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In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke explore the intersection of spirituality, relationships, and personal transformation with guest Amber Rasmussen, host of Next Realm and Ex-Wives Undercover. Jake opens up about his intense connection with a karmic soulmate, while Michele shares her deep-seated fear of visiting a psychic. The conversation unpacks the role of psychics, spiritual mediums, and the often-misused concept of twin flames, exploring cosmic and karmic connections. Amber shares how the death of her nephew ignited her spiritual curiosity, leading her to uncover signs and experiences that shaped her beliefs. The discussion also highlights how spirituality and religion can influence relationships, helping individuals set boundaries and recognize toxic patterns. Amber details the real-life story behind Ex-Wives Undercover, revealing how she and her co-host exposed a serial manipulator, ultimately saving a woman’s life. The episode includes a thought-provoking discussion on the contrast between spirituality and organized religion and their impact on love, trust, and personal growth.Amber Rasmussen + Next Ream | LinksWebsite: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nextrealmpod/Story Submissions: NextRealmPodcast@Gmail.comPlease Visit Our Sponsors!Ready to start your own podcast? Descript instantly converts your audio files into text documents—just like editing in Google Docs or Microsoft Word. It's the tool we rely on for Lovelust Fridays to keep everything running smoothly. Click here to try it for free!https://get.descript.com/pepqx4ars509Discussion Links https://www.thehotline.org/Spiritual Abuse: https://www.thehotline.org/resources/what-is-spiritual-abuse/#:~:text=Regardless%20of%20either%20partner's%20religious,creating%20an%20emotional%20safety%20plan Ex-Wives Undercover: https://linktr.ee/Exwivesundercover  Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/ Jake’s Episode of Next Realm: https://www.nextrealmpod.com/8-beyond-the-veil-a-grandmothers-last-goodbye-and-life-lessons/ Reach Amber at NextRealmPodcast@gmail.com“Extraordinary Measures” Movie https://www.imdb.com/title/tt1244659/ Crystal’s LinkTree: https://linktr.ee/CrystalJCorl The Visitation Podcast: https://www.listennotes.com/podcasts/the-visitation-the-visitation-podcast-JDzQ82-hGKs/Jake’s Karmic Soulmate interview: (Jake is credited as “Charlie M.”)https://www.getmegiddy.com/dating-karmic-soulmateThe Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma (Book)https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748More about Twin Flames from Medical News Today: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/twin-flame-meaning#Summary Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support! topics | #spirituality #personalgrowth #relationships #karma #energy #crystals #intuition #familylaw #podcasting #emotionalhealing #psychics #twinflames #soulmates #familyconnections #emotionalintelligence #spiritualawakening #cosmicsoulmate #karmicrelationships #spiritualconnections #toxicrelationships #storytelling #wisdom #lifeexperiences #love #personalstories #connection #meditation #celebrityencounters #sharingexperiences #signsfrombeyond

Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke, along with Shaun and John from "Sins and Survivors: Las Vegas True Crime," to explore the heartbreaking case of Ashley and Dennis Prince, who were tragically killed by Ashley's ex-father-in-law, Joe Houston, during a deposition.The discussion reflects on Ashley and Dennis's lives, the legal proceedings, and the emotional and legal complexities that culminated in their deaths. They examine the intense divorce proceedings and custody battle, highlighting how Ashley's attempts to escape an abusive relationship were overlooked by a justice system that missed vital warning signs. Michele provides valuable insights into the motivations of those involved, pointing out the instability within the legal framework. The conversation also tackles systemic issues surrounding domestic violence and the emotional strain on families while advocating for greater community awareness and resources for survivors. Shaun and John reveal their mission to enlighten the Las Vegas community by shedding light on these devastating stories. topics | True Crime, Domestic Violence, Ashley Prince, Dennis Prince, Legal Perspectives, Advocacy, Community Awareness, red flags, relationships, divorce, Las Vegas, survivor stories, law, podcasting, courtroom, legal profession, community, instincts, lawyers, professionalism​​**This episode of lovelustfridays contains graphic depictions of murder. Please listen with caution.*linksSins & Survivors: Las Vegas True CrimeApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sins-survivors-a-las-vegas-true-crime-podcast/id1712245894Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/1W2swCx9LP38sFY06294pBAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/18ce5b73-c8ec-4e38-827d-df4119e845ea/sins-survivors-a-las-vegas-true-crime-podcastInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/sinsandsurvivors/Websitehttp://sinsandsurvivors.comMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Additional Links (Topics Discussed)The Vegas Justice League (Cold Cases)https://www.vegasjusticeleague.com/Original Episode Linkhttps://sinspod.co/episode36National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula speaks with Danielle, a caregiver and spiritual healing advocate, who shares her traumatic experiences with domestic violence in high school. Danielle details the verbal, physical, and sexual abuse she suffered at the hands of her then-boyfriend, along with the stalking that ensued. Danielle highlights the critical support from her family, especially her mother, which helped her escape the abusive relationship and reveals the challenges of rebuilding her life in a new school, finding supportive friends, and learning to trust again. Inspired by her role as a caregiver for her mother, who is battling cancer, Danielle emphasizes the importance of spiritual wellness in her healing journey and aims to raise awareness about domestic abuse and spiritual paths to recovery.**This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including the sexual assault of a minor. Please listen with caution.**topics | domestic violence, abuse, sexual assault, teen dating violence, stalking, healing, relationships, support systems, spiritual wellness, caregiving, mental health, awareness, cancer, cancer patient, domestic violence awareness monthlinksDanielle GrayNewsletter:https://daniellegray.substack.com/Awaken with Danielle Gray YouTube Channel: https://youtube.com/@awakenwithdaniellegray?si=HpHa_D653N7oAAOZLink To Danielle Gray's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/iamdanielleegray/profilecard/?igsh=MXJsYjRvbGl4ZDVodg==Additional Links (Topics Discussed)Strictly Stalking Episode 157 “Stalked At School: A Campus Confrontation”https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support!

