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Beyond Surviving with Rachel Grant

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Welcome to Beyond Surviving, the safe space for survivors of childhood sexual abuse to receive support, resources, and share their stories. Beyond Surviving is about freedom, healing, connection, and even laughter and fun. Most importantly, it's about letting go of the pain of abuse and finally moving on! Discover the 3 Stages of Recovery from Childhood Abuse: The road to recovery is much easier when you know what stage you're in and what to do next. Find out exactly where you are in your healing journey and what kind of support you need right now. This FREE 9-page guide will give you the answers you've been seeking: www.rachelgrantcoaching.com/checklist

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This 5-Count Breath Technique I share with you today incorporates counting and visualization as a way to support the breathing practice and helps you stay focused, so you can reap all of the deep benefits of breathing from the diaphragm.#coachrachelsays #traumatoolkit #beyondsurviving #somatichealing #deepbreath #presence #grounding #destress Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
If you have difficulty breathing slowly, deeply, or run out of breath too soon, the ocean can be your guide to help you lengthen your breath and intensify the relaxation response. This Ocean Breath technique is accomplished by constricting the epiglottis (the epi-what?! - yeah, me too, totally learned some anatomy here!).Check out this guided breathing exercise --- and feel the calming, soothing sensations!#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #somatichealing #breathe #oceanbreath #healing #toolsthatwork #relaxationresponse #peacefulness #deepbreath #empowered #slowdown #loweryourstressSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Do you know the 3 poses that most support diaphragmatic breathing? Well, I'm here to share them with you! Breathing through the diaphragm helps us to activate the vagus nerve, which stimulates the relaxation response.This type of breathing will help you come out of states of activation, but it's also a great practice to incorporate into your day to day to strengthen and nurture your nervous system.Let me know which of the 3 poses you liked the most!!#beyondsurviving #coachrachelsays #nervoussystemregulation #breathing #vagusnerve #emobidment #relaxation #nurtureyourself #metoo #childhoodabuse #healing #toolsthatwork #transformation #inhale #exhale #bellybreathing #selfsoothingSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Did you know that there are four important and useful ways that focused breathing changes the brain? Today we explore how using breath to change the brain can help you "reduce and better manage post-trauma symptoms, including arousal and reactivity, trauma re-experiencing, and negative alterations in cognition and mood symptoms." (excerpt from Trauma Treatment Toolbox)#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #neuroscienceoftrauma #ptsd #nervoussystem #vagusnerve #amygdala #prefrontalcortex #healing #metoo #childhoodtrauma #healingisajourney #retrainthebrain #mindsetshift #choice #youarepowerful #breathing #selfhealingtoolsSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Ever had someone say to you, “Just take a deep breath” and everything inside of you just wants to backhand them?! I certainly have had that experience. And yet – this is pretty solid advice because focused diaphragmatic breathing is one of the most immediate (and most accessible) ways to activate the vagus nerve, which serves as an amazing “chill out” button for our system when pressed.Tune in to learn how to press this button when your activated to send a potent signal to your brain to relax!#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #breathing #neuroscienceoftrauma #somatics #healing #takeadeepbreath #reducestress #goodbyeanxiety #chillout #vagusnerve #parasympathethicnervoussystem #regulation #grounding #toolsthatwork #balance #focus #relaxationSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Did you know that love can be a powerful antidote to activation?! One of the amazing things about accessing the feeling of love is that it causes the brain to release oxytocin, which is a powerful hormone that is even sometimes referred to as the "love drug". This hormone is also a neurotransmitter, and so when released sends all sorts of "feel good" signals to the brain and nervous system to signal safety - which is a key component of nervous system regulation.Listen in as I take you through a quick exercise that will help you access this resource state and will be a support to you the next time you feel triggered or dysregulated.#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #love #oxytocin #nervoussystem #healing #triggered #neuroscienceoftrauma #childhoodtrauma #sexualabuse #metoo #overcoming #thriving #pendulation #feelgoodSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
