Confident Again

How can churches create spaces where men can talk honestly about sexuality, pornography and sexual integrity without shame — while still encouraging responsibility, growth and loving relationships? In this episode, Jane talks with Gerard Trolove from Stouthearted, an Australian Christian ministry helping men grow in sexual integrity through discipleship, community and practical tools. Stouthearted is an eight-week group programme designed to help men understand themselves more deeply, reflect...

When betrayal leaves you questioning the future of your relationship, the thought of separation can bring a whole new layer of fear and uncertainty. Where would I live? What would happen with the children? Do I need a lawyer? And does speaking to one mean I’ve decided to leave? In this episode of Confident Again, Jane speaks with Sian Green from Horizons Family Law about what women need to know when separation is a possibility — even if they are nowhere near ready to make a decision. Sian bri...

What happens when betrayal doesn’t only shake your relationship — but also your faith, your understanding of God, and your sense of who you are? In this deeply compassionate conversation, Jane is joined by New Zealand counsellors and spiritual directors Andrew and Susannah Connolly to explore the intersection of betrayal trauma, spiritual abuse, spiritual trauma and spiritual healing. Andrew and Susanna bring both professional expertise and lived experience to this conversation. Together, the...

Healing Through Art with Beth Woessner Healing after betrayal can feel exhausting. Sometimes you are tired of talking, analysing and trying to find the right words for what you have experienced. In this episode, Jane speaks with artist, educator and betrayal trauma coach Beth Woessner about how creativity can offer another pathway towards healing. Beth brings together a lifetime of artistic practice, her own experience of trauma and healing, and her trauma-informed training. She explains how ...

When Betrayal Impacts Your Teen: Creating Safety, Connection and Repair When betrayal, infidelity or pornography addiction ruptures a relationship, parents are often consumed by their own pain and uncertainty. But what is the experience like for the teenagers living alongside that crisis? In this episode, Jane speaks with youth and family coach Ellia Marcum about how adolescents may be affected by betrayal within the family—and how parents can support them without expecting themselves to han...