The Joevelocity Show

(00:00:00) We read Reddit r/AITA Stories: Hidden College Letters and Canine Capers (00:00:40) Intro (00:02:34) AITA for refusing to ground my daughter? (00:08:29) AITA for an escaped pet? (00:20:33) AITA for going to another graphic designer after not getting mates rates from my friend? (00:27:41) AITA for expecting friends to do things in their field for free? On the 7th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined once again by his mother Sharon, and we discuss some r/AITA stories from Reddit.Brought to you by: Old Glory offers over 300,000 items for music, sports, entertainment, and pop culturefans, featuring officially licensed merch from iconic bands and top sports teams.Discover your perfect fan gear and save 15% with the exclusive discount code JOEVELOCITY at https://oldglory.com.• AITA for refusing to ground my daughter?In the first story, a 34-year-old mother questions whether she's in the wrong for not punishing her daughter, Kylie, after she hid her boyfriend Wes's college acceptance letters. Sharon and Joe explore the ethical implications of Kylie's actions, discussing how she may have intercepted the mail and the serious consequences it might have for Wes's future. Sharon passionately argues that the mother should discipline Kylie to teach her about accountability and empathy, stressing that a heartfelt apology to Wes and his family is necessary. They also consider the potential financial impact if scholarship offers were involved, and Sharon suggests that Kylie might benefit from counseling to understand her motivations. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing wrongful behavior and ensuring young people learn from their mistakes.• AITA for an escaped pet?Next, we addresses the relatable challenges of pet ownership, highlighting a specific incident where a friend's dog escaped, leading to tensions between friends. We explore how escape-prone pets can cause stress, as well as the responsibilities of pet owners in securing their animals. Stories of past pet escapades are shared, including a massive neighbor's dog that was a handful to manage and the antics of adventurous cats and dogs testing boundaries. We touch on the joys and headaches of having indoor pets and the risks and surprises that come with allowing them outside. The discussion underscores the importance of vigilance, patience, and understanding when it comes to our furry companions, as well as the unexpected bonds and humorous situations they bring into our lives.• AITA for going to another graphic designer after not getting mates rates from my friend?Continuing on, we address the complexities of mixing friendships with business transactions. In this story a friend in graphic design doesn't offer a discounted rate, leading to feelings of betrayal when a friend seeks a better deal elsewhere. The discussion highlights the challenges of balancing friendship with professional obligations, emphasizing that businesses should be treated professionally even when friends are involved. • AITA for expecting friends to do things in their field for free?Finally, a tech professional often helps friends for free but is surprised when a lawyer friend charges for legal advice. This situation raises questions about the expectations of free services among friends and the value of professional work. Both stories highlight the need for clear boundaries and mutual respect in friendships when professional services are involved.Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss an episode! For access to all of our websites, visit us at joevelocity.com

(00:00:00) Intro (00:03:55) AITJ for emergency braking? (00:12:20) AITJ for how I handled a frustrating situation at the pharmacy? (00:21:08) AITJ for not wanting to pursue my dream job because my wife sacrificed hers? (00:28:34) AITJ for not being mad at my daughter and thinking she's actually pretty funny? (00:37:31) Ending On the 6th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his mother Sharon, and we discuss some r/AITJ parties stories from Reddit.Brought to you by: Old Glory offers over 300,000 items for music, sports, entertainment, and pop culturefans, featuring officially licensed merch from iconic bands and top sports teams.Discover your perfect fan gear and save 15% with the exclusive discount code JOEVELOCITY at https://oldglory.com.• AITJ for emergency braking?We start with a situation involving an emergency stop to avoid hitting a cat, which led to a minor disagreement. We debate whether the driver's actions were justified, considering the safety concerns and the instinctive nature of the reaction. It's a blend of lighthearted banter and thoughtful discussion on responsibility and reflexes in tricky situations.• AITJ for how I handled a frustrating situation at the pharmacy?Next, we explore a situation at a pharmacy where a customer, who prefers privacy regarding her medications, encountered an issue when a pharmacy clerk insisted on having her state her first name aloud, despite her handing over her ID. We discuss the discomfort and potential privacy concerns, touching on the possibility of HIPAA violations when pharmacy staff are not discreet about personal information. Suggestions for handling such situations, including asking for a supervisor or pharmacist, are considered. Additionally, we reflect on the lack of privacy in pharmacies generally, with anecdotes about how medication details are sometimes spoken aloud, prompting some individuals to opt for mail-order prescriptions to maintain their privacy.