Host Jake Deptula and former family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Terra Newell, a victim advocate, public figure, and survivor of multiple toxic relationships.They explore the complexities of toxic relationships and the expectations placed on survivors who become public figures. They also confront misconceptions stemming from media portrayals that often oversimplify these experiences, particularly beyond the sensational headlines of “Dirty John.” Additionally, they discuss the responsibilities of true crime content creators, focusing on the glorification of serial killer culture and the ethical considerations that come with storytelling. Also, how advocating for a victim-centered approach is essential for fostering safe spaces for survivors and recognizing that each individual's journey through trauma is uniquely their own.topics | terra newell, domestic violence, toxic relationships, true crime, survivor stories, ethics in media, accountability, red flags, healing, victim support, dirty john, survival, podcasting, serial killer culture, responsibility, survivor, domestic violence awareness monthTerra Newell - Episode Link"I Want You To Always Be Available To Me”https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-terra-i-want-you-to-always-be-available-to-me/id1735876283?i=1000663173031https://open.spotify.com/episode/2H7GJVeaVXV3cLvCsBTuC7?si=TlkZexWPT5WsIVcbm4I5NwlinksTerra Newellhttps://www.terranewellsurvival.comI'll Take The Stairs Merch 25% of Sale Proceeds go to Season of Justice!https://www.terranewellsurvival.com/shop/page/2/Book a 1 on 1 call! HTTPS://linktr.ee/terranewell Sign up for the podcasting course! https://coaching.terranewellsurvival.comTerra’s 30 Day Trauma Journalhttps://square.link/u/DvXXYN27 Exclusive Content on Patreon!http://patreon.com/TerrasbaddyclubTerra’s Baddy Club (Podcast)https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/terras-baddy-club/id1477935020Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Additional Links (Topics Discussed)https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/article/2024/jun/19/alex-murdaugh-son-sues-netflixNational Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Lena, an abusive marriage survivor from episode nine of lovelustfear, “He’s Your Problem Now.”They discuss Lena's toxic marriage and the influence of cultural obligations in her Armenian community, the nuances of recognizing abuse, and how she found her voice and empowerment through her second husband's supportive and matrilineal Native American culture. The conversation also highlights the themes of coercive control, gaslighting, financial manipulation, and the emotional toll these experiences have on physical health, including the long-term effects of trauma. Also, they discuss the importance of support systems and reflect on the necessity of self-care in the healing process.topics | cultural obligations, empowerment, trauma recovery, self-care, mental health, women's rights, love, relationships, trauma, abuse, relationships, cultural expectations, toxic traits, vulnerability, healing, hashimoto's disease, independence, personal growth, podcasting, toxic relationshipsLena - Episode Link"He’s Your Problem Now"https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-lena-hes-your-problem-now/id1735876283?i=1000657913302https://open.spotify.com/episode/3VuTd9CszCR6CyVMNmddRW?si=zHN5QTHhRXGe-VK61UY9jglinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk M.D. (Author) (Book Recommended By Michele)https://www.amazon.com/Body-Keeps-Score-Healing-Trauma/dp/0143127748More About Hashimoto's Diseasehttps://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/hashimotos-disease/symptoms-causes/syc-20351855Music Playing During Lena’s Freedom Ride, aka “The Grapevine”Siouxsie and the Banshees (Spotify Playlist)https://open.spotify.com/playlist/37i9dQZF1DZ06evO0KJgF1?si=k68HOnZbQVSZRBxD9OSVuQNational Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksChartablehttps://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfearAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Mira, a survivor and parent, from episode five of lovelustfear, “A F**king Broken Mess.”They discuss the challenges of co-parenting with a narcissistic ex-partner, the complications substance abuse brings to custody battles, and how custody laws can prioritize parental rights over child welfare. The discussion also touches on why therapists might be reluctant to testify in custody cases. Strategies for handling high-conflict situations include documenting interactions, careful planning, and setting boundaries. Additionally, they examine the appeal of toxic relationship patterns and the warning signs to watch for. topics | custody, co-parenting, substance abuse, family law, child welfare, parental rights, therapy, legal advice, family dynamics, psychology, custody battles, personality disorders, toxic relationships, red flags, mental health, empathy, codependency, legal representation, domestic violence Mira - Episode Link"A F**king Broken Mess"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear-mira-a-f-king-broken-mess/id1735876283?i=1000654910765https://open.spotify.com/episode/1grB6rj9w4wYwYefeEXQIGlinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Narcissistic Trauma Healing (Recommended By Mira)https://carolinestrawson.com/Caroline Strawson is a multi-award winning Qualified & Accredited Trauma Therapist & Coach, Founder of The School of Trauma Informed Positive Psychology - a school with a mission to create a wave of change around trauma healing and education both personally and professionally.National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksChartablehttps://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfearAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula and Family Law Attorney Michele Locke sit down with Justine, a former military wife and domestic abuse survivor, from episode three of lovelustfear, "You're Never Allowed to Leave Me." They discuss the challenges military spouses face in abusive relationships, the complexities of navigating the court system, and the biases that can impact legal outcomes. They also explore the journey of finding love and healing after trauma, the power dynamics within abusive relationships, and the vital importance of sharing survivor stories.Topics: abusive relationships, power dynamics, military spouses, survivor stories, healing, love, toxic relationship, military, support, court system, biases, listening, comfortable environments, survivors, domestic violenceJustine - Episode Link"You’re Never Allowed To Leave Me"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear-justine-youre-never-allowed-to-leave-me/id1735876283?i=1000653439092https://open.spotify.com/episode/5bNWUWoj1deSI8kcANsGpo?si=7945e7c09356460elinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Military