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im on substack now !! subscribe for articles and email updates whenever new episodes are released: https://substack.com/@s0wets0dry Today, we’re breaking down a pink pill that is far too popular, though for understandable reasons. The divine feminine energy coaching/ advice trend has roots in feminism… and fascism. We’re going to look at how the reinforcement of patriarchal gender roles became disguised as pretty pink Pinterest-worthy mental and spiritual self-help.We’re talking: Willow Smith’s song Female Energy, the girlboss era, witch feminism, When God Was a Woman by Merlin Stone, The Divine Feminine by Mac Miller, Google Trends for “feminine energy” terms, Mormons, Carl Jung’s psychology with Aspects of the Feminine and Masculine, the divine masculine and feminine theory’s connection to fascism, Eros and the Mysteries of Love by Julius Evola, the myth of the hermaphrodite, gender essentialism, semiotics, and The Love Witch.If you’re searching for a video essay about divine feminine explained, feminine energy meaning, feminine energy coaching critique, or why divine feminine content is trending, this episode gives you the historical, political, and psychological context behind the aesthetic/ trend.Intro: 00:00:00 - 00:01:13Divine Feminine Energy and Feminism: 00:01:13 - 00:25:11What Does Divine Feminine Energy Mean Today? 00:25:11 - 00:33:47The Jungian Psychotherapy Roots of Divine Feminine Energy Coaching 00:33:47 - 00:50:32The Fascism behind Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine Coaching 00:50:32 - 01:02:05The Modern Danger of Femininity Coaching 01:02:05 - 01:07:28The Love With and Self-Help for Women 01:07:28 - 01:13:03Wrap up: Wet, Dry, and Confused 01:13:03 - 01:26:07Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1WV8tEH20twe9IGylcXSMDj8aTJngabojJWpesMuZl2c/edit?tab=t.0#heading=h.xp4frjo6d83o #videoessay #divinefeminine #feminineenergy #masculineenergy #feminineenergycoach #divinemasculine #femininitycoaching #femininity #jungianpsychology #genderessentialism #girlboss #witchfeminism #selfhelpcritique #popcultureanalysis #spiritualitytrends #newagetiktok #feminism #culturalcritique #thelovewitch #willowsmith #macmiller #philosophy #genderstudies #internetculture #aesthetictrends Disclaimer: This video is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes only. I do not own the rights to any clips, music, or images used. All third-party content is included strictly under fair use for purposes of commentary, criticism, analysis, and discussion.Fiji (researcher, host, producer) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: ‪@fijithesirenMaximo (video editor)‬maximosarzano16@gmail.com)

This episode/video essay is about… bathwater. Sydney Sweeney’s Dr. Squatch Bathwater Bliss ad, the bathtub scene in Saltburn, the difference between “sexy” and “erotic,” and why capitalism keeps selling us desire but never giving us the real thing.We’re talking: Sydney Sweeney’s controversial Dr. Squatch ad campaign, Elle jones substack essay “everyone is sexy and no one is erotic,” the difference between sexy and erotic, sexiness in marketing, Georges Bataille’s theory of eroticism as violence and excess, Saltburn and erotic desire, Byung-Chul Han’s Agony of Eros, capitalism, possession, consumption, and more.Intro: Sydney Sweeney address backlash to Dr. Squatch ad campaign and compares it to Jacob Elordi’s bathwater: 00:00:00 - 00:03:34Everyone is sexy and no one is erotic: the viral substack essay: 00:03:34 - 00:07:31The difference between sexy and erotic: 00:07:31 - 00:17:03Eroticism in the movie Saltburn with analysis from Georges Bataille’s Eroticism: Death & Sensuality: 00:17:03- 00:29:25Sex Sells: The Marketing Strategy behind Sydney Sweeney’s Sexy Ad Campaign: 00:29:25 - 00:39:00Desire & Possession: The Agony of Eros by Byung-Chul Han 00:39:00 - 00:55:06Feminist Critiques of Sydney Sweeney’s Ad Campaign 00:55:06 -01:04:49Wrap Up: Wet, Dry, & Confused 01:04:49 01:11:26Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1JlgG4V344bWITgXy3RpigZCZSV-SEcpo8oAi_lbhTww/edit?tab=t.0Disclaimer: This video is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes only. I do not own the rights to any clips, music, or images used. All third-party content is included strictly under fair use for purposes of commentary, criticism, analysis, and discussion.#SydneySweeney #Bathwater #Saltburn #JacobElordi #DrSquatch #AmericanEagleAd #SweeneyControversy#SexyVsErotic #Desire #Eroticism #Feminism #ChoiceFeminism #PopCultureAnalysis #VideoEssay#GeorgesBataille #ByungChulHan #AgonyOfEros #PhilosophyTok #TheoryTube #s0wetS0dry #Podcast #DeepDive #MediaCriticism Join the community of confused pussies and philosophical slxts💦🌵 follow on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dryFiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: ‪@fijithesiren‬ Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. I do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode. All content is used under fair use.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

