Midlife Answers

Have you ever wondered what life coaching is really like, or whether it could help you navigate a period of change?In this episode of Midlife Answers, I’m joined by my RISE coaching client, Loulou, for an honest conversation about her experience of working with me.We talk about what drew her to coaching, what surprised her along the way, and what she’s taking from the experience as she moves into her next chapter.Loulou also shares the importance of having someone who can help you step back, create space, find clarity and sometimes see things from a completely different perspective.One thing she said really stayed with me:“You bringing me back to reclaim, recover, reset myself was a huge part of where I am now.”If you’ve ever been curious about coaching, or feel like something in your life needs to change but you’re not quite sure what comes next, this conversation is for you.Stay curious. You never know where it might lead.If you're feeling a bit stuck, unclear about what's next, or simply know that something needs to change, this is exactly the kind of work I explore with women through my RISE Midlife Reinvention Coaching programme.If you'd like to explore whether coaching could help, get in touch to book a free discovery call. No pressure or expectation — just a chance to have a chat and see if it feels right for you.Find out more at www.midlifeanswers.com or email [email protected] more about Loulou and her style work on Instagram: @louloustorey_stylistWant to explore coaching?

Have you ever found yourself looking outside yourself for love, validation or reassurance that you’re enough?In this episode of our midlife podcast for women, I’m joined by author Sacha Hughes, who shares her honest journey through grief, divorce, relationships, people pleasing and self-sabotage — and how she began to rebuild her relationship with herself.We talk about:• What self-sabotage can actually look like in everyday life• Why we can look to relationships and external validation to feel worthy• People pleasing, losing trust in our intuition and abandoning ourselves• How divorce can become a catalyst for finding yourself again• What self-love really means — and why it isn’t about perfection• Boundaries, protecting your energy and choosing yourself• How meditation and stillness can help you reconnect with yourselfSacha is the author of Love, Grief & More Sex Than Pinot.If you’re at a point where you’re wondering what’s next and ready to make some changes, my RISE Midlife Reinvention Coaching programme can help you find the clarity and confidence to move forward. Find out more at midlifeanswers.com.Have a midlife question you’d love covered? DM me @midlifeanswers.If this episode resonated with you, I’d love you to subscribe to *Midlife Answers* so you don’t miss the next question we explore. And if you know someone who might need to hear this conversation, please share it with them — it might be exactly what they need right now.If anything discussed brings up difficult feelings, please consider speaking with your GP, a healthcare professional, or a qualified therapist for personalised support.Sacha Hughes:Instagram: @sachahughes Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SachaHughesAuthorWebsite: www.sachahughes.com

Have you been feeling flat, disconnected or just not quite like yourself lately? How do you know whether it’s simply a difficult period, the demands of midlife or something more?In this episode of Midlife Answers, I’m joined by psychotherapist Holly Ziff, who specialises in anxiety, self-doubt and self-worth, for an honest conversation about depression in midlife.We talk about what depression can actually look and feel like, why it can be difficult to recognise when life is already busy and demanding, and what to do if you’re worried something isn’t quite right.Holly shares five questions to ask yourself if you’re concerned you might be depressed, as well as practical ways to seek support and start moving forward.In this episode, we discuss:The difference between feeling low, overwhelmed and experiencing depressionWhat emotional and physical numbness can look likeSigns of depression including loss of interest, low energy and changes in sleep or appetiteFive questions that can help you recognise when something may need further supportWhen to speak to your GP and what treatment and therapy options may look likeWhy shame can prevent people from asking for helpSmall, practical ways to reconnect with people, activities and the things that matter to youOne of Holly’s key messages is that you don’t have to wait until you feel better to start living well. Holly Ziff: www.hollyziff.com🎧 Listen to the full episode wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is for general information and discussion and is not a substitute for professional medical or mental-health advice. If you’re concerned about your mental health or think you may be experiencing depression, please speak to your GP or another qualified healthcare professional.

