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Accidental Swingers

Author: Myrina and Tristan

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This podcast chronicles the tales of Myrina and Tristan, a longtime married couple who accidentally stumbled into the swinger lifestyle. They discuss and navigate the topics of consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, sex-positivity, kink, alternative love and lifestyles. Listen to their adventures, learn their lessons, laugh at their misadventures, and enjoy their amazing journey.
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Dr. Tenesha Wards joins Myrina as they address the delicate balance of physical and mental health that comes along with aging as well as additional issues that women in the lifestyle might face. They tackle an array of topics including the importance of diet and exercise, navigating the costs of weight loss programs, and the benefits, and necessity, of creating a safe space for discussing women's health, anti-aging, sexual health, and obesity without shame. In this continuation of "Myrina's Journey" series, Myrina and Dr. Wards candidly share their personal experiences with weight loss, diets, and the holistic approach to wellness. Myrina reveals her current exploration of Semaglutide - from the initial challenges of nausea and appetite changes to its completely unexpected impact mood through blood sugar levels and serotonin production. As they dive into the nuances of the "skinny shot" sensation in Hollywood, they discuss the effects of Semaglutide on metabolism, the risks of side effects like hair loss, skin issues, and GI tract challenges, and emphasize lasting weight loss beyond medication.  The women address the delicate balance of physical and mental health with a focus on destigmatizing conversations around sexual health and highlighting natural solutions for related issues. Don't miss their frank talk on condoms, vaginal health, and how to select the right products for comfort and protection. Whether you're seeking guidance on weight loss or weight management or insightful discourse on women's health issues, this episode of TAS Episodes with Dr. Tenesha Wards has you covered. Watch all our interviews with Dr. Tenesha Wards on our You Tube channel: www.YouTube.com/@TheAccidentalSwingers Be sure to SUBSCRIBE to get notified of new video episodes! FROM THE SHOW: Dr. Tenesha Wards, Infinity Wellness Center: https://www.austinholisticdr.com/ Infinity Wellness Center on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/infinitywellnessatx/ Vaginal Yeast or Bacterial Infections Information. Symptoms, prevention, and treatment (douche) for Bacterial Vaginosis, Yeast Infections, etc. Yeast-free Foods and Diet  Cranberry Drink - Kidney Flush Oprah Special ABC News Article. Show currently available on Hulu. Bloomberg article: Can Ozempic Treat Your Depression? Early Signs Point to Yes KEEP UP WITH THE ACCIDENTAL SWINGERS: The Accidental Swingers website You Tube Channel Instagram Facebook JOIN US! Find more information about upcoming travel plans and events (Naughty N'awlins, Kinky Caribbean, Swinkation at Hedonism II, etc) and links to purchase your travel packages on our website: https://accidentalswingers.com/events/ 
Myrina and Tristan welcome Billy, Brad, and Kelvin, the founders of the lifestyle group, TampArotic, based in Tampa, Florida. As a relatively new and up-and-comer lifestyle event group, the trio share stories, and how a serendipitous "accidental booking" at a lifestyle resort has led to a thriving event organization and how their unique brand of inclusive, pressure-free events is revolutionizing the way swingers socialize in Florida.  The guys share valuable thoughts about the importance of organizing diverse and pressure-free swingers events, from beach parties and hotel takeovers to meet and greets. They discuss the importance of building a community, tips for newcomers at their events, and highlight upcoming TampArotic get-togethers. Learn how TampArotic is creating a vibrant, accepting culture and becoming known for their safe and inclusive events where authenticity, fun and freedom are key! You'll also get an insider's perspective on their most recent, unique, overnight event, which fused socializing with ... unconventional experiences.  Whether you're a seasoned swinger or simply curious about the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable tips, heartfelt stories, and invites you to be part of a community that cherishes genuine connections. With event recaps, future plans, and an open invitation to join the Florida lifestyle revolution, this episode provides great insight into TampArotic and their events. Visit  TampArotic.com for information on upcoming events details, and join the conversation on Facebook for their latest updates. Watch the video of this entire episode on our YouTube Channel! TampArotic Website TampArotic on Facebook TampArotic Facebook Group Page TampArotic on Instagram TampArotic on X Accidental Swingers Website Accidental Swingers YouTube Channel Accidental Swingers on Instagram Accidental Swingers on X Myrina & Tristan on Facebook  