There is one thing I know to be absolutely true....we ALL have fears!Fear is a powerful feeling. It can move us to get out of the way of danger, warn us when there is a threat, activate our spidey-senses.Unfortunately, fear can also be paralyzing and cause us to miss out on so much.Let's explore how to be with this feeling and transition out of the energy of fear (particularly when there is no real danger) so we can do the things we want to do and experience the things we want to experience!#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #fear #neuroscienceoftrauma #nervoussystemregulation #healing #metoo #getunstuck #faceyourfearSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
When we get angry, the nervous system is cued for fight or flight. Sometimes, what is igniting our anger has nothing to do with a present day injury, slight, injustice, or insult. Rather, the brain/body has picked up on something that cues a historical trauma and we are off our head before we know it. Expanding our capacity to be with anger as it arises, to pendulate from dysregulation back to regulation, and to get curious about our anger (why?, where is it coming from?, what exactly happened?) is key to our living more empowered, grounded, less reactive lives. There is absolutely 100% nothing wrong with feeling angry - it's a powerful and useful feeling - AND! we need to know how to move in and out of this energy with mindfulness. I'll walk you step by step through an exercise to help you explore this.#beyondsurviving #coachrachelsays #anger #nervoussystem #metoo #feelyourfeelings #empowered #grounded #trauma #childhoodtraumaSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Being able to notice and identify the common thoughts you tend to have when yo are distressed is a key skill to develop. This will afford you the opportunity to slow down, challenge negative patterns of thought, and get back in the driver's seat. You do not have to immediately believe the thoughts you have. Let's explore some ways to identify distressing thoughts!#coachrachelsays #neuroscienceoftrauma #beyondsurviving #traumatoolkit #healing #nervoussystemregulation #metoo #childhoodtrauma #overcoming #mindfulness #challengenegativethoughts #avoidthespiral #empoweredSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Being able to tune into your body and notice the shifts and changes in your sensations and energy plays a vital role in healing. The more we are connected with the body, the better able we are to identify sensations that are tied to distress and activation and thus be better equipped to drop in and do some regulation before our system is too out of whack.#coachrachelsays #neuroscienceoftrauma #peterlevine #beyondsurviving #traumatoolkit #embodied #senses #healing #nervoussystemregulation #yourbodyisyourguide #energy #metoo #childhoodtrauma #overcomingSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
One of the most damaging outcomes of trauma is that our capacity to cope with stress becomes limited due to our nervous system being all out of whack. This takes a toll on us as day after day we walk out into the world, face life's challenges, and feel like the littlest thing can tip us over the edge. The good news is, we can build our capacity to cope with stress and to stay grounded so that we can experience more freedom and ease in our lives.I share how we can start to do this by focusing on attuning to our levels of distress.#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #healing #dissociation #grounded #presence #healing #copingstrategies #neuroscienceoftrauma #metoo #slowdown #empowered #nervoussystemregulation #attunement #increaseyourcapacity #emotionalhealth #selfawarenessSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I share with you a strategy for being able to gauge when you are reaching your boiling point - the level of distress at which your stress level becomes unmanageable. This is critical so that you can slow down when doing trauma healing work, when communicating or interacting with others, or when doing any self-guided healing work. You DO NOT want to go past your boiling point!I also share about how states of relaxation can also be activating for some and how "stress-laxing" can impair our ability to reap the benefits of rest!#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #rest #relaxation #boilingpoint #healing #dissociation #withdrawal #connection #grounded #presence #healing #neuroscienceoftrauma #metoo #slowdown #stress #empowered #nervoussystemregulation #pendulation #levelsofdistress #outofcontrol #overwhelm #emotionalhealth #selfawarenessSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Did you know that there are levels of distress? As survivors of trauma, we often end up thinking in very black and white terms … and this can then cause us to categorize any distress we are feeling as super problematic. By growing your awareness about the different levels of distress, you will be better able to regulate your nervous system and maintain perspective as you are navigating the day to day. I share with you a fabulous exercise to help you do just that!Time to take your temperature :)#beyondsurviving #neuroscienceoftrauma #distress #levelsofactivation #selfawareness #pulsecheck #perspective #regulation #spectrumofexperience #slowdown #tunein #raiseyourvibration #mindsetshift #healingisajourneySupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
