Diaperpervs ABDL Podcast

Donny and I talk about 7 common mistakes we see people making in AB/DL. And you may be missing out because of these. 1. Thinking that women don't go to events. 2. Not going to event at all. 3. Not paying attention to red flags! 4. Pushing AB/DL onto others without consent. 5. Confusing fantasy with reality. 6. Pigeonholing yourself to one thing. 7. Finding a caregiver isn't the end goal. Do you agree or disagree? Sound off in the comments! Make sure to watch Part 1 "5 ABDL Mistakes You may be Making!" https://youtu.be/6PpAvU946JQ?si=b2Fqx-qsgUWoPklR And "5 Mistakes at AB/DL Conventions!" https://youtu.be/uD-ouZmEELs?si=9cbhUuvAhFCzB6sp

Get to know Baby Donny! You've seen him on my youtube videos, maybe seen him or hung with him at one of the many national events he attends... get to know Baby Donnys (Aka. famous pornstar Draven Navarro) ongoing ABDL journey & the secret to his diaper confidence. All my links at Diaperperv.com Baby Donny at Draven Navarro Twitter

A very LONG WINDED conversation about how to find a good pro-diaper fantasy facilitator and mitigate your risks of getting ripped off. In short (really, this convo could have been a total of 6 minutes long) 1. Remove your emotions during the search process. 2. Vet them! Remember, they're working for you! 3. Communicate what you want out of the experience. 4. Do a video/text/voice session first. 5. If you don't have a good feeling, keep searching! Finding a great facilitator who clicks with you might take some searching or traveling. Try out different people. And organize yourself and your thoughts before but also keep an open mind while you're meeting people. Don't forget to have fun. YOLO! Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com JayBDL is Switchbacks on FL.

I was highly amused while editing this because I was SO TRIGGERED just talking about it that I could not properly communicate and articulate myself, LOL. All I can do is laugh about it now. Ever since I got online at 19 and found out I was not alone in my interests... I've been scrutinized, been suspicious of, questioned about whether I'm "real" or if I actually have the fetishes I have & not believed. Why does this still happen?? Seriously though, I think there's enough of me online to show you who I am at this point. Thank you to JayBDL (Switchbacks on FL) for talking through this with me & helping me see another point of view.

I know it can get boring having ABDL kinks/interests by yourself but Donny, Livewire and JayBDL all chime in with ways they try to keep it entertaining and fun for themselves. Hope you get some new ideas or scenarios to try out & keep it light & fun everyone! Comment below with your favorite solo play ideas! Find me at http://www.diaperperv.com Some of my older ABDL videos that you may find helpful: Joining the ABDL Community (updated) https://youtu.be/9ukRSoNDTDE?si=YSMwwFpHwQUvQALF Being your own Big! https://youtu.be/UsROGSIN5NY?si=1ydOC3hDl_yZ-ib1 ABDL Events Guide: https://youtu.be/Aitf1O2KJdU?si=jAttKeYfoZ2Y3jvu

For many, diapers + "punishment" go hand in hand. For some, just having someone put the diaper on is punishment enough, but what else is there? I've had SO many requests for AB/DL's whose partners need help for "diaper punishment" ideas & they don't really know what to do. We all pitch in with ideas; Donny & Livewire have some great ones! We also do a show & tell of different devices & fun "toys" to enhance the experience! JayBDL does a great job of moderating us and keeping it flowing. There's a LOT of toys shown so if you can, please watch it on Youtube Do you have any favorite "diaper punishment" ideas? Share them below!!

That's right! JayBDL actually told his mom about his diaper fetish & ABDL interests. So how did she react? Listen & find out. Diaperperv & JayDBL discuss who we've all told in our lives & what their reactions were. Why would you even want anyone in your life to know about it?? We discuss that too! NOTE: We were driving as we recorded this (on my phone) so there's steady background road noise. I tried to de-noise it but it just sounded even weirder.

We cover this sex topic AGAIN but in much more detail. It really helps when JayBDL moderates us as we talk about all the different ways to incorporate our diaper fetish with penetrative adult fun! We also cut a hole into the ABU Tiny Tails to make a DSD (diaper s3x diaper!) for some wholesome crafting. Baby Donny can be found on twitter as @draven_navarro Livewire25 can be found on FL. Diaperperv & my socials can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

Earlier this week,  @ZaciRoo  shared his 2024 ABDL wishlist so now it's my turn to share mine!! I don't think most of these will happen but let's but it out into the ABUniverse anyways. These are not my personal wishes, just general wishes that I think would benefit the community! What's on your AB/DL wishlist this year?? The current AB/DL worldwide events list is at http://www.whyabdl.org/events (email him if you want your event listed) http://www.diaperperv.com for all my links & socials!

Why are there so many scammers (successfully) trying to take advantage of AB's and DL's in the scene? What is considered a scam & what is not?  @ZaciRoo  & I talk about the different ways scammers try to fleece you & the warning signs to look for! More people are probably scammed than we know because it is embarrassing to admit it if you were. Please DON'T send anonymous online people face pics/vids of yourself & don't send anyone money that you don't know and trust. All Diaperpervs links!