Myrina dives into the world of holistic healing and functional medicine as she welcomes Dr. Tenesha Wards, an expert in gut health, chronic fatigue, women's hormones, and stress management. In Episode 46, Overcoming Open Relationship Obstacles: Finding Balance in the Swinger and Hotwife Lifestyle, Myrina goes into detail about the challenges and struggles she is facing as a middle-aged woman who is struggling with family challenges, losing her libido and facing her own mental health issues. In this episode, Myrina opens up as she begins to chronicle her wellness journey.  Myrina and Dr. Tenesha, a lifestyle-friendly practitioner, explore the intimate connection between gut health and psychological well-being, dissecting the limitations of traditional Western medicine and championing a functional approach that seeks to treat root causes, not just symptoms. Myrina, candidly facing her own health crisis and burnout, delves into her quest for better health – from hormone therapy disappointments to seeking out new treatment avenues.  Hear Myrina and Dr. Tenesha's thoughts on aging gracefully, the importance of gut health for immunity and mental wellness. They share valuable resources, including Dr. Tenesha's book recommendations and her nonprofit initiative to make holistic health accessible for all. Don't miss this episode for a profound look at health, healing, and the power of functional medicine. Watch all our interviews with Dr. Tenesha Wards on our You Tube channel: www.YouTube.com/@TheAccidentalSwingers FROM THE SHOW: Dr. Tenesha Wards, Infinity Wellness Center: https://www.austinholisticdr.com/ Infinity Wellness Center on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/infinitywellnessatx/ Dr. Wards' book: What To Do When Your Doctor Gives Up: The 7 Secrets That Find the Problem, Boost Energy, and Bring You Back to Health 00:00 Life-changing journey led to rediscovery of self. 07:02 Episode 46: Overcoming open relationship obstacles, stress. 12:49 Gut health impacts mental health, body connection. 19:56 Embracing vitality despite aging and frailty concerns. 24:39 Unexpectedly connected, considering professional boundary, genuine concern. 27:38 Excited to work together on health series. 32:08 In-depth blood panel not covered by insurance. 37:16 Gut health crucial for overall well-being. 43:15 Plan ahead for three-day dietary restrictions. 51:08 Limiting alcohol intake due to personal struggles. 53:50 Eat whole foods, avoid processed ones. 58:21 Living in Florida, need for sunlight. 01:05:55 Good bacteria recognize energy sources, leaky gut. 01:11:32 Discussion on issues, resources with hope, gratitude. 01:13:20 Grateful for your passion and alignment. Thank you!
Join Myrina and Tristan in the landmark 50th episode of The Accidental Swingers podcast. Celebrate with your favorite lifestyle podcast hosts as they share their gratitude for reaching this milestone, and dive deep into the realities of the swinger lifestyle. They reflect on their origin story from their first "accidental" swinger date to their six-year journey into the lifestyle, discussing personal insecurities, relationship dynamics, and the critical role that open communication has played in their marriage. The episode is rich with advice for couples navigating similar paths, emphasizing honesty, mutual respect, and the need for setting a comfortable pace. Whether you're a newcomer or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with wisdom, laughter, laughs, and heartfelt stories. Don't miss this chance to catch up on some of the most candid, informative, and entertaining discussions around. Tune in, subscribe, and become part of the TAS Episodes family as we swing into our next 50 episodes! Click here to watch the "companion" 50th Episode livestream that aired on YouTube! Join us at Hedo or Naughty N'awlins this June! Find more information about our upcoming travel plans and links to purchase your travel packages on our website: https://accidentalswingers.com/events/ 
Myrina and Tristan share their next erotic encounter lifestyle story. A sexy story about desire, fantasies coming true, and navigating new experiences. Tristan was expecting an MFM date with Myrina and the Captain but was surprised with a completely different evening. Myrina and the Captain instead planned a surprise sexy, and kinky, date night that included one of the Captain's playmates, Eve, as well as the couples' first visit to their local BDSM dungeon. Then back to the Captain's for an even more erotic and tantalizing treat for Tristan! Listen to Myrina and Tristan as a "newbie" kink couple as they share their first impressions and experiences of their virgin visit to their local kink club, discover what "Fem Dom Night" means, and what it is to be "free range". Things really heat up when the foursome returns to the Captain's house and Tristan is thrown into his own kink scene with Myrina and Eve! Viewer discretion: Episode deals with explicit adult themes and isn't for the faint-hearted! Want to join Myrina and Tristan at Caliente, Naughty N'awlins or on one of their other trips or events? Find out where they will be next: https://accidentalswingers.com/events/  
Myrina and Tristan speak to two couples and one throuple in the lifestyle and hear firsthand accounts of their personal journeys into the swinger lifestyle. Each dynamic exploring non-monogamy in a way and at a pace that is right for them. The guests share valuable lessons and experiences; all of them giving their own, unique insight into the essential component of every successful lifestyle relationship ... communication. Through their stories, each group reminds us that vulnerability, growth, and understanding are integral to building, creating and maintaining thriving connections. In speaking to these amazing people, Myrina and Tristan are reminded, it's not about the tags or labels but the connections we make, the conversations we have, and the adventures we embark on that bring 'life' to the lifestyle.  
