An Aries and Pisces Walk Into a Coffee Shop

We’re still playing opposites, embracing being an amateur to be an expert. Then we get into deconstructing personality and identity, because what is reality anyway? It’s all contextual and faceted. Put on the mask, take it off, we’re deconditioning societal conditioning and embracing complexity. 💎 🎭 💫Recorded on June 12, 2025.🪄 in this episode:embracing the amateur archetype to own the expertisehow do coping skills shape personality and identitynavigating feeling like lying with masking in neurodivergence and queernessde-conditioning religious messaging around thinking thoughtspeanut witch update 🥜 🪶practicing being in the present moment with birds“good morning” as a spell 🪄📋 resources mentioned:Amy Sigil's Improv Team Sync Dance school🗓️ ps - we're taking a summer & mental health break after this episode. see you when we return! 🖤✨📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

There is so much to catch up on! Come travel with us through portals, through time, and through experience. We’re visiting our teenage selves and considering what it means to be adults who believe we can have everything we need. Even when it’s unclear or wobbly. Isn’t it wild we all chose to incarnate? Let’s talk about it. ✍️ 🥜 🧹Recorded on May 22, 2025.*Audio disclaimer: some of the audio is glitchy on this episode - sorry about that!🪄 in this episode:overstimulation & flexibility: chronic pain2020 akashic records time capsulechoosing the human experienceconcepts as portals ✍️what does it feel like to have everything you need?redefining enough-nessbeing held in supportive communityjoyful bird updates 🥜 🪄Chicago dust storm 🧹revisiting our teenage selves fashion📋 resources mentioned:Napoleon Dynamite - Give me some of your totsPortal writing with interstellar bruja Rios de la LuzWhat the Akashic Records📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Hang out with us back in Aries season as you enjoy the blooming of Venusian Taurus energy. The sweet spot! The time for shedding identities. We can let go of old patterns and ways of being. They’ll decompose to nourish the growth of our becoming and becoming and becoming. 🌀🌱🌀Recorded on March 26, 2025.🪄 in this episode:what should we actually care about?shyness as a coping mechanismupdate: the blanket sagawhat would you bring to a magical circle to summon us?archetypal and deity connectionsneurodivergent witchcraftastrology archetypes📋 resources mentioned:Alok Vaid-Menon’s 2025 resolutionsWacky Waving Inflatable Arm Flailing TubemenPythia Botanica OracleBrigitte’s Notion Second Brain walkthroughSea Witch Botanicals - IncenseJune Hymn by The DecemberistsLa Soy Emmy - Protective Magic courseYour Astrologer Friend📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Confidence is rebellion in a society that profits on us being kept small. So, get the tattoo, unapologetically hug your stuffed animal, lay down in rhythm with nature, allow yourself to move. Your wants can be needs. Be indulgent, Taurus season is around the corner, and you deserve this. 🐰 🗡️ 🛏️Recorded on March 11, 2025.🪄 in this episode:the giant peep sagawants and needs and allowingtattoos as self careequating confidence with rebellionblaming our virgo moons on negative self talkseasonal horizontal orientationslowing down the aries sunallowing fidgeting and movement📋 resources mentioned:the artist’s wayADHD Love: podcast on shame📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

We’re contemplating what full fun could look like, while infusing whimsy and delight into the mundane day to day. There is much grief, and this is the way we move through. Intention, curiosity, and communication are the timbers to the boat we float on the river of ableism, white supremacy, capitalism, and learning unlearning. 🚣🌊🤔Recorded on March 4, 2025.🪄 in this episode:finding pockets of fun when it feels hard to tune intointentional collections 🐰why is this so hard? ableism grief & angerreframing neurodivergent frustrationwhat does literal thinking in autism look likepracticing asking for clarityare you making fun of me?!📋 resources mentioned:@drbeckyatgoodinside facebook reel on learning & frustrationLiteral thinking in autism reel@retrorollergirl on IG📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

