The GoodHard Story Podcast

Where is the line between caring deeply and trying to control?Lysa TerKeurst joined me to share what God has been teaching her about learning to make peace with what she can’t control. Even though I don’t consider myself a controlling person, I learned so much from this conversation and I think you might, too—like the motivations beneath the tendency to control other people, the difference between healthy responsibility and control-seeking, and how control harms the people around us. Friends, this episode is a must-listen. It’s packed with takeaways that will help you flourish in your inner life and your relationships.Show NotesMentioned in this conversationMaking Peace with What I Can’t Control: Find Relief from the Exhaustion of Overthinking, Trying to Fix Others, and Wanting to Figure It All Out by Lysa TerKeurstJames 1:4Joel MuddamalleHope Heals Camp & Retreat - https://hopeheals.com/campMore from LysaProverbs 31 Ministries - https://proverbs31.org/Therapy and Theology - https://therapyandtheology.transistor.fm/@lysaterkeurst on Instagramhttps://lysaterkeurst.com/More from Katherine:Follow @hopeheals on InstagramReceive monthly reflections from Katherine - http://hopeheals.com/hopenoteWatch this conversation on YouTube

Where do we go when the trappings of Christianity don’t align with the Jesus we know and love?My friend Mike is making a home for who he calls the “spiritually homeless,” the people who feel wounded by church culture but aren’t ready to walk away from Jesus. During our time together, he shared the parts of Christianity he’s unraveling from culture, how raising a son with Down Syndrome has reshaped his understanding of healing, and why he’s leading his church toward true belonging rather than just inclusion.Show NotesMentioned in this conversationVoxology Podcast - https://www.voxologypodcast.com/Treasures in the Dark by Katherine Wolf - https://hopeheals.com/books“Which is the real world?” by Amy Julia Becker on Substack - https://substack.com/profile/141020498/note/p-208837720?utm_source=notes-share-action&r=92rp4aHope Heals Camp - https://hopeheals.com/campPrince Caspian by C.S. LewisMore from MikeVoxology Podcast - https://www.voxologypodcast.com/Journey Church in Brentwood, TNMore from Katherine:Follow @hopeheals on InstagramReceive monthly reflections from Katherine - http://hopeheals.com/hopenoteWatch this conversation on YouTube

What if you can’t be brave until you’re scared?Based on the confident way Jess Connolly lives her life, it’s hard to believe she’s ever felt scared. But she has. In fact, she decided to become an expert on fear. Jess joined me for a conversation about what’s happening in our bodies when we feel scared, the three words that finally helped her understand what “the fear of the Lord” actually means, and how we can live if our worst fears have already come true.Show Notes:Mentioned in this conversation:You Can't Be Brave Until You're Scared by Jess ConnollyGo and Tell Gals - https://goandtellgals.com/More from [email protected] from Katherine:Follow @hopeheals on InstagramReceive monthly reflections from Katherine - http://hopeheals.com/hopenoteWatch this conversation on YouTube

What if the only way to bear our grief is to share it?My friend Mayer Buisson is living with the “invisible wheelchair” of Huntington’s Disease. The shame she felt around her diagnosis caused her to keep it a secret. Eventually, carrying it alone became unbearable. Today, Mayer lives with a radical acceptance of her story, and she’s inviting us into the “collateral gifts” of her grief. In this special conversation, you’ll get to sit down in a version of one of my beloved S.O.S. group gatherings to witness that it’s possible to move from shame to surrender, just like Mayer.Show NotesMentioned in this conversationTreasures in the Dark: 90 Reflections on Finding Bright Hope Hidden in the HurtingHope Heals Camp - https://hopeheals.com/campMore from Katherine:Follow @hopeheals on InstagramReceive monthly reflections from Katherine - http://hopeheals.com/hopenoteWatch this conversation on YouTube

What do we do with the stuff that’s not good and hard, but just hard?Toni Collier is no stranger to pain. She’s navigated a childhood of tragedy and two marriages marked by abuse and infidelity. According to her, the pain hasn’t been worth it…but it hasn’t been wasted either. In our conversation, Toni shared how she’s surviving those seasons of “ashes from ashes,” and why she’s not trying to do it alone.Show NotesMentioned in this conversation:Broken Crayons Still Color by Toni Collier2 Corinthians 12:9Don't Try This Alone: How to Build Deep Community When You Want to Hide from Your Pain by Toni CollierBrave Enough to Be Broken: How to Embrace Your Pain and Discover Hope and Healing by Toni CollierUnshakable Moxie - https://www.odbm.org/en/moxieStill Color Podcast - How Healing Became an Idol: Why We're More Obsessed with Healing than Becoming HolyLove Your Life (Even When You Don’t Like It All the Time): A Realistic Guide to Unlocking Joy in Life’s Messy, Mundane, and Magnificent Moments by Rachel AwtreyIsaiah 45:3More from Toni:Follow @tonijcollier on InstagramWatch on YouTube @tonijcollierMore from Katherine:Follow @hopeheals on InstagramReceive monthly reflections from Katherine - http://hopeheals.com/hopenoteWatch this conversation on YouTube