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Nicholas Tanek (Author) and our kinky friends worldwide discuss BDSM, fetishes, music, comedy, lifestyles, romance, and more.

Nicholas Tanek is an author, speaker, and podcaster. He is best known for his memoir, The Coolest Way to Kill Yourself, which chronicles his experiences as a young man in the 90's rave scene and BDSM subcultures. He is the author of the book and podcast, Your Kinky Friends, interviewing people involved in BDSM, kink, and other alternative lifestyles.

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Also known as "Community Connections, Kinky Celebrations" Whores of Babylon Reveal How They Built a Traveling BDSM Dungeon in the Bible Belt — and Why Corpus Christi Will Never Be the Same. Lady Red and Nicholas Tanek sit down with the powerhouse throuple behind Whores of Babylon — Lady Vanovia Serpentine, Absinthe Nevermore, and Sylhouette — for a raw, unfiltered conversation about turning religious backlash into their brand name, running the only kink-safe traveling dungeon in South Texas, creating inclusive spaces for LGBTQ+, disabled, and Deaf communities, and building real community through education, consent, and kinky celebration at Coastal Bend Kink Weekend. From Facebook Marketplace dungeon hacks and fire cupping classes to 10 years of poly life, intense aftercare, and reclaiming the word “whore,” this episode is a masterclass in what happens when three women decide the dungeon is about so much more than play.Your Kinky Friends podcast & Interview My Kink Podcast team up to interview THE WHORES OF BABYLON Whores of Babylon — Coastal Bend’s Kink Community HubWhores of Babylon is a Coastal Bend–based kink organization that brings people together through Community Connections and Kinky Celebrations, with a focus on inclusivity, education, and safe, consensual experiences Whores of Babylon is run by a throuple — Viktoria “Absinthe” Janosek, Clara “Lady Vanovia Serpentine” Janosek, and Sarah “Sylhouette” Janosek — who also produce Coastal Bend Kink Weekend This annual three‑day convention in Corpus Christi offers:Educational lectures and demonstrations on kink practicesA Play Space (dungeon) for consensual kink activities under strict rules (no under‑21s, no cell phones, no intercourse)Community contests and cultural events Community ImpactAccording to Absinthe, the group was inspired by a lack of local education and support in the kink scene, leading to injuries and unsafe experiences. Their events aim to fill that gap by providing a safe, informed, and welcoming environment where men can be vulnerable, women can feel powerful, non‑binaries and trans people can exist, and everyone can belong http://www.foghornnews.com https://fetlife.com/Lady_Vanoviahttps://fetlife.com/SylhouetteHow to Get InvolvedEvents: Attend Coastal Bend Kink Weekend or other Learning: Participate in educational sessions, observe, or join activities at your comfort levelNetworking: Connect with the broader kink community through their events and online platformsSupport: Volunteer, assist with education, or help create inclusive spacesIn short: Whores of Babylon is both a community connector and a kink celebration organizer, dedicated to building a safe, educated, and inclusive kink culture in the Coastal Bend region. Nicholas Tanek⁠http://yourkinkyfriends.com⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@yourkinkyfriends⁠ IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/nicktanek/⁠X: ⁠https://twitter.com/NicholasTanek⁠⁠http://twitter.com/FriendsKinky⁠
Rebecca Blanton (aka Auntie Vice)is a writer and kink educator. Their work focuses on gender, power, and kink//BDSM. She runs the award-winning blog LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com and has published several books, including The Big Workbook for Submissives, a finalist for the 2018 Golden Flogger Award. In 2026, Jennifer Kingsley Publishing will release their fourth book, Kinky Minds: Navigating BDSM Relationships with Mental Illness or Neurodivergence. She holds a Ph.D. in Political Psychology. Prior to turning her attention to kink education and writing, she served as the Executive Director for the California Commission on the Status of Women and