#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

Ali Bushell, therapist and Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, joins us on the #teakink Podcast for a deep dive intotherapy, kink, and self-discovery. From his work with sex workers to exploring fetish in therapy, Ali shares insights on topics like power, violence, and the parts of ourselves we exile. We unpack shadow archetypes of therapists, the brain as a sexual organ, and the complexity of integrating the self through practices like Vipassana and IFS. Ali's book, 'The Sex Party Handbook': https://shorturl.at/dZeF6 Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Ali Bushell, Therapist and Internal Family Systems Practitioner (00:40) - How We Met, Ali's Sex Worker Outreach (03:12) - How Sex Workers Can Find Therapists (14:20) - Defining Sex and the Brain as a Sexual Organ (16:05) - Kink in Therapy (24:30) - Power and Violence (26:20) - An Extreme Example? Is it ok That I Enjoyed What I Enjoyed with My Father? (31:00) - Exiled Parts of Ourselves (33:00) - What is Therapy, to Ali (37:50) - Shadow Archetypes of Therapists: Savers, Narcissists and Robots (39:20) - Vipassana, Hearing Voices and Integrating the Self (44:50) - How Ali Found Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Uses It (49:40) - You Can't Un-Kink (52:09) - Sex Negativity and Turning the Lights Off (53:50) - The Kinsey Scale, How Homosexual or Heterosexual are We?

Eva Oh and Vex of Four Chambers dive into a conversation about the sometimes messy and always fascinating intersections of sex, art, and identity. From how performance challenges embodiment in sexuality, to how burnout hits when your work revolves around desire. We journey through Vex's cyber goth era and chatroom nostalgia to inducing lactation for a porn series, as she opens up about her values, and the shifts shaping porn today. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:00:23) - Meet Vex of Four Chambers and a Thought on Hawking Porn vs Fashion(00:01:40) - The Point of Four Chambers and Hotness?(00:03:40) - Order, Mess and Truth in Sex and Our Work(00:06:30) - What Vex is Hiding, Sexual Performance vs Embodiment(00:10:20) - Who Are We Really? How Vex is Using Weed in Self-Discovery(00:13:20) - Our Relationship to Surrender and Burnout(00:16:00) - Vex's Craving for the Physical(00:18:00) - Eva's Burnout Strategies and Meditation(00:20:45) - Vex at 12 in Habbo Hotel Chatrooms, the Internet as a Portal and Weirdness(00:26:20) - Vex's Draw to Cyber Goth Culture and Darkness(00:29:00) - Boredom and Craving Storytelling(00:30:50) - The Void, Cuckolding and Leaning into Despair(00:37:10) - How Making Porn Has Changed Vex's Life and Values(00:39:30) - The Disappearance of Pornography?(00:41:30) - Chatrooms to Camming to Tumblr Porn to Four Chambers(00:45:05) - What Sex Work Taught Us About (Lack of) Freedom, Society and Meta(00:51:40) - Our Longing for Undocumented Experiences(00:55:00) - The Substance, Doppelgänger by Naomi Klein and Being 'Palatable' as Women(00:57:24) - Managing Mobile Phone Usage and Dating Younger(01:01:00) - Exploring Archetypes and Fucking with Mommy Issues(01:06:00) - Inducing Lactation for the Porn Series 'Maman'(01:12:30) - Popular Porn Categories(01:15:00) - Eva's MILF and Digital Detox Plans

A New Year Begins on the #teakink Podcast. Indulge in a flashback episode, where Eva Oh looks back through the seasons. Their highs and tears, special interviews, the most popular episodes and where it may all go from here. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Happy New Year! Podcast Flashback Time (02:20) - The Experiment of Season 1, My First Experiences as a Dominatrix (06:24) - The Storytelling of Season 2 - Slave m, Klub Verboten, My Worst Relationship Ever (11:30) - Season 3 - Major Highlight Episode, Would a Sex Worker Date You (13:32) - Answering Your Questions Through Season 4 (14:41) - Season 5, Interviews That Took Us Far (16:40) - The Format Now (20:00) - Wishing You A Sweet New Year and Always, Thank you for everything

