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SOLACE: Soul + Grief

Author: Candee Lucas

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This podcast is sponsored by SOULPLUSGRACE serving the San José/Santa Cruz area, offering grief support and grief journeying with spirituality.  I hope to help you travel through grief with God at your side. 

"I am a trained Spiritual Director for those who seek to complete the 19th Annotation of St. Igantius’ spiritual exercises OR seek spiritual direction while grieving.  I have also worked as a hospital/cemetery chaplain and grief doula. I believe all paths lead to God and that all traditions are due respect and honour. I take my sacred inspiration from all of my patients and companions–past, present and future; the Dalai Lama, James Tissot, St. John of the Cross, the Buddha, Saint Teresa of Ávila, and, of course, Íñigo who became known as St. Ignatius. I utilize art, poetry, music, aromatherapy, yoga, lectio divina, prayer and meditation in my self-work and work with others. I believe in creating a sacred space for listening; even in the most incongruous of surroundings."

BACKGROUND

  • Jesuit Retreat Center, Los Altos, CA -- Pierre Favre Program, 3 year training to give the Spiritual Exercises of Saint Ignatius
  • Centro de Espiritualidad de Loyola, Spain -- The Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius of Loyola -- 30 Day Silent Retreat
  • Center for Loss & Life Transition – Comprehensive Bereavement Skills Training (30 hrs) Ft. Collins, CO
  • California State University Institute for Palliative Care--Palliative Care Chaplaincy Specialty Cert. (90 hrs)
  • Sequoia Hospital, Redwood City, CA -- Clinical Pastoral Education
  • 19th Annotation with Fumiaki Tosu, San Jose, CA, Spiritual Exercises of St. Ignatius
  • Santa Clara University, Santa Clara, CA M.A. – Pastoral Ministries

CONTACT ME:  [email protected] with questions to be answered in future episodes.

































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Grief Spending

Grief Spending

2026-10-2312:00

Send us Fan Mail Grief can make a price tag feel like a moral test. When we are standing in a funeral home just days after a death, we are not only choosing a casket or an urn. We are trying to translate love, guilt, shock, and legacy into something that feels “enough,” and the options can quietly push us toward overspending. We walk through the prodigal son story as a parable of the “prodigal mourner,” and we get specific about how grief spending happens. A mahogany casket instead of pine. ...
Send us Fan Mail Grief can make you feel like you have to brace for impact every day, jaw tight, shoulders up, just trying to get through. We take a different path here: a slower, softer approach that trusts silence, tears, and the deep wisdom of the soul. Candee Lucas, a Jesuit trained spiritual director and grief chaplain, reads and reflects on “The Place of Rest,” a poem featured in The Longing in Between: Sacred Poetry from Around the World (edited with commentary by Ivan M. Grange...
Send us Fan Mail The hardest part of grief is not always what happened. Sometimes it’s what it demands from you afterward: action when you have no tools, or patience when there’s nothing you can do at all. We share a story drawn from the documented life of Jesuit priest Pedro Arrupe, told as historical fiction, set at the Jesuit novitiate outside Hiroshima on August 6, 1945. Arrupe has enough medical training to be dangerous and just enough to be useful, and after the blast he finds himself ...
Send us Fan Mail Grief comes with a lot of advice, and most of it has the same hidden goal: get away from the pain. Stay busy. Distract yourself. Find a lesson. But what if the more honest move is the opposite, not as a dare, but as a practice of compassion? We talk about Tonglen, a Tibetan Buddhist “sending and taking” meditation that turns our usual instincts upside down. On the in-breath, we breathe in the real texture of suffering, our own or someone else’s. On the out-breath, we breathe...
Send us Fan Mail Some rooms don’t reward you for showing up. The person you’re there to support might be frightened, angry, sarcastic, or completely shut down and if your ability to care depends on being liked, you won’t last long. Today we are naming the kind of love that can actually hold up under end-of-life care, hospice chaplaincy, and bereavement support: agape. Agape is love that doesn’t hinge on affection, attraction, familiarity, or shared theology. It’s a decision, repeated moment ...
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