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Love Sex LA: Unfiltered
Love Sex LA: Unfiltered
Author: Alexandria Rizik
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Love, Sex, LA: Unfiltered is the podcast that actually says what everyone’s thinking about modern dating and relationships. Hosted by Alexandria Rizik, we’re here for the real stories, the honest opinions, and the stuff you won’t find on anyone’s highlight reel. We may not be perfect, but we are honest and we are unfiltered.
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90 Day Fiancé stars Paula and Thomas join Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered to unpack their unconventional love story, the drama viewers didn’t see coming, and what their marriage is really like after filming.
Before they were a couple, Paula and Thomas were best friends living in two different countries. Then Thomas flew to Brazil and confessed his feelings for Paula — while she still had a boyfriend. Years of long distance, an engagement and a move later, the two discovered that being in love and actually living together are two very different things.
In this episode, Paula and Thomas get candid about whether opposites really attract, the difference between chemistry and compatibility, family involvement in relationships, money, cultural differences, boundaries vs. control, and the clashes over perfume and their home that became major storylines on 90 Day Fiancé.
They also break down the 90 Day Fiancé Tell All, including the prank Thomas says left him feeling gaslit, who surprised them most, and Paula’s upcoming revelation — without spoiling what’s still to come.
Plus, Paula explains her belief in manifestation, why she covers her belly button to protect her energy, and the miniatures she uses to manifest everything from money to houses. And Thomas shares what it was really like flying to Brazil to pursue Paula before they were ever officially together.
In this episode:
How Paula and Thomas went from best friends to husband and wife
Why Thomas flew to Brazil to confess his love while Paula had a boyfriend
Dating long distance between Brazil and California
Whether opposites actually make better couples
Chemistry vs. compatibility
Family boundaries and cultural differences in marriage
Their infamous perfume disagreements
Paula’s manifestation rituals and miniatures
The 90 Day Fiancé Tell All prank and aftermath
Paula’s mysterious Tell All revelation
What their marriage looks like today
A very chaotic round of Date or Ghost
Watch until the end for Paula and Thomas on where their relationship stands now — and whether living together has made them more compatible or just better at navigating their differences.
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Serena Kerrigan joins Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered for an unfiltered conversation about dating in your 30s, confidence, relationships, egg freezing, and what it actually takes to find healthy love.
Serena — creator of the “You Are the Prize” philosophy and author of Let’s Fucking Date — opens up about the heartbreaks that shaped her, becoming “Serena Fucking Kerrigan,” and what happens when the dating expert has to confront her own patterns.
Alexandria and Serena get into dating with intention without letting the biological clock or societal pressure send you into panic, the difference between confidence and emotional armor, wanting to be taken care of while still being fiercely independent, and Serena’s decision to freeze her eggs at 28.
They also talk about why so many women mistake anxiety for chemistry, what changed when Serena finally experienced safe and healthy love with Felix, how female friendships influence our romantic relationships, and which Sex and the Citycharacter Serena really is.
Plus, Serena puts her own dating philosophy to the test with Date or Ghost, rapid-fire dating questions, and one very important question: can “I’m the prize” ever become “I’m never the problem”?
In this episode:
Dating in your 30s without panicking about your timeline
Serena Kerrigan’s “You Are the Prize” philosophy
Let’s Fucking Date
Egg freezing and fertility timelines
Anxiety vs. chemistry in dating
Secure love vs. toxic attraction
Dating while independent and successful
Confidence vs. defense mechanisms
Female friendships in your 30s
Sex and the City dating archetypes
Modern dating red flags
Finding healthy love
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What can a divorce lawyer teach you about choosing the right person to marry?
James Sexton, New York City divorce attorney, bestselling author, and one of the internet’s most recognizable voices on marriage, divorce, dating, sex, and infidelity, joins Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered to reveal the relationship red flags people often ignore before marriage — and the problems that eventually lead couples to divorce.
After more than two decades of watching relationships fall apart, James explains what separates someone who is great to date from someone who is actually great to marry.
In this episode, Alexandria and James discuss:
• The biggest red flags to look for while dating • How to tell if someone is marriage material • Chemistry vs. compatibility — and whether “the spark” is overrated • The most common reasons couples get divorced • The warning signs that often appear before cheating • Whether a marriage can survive infidelity • Sex, desire, and sexual compatibility in long-term relationships • Money, separate finances, and financial incompatibility • Whether everyone should get a prenup • The questions every couple should ask before getting married • The qualities James sees in couples whose marriages actually last • His most controversial opinions about modern dating, hookup culture, relationships, and marriage
They also get into celebrity and high-net-worth divorce, crazy prenup clauses, dating after divorce, falling in love with someone’s potential, whether people really change after marriage, and James’s perspective on what actually makes love last.
If you’re dating, considering marriage, engaged, navigating a long-term relationship, or simply wondering how to avoid choosing the wrong partner, this episode is a masterclass in relationships from someone who has spent his career seeing exactly how marriages fall apart.
Follow Love Sex LA: Unfiltered for more conversations about modern dating, relationships, sex, marriage, culture, and everything no one wants to say out loud.
Vanderpump Rules Season 12 star Jason Salvatore Cohen joins Alexandria Rizik on Love Sex LA: Unfiltered for a candid conversation about reality TV, relationships, OnlyFans, and the season that put his dating life under a microscope.
Jason opens up about his experience on Vanderpump Rules, his approach to dating and attraction, whether he was actually ready for a relationship, and how it felt having his personal life play out in front of millions of viewers.
He also talks about the season’s most talked-about relationship moments and what he wishes people understood about him off camera.
We also get into Jason’s path from studying medicine to modeling, acting, working at SUR, reality TV, and OnlyFans, plus his dynamic with his cousin Chris and the attention surrounding some of their content.From dating and chemistry to cast dynamics, DMs, and life after Season 12, Jason gives his side of the story completely unfiltered.
In this episode of Love Sex LA: Unfiltered, Alexandria Rizik sits down with Mark L. Walberg, longtime host of Temptation Island, to talk about love, cheating, red flags, commitment, and what really makes relationships last.
After spending years watching couples put their relationships to the ultimate test, Mark has had a front-row seat to some of the most complicated relationship dynamics on reality TV. He shares what Temptation Island has taught him about infidelity, trust, communication, emotional connection, and why some couples stay together while others ultimately walk away.
Alexandria and Mark get into the difference between chemistry and compatibility, the warning signs people ignore in relationships, whether cheating always means the relationship is over, and how to know when a relationship is worth fighting for. Mark also opens up about marriage, lasting love, and the relationship lessons he’s learned both on and off camera.
If you’ve ever wondered why people cheat, why we ignore red flags, whether trust can be rebuilt after infidelity, or what makes a relationship survive long-term, this episode is for you.
Topics include: Temptation Island, Mark L. Walberg, cheating and infidelity, dating red flags, toxic relationships, marriage advice, relationship advice, trust after cheating, commitment, communication, reality TV relationships, healthy relationships, and lasting love.
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