I’m backkk! This podcast episode/ video essay asks: Why do so many women find pleasure in submission to men? And if they do, is it anti-feminist?I’m talking: Princess Treatment, trad wives, gender roles, BDSM kinks and submission fantasies, Sabrina Carpenter’s Man Child and Man’s Best Friend album controversy, choice feminism, satire and irony, fantasy vs reality, listener stories, polls, and more.Choice Feminism: Is princess treatment a kink? 00:00:00 - 00:12:41Why Do Women Find Pleasure in Submission: Our Innate Sexuality versus the Influences of the Patriarchy 00:12:41 - 00:23:59The Kinky Sub’s Feminist Dilemma: Our Toxic Relationship to the Patriarchy 00:23:59 - 00:36:02Sabrina Carpenter’s Man’s Best Friend: Coping with this Dilemma through Irony and Satire 00:36:02 - 00:41:47Is Your Submission a Fantasy or Reality?  00:41:47 - 01:05:29Wrap Up: Wet, Dry, and Confused 01:05:29 - 01:14:48Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1gVwq-jfwpYhHkFrz5x4E1cVLJgEWkLcWSGac8LNERAk/edit?tab=t.0 Join the community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dryFiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. I do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode. All content is used under fair use.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn discuss full bush in a bikini summer, Justin Bieber’s comment on Hailey Bieber’s Vogue cover and publicly embarrassing her, Terry Real and tiktok feminism, and why Gen-Z isn’t having kids.Sources: Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: Does anyone really know you? And are meta irony memes Gen-Z’s way of balancing the yearning to be known with our inability to take anything seriously?We’re talking: Who knows you the best?, who really knows you at all? How well do you want everyone in your life to know you?, internalized shame, people pleasing, the fear of being fully known, oversharing, over-explaining yourself, trying to be more digestible for other people, Ava Louise, lore, should you tell your significant other everything?, meta-irony, post-irony, Ethel cain’s Tumblr post about the irony epidemic, get-z’s lack of sincerity, the mummification of Kamala Harris’s campaign, the risk of being sincere, core values, polls,  listener stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: Does Anyone Really Know You? 00:00:00 - 00:19:07The Ethics and Memeification of Your Lore 00:19:07 - 00:30:26How much Lore should you share with your partner? 00:30:26 - 00:46:54Gen-Z Meta Irony Memes and the sincerity crisis 00:46:54 - 01:22:40Is the inside joke a good thing? 01:22:40 - 01:35:19What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:35:19 - 01:54:02Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dryFiji and Autumn ask: Why is everyone calling everyone Mother on social media? We’re talking: Mother’s roots in black queer communities, ballroom and drag culture, misusing the word “Mother”, found and chosen family, the need for community in today’s political climate, the ethics of using AAVE polls, mommy kinks, Gen-Z’s need for nuture, Gen-Z’s need for mothering, listener stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1A5dFgl_yB6ZJGcJMKHR1DZQ0E255Xg8Omkpg01xfhZ4/edit?usp=sharing Tracing the origins of Mother in the black and transgender community: 00:00:00 - 00:11:33Everyone is calling everyone mother on social media 00:11:33 - 00:30:59Mommy kinks and the need for nurture 00:30:59 - 00:54:39What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 00:54:39 -01:12:46Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: What are babygirl men? Why do we want to nurture men? And are these terms emasculating?We’re talking: Famous babygirl men, submissive and breedable men, ideals for masculinity, breeding kinks, heroic masculinity, toxic masculinity, submissive kinks, boyfriends siimping, men in crisis, the toxic soft boy, pyschological patriarchy, emasculating men, Jeremy Strong as Kendall Roy in Succession, Timothee Chalamet, men in crisis, truly seeing men for who they are, polls, lister stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1OxuypWpu0Q8m9iNu0HWeJHaIYrR192Lpzoz7Bi8iC_w/edit?tab=t.0What is a baby girl man? 00:00:00 -00:29:38Kendell Roy: men we want to nurture 00:29:38 - 00:36:00Why do we want babygirl men? 00:36:00 - 00:56:51Is calling men “Babygirl” rooted in more patriarchy?