Spotlight Series Audio

In this heartfelt episode of ‘From Surviving to Living,’ Coley Gates shares his incredible story. Once sentenced to 999 years in prison, Coley talks about his rough upbringing, and life of crime. Discover how his faith in God transformed his life behind bars, leading to an unexpected release supported even by the victim’s family. Coley’s journey from despair to hope is a testament to the power of God, forgiveness, and never giving up. Be inspired by his resilience and learn valuable life lessons as Coley opens up about his past, his faith, and his future! Buy Coley’s book, “Uncommon Sense” […]

In this heartfelt episode of ‘From Surviving to Living, the Spotlight Edition,’ we join Brady Pask as he shares his life story, marked by early exposure to drugs and alcohol, various family complexities, and the transformative power of faith. Born to a single mother after her brief relationship with a much younger man, Brady was raised in a household initially surrounded by partying. His mother’s former partner returned, marrying her and taking on the role of Brady’s father, providing a loving but unconventional family dynamic. This relationship added layers to Brady’s understanding of fatherhood when he later discovered that his stepdad was not his biological father. Brady opens up about his struggles with addiction, his standout experience of feeling God’s touch, and his subsequent journey to sobriety. He also reflects on the significant roles that his earthly father figures and mentorship played in his spiritual development. Viewers can learn valuable lessons about resilience, the importance of supportive relationships, and the life-changing impact of faith. TIMELINE 00:00 Introduction 01:32 Family Background and Upbringing 12:50 Overcoming Alcoholism 20:06 Struggles with Alcohol and Family Dynamics 24:10 Personal Growth and Mentorship

Don Weld Jr., a Minneapolis native, grew up in a Christian family where service and ministry were parts of daily life. His early exposure to prison ministry through his father’s involvement ignited a passion for helping those on the margins of society. By adulthood, Don was actively participating in prison ministries, combining sports and spiritual nourishment to reach out to inmates. This laid the groundwork for his future endeavors. About 15 years ago, Don’s journey took a decisive turn as he began leveraging basketball to connect with young men in North Minneapolis. This initiative eventually evolved into Chainbreakers, a ministry dedicated to supporting individuals struggling with addiction, incarceration, and life’s tough challenges. Through open discussion groups, one-on-one mentorship, and unconditional love, Don and the Chainbreakers community assist people in navigating their journey towards healing and faith. Don’s commitment to personal, hands-on ministry is evident in his approach to leadership at Chainbreakers. He emphasizes the importance of transparency, mentorship, and the power of God’s Word in overcoming personal struggles. Despite facing challenges like resistance from the community and the profound loss of individuals to addiction and violence, Don remains undeterred, fueled by a belief in God’s love and the transformative power of genuine relationships. Don’s life and work exemplify a profound dedication to serving others, guided by a spirit-led approach to ministry. Whether through playing basketball with those recently out of prison or sharing a cup of coffee with someone in need, Don’s actions reflect a belief in the potential for redemption and change in every individual. He continues to inspire and mentor through Chainbreakers, proving that with faith, compassion, and community, transformation is possible for anyone. For more information about Chainbreakers visit:www.chainbreakersmn.com Needed: A volunteer to lead the incarcerated pen-pal team. Make a difference today! TIMELINE01:40 Guest Introduction: A Life of Obedience and Ministry02:25 Don’s Background: Growing Up in a Christian Family03:16 Early Ministry Work and the Birth of Hoops Church05:30 Expanding Ministry: From Hoops Church to Chain Breakers13:16 Personal Reflections and Future Aspirations17:42 Unconditional Love and Final Moments21:45 Encouraging Transparency and Personal Struggles24:11 Volunteering and Supporting Chainbreakers28:03 Personal Reflections and the Importance of Being Present32:20 Concluding Thoughts and Invitation to Get Involved