• AITJ for not wanting to pursue my dream job because my wife sacrificed hers?This chapter explores a complex situation faced by a man who is torn between pursuing his dream job at a game studio and staying with his wife, Emily, who has put her own dreams on hold to support her family. We reflect on the man's internal struggle and the sacrifices both partners have made, questioning whether he is being fair to himself or if he might end up resenting his decision to stay. We discuss the dynamics of their relationship, the need for open communication, and the potential benefits of seeking counseling to address their conflicting aspirations. Ultimately, we ponder the importance of balancing personal dreams with relationship commitments, highlighting the need for a shared vision for the future.AITJ for not being mad at my daughter and thinking she's actually pretty funny?In our Moment of Conclusion, we explore a situation where a 12-year-old daughter repeatedly uses a word her parents disapprove of, leading to disagreements between her mother and father on how to handle the behavior. While the mother insists on punishment to deter attention-seeking behavior, the father believes ignoring it will make the daughter lose interest. The conversation highlights the importance of parental unity in setting boundaries and addresses the awkwardness parents feel when their children use language associated with growing up and sexuality. It also touches on the potential differences in parental reactions based on the child's gender.Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss an episode! New episodes drop every Monday.For access to all of our websites, visit us at joevelocity.com

(00:00:00) We Read Reddit r/AITA stories: Toxic Partners & Hidden Phones (00:00:15) Intro/General Discussion (00:08:18) My FWB no longer wants to have sex with me but wants to remain friends (00:15:11) AITA for considering ending a 5 year long relationship over how my GF treated me on my birthday? (00:22:26) I found out my husband had a second phone and now I don’t trust anything (00:26:05) My husband told me I am lucky he hasn’t cheated On episode 5 of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba and we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• General DiscussionOur conversation begins with lighthearted remarks about in-studio guest audio quality improvements and the challenges of recording in hot weather. Hubba shares their experience with  training in Pittsburgh's Strip District, highlighting the area's vibrant community and the growth of the local filmmaking industry. The discussion transitions to personal anecdotes about career paths, including a shift from video to audio work and hands-on carpentry training. Workplace dynamics are explored through stories of supportive training environments and past experiences with challenging colleagues. The narrative also touches on the Joe's decade-long tenure at their current company, their decision to avoid managerial roles, and the balance between professional and personal pursuits. Themes of authenticity, self-identity, and the importance of staying true to oneself are emphasized as keys to success and fulfillment. • My FWB no longer wants to have sex with me but wants to remain friends.In the Reddit AITA stories, we begin with a scenario where the poster's FWB decides to cease sexual relations while trying to maintain a friends-without-benefits arrangement, leading to hurt feelings and the eventual dissolution of the friendship. This raises questions about the transactional nature of their bond and the cultural trend of ghosting as a way to end relationships. The discussion expands to the emotional impact of silent treatment and ghosting, highlighting their severity and the importance of respectful communication when ending relationships.• AITA for considering ending a 5 year long relationship over how my GF treated me on my birthday?We examine a relationship scenario where one partner's repeated self-centered actions, including dismissive behavior on the other's birthday, reveal a pattern of manipulation and disregard for emotional well-being. Examples such as mishandling a partner's phobia further illustrate the strain caused by a lack of empathy and consideration, emphasizing the need for individuals to prioritize their emotional health and establish boundaries to avoid future heartache in relationships with self-centered partners.• I found out my husband had a second phone and now I don’t trust anything.Next is the story of a woman who discovers her husband's hidden second phone, leading to trust issues and speculation about infidelity. The husband's defensive behavior and lack of transparency raise concerns about the foundation of their marriage. Commenters emphasize the difficulty of rebuilding trust after deception and speculate on the implications of the husband's actions. • And in the Moment of Conclusion, my husband told me I am lucky he hasn’t cheated.Finally, we discuss another scenario where a woman struggles with intimacy after childbirth, facing her husband's frustration and hurtful comments. This highlights societal pressures on body image and the importance of emotional support in relationships. Efforts to rekindle romance through compliments and flirty behavior are met with mixed responses, underscoring the need for mutual appreciation and understanding. he chapter concludes by reinforcing that fidelity and love should be based on deeper qualities beyond physical appearance, and warns against the consequences of negative behavior in relationships. Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss an episode! New episodes drop every Monday.Need more Joevelocity in your life? Visit joevelocity.com for access to all our sites and content.

