#teakink with Dominatrix Eva Oh

In this episode of the #teakink Podcast we meet Polly - an escort, academic, and community organiser with SWARM who shares the ins and outs of what a kink escort booking looks like, her thoughts on the state of academia, and her love for grimy leather bars and wild swimming. Eva Oh joins her on a campaign for queer cruising spaces and also shares a story of the time she got Root Beer Float Waterboarded. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Polly - Sex Worker, Academic, Community Organiser (02:15) - Non-Monogamy Circles and Sex Worker Friends (03:12) - Polly's First Steps into Sex Work (05:11) - Thinking About Oneself as a "Brand" (07:35) - Polly's First Booking, the Tiniest Double Ended Dildo (09:40) - What Does a Booking Look Like (13:40) - Finding the Kink Community and Grimy Leather Bars (17:40) - The State of Academia (20:15) - SWARM, Sex Worker Grassroots Organisation (25:50) - The Correlation Between Academia and Sex Work (28:15) - Polly's Ideal Week (32:50) - Wild Swimming (36:35) - Queer Cruising (39:50) - Personal Responsibility in Sex Spaces (41:30) - Kink Group Getaways and Murder Mysterys (44:25) - How to Cruise (47:45) - Root Beer Float Waterboarding

Playful Magazine, Podcast, TV... Amanda and Filip of Playful get into bed with Eva Oh to talk about their vision for Playful, platforming sex workers, discovering the fluidity of their sexualities, Filip in lingerie and a surprising experience that they had with Eva in the Berghain Darkroom. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Meet Amanda and Filip of Playful (02:00) - What is Playful (03:30) - How They Choose Their Guests (04:15) - Platforming Sex Workers (07:30) - The Playful Vision (09:40) - Music and Sex (11:30) - Featuring the Path Less Travelled (14:19) - Exploring The Fluidity of Their Sexualities (17:55) - What Makes a "Relevant" Man (19:25) - Peeing on People Together (20:20) - The Story of Eva in the Darkroom at Bergahin (30:25) - Berghain's Sexual Evolution (35:20) - Getting More Naked (39:20) - More Female Friendly Cruising Spots (41:20) - Playful TV

We take a mid season pause from the #teakink Podcast Interviews to feature a reading from Eva Oh's memoir in progress. A chapter on perfecting the mechanics of golden showers on a client called 'French Frank', and how Eva discovers a sense of joy that she had never experienced before, in her very first session as a Dominatrix. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - A Reading from My Memoir in Progress (01:15) - Chapter 7, Golden Showers

Ezada Sinn graces Eva Oh with her incomparable mind in this episode of the #teakink Podcast. Shot during Ezada's Femdom Summit in Bucharest, the Femdoms chat on the links between communism and women's power, Ezada's ideal relationship structures, raising children as a kinkster and the link between latex body bags and floatation tanks. We also get an insight into the origins of Ezada's personal fetishes and even an early masturbation ritual... Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - The Glorious Ezada Sinn (01:50) - The Femdom Summit, A Vision for Femdom and Bucharest (06:15) - Femdom Sightseeing (08:20) - Romanian History, Communism and Women's Power (11:05) - Discovering Dominance (13:10) - Ezada's Ideal Relationship/s, The Inverted 50s Household (18:10) - Raising a Family with a D/s "Village" (20:30) - Renegotiating Dynamics and Protocol with Life Changes, like Raising Children (23:30) - The Importance of Talking About Kinksters and Sex Worker with Children (27:55) - The Origins of Ezada's Fetishes (30:20) - Ezada's First Masturbation Ritual (32:00) - Latex Body Bags and Floatation Tanks (34:24) - Femdom Friendships (40:00) - Ezada's 'Talking Matriarchy' Podcast