This week we delve into how our beliefs shape our experiences. There is power in rewriting the narrative, shifting perspective, and allowing space for curiosity, trust, reflection, and ease. This week there is joy to be had in the shape of geese, puppies, and cats. There are messages everywhere, you just have to take a moment to slow down, and listen. 🪶🐕🐱Recorded on February 12, 2025.🪄 in this episode:Wild Kuan Yin Oracle reflectionself belief & self trustceiling time 👀silly cat mannerisms 🗑️🐱walking snow pupsgoose 💩 observation 🌾📋 resources mentioned:Wild Kuan Yin OracleTwo-Minute Meditation (Doing No - Thing)Self-Healing with Guided Imagery AudiobookBrigitte’s habit tracker notion templateAbbot Elementary Mr. Johnson “it’s trash”Earth at Night in Color Documentary“life finds a way”📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Take off your masks, speak the truth, and get back in touch with your body. This week we’re talking about the exhaustion of cramming oneself into societal norms. To be alive is to be dysregulated; it is data for discernment. There is danger in being ignorant to that which upsets our nervous systems. There is liberation in somatic experiencing. We’re not projects to be fixed. We’re alive beings worthy of taking it easy. 🎭🕯️🐱Recorded on February 5, 2025.🪄 in this episode: right timing: winter solstice rituals on imbolc our tells masking & unmasking nervous system regulation reframing individual vs systemic responsibility📋 resources mentioned: June Hymn by The Decemberists costco/home goods neurodivergent shut down reel What If Dysregulation Is a Form of Resistance? by pat.radical.therapist on IG "things are not getting worse, they are getting uncovered. we must hold each other tight & continue to pull back the veil." Adrienne Maree Brown📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Are you setting arbitrary rules for yourself? This is the revolution, we’re not doing that any more. Come along as we dismantle the idea that there is “one right way” to do things. Learn from children how to take care of yourself. We don’t have to prove ourselves to unnecessary standards. We bring value to others, let’s start recognizing and celebrating it. 🙅🚩🎉Recorded on January 22, 2025.🪄 in this episode:girl dinner updatefood hack: small plates 🍽️awareness around family patternscelebrating practicing self carelearning from younger generationsletting go of self judgements & apologizing for existingnot proving ourselves anymorecat birthdaysbluetooth headphone 💀 hack📋 resources mentioned:loop earplugsmeowbox📱 where to find us:🖤 brigitte:@brigittemarie.energydesign✨ tiffany:@marlawyrd🪄 send us a tip:https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

It is the end of 2024 in this recording, and we unpack an intention for the new year: shift decades of connotation around the word self-centered. There is deep community building magic when each person is centered in themselves. It allows us to keep our resources bountiful, and shareable. A centered self creates deeper and more stable connections with others. This is self care as community care. This is being our most authentic selves. What are your intentions for 2025? 🎢🛝🎯 Recorded on December 13, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: social anxiety hormones & neurodivergence vs temperature card pull: valerian - peace living the future we couldn’t have imagined in the past harsh inner voices 2025 vibe/theme reclaiming self-centeredness using emojis as spells 📋 resources mentioned: 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Come spend the last month of 2024 with us! We’re learning the lesson of joy through the goose, who is resilient and resourceful. We also delve into Human Design permission slips to be who we are in a world that doesn’t always support us. So, how does your energy and motivation manifest? We unpack the different ways this shows up, and how we’re learning to work with those cycles. 🪶🔋🤝 Recorded on December 6, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: brigitte’s bird journey quest for a new calendar human design authority: emotional 🌊, sacral mania/manic mode, adhd? motivation needing containers for hobbies being people people 📋 resources mentioned: The Avian Oracle Deck Cats on Catnip Calendar by Andrew Marttila 2025 Calendar of Extremely Accurate Birds Becorns by David Bird Falseknees bird comics holisticism.com woobles crochet kits 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Resistance blooms from art, rest and joy, in community, with play. We look back in time to see the ways in which we are more than we were. Brigitte shares about meditating into the future to collaborate with our wiser selves to become even more aligned. We’re choosing hope, and camaraderie this season. 💫🤝👯 Recorded on November 8, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: art, rest, and joy as resistance contemplating our 2016 selves choosing community post-election choosing hope playing dress up experiment kitty magic 📋 resources mentioned: Rogue One: A Star Wars Story Pythia Botanica Oracle Sheet-Pan Gnocchi salad Future Self Visualization 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

October was a teacher month, a synthesis of deep lessons of our Strength year, and the lessons of the Star. The only way through the density is with play, creativity, and rest. We’re daydreaming up new ways of being, living, and doing. We invite you to do the same. 💪⭐💭 Recorded on October 23, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: time magic “what if” practice titrating embodiment Selkie mythology exercising self agency in the both/and ⚖️ playful antics numerology 8 year, the star/strength challenges are opportunities to practice 📋 resources mentioned: "What if" practice Women Who Run With the Wolves by Dr. Clarissa Pinkola Estés Rest Is Resistance by Tricia Hersey Brigitte’s website What We Do In The Shadows “burnt to a sizzle” Moonbeaming: Strength & Star 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

What is going to change your life? Intention is the root of magic, and the mundane can be just as dramatic as the extraordinary. This week we’re contemplating the shifts illuminated by the October Aries Full Moon, and the paradigm rumblings from Pluto shifting into Aquarius soon. What kind of rituals and practices are you committing to support yourself through these changes? 🪄💄🌕 Recorded on October 16, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: lipstick adventures life changing closet project adornment & glamour magick playing dress up exercise “trust the process” level up good/bad dichotomy aries full moon shifts 🔥 iceberg/blurred vision → clarity sighing 😮‍💨 📋 resources mentioned: Mushroom Mamasita 75 Juicy Challenge Pythia Botanica Oracle Volume II Guided Healing: Cut Energy Ties Meditation Pluto in Aquarius by Chani Nicholas 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Endings are beginnings are endings are beginnings. This week we discuss the responsibility of admitting to the things you know. Like the good things; what you deserve, the abundance you have access to. Like the hard things; the grief of being in a space not meant for you, or the control you’re trying to exert over something that isn’t yours to fix. Surrender is the answer: to the process, to trusting, to knowing, to letting go of tension, strife, hustle. This is knowing our power, dismantling helplessness, allowing ourselves to be okay, right now, as we are, without rebuke. ♾️🤔🪶 Recorded on October 2, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: anemone & henbane flower symbolism positive inner child healing “what am i pretending not to know?” pivoting, choosing, responding magical bag of tricks overthinking → dreaming 📋 resources mentioned: Pythia Botanica Oracle All of You Is Magic Deck 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

