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Author: Terryn Drieling

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In stockmanship (the art and science of handling cattle in a safe, effective, low-stress manner), we have this phrase . . . good movement draws good movement. 

It’s this thing that happens when we ask a small group of cattle, maybe a cow, or a pair to move out in a certain direction and their movement draws the whole herd into moving in the same direction.

Good movement happens when we approach the cattle with a positive attitude, read and really listen to what they’re telling us, and communicate accordingly. 

We don’t approach the aware, flighty cattle the same as we do the tame, docile cattle. We adjust ourselves, our energy, and approach, and communicate with each differently.

These adjustments help us effectively draw good movement from each, which then draws good movement from the herd. But it starts with us.

The same is true for humans. Good movement starts with us.

Welcome to Good Movement Draws Good Movement, the podcast where farmers, ranchers, and rural folks can grow relationally through awareness, understanding, and effective communication.

Hey, it’s me - T. I’m your host, and I, along with my guests, will be covering topics related to drawing good movement - things like self and social awareness, brain science, positive psychology, extending grace, and so much more. 

We’ll share tools that can help you understand why you are the way you are, why others are the way they are, and how you can use that to step out of self-told lies with grace and compassion to draw good movement in conversations, relationships, and life in rural America. 


Tune in every Tuesday and make sure to hit subscribe so you never miss an episode! Let’s go draw good movement!