Girls and worked as a Senior Policy Analyst for the California Research Bureau (CRB). While at the CRB, her work on the needs of women veterans gained national attention and is the basis for more than two dozen state and federal laws.They identify as a queer, gender nonconforming, disabled kinkster.Instagram, Fetlife, Facebook, Bluesky, Redditt, TikTok all under @AuntieViceInstagram @AuntieViceNSFWPodcast under @FatChicksOnTop on Instagram and Tiktokhttp://www.yourkinkyfriends.com Nicholas Tanekhttp://yourkinkyfriends.comYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@yourkinkyfriendsIG: https://www.instagram.com/nicktanek/X: https://twitter.com/NicholasTanekhttp://twitter.com/FriendsKinky
"The whisper network depends on us." Anna Valentina and Mistress Sophie reunite on YKF WEEKENDS to discuss the importance of kinksters checking in on each other. Kinky friends should check in on each other. We've lost too many this year. Don't you wish you kept the connection with some people? While catching up, we talk about Isla Moon, pegging, and also how R.C. Horsch is a scumbag who does not represent the BDSM/kink community. "Connections live in the doing.""Just because you chop up people and turn them into food, that does not make you part of the chef industry.""Their eyes are bigger than their holes." ANNA VALENTINAWebsite: https://annavalentina.com Instagram: / msannavalentina Cashapp: $AnnaValentinaMISTRESS SOPHIE:https://www.mistresssophieofhertfordshire.co.uk/ NICHOLAS TANEKhttp://www.yourkinkyfriends.comhttps://x.com/NicholasTanekhttps://www.instagram.com/nicktanek/Your Kinky Friends by Nicholas Tanek (the book that started it all) https://a.co/d/eyW5oYYForbidden Frostland https://forbiddenfrostland.com/
Rest in Power Kate West. June 2, 2022"I’m an equal opportunity sadist.” The glorious Mistress Kate West is a professional Dominatrix from Phoenix, AZ. We discuss feminization, feet, chastity, BDSM culture, gender fluidity, CBT, bastinado, knives, her love of GORE, needles, and blood. She also shows us her dirty feet.“I love blood”Twitter and Insta - @JezabelQueen To book and bio  - MistressKateWest.com http://www.yourkinkyfriends.com http://www.youtube.com/ykfcinema https://x.com/NicholasTanek
August 18, 2026 ShowTonight on Mischief Matters Radio Mistress Schari and Catnip will be discussing two very different types of kink with two of the upcoming Presenters at Forbidden FrostlandRebecca Blanton (aka Auntie Vice)is a writer and kink educator. Their work focuses on gender, power, and kink//BDSM. She runs the award-winning blog LoveLettersToAUnicorn.com and has published several books, including The Big Workbook for Submissives, a finalist for the 2018 Golden Flogger Award. In 2026, Jennifer Kingsley Publishing will release their fourth book, Kinky Minds: Navigating BDSM Relationships with Mental Illness or Neurodivergence. She holds a Ph.D. in Political Psychology. Prior to turning her attention to kink education and writing, she served as the Executive Director for the California Commission on the Status of Women and Girls and worked as a Senior Policy Analyst for the California Research Bureau (CRB). While at the CRB, her work on the needs of women veterans gained national attention and is the basis for more than two dozen state and federal laws.They identify as a queer, gender nonconforming, disabled kinkster.Instagram, Fetlife, Facebook, Bluesky, Redditt, TikTok all under @AuntieViceInstagram Podcast under @FatChicksOnTop on Instagram and TiktokJonnyace (They/Them)is a queer, non-binary transfemme polyamorous kinkster. They are a certified life coach focusing on gender, sexual, and romantic minorities. Jon leads the Hudson Valley Polyamory Society, as well as being a member of the Ascend Incident Response Team, and the Head DM of Ascend Hudson Valley. They have been in the public kink scene for over a decade, and have been sharing their knowledge with kink communities across the east coast holding classes, demos, and discussion groups on topics including medical play, D/s dynamics, polyamory, and more. www.gsrmcoaching.com@YourKinkyFriendshttps://www.instagram.com/nicktanek/ YOUR KINKY FRIENDS: http://www.YourKinkyFriends.com
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