/ Men in Crisis: What is positive masculinity without being emasculating? 00:56:51 -  01:22:06What is positive masculinity? 01:22:06 - 01:35:01What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about babygirl men 01:35:01 - 01:48:08Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry recap the month with some of the biggest pop culture stories: Pop the Balloon’s Netflix debut, Mel Robbin’s Let Them Theory, Lorde’s Washington Square Park performance of What Was That and her latest album Virgin, and Jojo Siwa’s scandal on Big Brother.Sources: What’s got us wet and dry this week 00:00:00 - 00:08:48Let them theory 00:08:48 - 00:23:59Pop the Balloon 00:23:59 - 00:39:23What Was That and Lorde Summer 00:39:23 - 00:50:40Jojo Siwa: Big Brother, queerness, and cheating 00:50:40 - 01:12:30Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn deep dive the movie AnoraWe’re talking: Is Anora a fairytale? Was Ani a deeply layered character? Was Sean Baker the right person to tell this story? Did Anora glamorize sex work? What was the significance of the last scene?, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: Intro 00:00:00- 00:11:37Who is Sean Baker? 00:11:37 - 00:22:05Was Anora told through the male gaze? 00:22:05 - 00:39:41The ending scene 00:39:41 -  00:55:00Was this really a cinderella story? 00:55:00 - 01:07:20Sex work realism in Anora 01:07:20 - 01:23:03What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about Anora 01:23:03 - 01:36:22Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: Is there a biphobia epidemic or are bisexuals reaching?We’re talking: Jasmine banks coming out as bi, biphobia in the lesbian community, Les4Les, lebian only spaces, internal projections, bisexual privlege, feeling insecure in your queer identity, queer titkok trends, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/14MwANNJoqKKGX_-n8EL6CJPnXRawaema8Q-glzEYDrw/edit?usp=sharingIntro 00:00:00 - 00:09:17Contextualizing biphobia in 2025 00:09:17 - 00:41:53Les4Les and lesbian only spaces 00:41:53 - 01:18:42Bisexual privilege 01:18:42 - 01:25:43What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:25:43 Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: are bops misunderstood?We’re talking: Bop lore, being perceived as a slut, sharing bop lore with your partner, the madonna-whore complex, broken bitches, pimp mentality, internalizing slut shaming, slut shaming dress codes, nude epidemics, our slut lore, the slut walk, the sex positivity era, 2014 feminism, sex positive feminism, sex positivity gone too far, the bop house, sophie rain, what is bops don’t wanna be saved?, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1UNV74US5veal9JASb_FOZsxrKkHLhOXVTlQBtsuIRYc/edit?usp=sharing Intro 00:00:00 - 00:02:02What is a Bop? 00:02:02 - 00:09:43Bop Lore 00:09:43 - 00:22:16Sex Positivity vs Slut Shaming 00:22:16 - 00:58:39She don’t wanna be saved 00:58:39 - 01:09:00Revenge of the Bop: the bop house, coming of age and turning hurt to hustle 01:09:00 - 01:25:54What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about the topic 01:25:54 - 01:41:27Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn talk female desire with Babygirl and Sabrina Carpenter, male rage with Netflix’s Adolesence, the Becca Moore and Shannon Beveridge, and monster kinks.Sources: Intro: 00:00:00 - 00:05:35Female Desire: Babygirl and Sabrina Carpenter: 00:05:35 - 00:20:17Becca Moore and Shannon Beveridge: 00:20:17 - 00:34:56Netflix’s Adolescence and Male Rage: 00:34:56 - 00:48:25Monster Kinks: 00:48:25 - 01:02:30Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask Are Gen-Z and Millennials extra drunk on nostalgia?We’re talking:  The science of nostalgia and memory, personal nostalgia, historical nostalgia, restorative nostalgia, and reflective nostalgia, our childlike selves, nostalgia for a time that didn’t exist, POV nostalgia tiktok trends, nostalgia and creativity, rose-colored