Spouse Support https://www.militaryonesource.mil/Talk: 1.800.342.9647Military OneSource is your 24/7 connection to information, answers, and support to help you reach your goals, overcome challenges, and thrive. As a member of our military family, you are eligible to use this Defense Department-funded program anytime, anywhere. Turn to Military OneSource for tax services, spouse employment help, webinars and online training, relocation, and deployment tools, and much more.National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/Justine - Episode Link"You’re Never Allowed To Leave Me"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283https://open.spotify.com/episode/5bNWUWoj1deSI8kcANsGpo?si=7945e7c09356460eguest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksChartablehttps://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfearAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula is joined by family law attorney Michele Locke and Allyn Amerongen, a survivor, advocate, and podcaster, featured in lovelustfear episode sixteen, "It’s A Lot Worse Than We Thought."Allyn opens up about her traumatic experience in a long-distance relationship, the double-edged nature of vulnerability, and the challenges survivors face when navigating relationships after trauma. She also shares her personal journey while creating her podcast, “When Heaven Meets Hell”, and its global impact on listeners. The conversation emphasizes that survivors should never feel pressured to prove their trauma and be encouraged to embrace their truths. The episode highlights the importance of setting clear boundaries, fostering trust, and supporting survivors as they share their stories and continue their healing journeys toward recovery.​​**This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including sexual abuse. Please listen with caution.**linksWhen Heaven Meets HellApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/when-heaven-meets-hell/id1757647021Spotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0Ck1Xm1rqmu8BgEUbZpyfEAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/596cc7d9-1ad4-4777-838a-8680c1b62cf6/when-heaven-meets-hellAllyn AmerongenInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/allyn.amerongen/Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Additional Links War Party Movementhttps://warpartymovement.com/National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michele Locke, alongside producer Haley Gray, are joined by Heather Ashley of Big Mad True Crime and Kyle Ashley from Critical Incidents to discuss the tragic story of Emma Compton. They explore the harsh realities of domestic violence, delving into the emotional and legal hurdles survivors face as well as the systemic obstacles that often block justice. The discussion highlights investigative issues in Emma’s case and emphasizes the need for improved communication between law enforcement and victims’ families. Heather shares her expertise in criminal intelligence and violent crime reduction, while Kyle brings insights from his military and law enforcement background. Together, they reflect on the importance of advocacy, mental health awareness, and sharing survivor stories. The conversation also touches on the personal challenges of working in true crime media, including managing criticism and maintaining balance.Heather Ashley / “Big Mad True Crime” – Linkshttps://www.instagram.com/theheatherashley/https://www.threads.com/@theheatherashleyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/big-mad-true-crime/id1477773466https://open.spotify.com/show/1EKq0vbB08ke1QdCsWwIwhhttps://www.instagram.com/bigmadtruecrime/https://www.facebook.com/BigMadTrueCrime/Kyle Ashley / “Critical Incidents” – Linkshttps://www.instagram.com/criticalincidentspod/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/critical-incidents/id1793167009https://open.spotify.com/show/1XheQUBCO4U9gAekwkgdYQDiscussion Links  https://www.thehotline.org/ https://www.thehotline.org/stakeholders/domestic-violence-statistics/  https://www.strangulationtraininginstitute.com/impact-of-strangulation-crimes/important-facts/  https://www.timesvirginian.com/news/article_1686a486-580b-11e7-822b-0f6070bab2df.html https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/missing-in-america/emma-compton-layne-still-missing-four-months-after-disappearing-n815781 https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/missing-in-america/four-years-dateline-s-missing-america-90-still-missing-n826516 https://www.facebook.com/TomRodgers197/posts/missing-woman-in-halifax-county-vaemma-layne-age-52-was-last-seen-on-saturday-ev/260060507734080/ https://www.nbcnews.com/feature/missing-in-america/remains-found-very-shallow-grave-identified-missing-virginia-woman-emma-n837286 https://www.chathamstartribune.com/news/article_f342c0f2-d52f-11e7-b4bc-cb5cabdfc22a.html https://www.yourgv.com/news/local_news/medical-examiner-neck-injury-caused-death-in-2017-homicide/article_2b07667a-9396-11e9-b9b5-37dda535c91f.html https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/New-billboard-in-Halifax-Co-to-help-solve-Emma-Compton-Layne-murder-561157591.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgqWAZ1cQdY&ab_channel=WSLS10 https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Vigil-to-be-held-for-Halifax-County-murder-victim-Emma-Compton-Layne-568552601.html?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR0RPQ3cLtTwBFHE3aAISaGC2hhFOku8wH6jBQTdgJRygpxfes7UJDocxJo_aem_dDfHz6nR1coB6kCl-KWbOg https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Three-years-later-Who-murdered-Emma-Compton-Layne-571298181.html https://www.wsls.com/news/local/2023/11/22/emma-compton-layne-murder-still-unsolved-six-years-after-her-body-was-found/ https://www.wdbj7.com/2023/11/24/family-emma-compton-layne-still-seeking-justice-six-years-after-her-murder/  https://www.yourgv.com/news/local_news/justice-for-emma-rally-hosted-in-unsolved-death-of-nathalie-woman/article_f7b56cd2-2c0a-11ef-a6d6-bbbd81dc549b.html https://www.change.org/p/5-years-no-justice-for-emma-compton-layne https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Emma-Laynes-family-wants-justice-for-her-murder-469039723.html https://wset.com/news/local/one-year-later-emma-laynes-sister-still-seeking-justice https://www.yourgv.com/news/local_news/reward-offered-in-search-of-missing--year-old-cody/article_31787f4a-59e0-11e7-a45e-7f5dc8ffffb9.html  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Halifax-County-missing-woman-search-continues-two-weeks-later-431832353.html  https://www.wsls.com/news/2017/08/03/vigil-being-held-for-missing-halifax-county-woman/  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Human-remains-found-in-Halifax-Co-foul-play-expected-459605953.html  