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Explorations of intimacy and connection, culture, literature, and other forms of art - and finding new ways of being through chronic health/pain struggles. Silly, serious, and sometimes erotic. As someone trained in analytic psychotherapy, I (Nina Lalić) will be having guests on for more personal conversations (these do not constitute therapy).
Website: https://sicklitgirl.com/
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I speak with Rina as we both share our stories of what it's like to have stalkers. An anonymous listener also describes her harrowing experiences at the end of the episode. With stalking, most of the time the victim ends up being silenced in various ways - here, I wanted us to have a voice and do the opposite of disappearing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I discuss schizoid and paranoid personalities in analytic therapy, as also presented in Nancy McWilliams' text Psychoanalytic Diagnosis.The following chapters are covered:Chapter 9: Schizoid Personalities (196-213)Chapter 10: Paranoid Personalities (214-234)More episodes and other content: https://www.patreon.com/c/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I discuss narcissistic and psychopathic personalities in analytic therapy, as also presented in Nancy McWilliams' text Psychoanalytic Diagnosis.The following chapters are covered:Chapter 7: Psychopathic (Antisocial) Personalities (157-175)Chapter 8: Narcissistic Personalities (176-195)More episodes and other content: https://www.patreon.com/c/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Talking about age gap discourse and generational differences, conversations with listeners of the pod - millennials Johnny, Rina, and Alena. Join the patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I discuss primary and secondary/mature defense mechanisms as presented in Nancy McWilliams' text Psychoanalytic Diagnosis. The following chapters are covered: Chapter 5: Primary Defensive Processes (100-125)Chapter 6: Secondary Defensive Processes (126-150)More episodes and other content: https://www.patreon.com/c/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Talking about age gap discourse and generational differences, conversations with listeners of the pod - zoomers Lauren, Zane, and cusper Myles. Join the patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I speak about the psychoanalytic levels of organization: the neurotic, borderline, and psychotic levels discussed in Nancy McWilliams' text Psychoanalytic Diagnosis (2nd ed). I also give examples from my own clinical and support work experiences. The following chapters from McWilliams are covered in the podcast: Chapter 3: Developmental Levels of Personality Organization (p. 43-69)Chapter 4: Implication of Developmental Levels of Organization (p. 70-99)Next week's episode will explore defense mechanisms. More content on the patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
An introduction to the text and practice of psychoanalytic diagnosis, as well as a historical overview of how psychoanalytic practice has developed since Freud. I covered the following chapters from Nancy McWilliams: Brief introduction (p. 1-4, 5-6)Part 1, Chapter 1: Why Diagnose? (7-20)Chapter 2: Psychoanalytic Character Diagnosis (21-42)Next week I will be speaking about the levels of organization, if you'd like to read and follow along:Chapter 3: Developmental Levels of Personality Organization (43-69)Chapter 4: Implication of Developmental Levels of Organization (70-99)References: Psychoanalytic Diagnosis (second edition) by Nancy McWilliamsFreud and Beyond by Mitchell & Black Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
On our experiences with dating or interacting with wealthier men, and what we are calling “the art ho trophy wife” as something those contacting us seem to be looking for. Included are also critiques of more pornbrained behaviours, especially those that are nonconsensual yet still normalized. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I give definitions and examples of what transference and countertransference can look like in analytic therapy. I will be posting an episode on erotic transference and countertransference on the patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/sicklitgirlReferences: Nancy McWilliams, Psychoanalytic Diagnosis Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
A recording during a walk with Mathieu - a story of our connection told in fragments. We speak about languages, art-making, literature, and have various silly asides. Languages spoken include English with some French and Serbian thrown in. References: Dany Laferrière Stoner by John Edward Williams Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I speak about what it’s like to be an analytic therapist - curious whether others will catch my own defense mechanisms in this episode. Recorded while I was in the bath ~References: Nancy McWilliams: a major influence and author of Psychoanalytic DiagnosisJuliet Mitchell: attended her recent talks, author of Psychoanalysis and Feminism Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
A conversation with Jess on her art practices, from digital art to woven textiles, ceramics, music, and more. We also speak about turning to art-making as an outlet and way of surviving.Jess’s instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jssb.exe/More of her work: https://linktr.ee/jess.exe Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We discuss Tito’s rule during former Yugoslavia’s communist era (Tito was in power from 1945-1980 when he died). We also speak a bit about what lead to the breakdown of Yugoslavia, but do not get much into the rise of Slobodan Milošević in this episode.Note that the audio clips were taken from moments both indoors and outside (with some wind). Digressions include being ambushed by runners and Tata going on a random anti-natalist rant, lol. Some recommendations from Tata on learning more: The Death of Yugoslavia, BBC documentary series (1995-6)Dejan Jovic, Yugoslavia: A State that Withered AwayTito by Ivo GoldsteinThe Serbs: History, Myth and the Destruction of Yugoslavia by Tim JudahFor extra content, join the Patreon: patreon.com/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I discuss the Belgrade New Wave (really extended to former Jugoslavia) music and art scene of the 1980s with Tata, who knew many of its key members. Note that the audio clips were from moments both indoors, outside (some wind), and in a vehicle. Below are some of the bands discussed, take a listen when they're mentioned in the episode:Petar i Zli Vuci - Ogledalo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yc1GNTW4pDQKoja from Šarlo Akrobatahttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FMXupoY247cAND founder of Disciplina Kičme https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSBnDo4Rc50&list=PLd-UjhGOzGd7WbnaHvHjezGUEsI02epH1Serbian example of turbo folk lol (Ceca) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cxZCsn9WxH0Vancouver band mentioned: Mode Modernehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqZYupJK3okFor extra content, join the Patreon: patreon.com/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I give a small introduction to Cixous, and then delve into some of my favourite fragments from her fictional work, the Book of Promethea.For extra content, join the Patreon: patreon.com/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We spoke more casually and answered some questions live. Nicole and I used to date, and she is now one of my closest friends. She studies philosophy - some brief references on the pod below: Hegel - Hamann’s Writings William Basinski <3Catherine Malabou - Pleasure Erased: The Clitoris Unthought Les Blank - Gap-Toothed WomenFor more of Nicole and I or related content, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
I speak about how chronic pain has impacted my creative life (and being), and some of the types of writing projects I've been turning to lately.Included are various literary references/quotes, in order of mention:Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead by Olga TokarczukNear to the Wild Heart by Clarice LispectorHouse of Incest by Anaïs NinErica Jong writing on Anne Sexton "You Were My Death" by Paul CelanThe Wall by Marlen HaushoferA Nest of Quiet: A Notebook by Anna KamienskaFor extra content, join the Patreon: patreon.com/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
From a Q&A that was live from discord for the first time. You can’t record from there unfortunately, and I’ll use better software in the future - for now it was a little muffled in moments due to movement, though still worth sharing for me. Answering questions per the title, as well as on being moved to tears by books/films, regarding magic, the general public, my most problematic favourite, and more.Some of my answers were meant to be more general - maybe I’ll still get a little cancelled, haha. There are definitely things I believe in, as perhaps I sound amoralist (eg, of course a genocide is happening in Gaza right now and there’s much worth fighting for). I meant something a little different.For extra content, join the Patreon: patreon.com/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
My sister's first appearance on a longer episode - decided to record us on a walk together. Mostly pretty silly, though we also talk about her panic attacks and different phobias, including of crabs and death. More of what is discussed: birds, and drugs (largely marijuana, including my first time taking edibles wherein I got stuck on the wall, though we'll get to other experiences over time too).For extra content, join the Patreon: patreon.com/sicklitgirl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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