#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

It can be a complicated experience navigating social situations as a sex worker. Do we reveal our occupation to the dinner table? Might people react poorly? What can we say to protect ourselves, or shed light on our jobs, and should this even be our weight to carry? Eva Oh gives us some options on how to navigate society and their preconceptions on this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/society-is-ashamed-at-the-dinn(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Social Interactions as a Sex Worker(00:48) - Society is Ashamed(02:15) - Some Options(07:40) - Encountering Shock and Horror(09:25) - Learning the Vocabulary(11:20) - Leaving People Behind(11:50) - In the Uber(14:40) - It’s What You’re Ready For(16:00) - Dolphin Trainers

We open with a question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships and we end up amongst the problematic nature of clickbait and hopefully a few alternative ways to drive traffic to OnlyFans and into our businesses. A #teakink Podcast episode on how to think about our personal goals whilst placing worth in the challenges that sex workers face collectively.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships(01:18) - What I Think the Question is(02:00) - Ways to Drive Traffic to OnlyFans(04:15) - Sex Work as Clickbait(06:50) - On the Sex Work PR Campaign Trail(08:15) - Sex Worker Friendships(12:25) - Keeping a Wider Perspective

What’s one of Eva Oh’s favourite things? Men crying. Eva answers a fan's question on whether she’s ever made a man cry through a reflection on one of the most popular episodes of the #teakink Podcast yet, ‘I Love Men Crying”. Reminding us of the potential of surrender and the importance of responsible emotional freedom.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “I Love Men Crying”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/i-love-men-crying-sports-and-t(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on How I Make Men Cry(00:45) - I Love Men Crying, Clearly(01:45) - Crying at a Distance(03:00) - The Physicality of a Session(04:55) - The First Time I Made a Boy Cry(06:00) - The Importance of Surrender(07:57) - Men Crying Compilation Videos(08:25) - I Wish You (Responsible) Emotional Freedom

It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Gender Fluidity within BDSM and Sex Work(01:40) - Opening My Eyes at the Dungeon(03:30) - Thoughts On Presenting in Sex Worker Branding(06:30) - Gender Exploration within Session(10:20) - Presenting, Profit and Personal Sanity

Eva Oh has had a complicated and sometimes rough time in figuring out where her boundaries lie. From the mishap of falling in love with a client, to being asked about personal trauma during a session - it hasn’t been a straightforward path in her work as a Dominatrix. The process of establishing and defining healthy boundaries is an ongoing one for Eva, and maybe it doesn’t need to be so complex - but for her it is, and we hear all about it’s nuance in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “Would A Sex Worker Date You?”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/would-a-sex-worker-date-you(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on My Boundaries(01:05) - A Complicated and Ongoing Path(03:30) - I Was Shocked Into Developing Professional Boundaries(08:00) - Falling In Love, with Clients(!)(09:50) - What Stability Has to Do With It(11:15) - My Process(11:39) - How Sex Work Informed My Personal Worth and Boundaries(12:47) - It Can Get Complex/Complicated(14:35) - Communicating Boundaries and Understanding

From installing CCTV, to office lingerie tasks and Airbnb Hosting - Eva Oh shares ideas on the wide range of long distance relationship building activities that she has implemented over her years as a Dominatrix.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Long Distance BDSM Games(00:40) - How I Discovered Long Distance(02:00) - I Prefer - Service(04:10) - “Traditional” Long Distance Games(05:10) - How I Do Personal Long Distance(06:11) - Sustainability for the Top(07:15) - My OnlyFans Play(08:06) - Personal vs Professional Pointers(09:20) - Task Automation and Online Courses on youwillpleaseme.com(11:11) - Tracking and Lifestyle Apps(12:10) - CCTV and Phone Speakers, Consensually Please