Eva Oh places her feet on the chest of a submissive #teakink Podcast listener for an interview on the submissive mindset. With 'Floor', Eva leads a conversation on how he discovered his submissive identity, his journey from service top to submissive, his early desires to role play as the floor, his craving for connection and how he became a part of Eva's Domme Training Sessions. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - A Submissive Listener Now Under My Feet (02:35) - Is My Persona My Reality? The Sub's Perspective (05:00) - How We Know Each Other (06:39) - Becoming a Part of My Training Sessions (12:20) - What is a Session with a Dominatrix? (13:45) - A Hint at What a Session With Me is Like (16:00) - Discovering the Submissive Identity (17:20) - Finding the Community (19:50) - From Service Top to Submissive (22:15) - Wanting to Role Play as the Floor (24:40) - Thank You Graham Norton (25:20) - A Fetish in Hiding (28:40) - What it's Been Like Looking for a D/s Dynamic (31:40) - Craving Connection (34:45) - 24/7 Power Dynamics (43:00) - The Importance of Communication (45:00) - Finding Satisfaction

Eva Oh sits down with Cherry Velour to talk torture porn, discovering fear, creating consensual non consent scenes, the challenge of sensual pleasure, the torture of the patriarchy, submission as a symptom, shattering the ego - and an impressive number of other points that they manage to squeeze into an hour of the #teakink Podcast. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:21) - Meet Cherry Velour (00:30) - Cherry's Torture Porn (03:20) - What is the Sound of Torture? (06:20) - Can a Desire for Torture Meet Reality (07:50) - Discovering Fear (10:00) - Creating Consensual Non Consent Scenes (12:15) - Why is Fear Interesting (13:40) - Maggots and Cold Bodies of Water (15:38) - The Challenge of Sensual Sexual Pleasure (21:03) - The Desire for a 24/7 Power Dynamic (23:20) - The Torture of the Patriarchy (26:00) - Too Few Perverts in Denmark? (27.50) - The UK, A Country of Bottoms and Subs? (31:00) - Submission as a Symptom (32:55) - A Special Breed of Dominant (35:30) - The Benefits of Being Thoughtful About Kink (39:50) - Shattering the Ego (44:30) - What's next for Cherry Velour?

We kick of the #teakink Interview Season with Eva Oh’s dear friend Missy Fatale, International Burlesque Siren and fellow female dominant. From an intrigue in sex, death and nudity, to coming up against the patriarchy as a child, we discover how Missy moves from the world of fine art into the liberation of performance, the struggle of surrender as a Femdom; and how a mainstream audience responds to fetish on the stage. Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaoh More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com Missy's Links: instagram.com/missy_fatale instagram.com/vintageartsagency vintageartsagency.com instagram.com/haus_of_fatale vintageartsagency.com/hausoffatale HIGHLIGHTS: Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time. (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink (00:18) - Who is Missy Fatale? (02:05) - Sex, Death and Nudity (03:30) - Patriarchy as a Child (05:05) - Discovering Dominance (06:50) - From Fine Art to the Liberation of Performance (13:25) - Fetish in Performance Art (14:50) - Social Media's Effect on Performance (16:15) - Vintage Arts Agency, House of Fatale, Fatalism (17:00) - Bringing the Dungeon to the Stage (18:20) - How Audiences Respond (20:20) - Fetish as Life (23:20) - Attempting Surrender as Dominant Women (27:15) - What Female Dominance Means to Us (31:45) - Using Terms as Opposed to them Using Us (33:25) - Marie Kondo-ing Life (34:25) - The State of Fetish in the Performance Industry (38:20) - Eva Oh, Missy's House Dominatrix (39:55) - Missy Fatale's Final Act

Season 5 of the #teakink Podcast is all about the interviews. Eva Oh welcomes sex industry professionals, kink community photographers, masochists, fans and more to her play space sofa for a conversations that offer a deeper look into her world and its inhabitants.Watch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:21) - Let the Interview Season Begin(01:05) - Escorts, Kink Photographers, Masochists and Fans(01:55) - Get a Deeper Look into My World

Sex Work can feel isolating because of society’s shortcomings and even simply within the logistics of the job. A question on how to manage feelings of isolation when on tour or travelling for work as a sex worker leads Eva Oh to reveal an insight into her touring history, and the habits, community and secrets that have kept her grounded - including a travelling totem and room service spaghetti bolognaise…More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Touring as a Sex Worker(01:10) - My Touring History(02:35) - But I Love Solitude(03:25) - The Benefits of Sex Worker Communitiy(03:55) - Familiarity on the Road(07:15) - Dating App Entertainment(07:50) - Keeping Motivations Front of Mind(09:20) - Totems and Spaghetti Bolognaise(11:10) - Touring in Doubles(12:30) - Much Love!