Could that evening glass of wine be doing more than helping you unwind?In this episode of Midlife Answers, I’m joined by Kate Bee, founder of The Sober School, former BBC journalist and certified Life Coach, to explore how our relationship with alcohol can change during perimenopause and menopause, and why it's not simply about willpower.Kate shares why so many women find themselves drinking more in midlife, the hidden role of stress, hormones and habit, and how alcohol can quietly affect everything from sleep and anxiety to mood and menopause symptoms.This isn't a conversation about labels, shame or giving up alcohol. It's about understanding what's happening, creating healthier patterns, and feeling empowered to make choices that work for you.We explore:Why alcohol can affect us differently during perimenopause and menopauseThe connection between hormones, stress and drinking habitsWhy changing your relationship with alcohol isn't about willpowerHow alcohol may be impacting your sleep, anxiety and menopause symptomsHow habits form—and the small changes that can help shift themCreating a healthier relationship with alcohol that feels right for youWhether you're questioning that nightly glass of wine or simply curious about how alcohol affects your body in midlife, this conversation offers practical insights without judgement.🎧 Follow this link to explore more episodes of Midlife Answers wherever you get your podcasts.You might also enjoy:Menopause 101: HRT, Symptoms & Mental Health #17Midlife Burnout: When Rest Isn't an Option #23✨ RISE is my coaching programme designed to help women navigate midlife with greater confidence, clarity and self-belief. Through one-to-one coaching, we'll help you reconnect with who you are, overcome what's holding you back and move confidently into your next chapter. Discover more at midlifeanswers.com.☕ If you enjoy Midlife Answers and would like to support the podcast, you can buy me a coffee via this link. Every contribution helps cover the behind-the-scenes costs of producing the podcast and allows me to continue bringing expert answers to the questions women are asking in midlife.💬 Have a midlife question you'd love answered in a future episode? Send it via the link below or message me on Instagram @midlifeanswers. Your question could inspire a future episode.If anything discussed in this episode resonates with your own experiences or raises concerns about your relationship with alcohol, please consider speaking with your GP, a qualified healthcare professional or a trained therapist who can offer personalised advice and support.Learn More:The Sober School: website & instagram

Why does chronic pain continue long after an injury has healed? Could stress, emotions and your nervous system be playing a bigger role than you realise?In this episode of Midlife Answers, I’m joined by Stress and Chronic Pain Coach Jeannie Kulwin to explore the science behind chronic pain, neuroplasticity and the mind-body connection.This is also a deeply personal conversation for me. After living with chronic back pain and sciatica for the past 18 months, I reached a point where I needed to look beyond scans, medication and treatments. Discovering neuroplasticity has completely changed the way I think about pain and, for the first time in a long time, given me genuine hope.Together, we explore why chronic pain is always real, how stress and fear can influence the nervous system, and the simple first steps that can help break the cycle of persistent pain.In this episode:What chronic pain actually isThe difference between structural pain and neuroplastic painHow stress and emotions can affect physical symptomsWhy MRI scans don't always explain ongoing painThe role of perfectionism, people-pleasing and fearPractical first steps to begin supporting recoveryWhether you're living with back pain, sciatica, migraines, IBS or another persistent symptom, this episode offers reassurance, practical guidance and hope.Resources from Jeannie Kulwin🎥 Watch the FREE workshop replay: Exactly What to Do When Symptoms Flarehttps://jeannie-kulwin.lpcontent.net/tms-when-symptoms-flare📞 Interested in Jeannie's Chronic Pain Group Coaching Programme or 1:1 support?Book a free discovery call:https://calendly.com/jkulwin/coaching📱 Follow Jeannie on Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/jeanniekulwincoaching/🌐 Visit Jeannie's website:https://www.jeanniekulwin.com/🎧 Follow this link to explore more episodes of Midlife Answers wherever you get your podcasts.Continue listening:Why Am I So Angry in Midlife? Choosing Joy Over "Why Me?" (#35)✨ RISE is my midlife coaching programme, helping women rebuild confidence, reconnect with themselves, and navigate midlife with greater clarity, courage and self-belief. Discover more at midlifeanswers.com.☕ If you enjoy Midlife Answers and would like to support the podcast, you can buy me a coffee via this link. Your support helps cover the behind-the-scenes costs of creating these conversations and allows me to keep bringing expert answers to the questions women are asking in midlife.Have a midlife question you'd love covered in a future episode? Send it via the link in the show notes or DM me on Instagram @midlifeanswers.If anything discussed in this episode raises concerns about your own health or brings up difficult feelings, please speak with your GP, another qualified healthcare professional, or a registered therapist who can provide personalised advice and support.