Today on #teakink Podcast, meet Conor - Shibari Artist, Rope Studio Owner, ex-Publisher and a multi-facted mind whom Eva Oh always adores to sit with. Listen in to their conversation which spans Conor's entering into kink, masculinity and fibromyalgia, kink as therapy, Antwerp, women clients, the link between kink and gambling - and so so much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Conor Aphilia, A Multi-faceted Mind That I Adore(01:30) - How We Met, Paraphilia Magazine(03:10) - Conor's Entering into Kink - Tinder, Parties and Ireland(05:10) - Rope - Lockdown, Masculinity and Fibromyalgia(08:30) - Kink as Therapy or Denying the Fun?(12:40) - Moving into Sex Work and Discovering Others and Ourselves(19:30) - Women Clients(22:50) - The Post-War Porn Reality of Shibari(26:30) - How Shibari has Changed Conor's Daily Life(29:45) - What Motivates Sex Work(35:40) - Antwerp, The Kinkiest Place in the World?(38:00) - The Highs and Woes of Publishing a Kink Magazine(42:50) - International Rope Learning Retreats(44:40) - What is Kink to Us - Power, Fetishism and Questioning the Norm(46:15) - Meeting Dossie Easton - The Link Between Kink and Gambling(47:30) - Dom Drop and Aftercare(52:00) - Men vs Women Clients and Intention Setting(54:45) - How to find Conor and the Aphilia Studio

Eva Oh has been getting invited to more and more crazy rich sex parties to manage BDSM dungeons and entertain guests with kinky installations. Enter the clandestine operations of sex parties for the uber wealthy - where multiple day productions cost millions, where guests and staff are flown in all expenses paid from across the world, and where Eva often sits in between the gratitude of a gig and the spectacle, shock and concerns of extreme wealth. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Crazy Rich Sex Parties and NDAs (02:30) - Where and How? (03:30) - Who Runs and Attends Them? (04:20) - Staffing, Recruitment and Production Companies (08:14) - What Do I Do at Them, BDSM Show and Tell (09:40) - Consent Concerns (13:30) - The Overwhelm of Extreme Wealth (15:55) - Crew Bonding, Catering and Naps (17:50) - Theatre, Campness and Value (19:15) - A Story, The Labyrinth of a Guest Experience

The Current Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects, Deborah Sims, joins Eva Oh for a fascinating discussion on women and freedom on the #teakink Podcast. We discover more about the origins of the Museum, WeWork Dominatrix Dungeons, Coven Garden Industrial Spanking, and the museum's objects - including a whip made from Meretrix hair of Roman times. Deborah and Eva chat rage, 'Poor Things', historical patterns of sexual and female liberation and the importance of remembering our history - including cases of forced female circumcision in Notting Hill not that long ago. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:23) - Meet Deborah Sims, the Keeper of the Museum of Sex Objects (02:15) - The Objects, from Roman times to Today (05:50) - Why the Museum Came About, Untold Stories and Straightjacketed Women (11:10) - The Intersection of Freedom, Desire and Cat Ladies (15:30) - Rage and Forced Female Circumcision in Notting Hill (20:35) - 'Poor Things', Female 'Hysteria' and Roe vs Wade (21:30) - Historical Patterns of Sexual and Female Liberation? (27:10) - The Importance of Remembering History (30:10) - Matriarchal Sex Cults and 18th Century Industrial Spanking (33:40) - Societal Challenges and Hopes for the Museum (37:40) - Coco de Mer and the Ladies of Covent Garden (40:30) - Sexy Soho Walking Tours and the WeWork Dominatrix Dungeon (43:05) - Manet's 'Olympia' (44:45) - The Unpaid Sexual Labour of Marriage vs(?) Sex Work (48:50) - Rethinking Censorship on Social Media, Awareness and Freedom(51:40) - Pain is Pleasure

Matthew of Baron Books joins Eva Oh on her play space sofa to indulge us on the pornographic origins of Baron and how the influence of powerful women shaped his views on identity and sexuality. They also chat sex shops, cruising apps, The Death Book, medical fetish, feeders, Versace, Bruce La Bruce and so so much more.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Matthew of Baron Books(02:15) - How Baron Books Began(03:35) - What is P*rn at Baron?(04:30) - We Won The Baron Prize - with our P*rn, Grief Encounter(06:30) - Sex, Sexuality and Powerful Women(09:15) - Femininity and the Lack of Representation of Gay Men(11:30) - It Started with a Photography Project on Cottaging(15:00) - The Bruce La Bruce Book Launch in a Sex Shop(17:15) - The Baron Sex Shop?(18:55) - My Ongoing Gripe About the Lack of Queer Cruising(20:15) - The Digital vs the Physicality of Books(23:25) - Jackie Collins, Versace, the Bitch and Sarah Baker(26:34) - Baron’s Impact on Matthew’s ‘Dynasty’(28:15) - My Interest in Rage(29:04) - Baron and BDSM: Forniphilia with Namio Harukawa and Medical Fetishism with Romaine Slocombe(34:50) - How Baron Chooses Books(37:55) - Fat Bodies, Feeders and Control(40:10) - How Books and Baron are Evolving(43:50) - The Past, Present and Future of Sex Shops(46:40) - The Death Book, HIV, and Gay Identity(49:35) - Sex, Death, Control(52:25) - Problematic Projects, Publishing and Imprisonment

