Discussions with a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 Minutes

What happens when you and your spouse can't reach an agreement, but you don't want to take your divorce to court?Most people are familiar with mediation and litigation. But there's another option you may not have considered: divorce arbitration.In Episode 30 of Discussions With a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 Minutes, Kimberly Lorah sits down with Carolyn N. Daly, Esq., New Jersey Supreme Court Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney, to explore arbitration as an alternative way to resolve divorce-related disputes.Carolyn brings extensive experience as a matrimonial law attorney, mediator, and arbitrator, helping clients navigate complex family law matters with clarity and strategy.Together, they explore:What divorce arbitration is and how it worksHow arbitration differs from mediation and traditional litigationWhen arbitration may be worth consideringWhat couples should understand before choosing this processWhy knowing your options matters when making decisions about your futureBecause divorce isn't one-size-fits-all. And understanding your options can help you make more informed decisions about what comes next.🌸 PREPARING FOR DIVORCE MEDIATION?Mediation isn't where you want to first figure out what matters most to you.As a Certified Pre-Mediation Divorce Coach and Mediation Preparation Specialist, Kimberly helps clients identify their priorities, prepare for difficult conversations, and approach important decisions with greater clarity, confidence, and calm.Know before you negotiate. Prepare before you mediate.Schedule a consultation with Kimberly:https://calendly.com/blossom-coaching/complimentary-consultation-30-minutesCONNECT WITH CAROLYN N. DALY, ESQ.Carolyn is a Partner at Cohen Seglias Pallas Greenhall & Furman PC, a New Jersey Supreme Court Certified Matrimonial Law Attorney, and a Fellow of the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers.She is also a mediator and arbitrator, with a growing focus on helping families explore alternatives to courtroom litigation.📧 [email protected]📞 973-474-5003🌐 https://www.cohenseglias.com/FOLLOW BLOSSOM COACHING🌐 Website: https://kimberlylorahcoaching.com/LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlylorah/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/blossomcoachingllc/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kimberlylorahcoaching🎙️ DISCUSSIONS WITH A DIVORCE COACH: 5 QUESTIONS IN 15 MINUTESFast. Focused. Full of insight.Your marriage may have ended, but your life is not over.This episode is intended for educational purposes and does not constitute legal advice. Divorce laws and arbitration procedures vary by jurisdiction. Consult a qualified attorney about your individual circumstances.#DivorceArbitration #DivorceMediation #DivorceOptions #FamilyLaw #DivorceCoach #MediationPreparation #DivorceSupport #BlossomCoaching

Think divorce means everything gets split 50/50? Think again.When a marriage ends, dividing assets isn't always as straightforward as splitting everything down the middle. Where you divorce, what you own, and how your state's laws apply can all influence what happens to your home, retirement savings, business interests, debts, and other property.In Episode 29 of Discussions With a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 Minutes, Kimberly Lorah sits down with Ian Steinberg, Partner and Family Law Attorney at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein, LLP, to explore how property division actually works in divorce.With extensive experience in complex matrimonial matters, litigation, mediation, and collaborative divorce, Ian helps explain why fair doesn't always mean equal and why understanding your options matters before negotiating a settlement.IN THIS EPISODE, WE DISCUSS:Does divorce automatically mean a 50/50 split?Equitable distribution vs. community property: What's the difference?Why state laws matter when dividing marital assets and debtsHow homes, retirement accounts, businesses, and inherited assets can complicate property divisionWhy informed preparation can make a difference in mediation and settlement negotiationsBecause the decisions you make during divorce aren't just about what you walk away with. They're about the financial future you're preparing to build.🌸 PREPARING FOR DIVORCE MEDIATION?Before you negotiate a settlement, do you understand what matters most to you, what questions to ask, and what decisions could affect your future?Kimberly Lorah, LPC, CDC, helps individuals prepare for divorce mediation by identifying priorities, organizing concerns, and building the clarity and confidence needed to participate more effectively in negotiations.Mediation preparation doesn't replace legal or financial advice. It helps you become better prepared to work with the professionals guiding you through the process.Know Before You Negotiate. Prepare. Mediate. Move Forward.📅 Schedule a consultation with Kimberly:https://calendly.com/blossom-coaching/complimentary-consultation-30-minutes⚖️ CONNECT WITH IAN STEINBERGIan Steinberg is a Partner and Family Law Attorney at Berkman Bottger Newman & Schein, LLP, a New York family law firm.His practice focuses on complex matrimonial matters, including equitable distribution, child support, spousal maintenance, custody disputes, mediation, collaborative divorce, and prenuptial and postnuptial agreements.Ian was recognized as a New York Metro Area Super Lawyers Rising Star from 2021 through 2024.🌐 Firm Website:https://www.berkbot.com/👤 Ian's Attorney Profile:https://www.berkbot.com/attorneys/ian-steinberg/📧 Email: [email protected]📞 Phone: 212-867-9123📚 ADDITIONAL RESOURCE: PROPERTY DIVISION LAWS BY STATEWondering how property division works where you live?Explore this educational overview of property division laws across the United States:DivorceNet — Property Division by Statehttps://www.divorcenet.com/states/nationwide/property_division_by_stateLegal disclaimer: This episode and the linked resource are provided for general educational purposes only and do not constitute legal advice. Property division laws vary by jurisdiction and individual circumstances. Consult a qualified family law attorney in your state for guidance specific to your situation.🌸 CONNECT WITH KIMBERLY LORAH | BLOSSOM COACHINGWebsite:https://kimberlylorahcoaching.com/LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlylorah/Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/blossomcoachingllc/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/kimberlylorahcoachingYour marriage may have ended, but your life is not over.#DividingAssets #DivorceFinances #DivorceSettlement #EquitableDistribution #CommunityProperty #DivorceMediation #MediationPreparation #FamilyLaw #DivorceCoach #BlossomCoaching