Join us in this inspiring episode where we delve into the life and journey of Patrick Day, a man who found hope and direction in the most challenging times. Patrick, once ensconced in the depths of depression and despair, turned his life around through faith, mentorship, and service. As a credentialed correctional chaplain and the author of nine compelling books, Patrick shares his transformative experiences from battling addiction and depression to embracing a life dedicated to serving others and spreading hope. In this episode, not only will we explore Patrick’s remarkable path from surviving to living, but we’ll also unveil how personal struggle and professional expertise can converge to guide those battling their own demons. Don’t miss this profound exploration of faith, redemption, and the power of staying close to Jesus, featuring insights on mentorship, ministry, and the importance of empathetic connections. Whether you’re seeking inspiration, facing personal trials, or simply looking for a story of incredible transformation, Patrick’s journey from the brink of despair to becoming a beacon of light for many is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit when guided by faith and purpose. Patrick Day’s story is one of remarkable transformation and dedication. From grappling with severe depression and addiction to becoming a credentialed correctional chaplain and a prolific author, Patrick’s life is a testament to the power of faith and recovery. Through his ministry work in jails and with organizations like Teen Challenge, as well as his profound books, Patrick serves as a beacon of hope and guidance for individuals facing their darkest hours. His commitment to helping others rediscover their path, grounded in his deep faith and personal experience, makes him a unique and relatable figure in the realms of spiritual guidance and recovery. Patrick’s journey underscores the profound impact of mentorship, the importance of staying close to Jesus, and the belief that even in the midst of despair, a new chapter of life can begin. TIMELINE 01:42 Introducing Patrick Day: From Correctional Chaplain to Author02:36 Patrick’s Journey: Finding God and Battling Depression12:30 A New Chapter: Embracing Ministry and Writing13:57 Expanding Outreach: Jail Ministries and Beyond22:19 The Impact of Writing and Ministry on Recovery27:49 Diving Deeper into Adult and Teen Challenge30:51 Exploring the Impact of Teen Challenge and Personal Mentoring31:44 Transformative Encounters: From Bible Studies to Personal Transformation32:50 The Power of Visuals in Sharing the Gospel33:51 Life-Changing Stories from the Jail Ministry37:52 The Journey of Discipleship and Mentorship38:19 Overcoming Depression and Embracing Empathy40:01 The Role of Personal Experience in Ministry41:26 Navigating Ministry in Jails vs. Prisons42:43 The Continuation of Mentorship After Release46:21 Becoming a Chaplain: A Turning Point54:02 Staying Close to Jesus: The Ultimate Advice01:00:17 Final Thoughts and the Importance of Mentorship

Matt Emerson’s journey from adversity to advocacy showcases the profound impact of resilience, education, and a dedication to community service. Born into a biracial family, Matt navigated the complexities of racial identity and societal challenges from a young age. His early experiences with substance abuse and dealing led to a period of homelessness and eventually incarceration, setting the stage for a remarkable transformation. During his time in prison, Matt engaged in educational pursuits and self-improvement activities, emerging with an enriched perspective on the potential for personal growth. His post-incarceration life has been defined by an unyielding commitment to supporting those affected by the criminal justice system, leveraging his experiences to drive meaningful change. A pivotal achievement in Matt’s journey of service was his instrumental role in the creation of the Minnesota Rehabilitation and Reinvestment Act (MRRA). His proposal, rooted in the insights gained from his own journey and the challenges he observed within the system, contributed significantly to shaping the bill. The MRRA represents a legislative milestone aimed at transforming the incarceration landscape in Minnesota, promoting rehabilitation, and offering a second chance to those willing to engage in constructive change. Today, Matt is a respected community leader and advocate, known for his work in providing sober housing and supporting formerly incarcerated individuals. Through his efforts, Emerson not only aids in their reintegration but also champions policy reform and the establishment of a more equitable and humane justice system. His legacy is a testament to the idea that redemption is within reach for those who seek it and that individual stories of transformation can inspire systemic change. Matt Emerson’s life story underscores the belief that adversity can breed strength and that one’s past does not dictate the future. His contributions to community service and criminal justice reform reflect a deep compassion for others and a drive to ensure that opportunities for redemption and growth are accessible to all.

