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Author: Amy Baldwin
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Amy is a Sex and Relationship Coach and Sex Educator with a passion for promoting unabashed, pleasure-focused sexuality education. April is a motivational speaker, sex toy mogul, as well as one of the leading women in the sex-toy industry. April and Amy combined forces to create the Shameless Sex Podcast, inspiring radical self-love, sexual empowerment, and shame-free intimacy with a playful twist sharing real life experiences and tell all details. Visit www.shamelesssex.com for more. Shameless Sex is a proud member of Pleasure Podcasts. For network details, contact [email protected]
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This episode is with repeat guests Alicia and Erwan Davon and is all about upping your blowjobs skills. #258 was all about using hands and mouths for oral pleasure. Now let’s get more advanced! We discuss:*The common issues/fears people have around giving blowjobs*The common issues penis owners have around receiving*Basics/1.0 level skills people should know about*How Tantra can it take oral sex even deeper/to the advanced level*Advanced oral sex tips for the giver*Advanced oral sex tips for the receiver*Whether actions such as swallowing and the money shot matterMore about our guests: Erwan and Alicia Davon are the foremost Tantra teachers in the San Francisco Bay Area and the creators of the Davon Method, their signature approach to love, intimacy, and connection.For over 22 years, this married couple has taught more than 22,000 students through group programs, retreats, and private sessions — guiding singles into lasting relationships and helping couples thrive. Their method blends academic backgrounds in psychology with the principles of Zen Buddhism into a holistic path for deepening connection with yourself and others. As the Bay Area's go-to teachers for all things romantic and sexual, they now reach students worldwide through online learning.Erwan studied psychology and graduated with honors, drawing on both a challenging childhood and an early immersion in therapeutic work. He went on to live and study in a Zen monastery, direct a yoga ashram, train in cutting-edge sensual practices, and teach personal development at one of the world's largest personal-growth organizations. In 1995, his passion for teaching led him to found the Davon Method, dedicated to helping people build extraordinary romantic relationships.Alicia holds a Master's degree in Integral Psychology, with a focus on women's romantic and sexual expression. She has led numerous women's groups devoted to female pleasure and fulfillment across career, relationship, and life. She met Erwan 23 years ago and began teaching alongside him a year later.Together, Erwan and Alicia have spent more than two decades refining a curriculum and a set of techniques that create a safe, welcoming space to grow. Whether you want to build chemistry, deepen connection, communicate more openly, or reignite passion, their guidance meets you where you are — and makes the process genuinely fun. Get ready: working with them is a blast. To learn more go to: https://davonmethod.com/ Follow them on IG @davonmethod Find them on Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alicia-davon/To set up a consultation:415 308 9580https://davonmethod.com/consultLearn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreatDo you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copySupport Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish ListFollow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast Other links:Up-level your life and get at least 15% off any annual membership at http://masterclass.com/shamelessGet 15% off OneSkin with the code SHAMELESS at https://www.oneskin.co/shamelessBring the heat back into your sex life with $10 off your first month at http://getarya.com/shamelessGet turned on anywhere, anytime with Dipsea + get a week FREE and then 25% at http://dipseastories.com/shamelessGet 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.comGet 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Let’s Talk About Kissing! 💋
In this episode, we’re joined by repeat guest Ashley Randall (aka Irreverent Femme) for a deep dive into one of the most underrated parts of intimacy: kissing.
We’re talking all things making out—from different kissing styles and techniques to neck kissing, full-body kissing, and how to figure out what your partner actually likes. We also explore why kissing and making out can so often disappear from long-term relationships, what you can do to bring it back, and why kissing can be such an important part of intimacy and connection.
Plus, we get into what to do (and what not to do!) when it comes to being a great kisser, how to learn your partner’s unique kissing style, and how to keep things playful, connected, and exciting.
About our guest:Ashley Randall, also known as Irreverent Femme, is a certified Sex, Intimacy & Kink Coach, Dominatrix, and erotic perfumist. She offers transformative coaching for individuals and partners seeking deeper intimacy, sexual confidence, and authentic connection.
💋 Ready to up your kissing game? This episode is for you.
Learn more about Ashley at http://irreverentcoaching.com
Follow her on IG @irreverentlovecoaching
Check out her erotic perfums: https://www.irreverentscents.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast
Learn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Other links:
Get turned on anywhere, anytime with Dipsea + get a week FREE and then 25% at http://dipseastories.com/shameless
Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at https://loadboost.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 15% off April's favorite vibrator - the Magic Wand Waterproof (and other sexy items) with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
In this episode, we’re joined by Andre Lazarus, Somatic Intimacy Guide, sex and intimacy coach, and one of the professional surrogate partners featured on the UK series Virgin Island.
Andre takes us behind the scenes of his unconventional work, including what it’s actually like to help people navigate intimacy challenges — and whether being a surrogate partner means, well… what you might think it means.
We then get into the big questions around men and sex: what Andre wishes more men knew, what he wishes they’d do less of, and what he wishes more women understood about supporting the men they’re intimate with.
We also tackle two issues that come up frequently in Andre’s work: erection difficulties and “rapid ejaculation.” Why do they happen? How much does performance pressure play a role? And what can men actually do about it?
And finally, perhaps the most important question of all: If your penis could use a little pep talk, what should you say to it?