Is there a difference between women, non-binary and other clients? Do they apply for a session differently, have differing kinks or play styles? Eva Oh reveals how her bias is the key defining factor in her work with a wide range of individuals as a Dominatrix in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on the differences between Women, NB and Other Clients(00:45) - The Evolution of My Understanding(02:55) - My Bias(04:20) - I Need to Expand My Sample Size(05:50) - Application Quality(06:05) - When You Are In My Hands(08:13) - The Limitations of the Professional Session(09:00) - The Differences in My Personal Interactions(11:40) - My Ever Evolving Answer

Eva Oh dived head first into a BDSM dungeon with no kink or sex work experience - but she wouldn’t be where she is today if she hadn’t paid attention to the many kind (and not so kind) individuals along the way. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva introduces us to a few key people who have helped her develop her place in the industry, her opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops and why she offers her Mentoring Calls and Training Sessions at this stage of her career. Book a Mentoring Call or Training Session: https://eva-oh.com/training (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Mentorship(01:18) - My Mentor Calls and Training Sessions(02:30) - My Mentors(07:20) - Elders in the Dominatrix Community(09:05) - My Opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops(11:39) - Finding Mentors(14:20) - Personal vs Professional Mentorship(17:39) - Leatherfolk, Families and their Value(21:40) - Booking a Mentoring Call or Training Session

Eva Oh’s naivety shielded her from the initial realities of competition and sabotage in the sex industry, but she had to learn some hard lessons eventually. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva answers a question on how rivalry in the industry exists, revealing a slightly rough journey from competition within the brothel styled system of the Dungeon, to gossip over social media; and how she continues to navigate how to best align herself with those who share her values in the present day. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Rivalry in the Sex Industry(00:45) - How I See “Stolen” Clients(02:00) - How I See “Competition”(03:00) - The Influence of Sibling Rivalry(04:50) - My Naivety(05:00) - The Competitiveness of the Dungeon(05:20) - Sabotage(11:45) - Competition vs Camaraderie, and Social Media’s Role(17:00) - Rivalry within Deeper Relationships(18:40) - The Potential Intensity of Sex Worker Friendship(20:03) - Aligning Your Values(21:20) - Some People Adore Drama

Welcome to Season 4 of the #teakink Podcast, where Eva Oh answers all the questions! Responding to your voice notes, Eva will lead us into insights on her work as a Dominatrix in the sex industry including episodes on rivalry, mentorship, boundaries, gender fluidity, the importance of play, and loneliness. She also reveals a few mishaps of the last season of the #teakink Podcast, including a slightly touchy update on slave m; and some plans for future seasons ahead. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Season 3 Ends, Season 4 Begins (00:58) - Highlights of Season 3 (01:30) - Season 4, Your Questions Shall be Answered (02:15) - Mishaps (02:40) - Changes with slave m (03:58) - Thinking About Future Seasons, Interviews Maybe?

When Eva Oh inched her way onto social media, she didn’t quite imagine the titles that would soon be getting used on her. Not the titles that she was used to, of Dominatrix or Mistress, but Educator, Mentor and Influencer. In this episode of the #teakink Podast Eva walks us through her mild disgust with some of the terms, the gossip that she catches wind of about them, and a few theories as to why things are the way that they are. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Educator? Mentor? Influencer? (01:56) - Playing the Influencer Game, A Mild Disgust? (03:20) - My Mentoring Calls (06:00) - Not As Intimidating as I Look? (09:00) - Great Feedback from Isabella Sinclaire (10:30) - When Gatekeeping is Better or Worse? (11:15) - Desperation for Power Amongst Those Stripped of It (12:15) - Educational Courses? (14:40) - How I Became How I Am

When people ask Eva Oh how her dates or partners “handle” her job and industry, it’s a frustrating time. Although she has come to understand the societal shortcomings that inspire this question, she has also learned of the incredible skills that sex work can offer the individuals who choose to work in it - and so perhaps the more important question is, ‘Would a Sex Worker Date You?’. Listen to this eye opening episode of the #teakink Podcast to find out. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Would a Sex Worker Date You? (01:00) - Unfortunate Case Studies (05:11) - Sex Work and Elevated Communication Skills (06:30) - Do You Deserve the Empathy? (08:55) - How Sex Work Has Changed Me (14:49) - Understanding Society’s Shortcomings (16:25) - A Better Case Study (18:00) - “I Never Thought I Could Have a Relationship Like This” (19:50) - How and Why Monogamy Was Constructed? (22:14) - Why I’ve Become So Picky, What I Deserve

