna provides a helpful and considerate perspective on this time. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Anna Popata  Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

Sarah works with parents, doing workshops and supporting parents on their role. But, most importantly she’s a mother, and it’s her journey to forgiveness of herself that is the topic of this discussion. Madeleine and Sarah have an emotive, personal, and helpful discussion on understanding that parenting is tough, and we are imperfect and will make mistakes in this process. Sarah makes the important point that we don’t need to be perfect! It’s a learning process but we have to forgive ourselves, because there are a lot of what if’s in this world . Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Sarah’s book: Changing the World Is Child's Play: Inspirations for Making Everyday Moments with Children Count Link: https://books.google.co.nz/books/about/Changing_the_World_Is_Child_s_Play.html?id=ZZhbrgEACAAJ&source=kp_book_description&redir_esc=y Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Sarah Amy Glensor Best  Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

Madeleine welcomes Fiona back for the second part of their conversation. Fiona comes back and shares how the strategies suggested by Madeleine have impacted the process of getting her child to bed. It’s a tricky world and lots of distractions are around, like a renovation to a bedroom! But even with these distractions, we can see that developing strategies to support and nurture our children in difficult situations is important. This is a must-listen to see how practical advice can change our situations. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Fiona Robinson-Morey Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

This conversation, the first of a two part series where Madeleine discusses with Fiona the difficulty of getting kids to bed and getting them up in the morning. Madeleine offers Fiona extremely practical advice of giving choices and areas of control for the children to help them get to bed. Fiona, a working mother, has to balance her time as anyone working parent does. It is in this shared experience that there is so much to gain for all parents. Part two will be coming soon, in which we can hear the results of the suggestions Madeleine has provided. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Fiona Robinson-Morey Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

Bailey runs the Instagram adventure parenting page Spirit and Guts (link below). She and Madeleine have a rich and important discussion on emotional intelligence. Helping our children to manage their emotions when they’re young can really set them up for the future. Bailey’s graduate school experience gives her an excellent base of knowledge but is also willing to admit that the process of teaching emotional intelligence to children is difficult. This discussion is so valuable for all parents and generally the importance of understanding our emotions. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Bailey's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spiritandguts/ Bailey's Website: https://baileyselland.com Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Bailey Selland  Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

Katie is a mother of an 8 year old and comes on the show to talk about navigating new family dynamics. She talks about going in blind to this new situation and the lack of resources for parents in this situation. Katie gives sound advice on navigating this situation and that makes this episode an excellent resource for parents going through this. Katie’s experiences is also very human and friendly, and provides great advice on ensuring lines of communication exist in the family. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Katie Sherriff Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani

Judith discusses with Madeleine our teenager’s space of uncertainty in this modern world. With the pandemic, cost of living crisis, and a number of other uncertainties in our world, it’s a tough time to navigate the world. They discuss how to find some certainty and develop a compass to help our teenagers for their navigation into adulthood. Judith, an expert in fussy eating, has an excellent perspective on raising children and supporting them through their growth. They discuss how essential a family’s values are on assisting our children through their growth. Have your say on the Resilient Kids Podcast. We value your feedback of all variety or even if you have an idea of what you'd like to hear in the future. Please leave a review, and follow us on your podcast provider to ensure you're kept up to date when any new podcast is released. Further, if you'd like to contact the podcast directly, our email is just below. Email: resilientkidspod@gmail.com Resources: Parenting Road Code: https://resilientkids.org.nz/product/this-workbook-is-to-be-used-along-side-the-parenting-road-code-to-help-readers-think-through-the-exercises-and-record-their-thoughts-the-workbook-will-be-useful-to-refer-back-to-over-time-to-assist/ Judith's Website: https://theconfidenteater.com/about/ Podcast Creator: Madeleine Taylor Guest: Judith Yeabsley  Edited By: Wynter McCook-Weir Intro Music By: Guy Ritani