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/Family-believes-human-remains-found-in-Halifax-County-belong-to-Emma-Layne-460626173.html  https://www.wdbj7.com/content/news/SHARE-Police-search-for-missing-woman-from-Halifax-county-429921923.html  https://www.evaporatethemissing.com/post/with-butterfly-kisses  https://www.facebook.com/HelpFindEmmaComptonLayne  https://www.yourgv.com/news/lightmare-says-sister-of-missing-cody/article_d96de88e-6d86-11e7-a1cd-d3a4270a79ed.html  https://www.yourgv.com/obituaries/sylvia-whitlow-mccurry/article_5d5effb4-b1e5-11e7-95a9-8bf90331c580.html  Interview with Shawna https://www.nbcnews.com/dateline/missing-in-america/husband-arrested-murder-emma-compton-layne-rcna182219 https://www.wdbj7.com/2024/11/29/emma-compton-laynes-sister-reacts-murder-arrest/ Moms and Mysteries podcast https://www.momsandmysteries.com/ Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon MusicSpotify MusicApple PodcastsRSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #EmmaCompton #HeatherAshley #KyleAshley #BigMadTrueCrime #CriticalIncidents #LovelessFridays #DomesticViolence #Podcasting #Crime #LawEnforcement #Military #LegalSystem #EmotionalAbuse #VictimSupport #SafetyPlans #Investigation #WomensRights #MentalHealth #Empowerment #CommunitySupport #ForensicEvidence #ProsecutionStrategies #JuryDynamics #VictimAdvocacy #TrueCrimePodcasting #StrangulationStatistics #CriminalJusticeSystem #PodcastCollaboration #SurvivorStories #Advocacy #TrueCrime #Storytelling #PersonalGrowth #CommunityEngagement 

Brittani Ard, host of You Probably Think This Story's About You, joins Jake and Michele on lovelustfridays for a raw and thoughtful conversation about trauma, relationships, and the emotional weight of storytelling. She opens up about her transition from a career in architecture to podcasting, and the lessons she's learned along the way. The discussion dives into the complexities of dating in midlife—particularly for strong, independent women—touching on breakups, emotional boundaries, and the process of unintentionally emasculating men. Brit also reflects on how independence can sometimes hinder connection, and why taking small, intentional steps back into the dating world can be so valuable.Please Visit Our Sponsors!Ready to start your own podcast? Descript instantly converts your audio files into text documents—just like editing in Google Docs or Microsoft Word. It's the tool we rely on for Lovelust Fridays to keep everything running smoothly. Click here to try it for free!https://get.descript.com/pepqx4ars509Brittani Ard  – LinksWebsite: https://brittaniard.com/Podcast: “You Probably Think This Story’s About You”Apple PodcastsSpotify PodcastsAmazon MusicInstagram https://www.instagram.com/brittani.ard/Discussion Links https://www.thehotline.org/Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon MusicSpotify MusicApple PodcastsRSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #LovelustFridays #Pleasure #Relationships #DatingInMidlife #EmotionalAvailability #Independence #Partnership #SelfDiscovery #Attraction #PersonalNeeds #HighDrama #StabilityInRelationships #Parenting #EmotionalAbuse #SurvivorStories #Podcasting #Kindness #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealthAwareness #Healing #SelfLove #EmotionalHealing #MidlifeJourney #RelationshipGrowth #SurvivorStrength #MentalHealthMatters #YouProbablyThinkThisStorysAboutYou #BrittaniArd

Jenna Brister is a comedian, actor, and screenwriter behind the feel-good Hallmark movies adored by millions. She bravely opened up about her harrowing experience of being trapped in an abusive marriage with a volatile chef in episode 6 of lovelustfear, titled “No One Gets Out This Early,” Now, she joins Jake Deptula to reflect on the red flags she faced, the healing power of comedy, and how her real-life romance with her new partner—who she’s traveled the world with—mirrors the kind of love she now brings to life in her scripts. Jenna shares her journey of surviving trauma, finding her own leading man, and how food, humor, and holiday movies helped her write her way to a true happy ending.Please Visit Our Sponsors!Ready to start your own podcast? Descript instantly converts your audio files into text documents—just like editing in Google Docs or Microsoft Word. It's the tool we rely on for Lovelust Fridays to keep everything running smoothly. Click here to try it for free!https://get.descript.com/pepqx4ars509Jenna Brister – LinksInstagram https://www.instagram.com/jenna.brister/Google Knowledge Panel https://g.co/kgs/9nrnGbmIMDB https://www.imdb.com/name/nm4488723/Discussion Links https://www.thehotline.org/Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #LovelustFridays #JennaBrister #Comedy #HallmarkMovies #AbuseRecovery #relationships #lifetimovies#ImprovComedy #DatingLife #Storytelling #RomComs #FilmProduction #CulinaryArts #ChristmasMovies #WritingCommunity #Escapism #LoveAndHealing #EmotionalSafety #HealthyBoundaries #SelfRespect #Resilience #HealingJourney #Romance

In this episode, Jake and Michele are joined by Gina and Amber from the Weird True Crime podcast to discuss the tragic story of Judy Malinowski, a mother of two who was set on fire by her abuser, Michael Slager, and bravely fought for 696 days to survive—ultimately making legal history by testifying against him.The discussion delves into the devastating impact of domestic violence, the legal significance of Judy’s case, her brave testimony, and the historic role she played in speaking out against her abuser. The panel also explores the warning signs of abusive relationships, the difficulties victims face when trying to escape, and the lasting legacy of Judy’s Law. They emphasize the importance of raising awareness about domestic abuse and the vital work Weird True Crime is doing to highlight lesser-known cases and bring attention to critical issues in the true crime world.