Go Have Good Sex featuring The Christian Sexpert

What do headphones, wipe warmers, weighted stuffies, smart bulbs, and DripSticks have in common? They can all make sex better!In this episode of Go Have Good Sex, we're talking about practical, everyday accommodations that can make intimacy more comfortable, accessible, and enjoyable for neurodivergent people and their partners.Forget vague advice to just relax, get out of your head, or be more spontaneous. We're getting into the actual stuff you can put in your bedroom to address sensory overload, temperature sensitivities, distracting sounds, executive dysfunction, uncomfortable textures, and the dreaded post-sex cleanup.Forget vague advice to just relax, get out of your head, or be more spontaneous. We're getting into the actual stuff you can put in your bedroom to address sensory overload, temperature sensitivities, distracting sounds, executive dysfunction, uncomfortable textures, and the dreaded post-sex cleanup.Products referenced in this episode either come from my Amazon Storefront (making them affiliate links) - or Romantic Blessings - my Christian sex toy website partner. Use code SPERT10 for 10% off your purchase at Romantic Blessings.BlindfoldWeighted Sleep MaskLoop Switch 2Gun Range HeadphonesJLap Buds Over Ear HeadphonesWeighted BlanketWeighted Lap PadWeighted StuffieSmart BulbsEssential Oil DiffuserLittle OuchiesFinger Spinner RingSpiky Sensory RingsSensory StonesSpaghetti Strap ChemiseWiWi NightgownLace Trimmed GownBedside FanSpace HeaterLube / Oil DispenserNitrile GlovesLubricator InjectorsWaterproof Blanket/TowelsLiberator Fascinator Fluid Proof Toy Pad from Romantic BlessingsUse code SPERT10 for 10% off your purchase from Romantic Blessings!Bedside CaddyLiberator WedgeLife Hacking IGNFC TagsVisual TimerBondage Cuffs from Romantic BlessingsPatreonWipe WarmerDripsticksSqueaky ToysNose PlugTo support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.

Every time I turn around, I am finding people who want to improve their sex lives. They far too often think improvements will take too much time or effort. But, in today's episode of The Go Have Good Sex Podcast, I am giving you 20 surprisingly easy ways to reduce barriers to desire. Sometimes, the smallest changes can have the biggest impact. Some are practical. Some are playful. Some might make you wonder why you’ve never thought of them before.Better sex isn't always a new toy or technique. Sometimes, it's about changing your space so your brain can better access the desire you want to feel anyhow.So send this episode to your sweetie and decide what upgrades you will be implementing so you can Go Have Good Sex.Here are links to products referenced in this episode.(All are Amazon affiliate links)Color Changing Smart BulbEcho DotEssential Oil DiffuserHeated Mattress PadPortable FanHeated Oil DispenserTowel WarmerWaterproof BlanketHeat PackWipe WarmerBedroom Trash CanBedroom Mini FridgeHeadboard StoppersChild Safety LocksWhite Noise MachineLaundry HamperCharging BoxStorage OttomanOver the Door Jewelry ChestJoin my Patreon community to get even more educational content of the spicy variety!To support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.