It may seem counterintuitive - but one way to expand your capacity for emotional and nervous system regulation is to actually intentionally go into states of dysregulation (like ya gotta hop on the ride in order to learn how to navigate getting off!). Now it's important that you do this with support and using very specific strategies - two of which I talk about here --- pendulation and titration!#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #neuroscience #pendulation #titration #nervoussystem #healing #metoo #emotionalrollercoaster #grounded #calm #detrigger #mindfulness #intentionalhealing #empoweredSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I share about the three types of healing modalities - top, bottom, horizontal. It's important to understand the different entry points for healing and to build a toolkit that has a variety of tools while also identifying which modalities you are most drawn to! I also share a bit about neuroplasticity - so if you've ever been stuck feeling like things are just never going to change - be sure to tune in!#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #neuroscience #bodybasedhealing #somatics #creativity #brainbasedhealing #whatworksforyou #toolkit #haveitall #healing #metoo #findyourpathSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I share about the amygdala, insula, hippocampus, pre-frontal cortex, and cingulate cortex. When we experience trauma - these parts of the brain are impacted and lead to specific trauma symptoms.#coachrachelsays #beyondsurviving #neuroscience #activation #fear #nervoussytem #hippocampus #brainbasedhealingSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Get a little sneak peak into what I have in store for you in Season 11!Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
This is it y'all! The final episode in our series and it's a good one! Now is the time to take it all in! Another year of life has flown by, full of all sorts of things - the good, the bad, the fulfilling, the draining, the satisfying, the depressing, and on and on.The final invitations this week are to find stillness, balance, harmony. To rejoice in both your mistakes and your achievements. And to dream ahead into the new year with fresh eyes and hopefulness!#beyondsurviving #yearoftheinnerchild #reflection #newyear #hope #awareness #reparenting #discovery #authenticself #healingispossible #coachrachelsays #nervoussystemregulation #sexualabuse #incestsurvivor #healingsexualtrauma #mondaymini #foryou #viralSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
The holiday season can be a dissonant one for so many. Good memories. Bad memories. A whole mixed bag. This year, let your inner child be in charge of the planning! Choose what is best for you without fear or obligation. Decide what you would like this season to be for you and create it!What a powerful way to love and reparent your inner child by giving them the holiday they always wanted!#beyondsurviving #yearoftheinnerchild #holidays #doityourway #rejoice #awareness #reparenting #discovery #authenticself #healingispossible #coachrachelsays #nervoussystemregulation #sexualabuse #incestsurvivor #healingsexualtrauma #mondaymini #foryou #viralSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I connect with Aaliyah Hammer-Furbert about the research she conducted as a part of the AP Capstone Diploma program on the power of collective healing through synchronicity. Just 18 years old, Aaliyah is already a powerful voice in the healing world and her research shows us that there is so much to gain from incorporating structures that support uniting people in their healing process.Read her study here:https://drive.google.com/file/d/15_due-cTM617Z80OdiqBMSs1CEbAwVhh/viewSupport this show http://supporter.acast.com/beyond-surviving. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Comments (12)

Amy

such terrific insights ! Thank you !

Aug 15th
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Amy

Very practical and heart-warming episode! Thank you both!

Aug 11th
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Amy

Amy is beautiful and inspirational!

Aug 3rd
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Amy

Such an eye- opening and helpful episode! Thank you!

Aug 2nd
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Amy

What a wonderful guest! Jillian Short offers so many practical ways to get started. So practical and helpful!

Aug 2nd
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Amy

Brilliant, eye- opening episode! I'll have to listen a few times to this one. Thank you !

Aug 1st
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Amy

This is amazing 💓 Thank you both so much 💓 This discussion resonated so much with me 💓 Thank you so so so so much 💓

Jul 23rd
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Amy

Such a wonderful, nourishing episode! Thank you!!

Jul 23rd
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Amy

Such a wonderful, insightful episode! Thank you!!

Jul 20th
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Amy

Such an insightful episode! Thank you!

Jul 20th
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Mel Mtz

this is moving for me, thank you for the inspiration

Aug 7th
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