Myrina shares her recent adventures when she traveled without Tristan for a week. Attending a conference where she regularly meets one of her playmates, Myrina knew she would have at least a few beautiful evenings with one of her lovers. She could never have anticipated, or even come close to arranging, how she actually spent her week when she is also able to connect with a previous playmate who lives in the area, and is finally able to make a connection that had eluded her for a few years, which leaves her speechless, breathless and wanting more. A physically, mentally and emotionally exhausting week leaves Myrina feeling that, at least for a little while, she got, at least some, of her groove back! Want to attend events with Myrina and Tristan? The couple also talks about their upcoming travel dates; you can visit the events page on their website to decide which events you would like to attend as well! Watch the raw and uncut video recording of this episode on the Accidental Swingers YouTube Channel!    
In this completely raw, uncut, and unedited episode, Myrina and Tristan have a candid, open, and honest conversation about their current personal relationship struggles and how they have learned to process and communicate during these difficult times.  They discuss the challenges of navigating the hotwife and ethical non-monogamy lifestyles during times when they are out of sync, especially with each other, and the difficulty of meeting each other's lifestyle needs while in the midst of mental and physical challenges. They talk about the importance of self-care and empathy in their relationship, as well as the need for personal space and time to process emotions. Want to attend events with Myrina and Tristan? The couple also talks about their upcoming travel dates; you can visit the events page on their website to decide which events you would like to attend as well! Watch the raw, uncut and unedited video recording of this episode on the Accidental Swingers YouTube Channel! NOTE: Please be kind to Tristan though, he'd been caught in a rain storm during set-up and never "primped" before they went live. Tristan feels so strongly, however, that viewers be able to watch this episode, and see the reactions and the interactions, that he wants the video to be posted. 
Myrina and Tristan talk about the use of recreational cannabis within the swinger community. After a few years of their own "research and development," the couple shares their thoughts and ideas about their own personal cannabis journeys. They discuss how they feel cannabis can enhance intimacy and the many ways they feel helps heighten their sensuality. And find out why they prefer products with higher CBD levels. 
Myrina and Tristan continue their swinger journey as they recount the story of an afternoon threeway which included a little surprise for Myrina as well! They discuss a steamy encounter with a woman at a resort who only had eyes for Myrina and Tristan talks about a brand new experience for him, a somewhat kinky invitation to be a third in a playdate with The Captain and one of his playmates. 
Myrina and Tristan are back at Caliente Resort and Spa in Tampa as they kick off their first "Third Thursday at Caliente". You will be able to find Tristan and Myrina on the third Thursday of every month, which just happens to be Ladies' Night, recording their podcast episode "live" at Caliente!  In this episode, Myrina and Tristan celebrate their five-year swingerversary (five years to the day) of their first playdate! The couple discusses what they've learned about THEMSELVES these past five years, how everything has totally surpassed their expectations, and that current reality far exceeds what they thought were their wildest fantasies five years ago!  Now it's your turn! Do you have a funny "accidental swinger" story? or just a great lifestyle journey story that you'd like to share? Myrina and Tristan invite you to share your story with them and the world! You can write us your story and we will read it on air OR you can record your story (no longer than 5 minutes) to be played on the podcast! Interested? Send Myrina an email to myrina@accidentalswingers.com and she will let you know how to proceed! Because ... everyone has a story!
Myrina and Tristan review their recent trips to Vegas and the Poconos. (Be sure to visit our website to view our calendar and join us on our next lifestyle event adventure!)  Myrina starts messaging with a single from out of state who was coming to Florida for a few days and arranges a play date with him. Myrina and Tristan are invited to play with another couple and single guy. Myrina takes a big risk to make one of Tristan's fantasies come true! Want to hear YOUR story on one of our episodes? At the end of this episode, Tristan and Myrina announce that they will be at Caliente Resort and Spa on the third Thursday of every month, from 6 - 7 pm, to record an episode of their podcast. If you're going to be at Caliente on a third Thursday, reach out and let them know! Myrina and Tristan love meeting listeners, and who knows, maybe your accidental swinger story (or just amazing lifestyle story) will be featured on the podcast!! Send your email to Myrina@AccidentalSwingers.com  
Myrina and Tristan step further out of their comfort zone by going out of town to spend the weekend with play partners they met at Naughty N'awlins the year before. Listen in as they recount the weekend's hot and sexy shenanigans where they basically had sex, ate for nourishment, napped, and then had more sex! The foursome visited the swinger club, Trapeze, in Atlanta where the ladies decided to start the night off together while the guys, and some interested patrons, watched the fun. The ladies practically flooded the room before the guys even jumped in! Tristan talks about his love of women who squirt and what it’s like to play with two prolific squirters in one session. Myrina talks about tapping into a level of sexuality that she didn't know she had. Both Myrina and Tristan describe that evening, still, as one of their top 5 sexy nights of all time!   