This New Moon in Libra has us unpacking the energies of the Pisces Full Moon Eclipse last month. Old lessons are coming back around to soften us, and to deepen our tender spots. The lessons of surrendering to discomfort, making meaning out of dissolving unhealthy systems, and permission to rest for the sake of rest. 🌑😴🌕 Recorded on September 17, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: rest without justification the comparison game living with discomfort following impulses shifting from fixing → managing needing reminders living = dismantling the system 📋 resources mentioned: Astrology of the week ahead with Chani Nicholas Rest is Resistance 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Butterflies transform in the intensity of a chrysalis, and we do too. The monarchs not only dramatically change form, they travel far in great migrations. Like them, we follow the path before us, no teleportation, no staying still, no refusing the pull of change and community. Who are you transforming alongside? 🦋 Recorded on September 10, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: time 🔎⏰🐇 butterfly transformation magic healing within a broken system presence embodiment realizations 🦵⚡🤯 taking tools off pedestals integration takes time → there is no finish line → it’s all about the journey needing intensity to make a shift letting go of judgements & all or nothing thinking healing happens in relationship 🪞 📋 resources mentioned: Pythia Botanica Oracle Volume II Wild Kuan Yin Oracle The Good Place Mushroom Mamasita 75 Juicy Challenge 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

As the energies of the Virgo New Moon integrate, we’re traveling back to the Capricorn Full Moon in Leo season. Paradox practice is holding hands with the concept of death as a way to fully embrace being alive. How would you want to show up for your last day? We’re in Virgo season now, and this episode paved the way for categorizing time and prioritizing what matters most. 🌕🤝🌑 Recorded on July 24, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: full moon sensitivity musings night time party time interoception: “how do i feel?” making choices elder emo/goth archetypes sneaky negative beliefs - “i am bad” etc the joy of playing pretend in life living each day like it’s the last death witch era 📋 resources mentioned: Ologies podcast, Disability Sociology (DISABILITY PRIDE) with Guinevere Chambers 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

We’re doing girl math and asserting it’s just human math, or maybe it is ADHD. Sound off! We’re also giving ourselves permission to not be for everyone. We all get to sink in the peace of being genuine, and exchanging energy with those folks who are compatible. 🔢⚡️💦 Recorded on July 5, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: coffee/girl math ☕🧮 energetic exchanges being genuine - shadow beliefs emotional maturity cancer season tears 💦 baking a cake goal speak what you want out loud 📋 resources mentioned: Tangle Fidget Toys We Can Do Hard Things Podcast 322. The One Who Taught Glennon Friendship: Alex Hedison 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Lessons are juicy pears that drop to nourish the soil of our roots. We’re doing exactly what we need to be doing, all things shift in time, and perspective is healing. We can handle things in the moment, and find healing and happiness right where we are. Today is a good day because it’s today, the rest is just abundance. 🍐💦✨ Recorded on June 28, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: confidence to deal with things in the moment creativity characteristics recognizing progress markers! “i’m gonna make today my bitch” embodiment of agency ice cubes/microdosing chaos 🧊 update doom closet today is a good day because it’s today acceptance & surrender juicy vibes 🍐 📋 resources mentioned: EMDR resourcing Pea the Feary (Bridges class) Victoria Albina - being the cake The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle Pythia Botanica Oracle Volume II 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.

Happy Pride Month! We play with shifting focus from external control to internal support. We explore how time is made up, what it means to be queer all year round in and out of community. We consider focusing our energy, not on control, but what we want the desired outcome to be. It gets creative! Which leads us to showing up for our own nervous systems, and considering the care we need for a more easeful life. 🏳️‍🌈⏳💫 Recorded on June 6, 2024. 🪄 in this episode: happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈 queer community moving house to enhance life cats as teachers focusing on the energy of the desired outcome exercising self-agency no matter the external circumstances virgo moons disability aspiration/inspiration vs self-judgement considering: what’s possible ego death/letting go of identity → more ease 📋 resources mentioned: gratitude and joy journal notion template spoon theory Crutches and Spice Disability 📱 where to find us: 🖤 brigitte: @brigittemarie.energydesign ✨ tiffany: @marlawyrd 🪄 send us a tip: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/ariesandpisces 🤝 if you find value in these conversations, please support our show by subscribing & sharing this episode with a friend who might find value in it as well.