In this episode of the From Surviving to Living Spotlight Series, the conversation with guest Al Reff centers on the common issue of not feeling good enough, struggling with societal expectations, and the deep-seated desire for acceptance. The discussion aims to explore what the Bible teaches about our identity, value, and worth, offering insights into where these sentiments truly originate. We explore Al’s profound journey from struggling with substance abuse, incarceration, and despair to finding redemption and grace. Through the guidance of Pastor Dave and a spiritual awakening in prison, Al undergoes a remarkable transformation, embracing forgiveness and grace to rebuild his life and offer hope to others in similar circumstances. TIMELINE 00:38 Introduction02:45 Facing Addiction and Finding Chain Breakers04:20 The Spiral into Substance Abuse08:10 The Battle with Cocaine: First Encounter12:45 Recovery, Relapse, and the Role of Family15:40 The Return to Addiction: A Downward Spiral17:25 Seeking Treatment and Facing Marital Challenges19:31 The Impact of Personal Loss and Addiction19:53 The Cycle of Treatment and Relapse21:41 Professional Life and Its Challenges22:26 Family Dynamics and the Path to Treatment25:17 A New Beginning: From Oil Fields to Personal Crisis27:46 Facing Consequences and Finding Redemption28:04 Exploring Faith and Forgiveness35:47 The Journey of Healing and Understanding Grace47:56 Advice for Overcoming Challenges and Embracing Grace

This episode features an interview with Christina Lusk, who shares her personal journey of coming out as transgender, facing discrimination and hate, contemplating suicide, and her struggle for acceptance and rights within the prison system. Born in Rochester, Minnesota, Christina’s life took a dramatic turn after coming out in 2008, leading to a series of challenges including societal rejection, police discrimination, and surviving traumatic conditions in men’s prison facilities. Despite these hardships, Christina found hope and advocacy through the Minnesota Department of Human Rights and legal support from Gender Justice, ultimately fighting for and securing her rights. The conversation touches on the importance of unconditional love, faith, mutual understanding, and the impact of support from family and friends. The episode underscores the message of kindness, compassion, and the transformative power of understanding and supporting one another’s journeys in a Christ-centered way. It challenges followers of Jesus to befriend and love everyone, including people in different social circles. TIMELINE01:38 Introduction01:57 Christina’s Personal Journey and Challenges03:55 Experiences of Discrimination and Finding Acceptance07:34 Incarceration Experiences and Fighting for Rights12:27 Transition to Women’s Prison and Legal Battles27:23 Life After Incarceration: Advocacy and Healing37:24 Reflections on Compassion and Understanding

SHOW NOTES From Surviving to Living Spotlight: Breaking Stigmas and Building Bridges with David Boehnke This episode of ‘From Surviving to Living Spotlight’ features a dialogue with IWOC coordinator David Boehnke, who discusses his journey from experiencing bullying and questioning societal structures, to deeply engaging in activism and organizing against the social stigma surrounding incarceration. Boehnke, growing up in Ann Arbor, Michigan, illuminates his early experiences and influences that shaped his perspective on social justice. He details his involvement in youth groups during high school, which pivoted his attention towards the disparities in educational and incarceration systems, particularly the racial disproportionality in remedial classes and prison populations. Boehnke’s activism journey led him to college where he majored in humanities, media, and cultural studies, and further immersed himself into understanding systemic issues like white supremacy, patriarchy, colonialism, and imperialism. Post-college, Boehnke’s work expanded to include support and organizing within the incarcerated community, resulting in the formation of the Incarcerated Workers Organizing Committee of the Twin Cities. This organization aims to combat mass incarceration and create meaningful societal changes by fostering empathy, understanding, and action amongst individuals, both inside and outside the prison system. Throughout the episode, Boehnke and the host, Holly Bot, discuss the challenges, breakthroughs, and the ongoing efforts to bridge gaps, encourage community involvement, and advocate for legislative reforms to end life without parole, among other significant issues. TIMELINE 00:00 Opening Musical Introduction00:29 Setting Up the Interview00:53 Introduction to the Spotlight Series01:42 David’s Journey: From Bullying to Social Awareness02:55 Exploring the Roots of Incarceration and Social Stigma05:29 College Years and Deepening Understanding06:57 Activism and Connecting with the Incarcerated Community10:23 The Impact of Personal Growth on Social Empathy14:19 The Incarcerated Workers Organizing Committee: Goals and Actions17:02 Legislative Efforts and the Hope for Change22:19 Personal Reflections and Encouraging Community Involvement30:27 Closing Remarks and Future Initiatives