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Podcast produced by: Jill Carr Podcasting
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In today's episode, I'm talking about self-reliance vs. connection and what actually helps us heal. So many of us were raised to believe that needing help is a weakness or that slowing down to feel our emotions makes us soft.Healing in isolation might feel safe, but true transformation happens in connection, especially when we have someone to walk beside us. Community gives us the courage to stay with the hard stuff and is what actually helps us heal.If you're craving this kind of support, the Good Movement Collective is now open for its third round. I'd love to support you on this journey of healing & growing together!In this episode, I cover:Realizing that just because we can carry it alone doesn’t mean we shouldWhy we’re designed for connection as humans & need relationships with othersWorking through the hard stuff in life instead of continuously shoving it downReflections you can start now to support your healing & inner work Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/what-actually-helps-us-heal Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Schedule a free consult and see if 1:1 Good Movement Guidance is right for youJoin the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, I'm talking about why emotions aren't the problem - avoiding them is. Emotions are meant to help, guide, and connect you. They're not an inconvenience (contrary to what you may believe) but are actually a BEAUTIFUL part of our design as humans!I know that feeling and connecting with your emotions can sound scary, but it is VITAL if you want to experience lasting healing in your life! I would love for you to take some time and think about what emotions you've been ignoring or labeling as bad. Your emotions are meant to help, guide, and connect you, so I hope you allow them to do that!In this episode, I cover:Why emotions aren't the problem but are actually meant to help & guide youUnderstanding that vulnerability deepens connectionWhat happens when you continually shove your emotions downHow to begin letting your emotions be your guide vs. a challenge to overcome Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode!Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/emotions-arent-the-problemConnect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, I'm talking about small gestures, big impact, and what the power of simple connection looks like. Connection is VITAL for us as humans - our brains thrive on social interaction!Small connections are beautiful and transformative and can do SO much to bridge the gaps between people in our society today. Here's to making more intentional connections that leave a lasting impact!In this episode, I cover:Why connection is VITAL for humans + can happen in everyday interactionsWhat can hold you back from building connections with othersPractical ways you can start building simple connections with others Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/simple-connection Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Everybody, Always: Becoming Love in a World Full of Setbacks and Difficult People by Bob GoffJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, I'm talking about a lesson from Ted Lasso on healing and holding two things at once. As humans, we REALLY struggle with duality in our culture. We've been conditioned to think that everything is either/or and not ever both/and. It's crucial that you don't suppress your emotions, even when they feel uncomfortable. Those suppressed emotions won't just magically disappear! One of my favorite ways to work through this is using the “f- you and thank you" exercise. It's been incredibly helpful for me, and I have a feeling it will be for you, too!If you're ready to learn more about this exercise and other tools OR you need someone to walk with you on your healing journey, I would love to support you in this way. You can join me and other amazing women in rural America in my 1:1 Good Movement Guidance - we're all healing and learning together!In this episode, I cover:Why humans struggle with duality in our culture - especially with emotionsUnderstanding that suppressed emotions don't just disappearPersonal examples of how I've felt both "f- you" and "thank you" emotionsHow to use the "f- you and thank you" exercise in your own life Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/ted-lassoConnect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Episode 43: My Mind-Blowing Realization About EmotionsJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, I'm talking about why healing isn't about never hurting again. Just like physical wounds, emotional healing requires time, protection, and intentional care. Even when you've worked through something, and you feel healed and closed, something is bound to open that wound back up from time to time!Setting boundaries and giving yourself space can really help with emotional healing, especially when you're just beginning the healing process. Remember, healing isn't about never hurting again. No matter where you are on your healing journey, you are NOT broken.  I would love to know what you're working to heal right now. If you need guidance in that area, I would be honored to talk with you about it in a 1:1 consult call. Let's work on your healing together! In this episode, I cover:Why emotional healing requires more time, protection & intentional careSetting boundaries & giving yourself space to help with emotional healingExamples of emotional bumps + open wounds vs. healed scarsWays you can respond when you get emotionally bumpedRecognizing that healing does NOT mean you’re weak when you feel pain again Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/healing Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today’s episode, we’re redefining ‘I’m good’ and how feeling every emotion & healing deeply impacts you. So often, we think that feeling good means we’re never sad, worried, angry, etc., but that’s definitely not the case.Healing is never a one-and-done thing, and it’s not going to look the same for everyone. If you need some extra support on YOUR healing journey, I would be honored to walk alongside you!In this episode, I cover:Why finding meaning and purpose in your life is VITALResilience vs. post-traumatic growthRealizing that you WILL experience trauma in some way, but cultivating resilience will help you to come out stronger on the other sideFinding meaning and purpose when you have a chronic illnessThe complex emotion that is aweMake sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode!Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/feeling-every-emotion Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
I'm excited to welcome Kelly Greene back to the podcast today and continue the conversation from the last episode!Today, we're talking about finding meaning in the mess and how purpose fuels resistance. Kelly and I also discuss the vast, transcendent emotion of awe and how this gives you something powerful to focus on outside of yourself. From learning about holistic resilience to finding meaning in the mess and purpose, both of these episodes with Kelly were incredibly inspiring. I know they will be helpful for you and whatever you're navigating in your life! In this episode, we cover:Why finding meaning and purpose in your life is VITALResilience vs. post-traumatic growthRealizing that you WILL experience trauma in some way, but cultivating resilience will help you to come out stronger on the other sideFinding meaning and purpose when you have a chronic illnessThe complex emotion that is awe Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/finding-meaning-in-the-mess/Connect with Kelly:Follow on InstagramCheck out her website Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief by David KesslerMan’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl The Uses of Sorrow by Mary OliverFollow Dr. Edith Eger on InstagramJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! a...