**PLEASE NOTE** The topics discussed in this episode are dark in nature and may be distressing to some listeners. We will be exploring sensitive subjects, including domestic violence, severe fire burns, and murder, which may not be suitable for all audiences. Listener discretion is strongly advised. Support Links https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.thehotline.org/resources/get-help-50-obstacles-to-leaving/ https://www.facebook.com/Judysfoundation.org Weird True Crimehttps://www.weirdtruecrime.com/https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/weird-true-crime/id1642363009https://open.spotify.com/show/3BHNffWPPzW79m0s5phIWMhttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/9d0c54e2-1ec0-4994-bc3c-33c8a0c3dcaf/weird-true-crimehttps://www.youtube.com/channel/UCcAPlqQ1t9nzA9B6kAKifmACase Source Linkshttps://lawandcrime.com/crime/michael-slager-pleads-guilty-to-murder-after-dousing-girlfriend-with-gas-setting-judy-malinowski-on-fire/ https://www.judysfoundation.org/about/https://people.com/judy-malinowski-woman-set-fire-ex-testified-grave-behind-bars-life-7503471https://people.com/crime/the-fire-that-took-her-judy-malinowski-case/https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-fire-fiance-heroic-fight/https://people.com/judy-malinowski-last-moments-fire-that-took-her-exclusive-7503538https://appgateway.drc.ohio.gov/OffenderSearch/Search/Details/A731261https://www.nbc4i.com/news/judy-malinowski-dies-nearly-two-years-after-being-set-on-fire/https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/gahanna-man-pleads-no-contest-charges-setting-woman-fire/530-bebe39bc-62ac-43a7-b42a-50e121da7965https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-set-on-fire-fiance-5-things/https://www.10tv.com/article/news/local/judy-malinowski-attack-survivor-who-fought-change-ohio-law-dies-33/530-1fe7ee85-aa78-499e-bad3-f065fae1bbcfhttps://web.archive.org/web/20190702053044/https://www.10tv.com/article/find-help-run-woman-set-fire-shares-message-abused-womenhttps://web.archive.org/web/20190702083142/https://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-i-want-fight-livehttps://web.archive.org/web/20171002181027/http://www.10tv.com/article/woman-set-fire-attackers-punishment-doesnt-fit-crimehttps://web.archive.org/web/20190702051023/http://www.10tv.com/article/judge-woman-set-fire-allowed-record-testimony-potential-murder-trialhttps://www.egan-ryan.com/obituary/Judith-Malinowskihttps://www.gofundme.com/f/hope-and-help-for-judyhttps://www.wdtn.com/news/u-s-world/slager-sentenced-to-life-in-prison-after-pleading-guilty-in-judy-malinowski-murder-case/https://www.dispatch.com/story/news/crime/2018/07/05/slager-pleads-avoids-death-penalty/987168007/https://web.archive.org/web/20190705225458/http://www.10tv.com/article/judy-malinowskis-daughters-our-mommy-didnt-suffer-vain https://people.com/crime/judy-malinowski-murderer-michael-slager-pleads-sentenced/https://people.com/judy-malinowski-fire-took-her-exclusive-dying-wish-daughters-7505022Judy’s deposition https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBapvOaUjj4 The Fire That Took Her (2022), https://www.imdb.com/title/tt21995004/ Series Linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #TrueCrime #DomesticViolence #JudyMalinowski #Podcasting #Resilience #Abuse #RedFlags #LegalHistory #MentalHealth #Relationships #Shame #JudysLaw #LegalTestimony #SurvivorStories #Advocacy #SupportSystems #Empowerment #UncomfortableConversations #FamilyStories #HardStories #Justice #Awareness 

In this episode of lovelustfridays, hosts Jake Deptula and Michelle Locke sit down with retired FBI agent and profiler Julia Cowley, who reflects on her 22-year career investigating serial killings, sex offenses, and other violent crimes. Julia discusses the realities of working as an FBI profiler, sharing her insights into high-profile cases, including those involving intimate partner violence. They cover the heartbreaking case of Vashti Forrest, a mother of two killed in 2011 after filing for divorce from her abusive husband, Brett Seacat, a police officer. Julia sheds light on the warning signs of domestic violence, the psychology of offenders, and the emotional toll of such investigations. As the host of highly rated The Consult: Real FBI Profilers podcast, Julia offers an honest, in-depth look at the complexities of FBI profiling, debunking myths often portrayed in TV and film, and providing a deeper understanding of criminal investigations.guest links | Julia Cowleyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-consult-real-fbi-profilers/id1586909557https://open.spotify.com/show/4BRyHb1KZjdGYrMfu2zMeMhttps://www.truecrimeconsult.com/ https://facebook.com/theconsultpodhttps://www.instagram.com/theconsultpod/https://www.twitter.com/theconsultpod linkslovelustfearhttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/lovelustfridayshttps://www.instagram.com/lovelustfridaysJake Deptulawww.instagram.com/jaked3000Michele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com Additional LinksStrictly Stalking Podcast - Featuring Julia Cowley “Real FBI Profiler”https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/207-real-fbi-profiler-julia-cowley/id1494237083?i=1000640310287https://open.spotify.com/episode/2rHGTzMSo5J6FjEx0jvqvPFBI Retired Case File Review Podcasthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fbi-retired-case-file-review/id1082012464https://open.spotify.com/show/5gtvYJG343U7NBxcOfI2P4?si=eZD1ISmESmKoSIaJZYTKaw&nd=1&dlsi=e1969a41e5f54afahttps://jerriwilliams.com/ National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/Case Source Links https://www.thehotline.org/ Brett Seacat, Department of Corrections State of Kansas v. Brett T. Seacat, Supreme Court of Kansas, 15 January 2016 Brett T. Seacat v. State of Kansas, Court of Appeals of Kansas, 11 February 2022 Potter, Tim, “Vashti Seacat autopsy…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Truesdell, Jeff, “Kansas mom’s death…”, People, 10 June 2013 Potter, Tim, “In wake of Kingman…”, Wichita Eagle, 1 February 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Vashti Seacat was hopeful…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy Renee, “Oral arguments set…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2015 Hurst, Laviana, “Brett Seacat sentenced…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Potter, Tim, “Sister testifies in Kingman…”, Wichita Eagle, 5 August 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Jury hears Brett Seacat…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Friend of Seacat’s…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy, “Brett Seacat prosecutors…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 N/A, “Ex-police instructor…”, Associated Press, 5 August 2013 Potter, Tim, “Questions linger after…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 May 2011 Potter, Tim, “Suspect in Kingman death…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Gray, Darcy, “Investigator says he…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy, “Jury to resume…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 Leiker, Amy, “Defense rests in…”, Wichita Eagle, 8 August 2014 guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #FBI #profiling #criminalbehavior #investigations #emotionaltoll #podcasting #relationships #lawenforcement #dating #trauma #domesticviolence #trust #roadrage #policeabuse #intimatepartnerviolence #caseanalysis #accountability #emotionalresponses #legalanalysis #officerbehavior #patternsofabuse #investigativestrategies #communication #casestudies #vashtiforrest #theconsult