Eva Oh joins Miss May at her playspace, E1 Darkroom, to talk dating, polyamory, the draw of filth and intensity, the 'ick' of the stereotypical 'dominant' man, the rarity of a good service sub and the deep deep importance of cleaning.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Miss May at her play space, E1 Darkroom(01:30) - Why Start a Playspace?(02:48) - The Draw of Filth and Intensity(04:40) - The E1 Darkroom Impact(06:20) - Cleaning, The Central Tenet(07:50) - The Rarity of a Good Service Subs(09:10) - Different Client Dynamics and Friend-Zones(12:20) - Dungeons and Dating(15:40) - Sadism, Objectification and Oral Sex(17:15) - Polyamory, Cheating and Evolving Desires(19:05) - An Excuse to Ask What I Want(19:40) - Miss May's Ideal Life(21:00) - Money and Sex Work vs the Investment of Dating(22:50) - 'Dominant' Men, the Ick and the Stereotype of the Patriarchy(26:40) - Professional Domination: Germany vs the UK(34:20) - How to be a Dominatrix - Hygiene! and...(36:20) - How to Hire E1 Darkroom

Venus is the organiser of Sex and Rage, a martial artist, fetish wrestler and soon to be stunt performer. In this conversation between Venus and Eva Oh we learn about Venus’ progression from stripping into fetish wrestling, the origins of Sex and Rage, Venus’ Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club, the various personas that she embodies; and the importance of power, presence and play.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Venus, Event Organiser, Sex Worker and Martial Artist(00:48) - Sex and Rage, The Lesbian and Bisexual Strip Club(07:35) - Stripping and Fetish Wrestling(12:05) - Wrestling and Domination(13:10) - Lesbian Wrestling(14:30) - Venus vs The Wrestler Persona, Sativa(15:50) - Venus’ Self Defence Workshops(23:30) - Parallels between Martial Arts and Sex Worker Communities(27:25) - Martial Artists and Sensitivity(31:30) - Being Present, Fighting and F**king(33:25) - The Venus Persona(36:10) - The Future of Venus: Sex and Rage, Fighting, Stunts(38:20) - How Does it Feel to Get Hit?(42:25) - Venus’ Personal Perversions(44:45) - Power and Play

Eva Oh launches her own loose leaf teas! A Jasmine Silver Tip and an Aged Port Oolong. Watch her pour herself a tea ceremony as she takes us through the history of how and why #teakink began. A tale of Domme friends, secrets, censorship and platforming the margins.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Teas by Eva Oh(01:40) - Jasmine Silver Tip Loose Leaf Tea(02:12) - The History of #teakink, Domme Friends and Censorship(06:50) - Why Tea?(09:00) - What next?(10:55) - Aged Port Oolong Loose Leaf Tea(12:55) - My Naivety, Censorship and Platforming the Margins(16:15) - Thank you for your response to the Podcast

Watch one of Eva Oh’s mentoring sessions live on the #teakink Podcast. Miss Juni is an aspiring Dominatrix who booked a mentoring call with Eva Oh but ended up on her sofa with her questions instead. From red flags, to client application processes, socialising with clients, and setting rates; Eva and Juni cover a lot of ground. We also get an insight into Juni’s motivations, her use of OnlyFans as a space for trans activism and her thoughts on sissification from a trans perspective.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - A Mentoring Session with Miss Juni, Aspiring Dominatrix(01:23) - Why Become a Dominatrix?(02:40) - Domination and Acceptance(05:19) - Sissification from a Trans Perspective(08:12) - Qtee Foxx, OnlyFans and Trans Activism(12:35) - Offensive Clients(18:00) - Red Flags in Professional Domination(25:00) - My Client Application Process(27:00) - Dominating the Every Day(31:00) - My Awkward Moment Trying Professional Submission(33:30) - How Do You Keep a Client Conversation Going?(35:00) - Bowling, Karaoke, and My Humiliation(38:00) - How Do You Create Long Term Clients?(42:00) - Sugar Babying, the Saviour Complex and Quitting the Industry(47:00) - Consent is Cool(48:50) - How Do You Ask for More? How Do We Handle Our Sense of Value?(01:00:50) - Work-Life Balance as a Dominatrix(01:04:00) - The Eva Oh Experience(01:06:50) - How Much Do You Give Before a Session?