I'm excited to welcome my friend, Kelly Greene, Certified Health and Wellness Coach, onto the podcast today!In today's part 1 episode, we're discussing holistic resilience and what rethinking strength and survival looks like. Kelly has experienced her fair share of trauma over the years and has often been told how resilient she is. While she may look like it on paper, resilient was not a word she would have used to describe herself years ago.Make sure to come back for part 2 with Kelly next week as we dive more into resilience - you won't want to miss it!In this episode, we cover:Kelly's "dark night of the soul" experience that led her to step away from practicing law and take a holistic approach to her lifeHow holistic resilience has impacted Kelly + the work she does with her clientsWhy resilience does NOT equal grit2 extreme ways that people typically react after experiencing a traumatic eventWhere resilience actually happens for usThe Healthy 4 Hs + 8 factors that can help with building holistic resilience Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/holistic-resilienceConnect with Kelly:Follow on Instagram Check out her website Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, we're talking about why we stay and the pull of the familiar, even when it hurts. As humans, we find comfort in familiarity. Our brains are wired for survival, and we LIKE what's comfortable and safe, even when it's actually the opposite of that. The pull of the familiar is SO strong, but it's not unbreakable. With curiosity, bravery, and support, it's totally possible to step out of what's comfortable and into something better.Change can be scary, friend, but this is also where growth happens (believe me - I know this ALL too well). If you need help in this area, I'm here for you, and I would be honored to walk alongside you on this journey!In this episode, I cover:Why we find comfort in familiarityUnderstanding what’s really going on when someone stays where they areMy personal experience with staying comfortably numb for far too longQuestions to ask yourself when you’re considering making a change Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/why-we-stay Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, Tom and I are talking about how we've navigated expectations in ranch life and marriage. We've learned that unspoken expectations are resentments waiting to happen. If you're going to have an expectation about XYZ, you've got to speak it - not everyone is going to have the same expectation or understand where you're coming from! We hope this episode gives you a more REAL insight into how we've navigated expectations in ranch life and marriage. We've both done the inner work on our own (as well as together); it takes time to get there, but it's absolutely worth it.Remember - speaking expectations are so, SO important. People aren't mind readers, and they can't meet expectations they don't know exist! In this episode, we cover:Tom’s experience with having high, unspoken expectations of others + how that’s changedWhat to consider if your expectations are consistently NOT being metThe correlation between feeling safe & effectively communicating your expectationsMaking sure that YOU’RE in the right place mentally in order to help others Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/expectations-in-ranch-life/ Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, I'm talking about cleaning the shop and why feeling your feelings gets worse before it gets better. Many of us have been little hoardy hoarders with our feelings for years. When you finally decide it's time to start the process of working through your emotions, not only are you feeling your emotions in the moment, but you're also unpacking YEARS of emotions!Feeling your feelings is NOT easy - especially if it's something you've never done before. Fortunately, the clarity and peace you find on the other side will be SO worth it. I've experienced this in my own life, and I know it's possible for you, too!In this episode, I cover:What happens when you stop feeling your feelings + what it’s like when you DOStarting small when processing your emotions vs. tackling them all at onceHow to ground yourself as you work through this processWhat it feels like when you finally process your feelings & emotions in the momentHow you can support others who are just starting this process Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/feeling-your-feelings/ Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
I'm honored to welcome a special guest, former Marine Jake Ogren, onto the podcast today!Jake is a husband, dad, and former Marine who chose to serve after 9/11 happened. After doing multiple tours in 12 years, he left the U.S. Marine Corps and has been shoeing horses for 10 years now. He's a good friend of ours and our horse's farrier, and since I've known him, we've had MANY conversations surrounding the topics of mental health, trauma, and taking care of ourselves. Basically, we're solving all of the world's problems in the horse barn! In today's episode, we're talking about what it looks like to go from toughen up to open up. Jake and I discuss the very well-known stigma in the ranching and ag space that is "toughen up and rub some dirt on it," as well as getting personalized support for YOUR mental health needs. In this episode, we cover:Jake's journey of joining the Marines Corps + what eventually led him to seek therapy for his mental healthThe all-too-common stigma of "toughen up and rub some dirt on it" in the ranching & ag communityThe importance of getting support for YOUR specific mental health needs + finding the right person to talk toJake's advice for seeking help when you're hesitant to do soHow therapy has impacted Jake in multiple areas of his lifeCommon misconceptions about mental health in rural America Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/from-toughen-up-to-open-up/ Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif BabinThe Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der KolkDry Creek Wrangler Podcast with Dewayne NoelCreate Your Own Light with Travis HowzeThe Invitation by Oriah Mountain DreamerThe Welcoming PrayerBetterHelpJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: a...
Healthy boundaries are essential for protecting ourselves and our relationships, but unhealthy boundaries can isolate us and keep us from facing reality. I talked about why boundaries can be one of the kindest things we do for ourselves in episode 36 (you can listen here if you haven't or if you need a refresher). In today's episode, I'm talking about the process of maintaining your fences and the art of healthy boundaries. My favorite analogy to use in regard to boundaries is fences. We have a variety of fences we use on the ranch, and they all serve a different purpose. You have to be intentional about how you build and maintain boundaries so they truly serve you and your relationships well!  In this episode, I cover:Different types of fences in relation to boundariesWhy the purpose of boundaries can be both helpful AND harmfulQuestions to ask yourself when setting boundariesWhat it looks like to maintain healthy boundaries Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/healthy-boundaries/ Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, I'm talking about what happens when pain finds you and a bit of a personal update on growth, healing, and hope. I was given news that no one EVER wants to hear when it comes to their health.As I'm currently walking through this new and unfamiliar situation, I can't help but think of how vital it is to process our emotions. When we choose to process (or, more often, NOT process) our emotions, this ultimately impacts our health. We can't suppress our emotions over and over again and expect our health not to take a toll in the long run!In this episode, I cover:My recent (not so fun) situation with my healthHow processing (or not processing) our emotions will impact our healthRealizing that pain IS a part of life, but we can find meaning & opportunity in it  Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/when-pain-finds-you/Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Listen to The Dr. John Delony Show | Grief Expert: The Key to Overcoming Life’s Hardest Moments with David Kessler (Or watch on YouTube)Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief by David KesslerWhen the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress by Gabor MatéThe Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness & Healing in a Toxic Culture by Gabor MatéJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