Host Jake Deptula and family law attorney Michelle Locke are joined by Lauryn from Episode 17 of lovelustfear, titled “You Have to Learn to Trust Me.” Lauryn reflects on her first toxic relationship, sharing the emotional toll of repeated breakups and reconciliations that led her to question her self-worth. She describes how these painful cycles pushed her to emotional extremes and behaviors she didn’t recognize in herself. Lauryn also opens up about her struggles with body image, self-confidence, and how societal pressures influenced her perception of beauty. The conversation delves into the challenges women face today, the journey to self-acceptance, and the critical role of family and friends in overcoming adversity. Michelle offers valuable advice for parents on how to help their children navigate emotionally challenging breakups.linksLauryn LugoHere’s a link to my show Border’d on YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL3XBICHsy7GjVKinY7RhZXh8gy67zOSNZ&si=sYPzspemX3P1e1EGHere’s a link to my show Little Things on YouTube: https://youtu.be/BowNWLggBzQ?si=mGcgCnGkVUrcNdmbMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/Haley Gray | Producer & Researcherhttps://www.instagram.com/HaleyGrayResearchwww.HaleyGrayResearch.com Additional Links NAMIhttps://www.nami.org/NAMI is the National Alliance on Mental Illness, the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness.The Gift of Fear Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin De Becker (Book)https://www.amazon.com/Gift-Fear-Gavin-Becker/dp/0316235776/One Tree Hillhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/One_Tree_Hill_(TV_series)Sourceshttps://people.ucsc.edu/~sgrabe/Shellys_Home_page/Publications_files/Grabe%20&%20Ward,%20Hyde,%20Media%20Meta%20(PB,%202008).pdf https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2020/05/08/dating-and-relationships-in-the-digital-age/ National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! topics | #bodyimage #selfconfidence #toxicrelationships #mediainfluence #personalgrowth #selfworth #societalpressures #healing #friendship #parentingadvice #heartbreak #parenting #emotionalsupport #relationships #love #mentalhealth #copingstrategies #familydynamics #stalking #selfdiscovery #intuition #theater #empowerment

Host Jake Deptula speaks with Desiree, who shares her dating misadventures, including cringe-worthy encounters with older men who misrepresent themselves.Their conversation highlights issues like catfishing and the bait-and-switch phenomenon. Desiree reveals the aspects of old-school dating and the early days of AOL Online romances. She emphasizes critical criteria for partners, such as having a job, apartment, and car, and discusses the dangers she has faced, including awkward and potentially risky situations. She reflects on the importance of personal safety and learning from past mistakes while navigating the modern dating landscape. The episode also touches on sensitive topics like sexual assault and boundaries in relationships, encouraging listeners to be aware of red flags and the significance of trust and accountability in dating. ​​**This episode of lovelustfridays contains topics including sexual assault. Please listen with caution.**topics | bad dates, catfishing, true crime, online dating, SMITTY, dating stories, friendship, betrayal, dating criteria, dangerous situations, dating experiences, personal growth, dating, personal stories, domestic violence, abuse, sexual assault, boundaries, relationships, trust, instincts, accountability, sharing experiences, red flagsDesiree - Episode Link"His Name Was SMITTY"https://podcasts.apple.com/nz/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283https://open.spotify.com/episode/1jQ7VjUQ0S7feHDADg1fM6National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

Host Jake Deptula and former associate family court judge and family law attorney Michele Locke sit down with Lorraine, a narcissistic abuse survivor from episode fifteen of lovelustfear, "You Have To Be Very Careful With Him.”They delve into Lorraine's experience of escaping an abusive relationship with a partner diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and her legal challenges co-parenting with him. They also examine the significant struggles she faced within the police and court systems, which may have displayed bias and racism, particularly in Family Court. Also, they discuss how the judicial system focuses on child protection and how it sometimes fails to consider the best interests of the abuse victim, emphasizing the urgent need for reform in family courts to provide better support for victims.topics | toxic relationship, unfair treatment, police, court system, bias, racism, co-parenting, narcissistic ex-partner, self-care, narcissism, white privilege, family court, psychological evaluation, coercive control, court reform, self-discovery, support networks, humorLorraine - Episode Link"You Have To Be Very Careful With Him.”https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear-lorraine-you-have-to-be-very-careful-with-him/id1735876283?i=1000664798749&itscg=30200&itsct=podcast_box&ls=1&mttnsubad=1000664798749https://open.spotify.com/episode/54b3WJWHzDo324QLD2VU1o?si=P9hTAjHKTjW4HV73DUFYswlinksMichele Lockehttps://www.michelelocke.com/https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/LorraineGo Fund Me Page: https://gofund.me/5bd8a430Narcissism The Comedy Night: https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-a-comedy-nightNarcissism The Improvised Musical: https://www.montrealimprov.com/shows/narcissism-the-musical-a-fundraising-eventInstagram:www.instagram.com/thestarparentpodcastWoman Aware: https://www.womenaware.ca/Natalie Bedard better known as NatNatEnergy Healing Specialist: Regulating the Nervous System and Relieving Emotional and Mental Pain Through BreathworkWebsite: www.LiftOneSelf.comIG: Https://instagram.com/liftoneselfFB: Https://facebook.com/liftoneselfPodcast:https://liftoneself.buzzsprout.comYoutube:https://m.youtube.com/@LiftOneSelfPodcastNational Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365)Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233)Text: START to 88788 https://www.thehotline.org/https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotlinehttps://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/guest + story | submission information If you have a dating or relationship story to share, want to participate in a discussion here on lovelustfridays, or have a topic you’d like us to cover, contact us below.E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.comInstagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfearsubscription linksChartablehttps://link.chtbl.com/lovelustfearAmazon Musichttps://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfearSpotifyhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWecApplehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283RSS feedhttps://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rssWant to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review.Thank you for your support! 