(00:00:00) We read Reddit r/AITA stories: Language, Lasagna, and Life's Surprises (00:00:16) Intro (00:02:35) AITA for telling my friend to stop policing my language? (00:07:35) AITA for drinking a 6 pack of O'Doul's every morning? (00:15:50) AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could? (00:20:05) AITA for clearing out my ex-boyfriend’s childhood room in the home where he grew up? (00:26:50) Ending On the 4th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba and we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• AITA for telling my friend to stop policing my language?We start off with a Reddit story where we explore the dilemma of whether it's right to allow a friend to police one's language, particularly when it comes to using mild curse words or expressions like "oh my God." We share personal experiences with similar situations, highlighting the importance of allowing friends to express themselves freely without unwarranted corrections, while balancing respect for each other's boundaries. Through this discussion, we examine the dynamics of friendship and the nuances of respecting individual language preferences.• AITA for drinking a 6 pack of O'Doul's every morning?Next, the conversation shifts to a story about a recovering alcoholic who brings non-alcoholic beer to work as part of his sobriety routine, sparking complaints from colleagues and a meeting with HR. The debate highlights differing perceptions of non-alcoholic beer in a professional setting and raises questions about fairness and workplace norms.• AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?We explore the tale of a college student who took his girlfriend's entire tray of homemade lasagna home to his family, only to discover she had planned to eat it throughout the week due to her tight food budget. Listeners weigh in on the ethical implications and offer their judgments, largely siding against the student's actions and labeling him as inconsiderate. The narrative highlights the importance of communication and consideration in relationships. • And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for clearing out my ex-boyfriend’s childhood room in the home where he grew up?Finally, we examine a more intricate scenario involving a woman who moved in with her ex-boyfriend's father, who is now her significant other. The story promises a complex dynamic, teasing us with the potential drama and ethical considerations of cleaning out the childhood room of her ex-boyfriend. This chapter engages with themes of responsibility, respect, and the unexpected twists of personal relationships.Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss an episode! New episodes drop every Monday.Need more Joevelocity in your life? Visit joevelocity.com for access to all our sites and content.

(00:00:00) We read Reddit r/AITA stories: Unveiling Secrets and Setting Boundaries (00:00:15) Intro (00:01:12) AITA for demanding my friend pay back the money I loaned her for her trip because she's now posting about a luxury vacat (00:07:57) AITA for laughing at what my co-worker said when I thought it was a joke? (00:14:43) AITA because I stopped answering the phone? (00:26:07) AITA for exposing the fact that my homophobic uncle uses Grindr during Thanksgiving dinner? (00:34:41) Ending On the 3rd episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his guest Hakeem as we discuss some more stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• AITA for demanding my friend pay back the money I loaned her for her trip because she's now posting about a luxury vacation?We start off with a lively discussion about the complexities of lending money to friends, featuring a story where someone is struggling to get back $2,000 loaned to a friend for an emergency. We explore the frustrations and challenges of seeing that friend post about a luxury vacation without paying back the loan. Joe and Hakeem debate whether asking for repayment makes someone an "asshole" and share insights on handling loans among friends, including the wisdom of treating such loans as gifts to avoid disappointment. There's a consensus that setting clear expectations and having written agreements can prevent misunderstandings. We also touch on personal experiences with family loans and the importance of managing expectations when lending money.• AITA for laughing at what my co-worker said when I thought it was a joke?Next, we examine a workplace incident where a manager, Joe, insists on employees responding with "yes" instead of "sure" to demonstrate compliance with orders. We explore the dynamics between Joe, another manager, and their employee, Ryan, questioning if Joe's approach is unnecessarily rigid. The conversation touches on the nuances of workplace communication and authority, suggesting that Joe might be overreacting and should perhaps lighten up. We also discuss broader issues of micromanagement, with anecdotes highlighting absurd management practices, such as excessive logging of bathroom breaks. These stories underscore the importance of fostering a respectful and understanding work environment rather than one that imposes unnecessary control, suggesting that micromanagement can lead to dissatisfaction and a desire to seek employment elsewhere.