A somewhat academic question reveals the more visceral leanings of Eva Oh’s view on kink. On this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva reveals why she tends to avoid pathologising the kinks of those who work with her, the neurology of foot fetishes, the potential meaning of what a ‘desire template’ is and more things that she often sets aside to prioritise getting gloriously filthy.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question from a Sexologist on the Origin of Fetishes(00:55) - I’m Less Academic, More Pervert(01:45) - Avoiding Pathologising for Experiential Thrills(04:50) - The Neurology of Foot Fetish(05:50) - Examining Me, Eva Oh(10:05) - What Are Desire Templates?(10:50) - I Think We’re More Similar Than Not(12:55) - Maybe I Should See a Sexologist?

A cute story from a #teakink Podcast listener on bondage and bubbles reminds Eva Oh of the magic and importance of play as conduit for expressing and understanding the potential of our humanity.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Story on Bondage and Bubbles(01:25) - The Importance of Play in the Complexity of BDSM(07:00) - What BDSM Can Teach Us(09:50) - My Play Preferences(10:18) - Play and the Potential of Our Humanity?

It can be a complicated experience navigating social situations as a sex worker. Do we reveal our occupation to the dinner table? Might people react poorly? What can we say to protect ourselves, or shed light on our jobs, and should this even be our weight to carry? Eva Oh gives us some options on how to navigate society and their preconceptions on this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “Society is Ashamed: At the Dinner Party”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/society-is-ashamed-at-the-dinn(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Social Interactions as a Sex Worker(00:48) - Society is Ashamed(02:15) - Some Options(07:40) - Encountering Shock and Horror(09:25) - Learning the Vocabulary(11:20) - Leaving People Behind(11:50) - In the Uber(14:40) - It’s What You’re Ready For(16:00) - Dolphin Trainers

We open with a question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships and we end up amongst the problematic nature of clickbait and hopefully a few alternative ways to drive traffic to OnlyFans and into our businesses. A #teakink Podcast episode on how to think about our personal goals whilst placing worth in the challenges that sex workers face collectively.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on PR Agencies and Sex Worker Friendships(01:18) - What I Think the Question is(02:00) - Ways to Drive Traffic to OnlyFans(04:15) - Sex Work as Clickbait(06:50) - On the Sex Work PR Campaign Trail(08:15) - Sex Worker Friendships(12:25) - Keeping a Wider Perspective

What’s one of Eva Oh’s favourite things? Men crying. Eva answers a fan's question on whether she’s ever made a man cry through a reflection on one of the most popular episodes of the #teakink Podcast yet, ‘I Love Men Crying”. Reminding us of the potential of surrender and the importance of responsible emotional freedom.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “I Love Men Crying”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/i-love-men-crying-sports-and-t(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on How I Make Men Cry(00:45) - I Love Men Crying, Clearly(01:45) - Crying at a Distance(03:00) - The Physicality of a Session(04:55) - The First Time I Made a Boy Cry(06:00) - The Importance of Surrender(07:57) - Men Crying Compilation Videos(08:25) - I Wish You (Responsible) Emotional Freedom

It’s been a rich experience discovering more about gender fluidity for Eva Oh through her sex worker community and the many requests around it at the dungeon. But it’s a process still in progress, and on this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva attempts to break her experience down. Including some pointers on the challenging balance of our choices of gender presentation, profit and personal sanity.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Gender Fluidity within BDSM and Sex Work(01:40) - Opening My Eyes at the Dungeon(03:30) - Thoughts On Presenting in Sex Worker Branding(06:30) - Gender Exploration within Session(10:20) - Presenting, Profit and Personal Sanity