lovelustfear is being developed as a streaming TV series! (Listen for more details.) L.A. Not So Confidential Live Video Q&A with Jake Deptula https://www.youtube.com/live/CMkObn9BTc0?si=VGaG0rDPZUGHuKe5 Story Submission (Podcast & Streaming TV Series) E-mail: lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Form Submission: https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear DM: https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ For video previews, check out our Instagram https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ Strictly Stalking Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/strictly-stalking/id1494237083 https://open.spotify.com/show/5dw1NJIObaOsj0o7JdruVQ L.A. Not So Confidential Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/l-a-not-so-confidential-the-premier/id1293032240 https://open.spotify.com/show/21dpgZ5V9I9m2RI8tB8Nr2 Thank you so much!

After a traumatic childhood, Jaimee yearned for peace and stability. She found temporary solace in a long-term marriage, but when it ended, she was drawn to a charismatic and charming man. However, beneath his appealing exterior lay a dark reality. As the relationship unfolded, it spiraled into psychological control, emotional and physical abuse. Caught in a dangerous and toxic situation, Jaimee soon found herself in a battle for her life. chapters (00:00) listen with caution (00:17) next on lovelustfear (01:34) about jaimee (02:45) jaimee’s story (01:04:30) questions & answers (01:14:57) closing thoughts (01:16:14) charity & organizations (01:16:44) submit your story (01:16:55) disclaimer ** This episode contains explicit content, including descriptions of sexual assault, physical and emotional abuse. Please listen with caution.** quotes “I was in an extremely vulnerable place…I was in a real crossroads in life. My marriage was breaking down. I was very alone. I was lacking this love, lacking attention, lacking validation.” - Jaimee “…he was so hot and cold, so he would be super charismatic and flirty and then all of a sudden would kind of shift and become quite offhand or even slightly rude.” - Jaimee “He called me so many names that night and I was just so taken aback. It's the first time I'd ever seen this side. I was a bitch. I was a slut.” - Jaimee “I was just an absolute mess inside and out. My body was shutting down. I shook all day. I shook all day constantly. I had anxiety attacks constantly.” - Jaimee “…and he locked the car doors and he drove off away from my driveway. And he said, I fooled you. I tricked you.” - Jaimee  “I really thought that he said to me, I'll fucking kill you. I'm gonna fucking kill you. And I thought, okay, I really am gonna die here.” - Jaimee  “That's seriously, one of the biggest things I've learned is you just, you can't, you can't outrun your trauma. It will catch you at, at some point, unless you, you face it and you deal with it.” - Jaimee  topics | #DysfunctionalFamily #AbusiveRelationship #ChildhoodTrauma #CopingMechanisms #ToxicRelationships #Manipulation #LoveBombing #EmotionalAbuse #Control #AssaultSurvivor #Isolation #MentalHealthMatters #LeavingAbuse #TraumaHealing #SurvivorStory #HealingJourney #SupportSurvivors #EndAbuse #YouAreNotAlone #Resilience music | sounds Lost Place Atmospheres 002  & Just Deep 1 by Sascha Ende Very Low Note by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Other Music and Sound Effects by: Alex Wit, cybercutie, Samuel Kamau, Syouki Takahashi, Timothy Kulig, Pixabay, Samuel F. Johanns, AlesiaDavina, and UNIVERSFIELD from Pixabay stay aware | follow | share (jaimee) National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365) Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text: START to 88788  https://www.thehotline.org/ https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/ story submission information  If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below. submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ subscription links Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283 RSS feed https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss Want to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support! 