Jake Dean sits down with Eva Oh to chat week-long escort bookings, contentment, client demographics, the concept of ‘high end’ and the whorearchy; and so so much more. Eva shares her tips for managing long term client engagements, decompression and a family heirloom that grounds her as a part of the process.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet Jake Dean, Who Starts out by Charming Me(02:33) - Jake, Escort and Escort Agency Owner(03:50) - Why Escorting: Playboy, Business Studies and Amsterdam(06:30) - Jake’s First Booking(07:30) - Customer Relationship Management in the Sex Industry(08:10) - How Escorting has Changed (For) Jake(11:50) - Friendship and Isolation(15:30) - Finding Contentment in Escorting(20:25) - Week-long Bookings with a Client?!(25:50) - How I Stay in Character-ish(27:50) - How I Decompress from a Long Booking: Habit, Practice and Boundaries(31:00) - Does Our Rates Effect Client Demographic and Behaviour?(34:00) - People Skills(35:15) - A Long Term Job(36:15) - Unpredictable and Questioning, Improving Self(38:55) - ‘High End’ and the Whorearchy?(41:35) - How Jake Runs His Escort Agency(48:45) - Escort Touring Quirks and Good Habits

‘Miss Mummy’ specialises in regression sessions for Adult Babies out of her specially built adult sized Nursery. Eva Oh joins Miss Mummy in the crib to discuss the motivations, vulnerability and stigma behind her practice; her Adult Baby counselling service; and the potential parallels between her work and that of a professional Dominatrix.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - Meet ‘Miss Mummy’ in Her Adult Baby Crib(01:40) - Adult Babies and Regression(04:00) - My First Adult Baby Session and the Stigma I Felt(05:30) - How Miss Mummy Discovered Adult Babies(09:05) - How Miss Mummy Navigates Her Adult Babies’ Vulnerability(15:55) - Highly Sensitive People(17:25) - The Adult Baby Counselling Service(19:40) - Shame and Guilt(22:00) - Adult Baby Communities and Gatherings(23:27) - Dominatrix vs Mummy?(25:00) - Sex Work and Absurdity(27:30) - What an Adult Baby Experience Looks Like(30:20) - Freedom, Peace and Social Conditioning(34:00) - How Miss Mummy Integrates the Experience for a Client(38:00) - Miss Mummy’s Future(40:30) - What is the Demographic of an Adult Baby(40:50) - The Post-War History of Adult Babies(47:50) - Holding Men

#teakink Podcast started out as a seasonal experiment in sharing an often sidelined perspective - that of a sex worker. And Oh, has our host Eva Oh shared. Stories and secrets of the sweet, the challenging and the titillating. But it’s time to share the platform and so from here, this is no longer an experiment. The #teakink Podcast has found its format - to share valuable and underrepresented perspectives from around the world. Eva Oh sits down with international sex workers, sex industry professionals, those adjacent and who champion them; with some solo episodes from our host when the mood strikes. Welcome to the #teakink Podcast, now here to stay.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the video episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:23) - No More Seasons(02:30) - Interviews as a Focus

This episode wraps the special 'Interview' Season of the #teakink Podcast. It's been quite the ride, with deeply insightful and generous guests that included heavy masochists, sex work academics, a submissive called 'Floor' and many more. Will Eva Oh continue? Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Masochism, Survival, Gratitude for People's Sharing (03:40) - Reflections on Reading My Memoir (04:20) - A Rewarding "Hobby", Thank You for Listening

Eva Oh invites 'M', a fan of #teakink - onto the Podcast. Eva's been curious about why you have been interested in the podcast as much as you have, and even though it turns out to be a little bit of an awkward episode hearing about herself - M's kindness and eloquence reveals a lot about the impact that #teakink has been able to have, what insights are possible through it and it lays a lot of groundwork on what more #teakink could become in time to come. Thanks 'M'! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Eva Oh Invites M, a Listener of #teakink - onto #teakink (01:30) - How M Found Me (02:20) - Getting Feedback on How I Communicate (04:20) - How has #teakink Impacted M? (06:20) - Questioning Priorities and Values (09:24) - Learning About Dominatrices (11:25) - M's Favourite Episode (14:50) - Parasocial Relationships and Podcast Hosts (16:10) - Why I Did This Episode (16:40) - I Want to be a Resource (20:25) - Making Sex Workers Visible (28:10) - M Introduces Herself - Research, Japan, Investment Banking (37:15) - Writing Women's Stories (39:50) - M's Experience with Kink and Hentai (46:45) - Different Times for Monogomy and Non-Monogamy (47:30) - What is Shareable About #teakink?