What is a sex party? How do you find one? Do you have to have sex there? Eva Oh dishes out her international sex party experience in a #teakink episode with a lot of valuable information gathered through deep, hard and extensively serious research. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - The Ultimate Sex Party Episode(01:09) - What is a Sex Party?(03:00) - How Do You Find Out What Kind You’ll Liked?(03:55) - My First “Sex” Party, Hellfire(05:24) - I Discover Swingers Clubs(06:30) - Consent(07:30) - Safeguards(09:15) - My Sex Party Evolution(11:20) - Sex Clubs, Membership Spaces and Saunas(12:15) - Sex Club Nights and Meet-ups(14:00) - BDSM Clubs(15:20) - Travel Weekenders and Conventions(18:10) - The Orgy Dome at Burning Man(18:30) - From Berlin to Bali, Sex Parties Worldwide(20:40) - All Women Play Parties(22:00) - I Probably Need a Second Episode on This, At Least!

Eva Oh dedicates a #teakink episode to her experience working as an Escort, Brothel and Massage Worker. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - What is an Escort? (00:50) - How I Became an Escort (03:50) - My First Escort Photoshoot, in the middle of nowhere (07:00) - A Bad Feeling (08:00) - A Better Feeling (09:15) - Job Satisfaction (10:15) - These Ease of My First Booking (11:00) - Escort Agency and Dungeon Loyalty (12:20) - What the Job of Escorting Is - to me (13:20) - Girl Friend Experience VS Porn Star Experience (15:20) - Brothels (18:50) - Massage Parlours (20:20) - How I Structured My Work Life (21:00) - My Physical Gratification (21:50) - Missing the Workplace

A Dominatrix from London walks into the dungeon that Eva Oh is training at, and she chooses Eva to assist on an enlightening session. Eva sees things that take her years to understand. Quite the raucous episode of the #teakink Podcast. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Glorifying a Dominatrix from London (02:45) - She Chooses Me (05:10) - Entering Her Session, Two Slaves - Engorged… (08:40) - Is He Okay? (10:50) - It Took Me A Few Years to Get It! (12:40) - Still Learning, The Value of My Presence (15:10) - She Leaves. Everyone Complains in the Workplace. (17:30) - Time for a Raucous Session?

Listen in on an intimate conversation between Eva Oh and her dear and accomplished friend Laura Desiree that spans erotic callings, orgasms, banned erotica, stigma, drive and their favourite philosophy podcasts. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - My Darling Laura Desiree (00:40) - Disrupting Laura’s Structure (02:04) - What Laura is Up To (02:50) - Laura’s Event, ‘Eros Unbound’ (05:40) - Our Orgasms (07:00) - Voice, Sound and the Erotic (08:15) - Laura’s Erotic Calling (10:00) - Porn vs the Personal (12:15) - More On Our Orgasms, ‘Under the Skin’ and Astral Projection (13:55) - Laura’s Banned Erotica (15:00) - The Shared Stigma, Sex Workers and Sex Educators (18:25) - What Motivates Laura’s Drive (21:00) - Sex Workers Becoming Activists and Educators (23:50) - Eva Oh vs an FBI Agent (24:40) - The Meaning of Podcasting and a Platform? (29:00) - Our Favourite Philosophy Podcasts (29:40) - Limitations Birthing Creativity and Laura’s Tragedy