Myrina and Tristan are BACK and now also on VIDEO! From now on, Accidental Swingers podcast episodes will be audio and video! Find us, right now, on YouTube @TheAccidentalSwingers and eventually on other video podcast platforms!  Myrina and Tristan bring everyone up to date on what has been happening with us both personally and professionally, and why we haven't published an episode in a few months. The couple also gives a sneak peek at the year ahead for the Accidental Swingers and Swinky Life! If you get the chance, pop over to YouTube and watch our podcast as well! 
Myrina and Tristan share sexy stories about playdates they had; both together and separately. Find out how Louis got his "name"! After a final return trip to Virginia, Myrina shares a story about the final night with (one of her) Virginia lovers and something she has never talked about before. On her return from Virginia, Myrina stops at one of her favorite hotel chains and meets a lovely gentleman at the bar! Will they or won't they??? And when Myrina gets overserved, she accidentally spoils a couple's date with Amber and Steve. 
Myrina and Tristan decide they want to start a podcast but aren't quite sure how to talk to people about their idea. They attend a podcast conference and tell anyone who asks, what their podcast is about! (Spoiler alert: it's THIS podcast!) Myrina meets a vanilla guy who is "all-in" at trying his luck with a swinger hotwife. Tristan and Myrina finally visit Secrets Hideaway and Resort outside of Orlando, Florida with a plan to meet another couple for a night of play. But things don't always go as planned. 
A few months ago, Myrina and Tristan met and chatted with a couple at Caliente. Fascinated with their journey and story, Myrina and Tristan asked to interview them for the podcast.  Rob and Trudy are living their best life, together. They met as swingers, eventually started dating as swingers, and then got married and are still swinging! You can find them often as nightclub hosts at Caliente, or perhaps in one of their new endeavors, adult films. Rob and Trudy share some of their stories, their insights into the swinger lifestyle, how they told their families about their lifestyle choices and how they've made this all work! 
When Myrina and Tristan met Phoenix Phyre and Crimson Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins in 2019, little did they know that their lives would be changed forever. The instant connection the two couples experienced, certainly was too good to be true. But as time went on, and the couples grew closer, they found themselves on yet another unexpected, dare we say "accidental", leg of their journey.  Listen as Myrina and Tristan meet Phoenix and Crimson for the first time in New Orleans and then end up being one of the couples in Myrina and Tristan's first group playroom orgy. But beyond the sex and the love that was growing within the foursome, another passion emerged; educating swingers about kink and kinksters about non-monogamy. Through that passion, the quad created Swinky Life -  life at the intersection of swinging and kink. With Swinky Life, the two couples teach and educate the swinger and kink communities about each others' worlds. They encourage safe exploration of all alternative loves and lifestyles so that others can also enjoy living the Swinky Life.
Kink was the scary unknown, and was a hard limit for Myrina and Tristan. Then they met "The Captain". He slowly, purposefully and methodically introduced them to the spectrum of kink and BDSM. Starting with the sensual, softer side of kink then moving into sensation play, then impact play.  Myrina was skeptical and anxious but all of that faded away when she began to experience pleasure in ways she did not know her body could handle. The Captain also spent time teaching Tristan even more about this style of play and how to use it to create even more intense experiences with his playmates.
Kink and BDSM were the two things that Myrina and Tristan said were a "hard no" when they entered the lifestyle. Naivete, ignorance, and unfamiliarity with this new world led to a lot of apprehension and fear. So much so, that those were the only things they specifically called attention to in their swinger profiles that they would not explore. Then they met "The Captain". Deciding to open their minds and gently push their boundaries, they agreed to meet a single man who was clearly active in the kink and BDSM realm. Little did they know, meeting The Captain would change their lives and become a pivotal step in their lifestyle journey.
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Erica Beckman Lundberg

YOOOOOOUUUUUU are my FAVORITE FUCKING people!!! PUN INTENDED!!! Incredible podcast~sooooooo on the same level in many ways, and your humor is fucking enchanting!! THANK YOU for sharing! 🔥💋💗

Jan 29th
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