Ritual Alchemist

What does it look like to build a life rooted in stewardship instead of ownership? In this episode, we share the evolution of our platonic life partnership, from navigating spiritual awakenings and the dissolution of our marriages to co-creating a new way of living, working, and building community together.We explore the messy, transformative work of self-ownership, authentic communication, rupture and repair, and why building a new world starts with the work we do within ourselves. We also share the vision behind The Patriarchy Purge and how we're creating new models for matriarchal living, collective care, and deeper connection.The future we're dreaming of isn't something we wait for. It's something we practice together.Get on the Patriarchy Purge 101 Waitlist: https://doulas-of-a-new-earth.kit.com/d876ff3033 Enrollment for Patriarchy Purge 101 opens November 5, 2026 and the program begins November 15, 2026. Join our free Patreon community: https://www.patreon.com/c/RitualAlchemist

This conversation with Iris and Ginger for The Nurture Pod is all about exiting the old systems and creating a new world.Check out The Nurture PodJoin our Free Patreon Join the Patriarchy Purge Waitlist

In this episode of Ritual Alchemist, Brittany and Ellee discuss the intricate journey of living life fully awake and present. They delve into the nuances of personal awakening, the importance of owning one's truth, and the challenges of breaking free from external validations and expectations. Through personal anecdotes and insightful reflections, they highlight the significance of self-trust, inner authority, and authentic living. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-honesty, the courage to make choices aligned with one's true desires, and the liberation that comes from stepping into one's sovereignty. Listeners are invited to explore their own inner landscapes and join a community that supports authentic living and personal growth.Time Stamps00:38 Dreams and Daydreams: A Reflection01:39 The Fear of Owning What You Want03:31 High School Reflections and Social Dynamics05:21 Breaking Free from External Judgments07:09 Medical Emergency and Self-Care09:42 The Pride in Suffering and Self-Denial12:24 Manifestation and Personal Boundaries16:05 The Importance of Honoring Your Truth18:59 The Consequences of Not Speaking Your Truth20:30 Breaking the Silence: Period Stigma21:10 Conditioning and Self-Perception21:38 Navigating Reality and Inner Authority22:49 Advocacy and Self-Expression24:12 Harnessing and Integrating Rage25:32 The Power of Speaking Your Truth26:36 Authenticity and Inner Authority28:04 The Journey of Self-Discovery32:06 The Importance of Inner Work38:42 Final Thoughts and Community Connection

In this episode, Brittany and Ellee discuss their journeys through spiritual awakening, detailing their transitions from structured religious upbringings to more authentic, spiritually fulfilling lives. They reflect on their past experiences with religion, the constraints they felt, pivotal moments of transformation, and the challenges and joys of living fully awake. Sharing personal stories and insights, they offer encouragement and solidarity to others on similar paths, emphasizing the importance of true self-discovery and autonomy.Timestamps:00:28 The Language of Awakening00:55 Embracing Magic and Identity01:59 Religious Upbringings and Personal Growth03:39 Brittany's Path to Spirituality11:32 Ellie's Spiritual Evolution17:24 Expanding Beliefs and Healing22:48 Challenging Traditional Views25:13 A Secret Struggle26:29 The Turning Point26:57 The End of a Relationship27:46 A Parallel Path28:46 Missionary Work in Africa31:01 Spiritual Awakening32:12 Leaving Africa33:18 A New Beginning34:29 Trusting Your Intuition35:10 Living Authentically36:54 Breaking Free from Control46:41 Embracing Pain and Joy48:25 Final Thoughts and SupportConnect with us on Instagram or TikTok @RitualAlchemist

In this episode, we explore the polarity between what we call “dark magic” and “light magic”—not in the occult sense, but as energetic forces rooted in unconscious taking vs. conscious giving. We unpack nervous system regulation, church conditioning, manipulative tendencies that masquerade as kindness, and why radical honesty is essential to integrity and connection. You’ll hear real stories, practical reframes, and spiritual insight on how to patch your leaky bucket, release shame, and show up in your fullness. This is soul alchemy in action.Timestamps01:30 What is “dark magic”? The energy of unconscious taking08:09 There is no arrival—why the work is lifelong14:06 Self-sovereignty: owning your right to exist16:00 Flipping the script on “Why does this keep happening to me?”23:12 Church conditioning: manipulation disguised as righteousness26:30 Everything you ever wanted… you’re here to give to yourself43:05 Growth means changing your mind: evolution requires it47:40 No arrival, only integration: you're always in processJoin us on Instagram and TikTok @RitualAlchemist and on Patreon at Patreon.com/RitualAlchemist