• AITA because I stopped answering the phone?We explore the complexities of managing friendships where one person may be overly dependent emotionally. We discuss the challenges of being seen as an emotional support object and the importance of setting boundaries to maintain personal well-being. We also reflect on how life events, such as job loss, can lead to emotional unraveling and how therapy can serve as a beneficial tool for self-care. Sharing personal experiences, Hakeem highlight the value of finding the right therapist and how engaging in therapy can offer valuable insights and support. Ultimately, the chapter underscores the importance of recognizing when professional help is needed and the difficulties in taking the first step toward seeking therapy.• And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for exposing the fact that my homophobic uncle uses Grindr during Thanksgiving dinner?Finally, we navigate a compelling dilemma faced by an 18-year-old who discovers his homophobic uncle on Grindr, a gay hookup app, and the subsequent fallout during a tense Thanksgiving dinner. The story highlights themes of hypocrisy, family dynamics, and the complex choices we face when confronting prejudice. We discuss whether the young man was justified in exposing his uncle's secret, considering the persistent homophobic abuse he endured. The conversation also touches on the implications for the uncle's marriage and the wider family, raising questions about morality and the appropriate ways to handle such situations. Ultimately, we ponder if the act of exposing the uncle was warranted or if it might have been better to handle it privately.Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode—new episodes drop every Monday.Need more Joevelocity in your life? Visit joevelocity.com for access to all our sites and content.

(00:00:00) Intro (00:00:32) AITA for asking my brother to stop doing magic tricks at every family event? (00:07:16) AITA for refusing to go to my friend’s "no-phones dinner" after what happened last time? (00:15:30) AITA if I ask my wife to stop doing this weird roleplay? (00:23:11) My fiance has been selling my panties behind my back… (00:30:34) Ending On the 2nd episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by his guest Hubba and we discuss some more stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:• AITA for asking my brother to stop doing magic tricks at every family event?We kick off the show with a story about a woman questioning if she's in the wrong for asking her brother to tone down his magic tricks at family events. We explore the brother's constant need to perform, especially highlighted at their father's retirement dinner, and the family dynamics that ensue. We touch on the importance of reading the room and the delicate balance between passion and overstepping boundaries. We consider potential constructive outlets for his enthusiasm, such as volunteering at elder homes or performing for children, while sharing some personal insights into working with kids and their unpredictable yet genuine reactions.• AITA for refusing to go to my friend’s "no-phones dinner" after what happened last time?Next, Joe and Hubba explore the complexities of attending social events where phones are restricted, specifically focusing on a listener's dilemma about a friend's "no phones" dinner party. After missing an urgent call during a previous event, the listener feels conflicted about attending without a phone, especially when emergencies could arise. We weigh both sides, considering the host's desire for undistracted interaction against the necessity of being reachable. Additionally, we touch on the broader implications of phone use in social settings, including how constant phone use can disrupt meaningful interactions, illustrated by anecdotes from dating and concert experiences. The conversation underscores the balance between enjoying the present moment and the practicality of staying connected.• AITA if I ask my wife to stop doing this weird roleplay?Next, we explore a listener's dilemma about discovering their wife's intricate online role-playing hobby, which involves managing multiple fictional Facebook profiles. We unpack the husband's concerns about the strange yet harmless nature of her activity, debating whether he should ask her to stop. Through reading listener comments, we gain insight into the world of character creation, comparing it to the work of authors who develop elaborate backgrounds for their characters. We consider the creative aspect of this role-play and suggest approaching the wife with understanding and openness, acknowledging the importance of creative outlets for personal expression.• And in the Moment of Conclusion, my fiance has been selling my panties behind my back…In the Moment of Conclusion, we embark on a wild journey as we uncover the shocking discovery of a woman whose fiancé has been secretly selling her used panties on Craigslist to make extra money. Initially thinking her missing underwear was misplaced, she learns the unsettling truth when her fiancé admits his actions, claiming he intended to use the money to buy her a customized wedding band. However, things take a darker turn when she finds out he's also been posting semi-nude pictures of her without her consent to facilitate these sales. Feeling betrayed and exploited, she decides to end the engagement and seek support from her sister. The conversation touches on issues of trust, consent, and boundaries, emphasizing the emotional impact of such a violation.Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode—new episodes drop every Monday.Need more Joevelocity in your life? Visit joevelocity.com for access to all our sites and content.

