Transforming The Toddler Years- Parents and Educators Raising Calm, Connected, Capable Kids

Could elimination communication help your baby ditch diapers earlier, strengthen your bond, and make potty learning easier? In this episode of Transforming the Toddler Years, I welcome Andrea Olson, elimination communication expert and founder of Go Diaper Free, to explain the difference between elimination communication (EC) and traditional potty training. Discover how to recognize your baby’s potty cues, practice part-time elimination communication from birth, and support your child’s natural development without adding unnecessary stress to your parenting routine. Andrea shares practical advice for navigating daycare potty training, overcoming challenges with older toddlers, understanding the benefits of proper squatting positions, and handling bathroom needs while traveling. Whether you’re a new parent exploring early potty learning or navigating toddler toilet training, this conversation offers actionable tips for building confidence, fostering connection, and making the diaper-free journey work for your family.Andrea Olson is the author of Go Diaper Free (https://godiaperfree.com) and The Tiny Potty Training Book, and the world's leading educator on elimination communication — the gentle practice of tuning into your baby's natural cues to use the potty from birth. Andrea's approach to EC is practical, low-pressure, and designed to work for real parents in real life — whether you're all in or just dipping a toe in the potty waters.Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? ⁠⁠DM⁠ ⁠me "Community" on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠so we can connect! October 15, 2026Episode 354Potty Trained From Birth: Elimination Communication with Andrea Olsen from Go Diaper FreeAbout Your Host:Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Core4Parenting⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠ A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success.As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠alk to Them Early and Often⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠

How can you hold firm boundaries with toddlers without turning every limit into a power struggle or meltdown? In this episode we explore the difference between rigid, permissive, and collaborative boundaries—and why effective toddler discipline requires both connection and consistency. Learn how collaborative discipline gives children a voice and choices within a clear boundary, helping parents and educators reduce power struggles while still confidently holding limits. We’ll look at practical examples of using flexible, respectful boundary-setting during everyday challenges like diaper changes and transitions. If you’re looking for positive parenting strategies, toddler discipline tips, and ways to set healthy boundaries without yelling or power struggles, this episode is for you.⁠  Watch a tutorial video of me using my words to help a little one transition and hold boundaries. Find the video here: https://www.core4parenting.com/collaborate⁠October 13, 2026Episode 353How to Hold Boundaries Without Power Struggles or MeltdownsAbout Your Host:Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Core4Parenting⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success.As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠alk to Them Early and Often⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

What if simply observing, waiting, and listening could help boost your toddler’s language development and communication skills? In this episode, we explore the OWL method—Observe, Wait, and Listen—and how this simple parenting strategy gives toddlers the space they need to practice language, build sentences, and express their thoughts. You’ll learn why repetition and pauses are important for toddler speech and language development, and why resisting the urge to fill every moment of silence can lead to richer communication. We also introduce the “S” for Speak, showing parents how to use meaningful language and reflection after their child has had a chance to lead the conversation. Discover practical ways to support your toddler’s language development, strengthen your connection, and encourage confident communication during everyday play and activities.  Watch a tutorial video of me using my words to help a little one transition. Find the video here: https://www.core4parenting.com/collaborateOctober 6, 2026Episode 352Toddler with Speech Delays? Use the OWLS Method for Language DevelopmentAbout Your Host:Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Core4Parenting⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success.As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠alk to Them Early and Often⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

What if one of the simplest tools for helping your child connect, communicate, and regulate is already in your voice? In this episode, I talk with music therapist, musician, author, and mom Vered Benhorin, about how everyday singing can support connection, language development, transitions, and co-regulation with babies and toddlers. We explore why repetition, rhythm, movement, and that naturally sing-songy way we talk to babies can be so powerful for early learning. Vered also shares simple ways parents, caregivers, and educators can create their own songs for everything from diaper changes and bedtime to calming big feelings. Most importantly, we talk about why you don't need to be a great singer—or even consider yourself musical—to use music as a joyful way to connect with the little humans in your life.  Vered Benhorin, LCAT, is a board-certified music therapist, psychotherapist, parenting author, recording artist, and family connection expert whose work brings together attachment theory, music, mindfulness, and play. She studied music therapy and clinical psychology and has spent nearly two decades helping parents strengthen connection with their babies and young children through Baby in Tune. Learn more about the work she does here. Interested in a Toddler Tribe Community full of resources and connection? ⁠⁠DM⁠ ⁠me "Community" on ⁠⁠Instagram⁠ ⁠so we can connect! October 1, 2026Episode 351Sing to Your Baby from Birth. The Connection Power of Music with Vered BenhorinAbout Your Host:Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Core4Parenting⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success.As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠alk to Them Early and Often⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

What if the best way to keep your toddler entertained is to stop trying to entertain them? In this episode, I unpack the idea of “don’t solve a problem you don’t have” and share why giving children space to be bored, observe, explore, and come up with their own ideas is an important part of building autonomy. I share stories from traveling with my own young children and explain how over-preparing can sometimes get in the way of their opportunity to practice entertaining themselves. We’ll look at how to recognize when your child truly needs something from you—and when the most helpful thing you can do is simply give them the space to figure it out. Whether you’re traveling, at home, or out and about, this episode offers a simple shift that can help you step back while still supporting your child’s learning and development.  🎤 Want to be the first to watch Cara’s upcoming TED Talk, “Grown-Ups Don’t Know Everything”? Sign up for Cara’s newsletter at ⁠caratyrrell.com⁠ to be the first to know when the talk is released!September 29, 2026Episode 350How Do I Keep Toddlers Entertained During Travel? My Best Advice In One SentenceAbout Your Host:Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. is a mom or three, early childhood author, parent educator, and founder of⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Core4Parenting⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠A former preschool and kindergarten teacher with degrees in ASL, Linguistics, and Education, she created the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™ to help parents, caregivers, and educators understand the power of intentional language in shaping a child’s identity, confidence, and future success.As host of the top-ranking podcast Transforming the Toddler Years, Cara blends science and soul to show adults how to “talk to kids before they can talk back,” turning tantrums into teachable moments and everyday challenges into opportunities for connection. She is also the author of the new book⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠T⁠alk to Them Early and Often⁠⁠⁠⁠,⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠a guide for raising emotionally intelligent kids who thrive in school and life.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Want to book Cara for your next speaking event? Find all the details⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