There's been a lot more eyes on the terms AB/DL, ageplayer, diaper lovers & adult babies in the media lately! With that comes a LOT of misconceptions and stereotypes, mainly due to the media & those that aren't great representatives of the lifestyle that talk to the media. Adult babies are not... well you'll just have to watch it! Adult babies are: 1. productive members of society from all walks of life. 2. aware of cleanliness & hygeine. 3. keep listening! Joined by my long time non-abdl friend Ashley who's also learning about the lifestyle!! (Note: Ashley is a stage name she picked for this video & she'd forget when we referred to her as "Ashley." LOL) ABDL terminology & slang video: https://youtu.be/0r9vjSwFZ6I Adult Babies in media are false: https://youtu.be/fa082Ys80jQ ALL my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Just in time for Capcon 2024! Baby Donny, my non-ABDL friend Ashley and I (Diaperperv) talk about ways to overcome shyness, get out there and engage with people! There's lot of tips and our own stories. I think almost all of us has been there and events can be quite intimidating when you're new, or not new. It's normal to feel nervous but what if your shyness is preventing you from living your life to the fullest! Ashley's got some great advice! Watch "Attending my 1st Capcon alone & how I dealt with shyness:    • AB/DL Event Anxiety - 1st Capcon was ...   In all honestly, I don't think we 3 were the best at giving "shyness tips" because we're not really shy or have social anxiety or anxiety in general. So take the discussion as it is & we'd like to do better next time. All my links at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Thanks AB Universe for sending the new Tiny Tails positional printed, plastic backed adult diapers for us to try out! Ok, Donny and I have NEVER done an official product review and I can guarantee it is NOT professional or serious like the other channels that do diaper reviews... ours is a hot mess! But it does include the very important crinkle test!! Direct link to ABU Tiny Tails: http://us.abuniverse.com/products/tinytails Follow Donny on Twitter @Draven_navarro Diaperperv can be found at http://www.diaperperv.com

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones finished in their diaper?? PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!! Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=yXPtcSlF8XNmfQRM Next video will be a Youtube Live of my updated AB/DL Bucketlist! Find and follow me at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Ask me ANYTHING about my time as a Diaper Fantasy Facilitator for 6 years, from 2015-2020. Let's tackle some of the hard questions, I go on a mini-rant & what the most # of times someones cum in their diaper?? PART 2 of the questions YOU asked and I answered!! Watch PART 1 of AMA as a diaper fantasy facilitator here: https://youtu.be/avHw8UTkhvI?si=yXPtcSlF8XNmfQRM Next video will be a Youtube Live of my updated AB/DL Bucketlist! Find and follow me at: http://www.diaperperv.com

Incon Diaper reviewer & Youtuber ⁠@howtowearadultdiapers⁠  comes over to try on his new Changing Times Diaper Co onesie & I ask him awkward questions... topics he has never talked about on camera!! Yes, I kinda pushed his boundaries & I loved it! Also, Is Capcon too wild!?!? What do you think?! The IG media sure makes it out to be! Watch ⁠ @howtowearadultdiapers ⁠ & I shop at Changing Times here: ⁠https://youtu.be/Jxyz1XZYWoM?si=YAYW8EXUpGRiqFZw⁠ Diaperpervs links are all here: ⁠http://www.diaperperv.com

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame. This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!! How did I determine prices? Grossest thing that happened? Difficult clients? Stay tuned for Part 2 next Friday. Follow me at http://www.diaperperv.com or just Google my name!

It's an ASK ME ANYTHING during my time as a pro diaper fantasy facilitator from 2015-late 2020!! You asked and I answered. I was actually hoping you'd ask some SPICIER questions, so these are all pretty tame. This is part 1, where I answer 15 of your questions, no holds barred!! How did I determine prices? Grossest thing that happened? Difficult clients? Stay tuned for Part 2 next Friday. Follow me at http://www.diaperperv.com or just Google my name!

There's been a number of different books on the topic of AB/DL, ageplay and infantilism (whatever words is being used in that era.) So are they good or bad overall? I "try" to stay unbiased but I think you can tell by my facial expressions how I feel about certain authors I am holding.  @howtowearadultdiapers  does a fantastic job of staying neutral and unbiased!! What do you think? Have you read any of the books & would you give them to your friends/family as guides? My personal fave authors have been Paul Rulof & Penny Barber because they don't try to explain being "ABDL" under generalizations but give examples on how to engage and enjoy it. Yes, this video was a tad rushed as  @howtowearadultdiapers  had to catch a flight & definitely needed a change first, hehehe. Be sure to follow him on his channel!!! You can find all my links here: http://www.diaperperv.com

Diaperperv has never been to any of the AB/DL smaller house party/weekend gatherings & she's only been to either conventions or munches. Her friend Greejay has ONLY been to the smaller scale weekend house parties. So let's walk through how to go to one of these events & what happens. If you're new to my podcast, I also have 3 years worth of AB/DL educational videos on my youtube.com/diaperperv channel where my friends and I discuss everything ageplay & adult diaper related! and sometimes we just ramble about whatever.