Eva Oh has had a complicated and sometimes rough time in figuring out where her boundaries lie. From the mishap of falling in love with a client, to being asked about personal trauma during a session - it hasn’t been a straightforward path in her work as a Dominatrix. The process of establishing and defining healthy boundaries is an ongoing one for Eva, and maybe it doesn’t need to be so complex - but for her it is, and we hear all about it’s nuance in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com#teakink Episode, “Would A Sex Worker Date You?”: https://podcast.teakink.com/episodes/would-a-sex-worker-date-you(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on My Boundaries(01:05) - A Complicated and Ongoing Path(03:30) - I Was Shocked Into Developing Professional Boundaries(08:00) - Falling In Love, with Clients(!)(09:50) - What Stability Has to Do With It(11:15) - My Process(11:39) - How Sex Work Informed My Personal Worth and Boundaries(12:47) - It Can Get Complex/Complicated(14:35) - Communicating Boundaries and Understanding

From installing CCTV, to office lingerie tasks and Airbnb Hosting - Eva Oh shares ideas on the wide range of long distance relationship building activities that she has implemented over her years as a Dominatrix.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Long Distance BDSM Games(00:40) - How I Discovered Long Distance(02:00) - I Prefer - Service(04:10) - “Traditional” Long Distance Games(05:10) - How I Do Personal Long Distance(06:11) - Sustainability for the Top(07:15) - My OnlyFans Play(08:06) - Personal vs Professional Pointers(09:20) - Task Automation and Online Courses on youwillpleaseme.com(11:11) - Tracking and Lifestyle Apps(12:10) - CCTV and Phone Speakers, Consensually Please

Is there a difference between women, non-binary and other clients? Do they apply for a session differently, have differing kinks or play styles? Eva Oh reveals how her bias is the key defining factor in her work with a wide range of individuals as a Dominatrix in this episode of the #teakink Podcast.More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com(00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on the differences between Women, NB and Other Clients(00:45) - The Evolution of My Understanding(02:55) - My Bias(04:20) - I Need to Expand My Sample Size(05:50) - Application Quality(06:05) - When You Are In My Hands(08:13) - The Limitations of the Professional Session(09:00) - The Differences in My Personal Interactions(11:40) - My Ever Evolving Answer

Eva Oh dived head first into a BDSM dungeon with no kink or sex work experience - but she wouldn’t be where she is today if she hadn’t paid attention to the many kind (and not so kind) individuals along the way. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva introduces us to a few key people who have helped her develop her place in the industry, her opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops and why she offers her Mentoring Calls and Training Sessions at this stage of her career. Book a Mentoring Call or Training Session: https://eva-oh.com/training (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Mentorship(01:18) - My Mentor Calls and Training Sessions(02:30) - My Mentors(07:20) - Elders in the Dominatrix Community(09:05) - My Opinion on Dominatrix Schools and Workshops(11:39) - Finding Mentors(14:20) - Personal vs Professional Mentorship(17:39) - Leatherfolk, Families and their Value(21:40) - Booking a Mentoring Call or Training Session

Eva Oh’s naivety shielded her from the initial realities of competition and sabotage in the sex industry, but she had to learn some hard lessons eventually. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast Eva answers a question on how rivalry in the industry exists, revealing a slightly rough journey from competition within the brothel styled system of the Dungeon, to gossip over social media; and how she continues to navigate how to best align herself with those who share her values in the present day. More on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.com (00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink(00:18) - A Question on Rivalry in the Sex Industry(00:45) - How I See “Stolen” Clients(02:00) - How I See “Competition”(03:00) - The Influence of Sibling Rivalry(04:50) - My Naivety(05:00) - The Competitiveness of the Dungeon(05:20) - Sabotage(11:45) - Competition vs Camaraderie, and Social Media’s Role(17:00) - Rivalry within Deeper Relationships(18:40) - The Potential Intensity of Sex Worker Friendship(20:03) - Aligning Your Values(21:20) - Some People Adore Drama