In this captivating episode of ‘From Surviving to Living, Spotlight Series’ we dive into the powerful story of Felicia, a woman who journeyed from a troubled past, marked by poverty and family struggles, to a life entangled with undiagnosed mental health issues, gambling addiction, and a series of bank robberies. Felicia opens up about her childhood in Ohio, her academic and professional success, and the spiral into gambling that led her to incarceration. Following her aunt’s advice, Felicia moves to Minnesota, seeking a fresh start and better mental health services. Through her narrative, we explore the critical themes of mental health awareness, the impact of trauma, the journey to recovery, and the importance of purpose. This episode is not just Felicia’s transformation story but a beacon of hope, emphasizing the power of support, the significance of self-awareness, and the transformative power of finding one’s purpose through helping others. Amidst her challenges, Felicia’s journey is a testament to resilience, the possibility of change, and the importance of faith in personal recovery and renewal. SHOW NOTES This episode features a candid interview with Felicia Smith, who shares her harrowing yet enlightening journey from a challenging upbringing in Ohio to incarceration and eventually finding purpose and healing in Minnesota. Battling with undiagnosed mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and a gambling addiction, Felicia’s life spirals out of control, leading her to commit several bank robberies. Her turning point comes when she seeks help for her suicidal thoughts, leading to her diagnosis and the beginning of her path to recovery. Despite setbacks and the struggle to find effective treatment and support, Felicia’s story is one of resilience and transformation. She finds purpose in helping others while in prison and continues this mission upon release, advocating for mental health awareness and support. The episode also touches on the importance of faith, the power of second chances, and the significance of finding purpose in life’s challenges. TIMELINE 00:29 Behind the Scenes: Setting Up for the Show00:51 Introducing the Spotlight Series: From Surviving to Living01:10 Felicia’s Journey: From Unawareness to Mental Health Advocacy02:27 The Struggles of Growing Up in Poverty and Family Addiction03:32 Achieving Success Against the Odds04:20 The Downward Spiral: From Loss to Bank Robbery17:50 Confronting Mental Health: Diagnosis and the Road to Recovery19:51 The Thrill and Downfall of Bank Robberies21:18 The Turning Point: Arrest and Realization22:29 The Struggle for Rehabilitation in Incarceration30:16 Finding Purpose and Redemption32:10 Reflections on Change and Growth34:36 Exploring Faith and Mental Health

In this episode of the ‘From Surviving to Living Spotlight’ series podcast, the host is joined by her youngest son, Tim, for a deeply personal conversation. Tim shares his journey from being adopted in Washington to moving to Minnesota to reconnect with his biological family. He discusses the complexities of adoption, his struggle with social skills and isolation after long periods in foster care, and the challenges he faced transitioning into adulthood, including finding employment and adjusting to new environments. Tim also talks about significant moments in his life, such as dealing with medical issues in foster care, the impact of having his birth parents’ rights terminated, and the importance of family connections. The conversation touches on his aspirations, struggles with independence, and the importance of familial support and understanding. This episode sheds light on the realities of foster care, adoption, and the power of resilience and family bonds. SHOW NOTES Finding Family and Overcoming the Foster Care System This episode of the ‘From Surviving to Living’ podcast series features an intimate and revealing conversation between the host and her youngest son, Tim. The narrative explores Tim’s journey from being adopted in Washington to moving back to Minnesota to live with his biological mother. It details the complexities and emotional challenges of his adoption, foster care experiences, and the difficult transition to adulthood, including his struggle with social skills and adjusting to a new life. Tim also shares insights into the impact of foster care on holidays and birthdays, his attempts at employment, and the importance of maintaining contact with biological family throughout his life. The episode highlights themes of resilience, the significance of family bonds, overcoming adversity, and the ongoing process of healing and finding one’s place in the world. TIMELINE00:10 Welcome to the Spotlight Series: A Journey from Surviving to Living00:22 Tim’s Story: From Adoption to Reunion01:23 The Emotional Rollercoaster of Moving and Reconnecting03:21 Navigating Life’s Challenges: Jobs, Independence, and Family Dynamics04:04 The Harsh Realities of Foster Care and Finding Strength08:31 Rebuilding Family Bonds: Letters, Holidays, and Healing24:55 Embracing New Beginnings: Moving In, Adjusting, and Growing Together29:18 Reflecting on the Journey: Challenges Overcome and Future Aspirations34:01 Closing Thoughts: Love, Hope, and the Power of Family

