Hot Messy Midlife

The brain fog is real, the jeans are unforgiving, and the tolerance for other people’s bullshit? Gone!Mindi welcomes her friend Nicole Remini for a hilarious, unfiltered conversation about navigating menopause, changing bodies, and learning to protect your peace.Nicole opens up about grief, living with Lyme disease, and the personal experiences that led her to rethink her household and beauty products. Together, they swap stories about night sweats, workout frustrations, people-pleasing, and why a smaller social circle can feel like a major upgrade.Plus, Nicole shares the softer side of her sister Leah, memories from The King of Queens, and an unexpected dating story involving Huey Lewis. It’s friendship, family, candid product talk, and plenty of midlife tangents—with pajamas already planned for the next visit.

Your workout should leave you feeling stronger - not like you need three days to recover. In this episode of Hot Messy Midlife, Mindi gets real about how her relationship with exercise has changed, from gym-class days and ’90s health clubs to finding a routine that fits her life today.Drawing on her experience as a health coach, yoga and Pilates teacher, and woman navigating life after menopause, Mindi shares why she has shifted her focus toward strength, walking, balance, and recovery. She reflects on workouts that weren’t right for her, the pressure to chase fitness trends, and why a sculpted six-pack no longer makes her priority list.It’s an honest conversation about listening to your body, letting go of comparison, and finding movement you actually want to keep doing. Whether you’re lifting weights, walking the dog, or starting with ten minutes around the block, your effort counts.

What happens when the food noise quiets down—but your husband’s chewing gets louder? Mindi welcomes her friend Wendy Robinson back to Hot Messy Midlife for a hilarious, unfiltered conversation about changing bodies, longtime marriages, and the little things that send us over the edge.From rescue kittens and chaotic dogs to menopause weight struggles and their personal experiences with GLP-1s and supplements, nothing is off the table. Then comes the great spoon meltdown—a kitchen argument that reveals why feeling heard matters more than what’s in the sink. Along the way, they unpack household frustrations, the changing seasons of marriage, and the everyday gestures that keep love strong.It’s a candid reminder that you can adore your partner, need some space, and still find plenty to laugh about together.

What should we actually be eating in midlife?In this episode, I’m breaking it down into five simple things to focus on when building meals and snacks — without dieting, obsessing, or trying to eat perfectly.We’ll talk protein, fiber, carbs, healthy fats, and a few key nutrients, plus how to make it all work in real life with restaurants, cocktails, travel, busy days, and yes… fries. Midlife nutrition doesn’t have to be complicated. It just needs to be intentional, realistic, and sustainable.

What does a health coach actually do? In this episode, I’m breaking down what health coaching really looks like — how I help people build better habits, move through change, set realistic goals, and create healthier routines that actually fit their lives.No perfection. No one-size-fits-all plan. Just support, strategy, and meeting people where they are.