The Berlin Travel Guide that Eva Oh didn’t give you in Season 2 when she got sidetracked with a salacious story. But here it is! Club culture, sex clubs, sexuality learning spaces, kink festivals, bondage furniture makers, kink gear and fashion stores. Dig into Eva’s favourite places in Berlin, Germany - all from the comfort of her hotel bed after a successful weekend in Berlin herself. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Good Morning-ish from Berlin (00:59) - Why Do I Come to Berlin (04:00) - Club Culture, We Must of Course Talk about Berghain (09:00) - My First Berlin Sex Clubs and Playing with a Stranger (14:00) - Kit Kat Club, My Many Experiences There (19:55) - The German Fetish Ball (23:20) - Sexuality Learning Spaces, Karada House (24:30) - EURIX Rope Week (27:00) - Bondage Furniture Makers (28:40) - Kink Gear and Fashion Stores (31:00) - Playing with the Door Person at a Swingers Club

Nobody told Eva Oh that there would be an influx of younger folk interested in dating women much older than them. Eva is called “mature” by a date for the first time and “Mommy” by multiple admirers and it stirs thoughts on how she could best approach this surprise. A #teakink episode that makes obvious the difference between the conversations we have around older men dating younger women versus the far more swept under the rug world of the older dating woman. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - Being Called “Mature” on Dating Apps(00:55) - What Do I Do?!(01:12) - What I’m Looking For(02:25) - Nobody Told Me That There’d Be All This Interest(03:00) - “Cougars” and Their Fans(04:45) - Cindy Gallop’s TED Talk(06:25) - My Largest Age Gap(07:00) - Do I Entertain It?(07:30) - A Slave’s Age and Privilege Gap(08.55) - My First Age Gap Date(11:25) - How Desirability Evolves and What Sex Work Taught Me About It(12:45) - The More Commonly Talked About “Silver Fox”(14:10) - How I Might Embrace Being Called “Mommy”(16:30) - Age and Height on Dating Apps(18:00) - What is Appropriate? Give Me Dating Advice.(20:14) - Becoming Mommy Part 2?

A bartender tells Eva Oh that she reminds him of his Mother, a Dominatrix. He shares more about what his childhood looked like with BDSM slaves around and Eva is inspired to imagine parenthood as a Dominatrix and Sex Worker. Her investigation finds her clients jumping at the chance to “provide” and proves to be a revealing exercise in societal stigma and suffering. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Dominatrix Walks into a Bar(02:00) - The Bartender Notices Something Familiar(02:55) - His Mother Is a Dominatrix(06:00) - I Start to Think About Motherhood(07:15) - Clients Jumping at the Chance(08:30) - The Logistics(11:00) - How Client-Slaves May Be Useful(13:00) - Ideal Conditions?(14:30) - Why I Decided Against It, Resources and Suffering(17:30) - Fostering(19:00) - A Revealing Exercise(20:55) - Telling My Child About My Work(21:30) - Sex Work, Kink and Parenthood(22:50) - Tell Me About Kink and Parenthood Resources!

What is Eva Oh’s ultimate fantasy? Find out in this deeply revealing episode. A fantasy born out of graphic novels, porn channels and a lifetime of stimuli - Eva invites us into her masturbatory mind in fascinating detail. Inside we find a dystopian landscape, a robotic facility and otherworldly plays on light, texture, movement and sound. Leave a voice note question or story about anything for Eva to respond to on the next season here: https://bit.ly/teakinknote More on Eva Oh, https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - My Only Fantasy(01:00) - My First Wet Dream(02:10) - Erotic-ish Graphic Novels(03:00) - Motel Porn Channels(04:00) - The Evolution, from Dreams to Hentai to…(05:00) - Pay for Your Porn(06:40) - What Might Tie Everything Together?(07:00) - What is it?! Describing My Only Fantasy(07:20) - A Political and Societal Framework(08:30) - A Human-like Facility(09:10) - My Infiltration(10:55) - A Simulation(13:30) - A Morphing Dress(14:50) - The Initial Touch(15:15) - The Room Changes, I “Throw” Us Into Another Scene(15:55) - Auditory Hallucinations, Surrounding and Within(17:10) - A Platform Appears in Crystal Dust(19:00) - Merging with the Target, An Important Realisation(20:30) - The Visceral(21:30) - A Near Future(23:00) - What Might All This Mean?(27:00) - Zima Blue, Love Death and Robots(29:00) - Parallels with My Reality?(31:10) - How Could I Improve My Fantasy?