This episode of the ‘From Surviving to Living’ podcast features Holly Bot interviewing Nena Harvath about the challenging yet rewarding journey of trusting God for provision in all aspects of life, including emotional, physical, and financial needs. Nena shares her personal testimony from accepting Jesus at a young age, through her struggles with self-reliance and facing financial hardship, to ultimately experiencing profound moments of spiritual growth and understanding. She discusses the transformative power of forgiveness, the significance of gratitude, and learning to align her desires with God’s will. Nena’s story illustrates how facing trials with faith can lead to a deeper relationship with God and a true sense of contentment and provision. SHOW NOTES Finding Trust and Provision in God Through Life’s Struggles In this episode of the ‘From Surviving to Living Spotlight’ podcast, host Holly Bot interviews guest Nena Harvath about the theme of trusting God to provide for all needs, including emotional, physical, and financial ones. Nena shares her journey from an early assurance of faith at six years old through personal trials including her husband’s unemployment, feelings of jealousy and inadequacy, and ultimately, the foreclosure of their home. She discusses the transformational realization of depending solely on God for provision rather than on her husband or herself, and how this trust in God brought her peace and contentment, even in the face of financial ruin and a challenging marriage that ended in divorce. Throughout her story, Nena emphasizes key themes such as forgiveness, the importance of thankfulness, and the profound experience of learning to rely fully on God’s provision, which eventually led to a deeper understanding and peace in her relationship with God. TIMELINE00:09 Welcome to the Spotlight Podcast: Trusting God’s Provision01:03 Nina’s Journey: From Childhood Faith to Adult Challenges04:10 The Struggle with Self-Reliance and the Desire for More09:10 A Turning Point: Facing Financial Crisis and Finding Faith13:33 The Journey of Trust: Learning to Rely on God’s Provision17:58 Overcoming Hidden Sins and Embracing God’s True Provision23:41 Deepening Faith Through Challenges and God’s Assurance25:54 Understanding God’s Guidance and Confirming His Presence26:17 A Journey to the End of Self and the Beginning of Faith27:36 The Dream That Foretold Three Major Losses29:33 Finding Contentment Through Gratitude and Trust in God47:56 The Power of Forgiveness and Letting Go51:46 Reflecting on the Journey and Encouraging Others

In this episode of ‘Surviving to Living,’ the host interviews Sarah Michelson, who shares her life journey from a challenging upbringing in a religious family to her struggles with identity, perfectionism, and relationships. Raised by a pastor father and a narcissistic mother, Sarah battles with her self-worth, leading to multiple marriages and a constant search for perfection. Her discovery of integrated attachment theory offers a breakthrough, inspiring her pursuit of certification as an attachment theory coach. Sarah discusses the impact of her childhood, her journey towards understanding her attachment style, and the transformative power of self-awareness and healing. Throughout the episode, the importance of authentic living, self-compassion, and the role of faith in her healing process are emphasized. Resources for viewers interested in exploring integrated attachment theory and improving their own attachment styles are also provided. SHOW NOTES Sarah’s Journey Through Attachment, Identity, and Spiritual Growth This episode of ‘From Surviving to Living’ features an in-depth interview with Sarah Michelson, who shares her life story, beginning with her upbringing in Wisconsin by a pastor father and a stay-at-home mother with narcissistic traits. Sarah navigates through her experiences of marriages, identifying with being a perfect wife and mother, and dealing with her own and her family’s attachment styles. She discusses how she found solace and answers in integrated attachment theory and is training to become a coach in the field. Sarah opens up about her struggles with narcissistic abuse, betrayal, and seeking perfection, which she thought would bring her happiness and fulfill societal expectations. Her journey leads her to self-discovery, understanding her core wounds, and learning the importance of healthy coping mechanisms and secure attachment styles. By reflecting on her past with compassion and working towards self-improvement, Sarah embarks on a path of healing and helping others, underscored by her deep faith and a closer connection to God. This transformative narrative highlights the power of self-awareness, the impact of our upbringing on adult relationships, and the constant pursuit of authenticity and spiritual growth. TIMELINE 11:08 The Journey Towards Secure Attachment19:29 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Therapy Experiences21:00 Unpacking Core Wounds and Parenting Challenges21:58 Apologies and Healing in Family Dynamics22:35 Shifting Parenting Styles and Embracing Change26:43 Personal Growth and Understanding Attachment Styles31:55 Embracing Emotions and Overcoming Coping Mechanisms39:12 Finding Healing and Purpose Through Faith