The news this week is rife with stories of sexual harm. And we NEED to talk to our kids about sexual harm - but we need to get it right.Last week, I talked to Kristen Miele of Sex Ed Reclaimed, and we discussed how porn is connected to male entitlement, and leads to a path of sexual abuse.But, in this conversation with Sarah McDugal, we talked about what happens when the message "porn is abuse" goes too far. Just like purity culture took a good and correct message and harmed girls by taking things too far - are we doing the same thing with our sons, by saying that anyone who has seen porn is an abuser? And what happens when we use language that doesn't accurately describe the harm we are trying to prevent?If we want to protect our children from sexual harm, we need to understand what sexual harm actually is. That means teaching consent clearly, recognizing abuse for what it is, and refusing to let fear replace education.Because getting this wrong doesn't just create bad arguments on the internet. It can affect how people understand their own experiences, how they treat others, and whether they recognize when something is actually wrong.As a note: This conversation is in no way making porn use okay. It is discussing HOW we talk about porn and related issues with our son. It is a nuanced conversation, and we hope it brings clarity to the conversations you will have with your children.Connect with Sarah:WebsiteFacebookInstagramTikTokYouTubeItems Referenced in this Episode:Article by Dr. Andrew J BaumanRecovering From Purity Culture Dismantle the Myths, Reject Shame-Based Sexuality, and Move Forward in Your Faith by Dr. Camden Morgante(Amazon Aff Link)The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Wray Gregoire(Amazon Aff Link)
She Deserves Better by Sheila Wray Gregoire(Amazon Aff Link)Every Man's Battle One Sheet from Bare MarriageHow Does Every Man's Battle Enable Abuse by Sarah McDugalResearch Study: Neural substrates of sexual arousal are not sex dependent: Mitricheva, Kiura, Logothetis, & Noori, 2019The Sex Talk You Never Got: Reclaiming the Heart of Masculine Sexuality by Sam Jolman(Amazon Aff Link)Good Pictures Bad Pictures: Porn Proofing Today’s Young Kids by Kristen A Jenson (Amazon Aff Link)Good Pictures Bad Pictures Jr: A Simple Plan to Protect Young Minds by Kristen A. Jenson(Amazon Aff Link)Empower Your Child Workshop by Sarah McDugalSex Ed Reclaimed(Aff link)Raising Sexually Healthy Kids ft Dr. Ashley HudsonTalking to Your Kids About Sex ft Dr. Ashley HudsonSex Education for Tweens & Teens ft Kristen MieleBeyond the Sex Talk: Relationship Skills You Forgot to Teach Your Kids ft Ruby Falk, MA, LPCConsent, Kids, & The Cornell 7 ft Kristen Miele of Sex Ed ReclaimedPrevious Go Have Good Sex episodes about raising sexually healthy kids:Raising Sexually Healthy Kids ft Dr. Ashley HudsonTalking to Your Kids About Sex ft Dr. Ashley HudsonSex Education for Tweens & Teens ft Kristen MieleBeyond the Sex Talk: Relationship Skills You Forgot to Teach Your Kids ft Ruby Falk, MA, LPCConsent, Kids, & The Cornell 7 ft Kristen Miele of Sex Ed ReclaimedTo support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.

Welcome back to Season 3 of The Go Have Good Sex Podcast. I had a completely different episode planned for this first one, but with all of the news about the Cornell 7 sexual assault case dominating my newsfeed, I knew we needed to talk about it.Specifically, how do we teach our kids about consent? No one looks at their sweet baby in their arms and thinks that one day they could grow up to coordinate a gang rape on SnapChat. But it happens. So how do we teach our kids about consent when they are young?Kristen Miele, founder of Sex Ed Reclaimed is joining me today to talk about why consent is more than "no means no," group think, and seeing others as an image bearer of Christ, rather than something for personal consumption.Because teaching kids about consent isn’t teaching them to have sex.It’s teaching them that their bodies matter, other people’s bodies matter, and healthy relationships require respect, communication, and consent.Click here for the Sex Ed Reclaimed curriculum.To connect with Kristen on socials:FacebookInstagramTo support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.

Some of the best conversations happen when you ask the questions.In this Ask Me Anything episode, I tackle four honest questions that many Christians are asking but few feel comfortable saying out loud.What do you do when purity culture left you without the words to tell your spouse what you want in the bedroom? How do you reconnect after having a baby when exhaustion, different schedules, and a baby in your room seem to kill every opportunity for intimacy? What if you're an autistic husband who struggles to recognize your wife's signals or initiate sex? And how do you parent with both truth and grace when your child makes a sexual decision you never wanted for them?This episode is full of practical advice, biblical perspective, and plenty of reassurance that healthy intimacy isn't about perfection—it's about learning, growing, communicating, and extending grace to ourselves and the people we love.Whether you're healing from purity culture, navigating a new season of marriage, or wrestling with questions you've never known how to ask, this conversation will remind you that you're not alone.This is the final episode of Season 2 of the Go Have Good Sex Podcast. I am taking a break for the summer, and will be back in the fall with lots of new conversations about sex & intimacy in Christian marriage! If you will simply miss me too much over the summer, join my Patreon where I will still be posting regularly!And don't forget to Go Have Good Sex this summer!Resources referenced in this episode:She Deserves Better by Gregoire, Lindenbach, & Sawatsky(Aff link)The Marriage You Want by Gregoire & Gregoire(Aff link)Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski(Aff link)Intimate Conversations31 Days of IntimacyConversation Cards(Aff link)Ditch Date Night PodcastSmart Color Changing Light Bulb(Aff link)Color Changing Light Bulb with Remote(Aff link)Private Coaching with AngelaTalking to Your Kids About Sex Without Shame by Dr. Ashley HudsonSex Ed ReclaimedAmazon Storefront for Talking to Your Kids About Sex(Aff link)To support me, The Christian Sexpert, make sure you are checking out all of my resources, and of course, a Cash App gift helps me do all these things you love! ⁠⁠Website⁠⁠⁠Book Coaching with Angela Facebook TikTok Instagram YouTube Podcast Patreon CashApp⁠⁠ $TheChristianSexpertNote: These show notes contain external links to products and services. The Christian Sexpert may receive a commission for purchases made through these links.