(00:00:00) Intro (00:00:08) Navigating Friendships During Life Changes (00:07:53) Dealing With Unwanted Door-to-Door Salespeople (00:19:04) Feeding a Friend's Cat Dilemma (00:25:56) Navigating Bisexuality and LGBTQ+ Community On the first episode of The Joevelocity Show, listeners are taken on a journey through the intricate and often puzzling aspects of modern life. From the delicate balance of friendship to the challenges of setting personal boundaries, Joe and his guest, Hakeem, dive deep into issues that resonate with many.• AITA for being tired of my friend always requiring my attention?Friendship is a fundamental part of life, yet it can become unexpectedly complex, especially when personal circumstances change. Joe and Hakeem delve into a story from the "Am I the Asshole?" subreddit, examining a situation where one friend feels overwhelmed by another's emotional needs. This chapter explores the importance of communication and the necessity of setting boundaries, emphasizing that it's okay to prioritize one's own well-being, even if it means stepping back from a needy friend. The conversation sheds light on the guilt that can accompany such decisions and the importance of understanding when a friendship becomes too demanding. • AITA for being a dick to a door-to-door salesman?Switching gears, we tackle a common annoyance: door-to-door salespeople. Despite clear "no soliciting" signs, these salespeople often intrude on personal space, leading to frustration and disruption, especially for those with young children and pets. Joe and Hakeem share personal anecdotes and listener experiences, highlighting the struggle between earning a living and respecting homeowners' privacy. They offer strategies for dealing with these unwelcome visits, underscoring the importance of maintaining a peaceful home environment.• AITA for refusing to travel an hour to feed my friend’s cat?Switching gears, we tackle a common annoyance: door-to-door salespeople. Despite clear "no soliciting" signs, these salespeople often intrude on personal space, leading to frustration and disruption, especially for those with young children and pets. Joe and Hakeem share personal anecdotes and listener experiences, highlighting the struggle between earning a living and respecting homeowners' privacy. They offer strategies for dealing with these unwelcome visits, underscoring the importance of maintaining a peaceful home environment.• And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to go to gay pride?Finally, we venture into the realm of relationships and sexual identity, focusing on the experiences of individuals who identify as bisexual. Joe and Hakeem discuss the challenges that can arise in heterosexual relationships when one partner is bisexual, particularly the misunderstandings and misconceptions that can occur. They stress the importance of acceptance and support within partnerships, suggesting that attending Pride events together can foster greater understanding and solidarity. This conversation is a call for open communication and acceptance, encouraging listeners to embrace diverse identities within their relationships.Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show on your favorite podcast app and never miss an episode—new episodes drop every Monday.Need more Joevelocity in your life? Visit joevelocity.com for access to all our sites and content.

Welcome to The Joevelocity Show, a weekly podcast where Reddit meets reality, and sanity takes a vacation. I'm Joe, your overly opinionated host with a love for hot takes, wild internet drama, and deep-diving into the psychological mess that is people. Every week, I grab a rotating cast of friends, fellow chaos-enjoyers, and sometimes even experts to unpack the absolute madness of Reddit’s most infamous posts. We’re talking:• “Am I the Asshole?”• “Relationship Advice”• “Today I Fucked Up”• And every unhinged subreddit in between.Some stories will make you laugh, others will make you question humanity—and a few might even hit a little too close to home. But don’t worry, we’ll be right there with you, emotionally unstable and probably oversharing.If you’ve ever shouted at your phone during a Reddit post, this show is for you. If you’ve ever stayed up till 3AM reading comment threads... welcome home. So buckle up, subscribe, and come along for the ride.New episodes drop every Monday—find The Joevelocity Show wherever you get your podcasts.And remember:There are no bad opinions here—just ones I disagree with.