What happens when you have financial questions but don’t know who to ask—or you’re embarrassed to admit what you don’t know?In this episode of Discussions With a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 Minutes, Kimberly Lorah sits down with Lisa Zeiderman and Julia Rodgers, Esq. of Savvy Ladies to talk about financial literacy, why it matters during major life transitions like divorce, and where women can turn for trusted financial guidance—at no cost.Lisa Zeiderman is Board Chair of Savvy Ladies, Managing Partner at Miller Zeiderman LLP, a matrimonial attorney, and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®).Julia Rodgers, Esq. serves on the Savvy Ladies Board and is a family-law attorney and CEO & Co-Founder of HelloPrenup.Together, they discuss why so many women feel uncomfortable asking financial questions, the importance of understanding your finances before making major decisions, and how Savvy Ladies is helping remove barriers to financial education and guidance.One of the resources every woman should know about is the Savvy Ladies Free Financial Helpline, which connects women with pro bono financial professionals who can help answer financial questions and provide guidance.Whether you're navigating divorce, experiencing another major life transition, or simply realizing there are financial questions you've never had the opportunity to ask, you don't have to figure everything out alone.Savvy Ladies provides free financial education and resources designed to help women build greater financial knowledge and confidence.Visit Savvy LadiesHave a financial question? Start with the Free Financial Helpline:Savvy Ladies Free Financial HelplineSavvy Ladies WebsiteSavvy Ladies on InstagramSavvy Ladies on FacebookLisa ZeidermanSavvy Ladies Board ChairManaging Partner | Miller Zeiderman LLPMatrimonial Attorney | Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®)Learn More About Lisa ZeidermanJulia Rodgers, Esq.Savvy Ladies Board MemberFamily-Law AttorneyCEO & Co-Founder | HelloPrenupLearn More About Julia RodgersWant to learn more about Savvy Ladies and support its mission of empowering women through financial education and guidance?Learn more about the 2026 Savvy Ladies Annual Gala in New York City:Savvy Ladies 2026 Annual GalaFinancial information is only one part of preparing for the decisions ahead.If you're considering divorce or preparing for mediation, Kimberly Lorah can help you slow things down, identify what matters most, prepare for the conversations ahead, and approach important decisions with greater clarity and confidence.Know before you negotiate. Prepare before you mediate.Schedule a Consultation with Kimberly LorahKimberly Lorah, LPC, CDCLicensed Professional CounselorCertified Divorce Coach®DCA Certified Pre-Mediation Divorce CoachFounder, Blossom CoachingBlossom Coaching WebsiteKimberly on LinkedInBlossom Coaching on InstagramBlossom Coaching on Facebook🎙️ Discussions With a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 MinutesFast. Focused. Full of insight.Your marriage may have ended, but your life is not over.#SavvyLadies #FinancialLiteracy #WomenAndMoney #DivorceFinances #FinancialEmpowerment #DivorceSupport #DivorceMediation #MediationPreparation #DivorceCoach #BlossomCoaching