When Eva Oh posted a question on AI and sex work to Instagram a wave of opinions came back, but a referenced musing via Google Docs from Goddess Faye clearly stood out - and now we have quite the episode of the #teakink Podcast on Bizarre Ladies, the potential viscerality of the digital, emotional design in session, nerdiness and BDSM, TeamLabs, Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams, brain tissue, VR Porn, Web3, Digital Harems and more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Goddess Faye aka Sensory Girl (01:20) - From Tumblr to Dominatrix and Pro Deviant (02:45) - Bizarre Ladies (03:18) - Sitting on Wet and Messy Things (04:55) - The Visceral Meets The Digital (09:27) - Emotional Design in Session (11:12) - Nerdiness and BDSM (12:10) - Technology in Session (15:00) - My Ultimate Fantasy and TeamLab (17:45) - Our Cyborg Dominatrix Dreams (20:20) - Brain Tissue, AI and Sentience (22:50) - VR Porn Needs to Evolve (23:35) - Next Innovations in the Sex Industry? (25:20) - Web3 Concerns (28:00) - Truthfulness (30:30) - The Unknown of AI (32:00) - Curator of Your Mind (33:40) - How Will AI Change BDSM and the Dominatrix (34:30) - The Digital Harem (35:25) - Consent, Chatbots and Submissive Control (36:50) - AI as a Good Submissive (39:15) - The Dehumanisation of Sex Workers (42:30) - Skin in the Game

Prolific Kink Photographer Miss Gold invites Eva Oh into the contents of her mind on this episode of the #teakink Podcast. We discover Miss Gold's start in fine art, her first steps into fetish, the importance of fantasy in her work, her sexuality and parenthood, and she reveals to us the intricacies of photographing sex parties as an insider. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - You Don't Deserve to See Miss Gold's Feet (01:20) - From Fine Art to Fetish Photography (02:30) - Sex Party Photography Highlights: Latex Pig Masks (04:00) - Fantastical Fantasies (06:20) - How Miss Gold Found Kink (08:00) - How to Photograph a Sex Party (10:00) - Editorial Photography Meets BDSM (12:00) - The Issues of Non-Kinksters Documenting Kink (16:30) - The Surge of Sex Parties (19:35) - Sex Influencer Culture (21:40) - Sexuality and Parenthood (26:00) - Being Pregnant at Sex Parties (28:00) - Discussing Sexuality with Our Children (31:50) - The Contents of Miss Gold's Mind (36:00) - Future Plans, Documenting Our Kink History

In this episode of the #teakink Podcast we meet Polly - an escort, academic, and community organiser with SWARM who shares the ins and outs of what a kink escort booking looks like, her thoughts on the state of academia, and her love for grimy leather bars and wild swimming. Eva Oh joins her on a campaign for queer cruising spaces and also shares a story of the time she got Root Beer Float Waterboarded. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Polly - Sex Worker, Academic, Community Organiser (02:15) - Non-Monogamy Circles and Sex Worker Friends (03:12) - Polly's First Steps into Sex Work (05:11) - Thinking About Oneself as a "Brand" (07:35) - Polly's First Booking, the Tiniest Double Ended Dildo (09:40) - What Does a Booking Look Like (13:40) - Finding the Kink Community and Grimy Leather Bars (17:40) - The State of Academia (20:15) - SWARM, Sex Worker Grassroots Organisation (25:50) - The Correlation Between Academia and Sex Work (28:15) - Polly's Ideal Week (32:50) - Wild Swimming (36:35) - Queer Cruising (39:50) - Personal Responsibility in Sex Spaces (41:30) - Kink Group Getaways and Murder Mysterys (44:25) - How to Cruise (47:45) - Root Beer Float Waterboarding

Playful Magazine, Podcast, TV... Amanda and Filip of Playful get into bed with Eva Oh to talk about their vision for Playful, platforming sex workers, discovering the fluidity of their sexualities, Filip in lingerie and a surprising experience that they had with Eva in the Berghain Darkroom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Amanda and Filip of Playful (02:00) - What is Playful (03:30) - How They Choose Their Guests (04:15) - Platforming Sex Workers (07:30) - The Playful Vision (09:40) - Music and Sex (11:30) - Featuring the Path Less Travelled (14:19) - Exploring The Fluidity of Their Sexualities (17:55) - What Makes a "Relevant" Man (19:25) - Peeing on People Together (20:20) - The Story of Eva in the Darkroom at Bergahin (30:25) - Berghain's Sexual Evolution (35:20) - Getting More Naked (39:20) - More Female Friendly Cruising Spots (41:20) - Playful TV