"Pain isn't a bug; it's a feature." I first heard this quote from grief expert David Kessler on the Dr. John Deloney Show (give it a listen HERE if you want to check it out). This particular phrase hit me, and it really stuck with me. In today's episode, I'm talking about the gift of pain and why we should stop ignoring it. Pain is not an anomaly - it's not meant to be shoved down or something we need to fix. Pain draws our attention to something so we can learn what's going on; it's an invitation for us to grow because it shows us what needs more focus and attention!In this episode, I cover:Changing how we view pain and its purpose for usWhat can happen when we ignore pain and the signals it sends usMy experience with a major pain point in my own lifePractical ways to engage with painGetting curious on where pain is showing up in your life Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/the-gift-of-pain/Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Listen to The Dr. John Delony Show | Grief Expert: The Key to Overcoming Life’s Hardest Moments with David Kessler (Or watch on YouTube)Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief by David KesslerJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, Tom and I are talking about what burnout on the ranch looks like and how we're learning to recover faster. This fall was tougher than usual, and it seemed to drag on and on - we both felt that way throughout the season!We're also chatting about winter projects we're focusing on and what Tom's experience with burnout has been like.Burnout is incredibly real in this line of work, but it doesn't have to be your reality forever. If you've been in a similar season with burnout on the ranch and are ready for recovery, or you're simply looking forward to a slower time of year like we are, we hope this episode encourages you right where you need it!In this episode, we cover:The process of shuffling herds on the ranch + putting more woe back into the cowsWhy what we think we need to do to slow down or stop cattle ends up being the opposite of thatOur upcoming winter projectsWhat burnout on the ranch has typically looked like for Tom + how we've worked together when certain projects weren't going well this fall Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/burnout-on-the-ranch/Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
As someone who grew up in rural America (and is still there), I'm very familiar with the mindset that comes along with this way of life. We're raised to keep our emotions to ourselves, work hard, and push through, no matter WHAT. Talking about our feelings and emotions is unnecessary and makes us look weak. In today's episode, I'm talking about breaking the stigma and what redefining strength in rural communities looks like. We can take simple steps toward breaking this stigma and start focusing on supporting our mental health and well-being and building resilient communities with thriving families.In this episode, I cover:The typical mindset that’s often ingrained in us in rural AmericaWhat happens when we bottle up our emotions and ignore our mental well-beingThe collective resolution I want us to make in the new yearSimple ways for us to begin breaking the stigma together Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/redefining-strength/ Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.com Resources & Links:Learn more about 1:1 Good Movement GuidanceJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today’s episode, I want to share the hard truth about emotions because, well, you gotta feel them ALL. When it comes to emotions, we must understand that they themselves are not the problem, but rather, our resistance to actually feeling them is. If you’re someone who is used to numbing certain emotions, I really want you to get curious as to WHY you’re doing so. Instead of numbing, take time to recognize, feel, and accept your emotion(s). Then, you can get ready to bring joy and happiness into your life in a BOLD, new way!In this episode, I cover:How our emotions themselves are not the problem, but our resistance to feeling them isWhy we can’t numb emotions like fear, anger, and sadness and still expect to feel happiness, joy, and love to the fullest Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/the-hard-truth-about-emotions/Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Follow Quinlan Walther on Instagram @quinlanwaltherJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, I'm talking about extending grace without accepting behavior. It's a universal truth that everyone has a reason for their actions - there is ALWAYS a why behind a behavior. Even when we don't know the whole truth (and we may never), we can choose to extend more grace.My challenge for you is to look for that story that you might have missed. Even if you can't find it, please know that there IS a story you don't know completely. After all, grace doesn't cost us that much, so let's start extending more of it today!In this episode, I cover:The concept of "we don't know what we don't know" and choosing to give a little more graceUnderstanding that everyone has a reason for their actions and there's always more to the storyWhy extending grace does NOT mean that you accept or condone behaviorWhy grace matters and its vital connection to emotionsHow we can extend more grace to others  Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/extending-grace/Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Join the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
In today's episode, we're discussing what "Relationship before Horsemanship" really looks like with Warwick Schiller and how this applies to ALL beings (not just horses).We also discuss what unraveling and shattering long-held truths can look like, the importance of validation in all of our interactions, why extending grace to animals seems to come easier for us than to our fellow humans, and much more. In this episode, we cover:A pivotal experience that led to Warwick’s focus on relationship before horsemanshipHow working with horses started Warwick’s journey of unraveling and the role his podcast plays in showing the unraveling of our cultural and societal conditioningsWays to support horses with nervous system regulation using connection and how this applies to people, tooHow we are in charge of creating our own reality and how we choose to interact with any type of being (human or animal)Why it seems easier for us to extend grace to our animals rather than to our fellow humansThe concept of waiting vs. doing when working with horses and why the nervous system isn’t meant to be calm all the timeWhy attachment and attunement are what humans need most but are also most lacking Connect with Warwick:Follow on Instagram and FacebookCheck out his YouTubeListen to The Journey on PodcastCheck out his website and online video library Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/relationship-before-horsemanship/Connect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:The Principles of Training by Warwick SchillerJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr PodcastingMentioned in this episode:Click below to join us in the Good Movement Collective! Good Movement Collective
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