Divorce Finances Explained: Will Your Settlement Work in Real Life?A divorce settlement can look fair on paper. But will it actually work for your life?In this episode of Discussions With a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 Minutes, Kimberly Lorah talks with Judd Allen, Financial Planner and CDFA®, about the financial decisions you make during divorce and how they can affect your life long after the settlement is signed.Drawing on his background in wealth management and his own experience with divorce, Judd shares practical insights about bringing greater clarity and strategy to decisions involving your home, retirement, cash flow, and financial future.They discuss common financial mistakes people can make during divorce, when it may be helpful to bring in a financial professional, and why a settlement that appears equitable today may not necessarily support the life you need to afford tomorrow.Because divorce isn't simply about dividing what you have today. It's about understanding how the decisions you make today may affect the life you can afford tomorrow.🌸 Preparing for divorce mediation?Mediation isn't where you want to first figure out what matters most to you. Kimberly helps clients prepare for the conversations and decisions ahead so they can approach mediation with greater clarity and confidence.Know before you negotiate. Prepare before you mediate.Schedule a consultation with Kimberly:https://calendly.com/blossom-coaching/complimentary-consultation-30-minutesCONNECT WITH JUDD ALLENJudd Allen is a Financial Planner and CDFA® based in Oakland County and Greater Metro Detroit. He helps individuals navigate the financial complexities of divorce with clarity, strategy, and care.J. Allen Financial / ICG📧 [email protected]📞 248-273-8200Judd on InstagramSecond Saturday Divorce WorkshopsJOIN JUDD & KIM ON OCTOBER 10Judd also leads Second Saturday Divorce Workshops, providing educational resources for people navigating divorce.On October 10, Kimberly Lorah will be Judd’s guest for Second Saturday, where they’ll be discussing: Mediation Ready: Preparing for the Decisions That MatterIf mediation is ahead of you, this conversation will focus on preparing for the important decisions that can arise during the process so you can approach mediation with greater clarity and confidenceOctober 10 | Second Saturday with Judd AllenGuest: Kimberly Lorah, LPC, CDCTopic: Mediation Ready: Preparing for the Decisions That MatterFOLLOW BLOSSOM COACHINGBlossom Coaching Websitehttps://kimberlylorahcoaching.com/Kimberly on LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberlylorah/Blossom Coaching on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/blossomcoachingllc/Blossom Coaching on Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/kimberlylorahcoachingYour marriage may have ended, but your life is not over.#DivorceFinances #DivorceFinancialPlanning #DivorceSettlement #DivorceMediation #MediationPreparation #DivorceCoach #CDFA #DivorceSupport #BlossomCoaching

How to Divorce Smarter Explained: Why Strategy MattersWhen divorce becomes high-conflict or complicated, it’s easy to find yourself reacting to the latest email, argument, demand, or crisis instead of making decisions strategically.But what changes when you prepare before you react?In this episode of Discussions With a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 Minutes, Kimberly Lorah sits down with Mardi Winder, Strategic Divorce Consultant, High-Conflict Divorce Coach, and Credentialed Mediator, to discuss how strategic preparation can help you navigate divorce with greater clarity, confidence, and control.Mardi brings more than 30 years of experience in conflict resolution, mediation, and divorce coaching. Together, Kim and Mardi explore how preparation can help you make informed decisions, communicate more effectively, avoid unnecessary conflict, and protect what matters most.If you’re considering divorce or already navigating one, you don’t have to figure everything out while emotions are running high.🌸 Need help figuring out your next step?Schedule a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Kimberly Lorah of Blossom Coaching:Book Your Complimentary ConsultationCONNECT WITH MARDI WINDERStrategic Divorce Consultant | High-Conflict Divorce Coach | Credentialed Mediator🌐 Divorce Coach 4 Women🎙️ The D-Shift PodcastMARDI'S BOOKS📖 From I Do To I'm Done: A Woman's Guide To Preparing For DivorceFind it on Amazon📖 The Other Side of Divorce: Breakups That Lead to BreakthroughsFind it on AmazonCONNECT WITH KIMBERLY LORAH & BLOSSOM COACHING🌐 Blossom Coaching💼 LinkedIn📸 Instagram🌸 FacebookDiscussions With a Divorce Coach: 5 Questions in 15 MinutesFast. Focused. Full of insight.Subscribe for conversations with divorce professionals who can help you navigate the emotional, financial, practical, and legal complexities of divorce with greater clarity and confidence.#HighConflictDivorce #DivorceCoach #DivorceSupport #DivorceStrategy #ConsideringDivorce #DivorcePreparation #BlossomCoaching