glasses, fading effect bias, why can’t we let our lives be good, unreliable narrators, community, putting your memory in check, mass consumerism, capitalism’s effect on nostalgia and art, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_-csgy4imNoUdfDBCSe9zSI-Nx1ZXgtfcuvkP7HQRDs/edit?usp=sharingIntro 00:00:00 - 00:02:02Defining nostalgia 00:02:02 - 00:34:33Romanticizing the past 00:34:33 - 00:56:03Are Gen-Z and Millennials drunk on nostalgia 00:56:03 - 01:13:02Nostalgia and creativity: film, tv, music, and fashion 01:13:02 - 01:35:48What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 01:35:48 - 01:47:04Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask What does gooning really mean? Who qualifies as a gooner? We’re talking: Goon caves, goon sessions, taking off your skin suit, masturbating too hard, sadsturbation, edging, porn addiction side effects, erectile dysfunction, sex as a hobby, sex as entertainment, the bikini bean goonicide incident, Is Kanye a gooner?, sex as art versus exploitation, Bianca Censori, do video games push gooner content?, gooner bait, who is to blame for the over saturation of gooner content, developing empathy for incels, patriarchy, capitalism, polls, listener stories, and more💦🌵 Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1BtpgJqc4vXrm4VLRsHST0OTAeFkcj8_N5NZ2UVQmXO0/edit?usp=sharing Intro 00:00:00 - 00:01:55What is gooning? What is a gooner? 00:01:55 -  00:20:38Meet the gooners 00:20:38 - 00:35:59Porn addiction gooning science 00:35:59 - 00:49:04gooning science - 00:49:04 - 00:51:02Gooning hits mainstream: Goonicide and the meaning of gooning changing with Gen-Z 00:51:02 - 01:02:29Is Kanye a gooner? 01:02:29 - 01:12:33Do video games push gooner content 01:12:33 - 01:20:12Does social media push gooning content? Featuring capitalism and the patriarchy 01:20:12- 01:36:09What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about gooning 01:36:09 - 01:55:07Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn discuss everyone’s favorite reality tv shows right now: Love is Blind and The Bachelor. What’s with the damsel in distress trope? Why have anxiously attached people won the internet? Also, are polyamorous people *really* ugly? And why are lesbians so codependant? Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1D01kdRrazBdE1aYQ91w8k1MIoypUWOfHhm9S95jAeZ0/edit?usp=sharing Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn deep dive main character syndrome.We’re talking: Dressing like a main character, friends that are lowkey haters, being afraid of calling attention to yourself, different types of main characters, self-obsession, narcissism, being in the moment, letting life happen to you, main character energy, being a side character to someone else, taking a back seat in relationships with men, playing the martyr, being selfish, do main characters have to be perfect?, media literacy, polls, listener stories, and more.Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1SCBbP5YhpJACeACNIvK71VWKFp3jD6ObeP41TVwuG98/edit?usp=sharingJoin our community of confused pussies💦🌵 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: why do we party?We’re talking: CharlieXCX and Brat, Chappell Roan’s Pink Pony Club, going to your first queer bar, growing up through partying, social alcohol dependency, different vibes in different spaces, going out to find people like you, party culture simulating community, what is true community?, the cultural impact of Freaknik, party hookup culture, the anticipation and potential of a good night, gay bars and underground parties, drag and queer theory, the political impact of gay bars, why does the party life consume people?, strip clubs, Gay Bar: Why We Went Out by Jeremy Atherton Lin, polls, listener stories, and more.Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/11u3otaSjMmmk_9wvfG8eFy4iCpVhEBrUXj4esXqRAD8/edit?usp=sharing Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00- 00:02:12Brat and Chappell Roan: Pop Music’s Influence on Partying 00:02:12 - 00:14:39Finding Yourself and Community in Bars, Clubs, and Parties 00:14:39 - 00:46:17Messy party sex and hookups 00:46:17 - 01:00:41Drag and partying as performance art 01:00:41 - 01:15:37Partying is political 01:15:37 - 01:29:44Why does the party life consume people? 