Expect a candid, funny, and practical conversation about sex, confidence, vulnerability, communication, and learning to get out of your head — and back into your body.
What a surrogate partner actually does
Andre’s experience on Virgin Island
Men, sex, and performance pressure
Erection difficulties and rapid ejaculation
What men should do more — and less — in bed
What women can do to better support male partners
Building sexual confidence and connection
And, yes… what to say to your penis when it needs some encouragement
Learn more about Andre and his work at www.coming-closer.com.
Follow him on IG @comingcloserwithandre
Learn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast
Other links:
Get 10% off getting turned on by Drive Boost with code SHAMELESS at https://vb.health
Bring the heat back into your sex life with $10 off your first month at http://getarya.com/shameless
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 15% off the best sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Work with some of our favorite sexual health and hormone specialists at https://swanmd.com + mention Shameless Sex for a discount
This week, we’re joined by Dr. Shannon Chavez, a leading voice in modern sexual wellness and one of the incredible experts teaching at our next Shameless Sex Couples Retreat!
Dr. Chavez is a licensed clinical psychologist, AASECT-certified sex therapist, professional sex coach, and founder of SHAPE Psychology. Her work brings a holistic, culturally inclusive approach to sex, relationships, and pleasure—and helps make conversations about sexuality feel more accessible, meaningful, and shame-free.
In this episode, we’re getting into one of the sexiest—and sometimes most awkward—topics: dirty talk! How do you make it feel authentic instead of forced? What if you feel totally uncomfortable saying “naughty” things out loud? And how do you figure out what actually turns you and your partner on?
We talk about:
What Dr. Chavez is hearing from clients about dirty talk: Are people into it, wanting more of it, or feeling intimidated by it?
Why dirty talk can feel so vulnerable, awkward, or difficult—even when you’re turned on
The different styles and forms of dirty talk, and how to find what works for you
A step-by-step approach to making dirty talk feel more natural and authentic
How to build confidence and discover your personal dirty-talk style
How to know what to say in the moment (without feeling like you have to perform!)
Talking about boundaries and consent around erotic language
How couples can create their own shared erotic language
And how to move past shame and self-consciousness so you can actually enjoy talking dirty
Whether you’re a seasoned dirty-talker or the mere thought of saying something sexy out loud makes you want to crawl under the covers, this episode will give you practical tools to make erotic communication feel more natural, playful, and connected.
Learn more about Dr. Shannon Chavez at http://drshannonchavez.com.
Follow here on IG: @drshannonchavez
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast
Learn more about our retreats: https://www.shamelesssex.com/retreat
Other links:
Get 10% off getting soaking wet with code SHAMELESS at http://soakingwet.com
Get turned on anywhere, anytime with Dipsea + get a week FREE and then 25% at http://dipseastories.com/shameless
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 15% off the best sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Work with some of our favorite sexual health and hormone specialists at https://swanmd.com + mention Shameless Sex for a discount
In this episode, we’re joined by our marketing director Paigge Gilbert for a deeply curious conversation about sex, pleasure, intimacy, and desire. We talk about what it’s actually like to train as a sex and relationship coach through Somatica—and dive into some big questions about how we experience and explore our erotic selves. We explore:
Our core desires and how to discover how you want to feel during sex
Once you know how you want to feel, how do you figure out what you want to explore?
How to access your erotic energy when you feel disconnected from your body—or even unattracted to your partner
Ways to become more embodied and experience more pleasure
Why allowing yourself to feel your erotic desire, even in public, can be powerful
What kink and spanking can actually do for us—and why certain things turn us on
The power of dirty talk, curiosity, and “cheerleading” someone as they share their erotic fantasies
How to get curious about desire rather than judging it
What sex and relationship coaching training through Somatica is really like
This is a conversation about moving beyond the idea that there’s a “right” way to experience sexuality and instead getting curious about what makes you feel alive, embodied, connected, and turned on.
About our guest: Paigge Gilbert has spent the last eight years figuring out how to successfully market the things the internet doesn’t always make easy to talk about: sex, pleasure, intimacy, and relationships. As the founder of Queen Media, she’s built her career developing marketing strategies for leading sex educators, relationship experts, adult stars, podcasts, and sexual wellness brands, helping them grow loyal audiences while navigating censorship, stigma, and constantly changing platforms. Now, she’s adding another layer to that expertise by completing the Somatica Institute’s Sex & Relationship Coach Certification, with the goal of bringing her years of industry experience into more direct, intimate work with clients.
Apply to do a practice session with Paigge: https://www.queenmediamgmt.com/somatica-practice-session
Check out Queen Media: https://www.queenmediamgmt.com
Follow her on IG @paaaiiggee and @queenmediamgmt
Learn more about the Somatica training: https://www.somaticainstitute.com
Do you love us? Do you REALLY love us? Then order our book now! Go to shamelesssex.com to snag your copy
Support Shameless Sex by sending us gifts via our Amazon Wish List
Follow us on IG @shamelesssexpodcast
Other links:
Get 10% off boosting your load with code SHAMELESS at https://loadboost.com
Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESS on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at http://uberlube.com
Get 15% off the best sex toys and lube with code SHAMELESSSEX at http://purepleasureshop.com
Work with some of our favorite sexual health and hormone specialists at https://swanmd.com + mention Shameless Sex for a discount. And click here to set up a free 15 minute consult to discover if you are in menopause