This episode features a profound conversation about overcoming trials and suffering through faith, showcasing Brenda’s harrowing yet inspiring journey. From experiencing severe abuse and contemplating suicide to ultimately finding refuge and purpose in God, Brenda shares her transformative story. Highlighting key biblical insights on suffering, faith, and God’s promises, the discussion also delves into Brenda’s work with women affected by abuse and her ministry for those transitioning from prison. Through her testimony, viewers are invited to explore the depth of God’s comfort and the power of personal transformation grounded in faith. SHOW NOTES This episode features a poignant conversation between the host, Holly Bot, and Brenda, discussing the theme of human suffering and God’s response from a biblical perspective. Brenda shares her harrowing personal story of abuse, loss, and survival, highlighting her journey from a life filled with trials and suffering to one of healing and purpose through faith. Starting with her early life moving from Mississippi to Chicago, Brenda recounts experiences of domestic abuse, the tragic murder of her brother, and her moments of desperation, including an attempt to escape her abuser and contemplating suicide. Despite these challenges, she describes finding strength and redemption through prayer, a developing relationship with God, and the eventual finding of true love and purpose in helping others. Brenda’s story exemplifies the process of turning pain into purpose, demonstrating how faith and community support can guide one through suffering to find hope, healing, and the ability to help others in similar situations. TIMELINE00:56 Opening Moments: Setting the Stage01:46 Brenda’s Harrowing Journey of Suffering and Survival03:00 Finding Strength and Escape: A Tale of Resilience13:57 The Turning Point: Embracing Faith and Freedom15:58 Understanding Love and Overcoming Misconceptions20:10 Life After Liberation: New Beginnings and Realizations21:53 The Journey of Faith and Ministry23:04 Embracing Challenges and Finding Strength25:02 The Power of Love, Joy, and Kindness29:10 The Role of Suffering and Brokenness in Growth36:59 Supporting Women in Transition: A Ministry of Hope44:33 The Impact of Giving and Receiving Comfort47:08 Reflections and Future Aspirations

This episode tells the story of an individual who struggled with addiction and reached a turning point by seeking treatment at Fairview Recovery. He shares his transformative journey of surrendering to Christ, overcoming depression through self-education and focusing on helping others. The narrative emphasizes the power of humility, finding one’s gifts, and the belief that God’s grace is capable of rewriting anyone’s story. Through engaging in work, jail ministry, and addiction recovery efforts, he discovers the healing impact of serving others and the continuous opportunity for personal growth and redemption. SHOW NOTES Transformation through Trials: A Journey from Addiction to Redemption In this episode of ‘From Surviving to Living’, we explore the problem of pride through the lens of a guest named Dan, tracing his journey from a life marred by addiction, violence, and self-destruction to one of redemption, healing, and service. Growing up in Racine, Wisconsin, Dan’s turn from a troubled youth experimenting with drugs to a life-threatening addict marks a significant portion of his narrative. His transformation begins with a pivotal moment of clarity under a table, high on cocaine, leading to his decision to seek treatment. This decision is catalyzed by a woman’s condition to change his lifestyle if he wished to be with her. Dan’s path takes a turn towards the spiritual upon encountering a caring family during his recovery, who introduce him to Christianity, reshaping his worldview and sense of self. His subsequent journey involves self-improvement, occupying himself with work, and eventually finding success in sales and management while nurturing a renewed relationship with God. Dan shares insights on overcoming pride and anger through faith and humility, attributing his success to continuous self-education, a supportive community, and the transformative power of God’s grace. The episode underscores the messages that it’s never too late for change, the importance of confronting personal fears, and the continuous journey of self-discovery and growth. TIMELINE00:18 The Problem of Pride: Dan’s story of addiction and recovery09:02 A New Life Begins: Embracing Change and Finding Purpose17:41 The Power of Humility: Overcoming Pride and Anger23:31 Transforming Through Continuous Learning and Ministry