01:29:44 - 01:46:54What’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about partying 01:46:54 - 02:03:27follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry Fiji and Autumn ask: why is everything cringe? And also…. Ableist?We’re talking: Why did cringe culture become so popular? What’s considered cringe? Why do we enjoy cringing at others? The authentic era of social media, cringe vs second-hand embarrassment, main character syndrome, the psychology of cringe, cringing at ourselves, embracing the cringe, is cringe humor ableist, cringing at ourselves, cringe tiktok videos, polls, listener stories, and more.Sources: Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵 Intro 00:00:00 - 00:04:29What is cringe? 00:04:29 - 00:12:31What is cringing in a social context? 00:12:31 - 00:28:43What is cringe in a cultural context? 00:28:43 - 00:32:28The psychology of cringe 00:32:28 - 00:48:55Cringe content on the internet 00:48:55 - 00:58:14Who and what do we cringe at and why is it ableist? 00:58:14 - 01:13:34What’s got us wet, dry, and confused about cringe 01:13:34 - 01:27:46follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0drythe s0 wet s0 dry team: Autumn (host, editor) instagram: @autumnkaira twitter: @autumnkaira tiktok: @autumnkaira Fiji (host, editor) instagram: @s0wet twitter: @s0wet tiktok: @fijithesiren youtube: @s0wet Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist)instagram: @xlaomedia email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com A.I.R. (Music Producer) instagram: @airgoincrazy*This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.*

This week on s0 wet s0 dry autumn passionately defends Cynthia and Arianna’s emotional wicked press tour and Fiji achieves a month of nicotine + alcohol sobriety while she tries not to crash out. Mark Zuckerberg discovered Brazilian jiu jitsu and is making it everyone’s problem and maybe what we all really need is a lesbian boyfriend Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1hVmLxEc-zsR_5kmTnLrDe3iS2AeLrZGnU39_5bbCS3I/edit?tab=t.0#heading=h.r03ixghge45g  Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵  What’s so wet and so dry this week 00:00:00 - 00:07:33  lebian boyfriends 00:07:33 - 00:15:22 Mark Zuckerberg’s toxic masculinity 00:15:22 - 00:28:24 Cynthia Erivo and Arianna Grande’s emotional Wicked press tour 00:28:24 - 00:40:07 My sobriety journey 00:40:07 - 00:59:41 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* ---  Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...

This week on s0 wet s0 dry, Fiji and Autumn ask: are we abandoning our creativity for male validation? Are we more creative when we’re single? Do we know ourselves outside of the male gaze? We’re talking: Being creative with your partner, lacking self-worth, daddy issues, conforming to the male ideal, how the need for male validation affects our voice, prioritizing male validation over your friends, the Carrie Bradshaw hate train, creating for a female audience vs a male audience, authenticity versus approval, art with an audience, being perceived, the male gaze, the white gaze, the myth of male validation, the uses of the erotic by Audre Lorde, the female gaze, polls, listener stories, and more Sources:  Join our community of confused pussies💦🌵   Intro 00:00:00 - 00:03:17 Our experiences with craving male validation 00:03:17 - 00:15:13  Why do we crave male validation and how does it hold us back from expressing our true selves? 00:15:13 - 00:31:43  The male gaze, the white gaze, and the female gaze 00:31:43 - 01:11:40  The myth of male validation and the uses of the erotic by Audre Lorde 01:11:40 - 01:26:44  Do we have to go boy sober to return to our creativity? 01:26:44 - 01:37:36 Wrap up: what’s got us wet, dry, and still confused about the topic 01:37:36 - 01:53:20 follow us on instagram, twitter, youtube, and tiktok @s0wets0dry Sources: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1V09FbmZXVU2OqgZoewtYLy9fXXEcm2ztMLha_47s1go/edit?usp=sharing the s0 wet s0 dry team:  Autumn (host, editor)  instagram: @autumnkaira  twitter: @autumnkaira  tiktok: @autumnkaira  Fiji (host, editor)  instagram: @s0wet  twitter: @s0wet  tiktok: @fijithesiren  youtube: @s0wet  Mylao (Graphic Designer, and Artist) instagram: @xlaomedia  email: xlaomedi4@gmail.com  A.I.R. (Music Producer)  instagram: @airgoincrazy *This content is for entertainment, journalistic, and educational purposes. We do not own the rights to the content from other creators in this episode.* ---  Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh... Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/sh...