As Lisa rises to fame in the modeling world, her ambition takes her around the globe. What starts as a dream life quickly unravels when she becomes the target of a dangerous sexual predator. Exploited by those in power, she refuses to stay silent, putting herself at risk to uncover the truth and protect others from the same fate. chapters (00:00) listen with caution (00:16) next on lovelustfear (01:44) about lisa (02:40) lisa’s story (36:16) questions & answers (44:39) closing thoughts (46:12) charity & organizations (46:42) submit your story (46:53) disclaimer ** This episode contains explicit content, including descriptions of sexual assault, human trafficking, and coerion. Please listen with caution.** quotes "I definitely always had this personality where I like to have a voice." - Lisa "As I became a model in my teens, it was like. The mid nineties, right? So we had all these supermodels and every little girl wanted to be a model." - Lisa I've had certain experiences that I always felt like I could handle." - Lisa "His whole demeanor changed. He was definitely very, very different at this point. I felt like I couldn't leave the room." - Lisa "It just changed everything for me and my trust in men for my body, my trust in myself." - Lisa  "They cannot be silenced anymore. That's where the shift is going to change, because when people, yes, are assaulted, they're speaking out where predators have always relied on the fact that all the victims stay silent." - Lisa topics | #Healing #Transparency #Modeling #Identity #Podcasting #Trauma #Empowerment #Predators #Boundaries #SelfDiscovery #Grooming #Assault #Trust #Relationships #SelfPerception #Mentorship #PowerDynamics #EmotionalImpact #Abuse #ModelingIndustry #SpeakingOut #SurvivorStories #Corruption #PersonalGrowth music | sounds Music (CC BY 4.0): Lost Place Atmospheres 002 by Sascha Ende Very Low Note by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Other Music and Sound Effects by: Alex Wit, cybercutie, freesound_community, Geoffrey Harvey, Syouki Takahashi, Timothy Kulig, Pixabay, Samuel F. Johanns, AlesiaDavina, and UNIVERSFIELD from Pixabay stay aware | follow | share (lisa) https://www.instagram.com/iamlisaphillips/ https://www.youtube.com/@fromnowonpod https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/from-now-on/id1766405014 https://open.spotify.com/show/1vOhoPrOkwIyCNApzsBlF8 https://www.tiktok.com/@fromnowonpod https://linktr.ee/fromnowonpod National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365) Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text: START to 88788  https://www.thehotline.org/ https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/ story submission information  If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below. submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ subscription links Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283 RSS feed https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss Want to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support! 

After enduring sexual harassment in her early teens, Lynn turns to older men for comfort as she enters adulthood. She becomes pregnant by an abusive partner, faces the heart-wrenching decision of abortion, and suffers further assault. Despite her longing to heal, she becomes caught in toxic cycles, growing increasingly isolated and trapped. Driven by the need to end the cycle of abuse, she fights to break free. chapters (00:00) listen with caution (00:24) next on lovelustfear (02:23) about lynn (03:18) lynn’s story (46:04) questions & answers (58:59) closing thoughts (01:00:08) charity & organizations (01:00:38) submit your story (01:00:50) disclaimer ** This episode contains explicit content, including descriptions of sexual assault, physical abuse, and abortion. Please listen with caution.** quotes “I developed very fast. I felt like I almost went from being a little girl to being a young woman, who was leered at and gawked at…” - Lynn “They became abusive…you never knew what kind of person you were gonna get with him.” - Lynn “…there's no way that I'm gonna get pregnant. and that's exactly what happened.” - Lynn “A few months later I got a phone call from the father of the baby, from my previous boyfriend, He broke into the house in the middle of the night. He walked into my bedroom, scared the hell out of me. And then in the morning he had left me this incredibly creepy note that said, amongst other things, I just wanted to watch you sleep.” - Lynn “…that was his way of getting me away from everything that I knew, my job, my friends, my hometown, any connection that I had to anyone to get me alone in a new state to isolate me.” - Lynn “I encourage everyone out there who has experienced any type of abuse, whether it be emotional or physical, psychological, sexual, to find a good outlet.” - Lynn “I feel like every time I tell the story, now that I gain a little bit of myself.” - Lynn topics | #Relationships #EmotionalAbuse #ToxicDynamics #Trust #SelfWorth #AbusiveRelationships #EmotionalManipulation #SexualAssault #ToxicRelationships #RedFlags #Support #Silencing #Fear #Trauma #Reporting #Assault #GenerationalTrauma #Healing #Partner music | sounds Music (CC BY 4.0): Lost Place Atmospheres (001-003) by Sascha Ende Very Low Note by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com) Other Music and Sound Effects by Alex Wit, cybercutie, TheoJT, Syouki Takahashi, Timothy Kulig, Pixabay, Samuel F. Johanns, Samuel Kamau, and UNIVERSFIELD from Pixabay stay aware | follow | share (lynn) National Domestic Violence Hotline (24/7/365) Call 1.800.799.SAFE (7233) Text: START to 88788  https://www.thehotline.org/ https://www.facebook.com/NationalDomesticViolenceHotline https://www.instagram.com/NDVHofficial/ Hope Alliance  https://www.hopealliancetx.org/ To assist those whose lives have been affected by family and sexual violence by providing safety, services, and developing partnerships that lead to hope, healing, and prevention. To provide hope of future generations through prevention and be a leader in saving and transforming lives affected by family and sexual violence. End Violence Against Women International https://evawintl.org/ We confront interpersonal violence against adults and adolescents of all genders. We specialize in trauma-informed law enforcement responses—from the first interaction with a victim through the investigation and potential prosecution. Positive outcomes for survivors require everyone working together, so we also champion collaborative practices, with multidisciplinary training for health care providers, prosecutors, advocates, and others who respond to survivors. The National Training Center on Crimes Against Women https://trainingcaw.org/ The National Training Center on Crimes Against Women (NTC) is a state-of-the-art facility in Dallas, Texas that provides year-round training for those addressing violence against women. Leveraging the rich history of the Conference on Crimes Against Women, NTC offers learning opportunities ranging from basic to advanced levels. Additionally, NTC builds community in the region by hosting free events, even those outside its primary focus areas. story submission information  If you would like to consider being a guest on lovelustfear or would like your story featured anonymously, please contact us below. submission link | https://lovelustfear.aidaform.com/lovelustfear E-mail | lovelustfearpod@gmail.com Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lovelustfearpod/ subscription links Amazon Music https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/b06d0ea8-cb29-4c3a-98e6-0249d84df748/lovelustfear Spotify https://open.spotify.com/show/0e3ndcf5u8lZ5lhN1lvWec Apple https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lovelustfear/id1735876283 RSS feed https://audioboom.com/channels/5125912.rss Want to hear more? Whatever app you’re listening on, just rate us and/or leave us a comment or review. Thank you for your support!