the illest couple

Sean & Cathy a.k.a. "the illest couple" are working to end mental health stigma one super awkward conversation at a time. We believe it is crucial to communicate openly about our own mental health struggles so that we can better navigate the waters of life, and... well... marriage... but we also believe in jokes about butts (because butts are funny.)

Episode 60 - Holidays, and Boundaries and Self-Care OH MY!

Cathy's here to talk about how to handle the holidays, the importance of knowing your limits, and how to manage the stress that comes with this time of year.Thanks for continuing to support the podcast! Don't forget to leave a 5 star review!Support the show

12-02
27:03

Episode 59 - Let's talk about TMS (Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation!)

In this week's episode, Cathy talks about how her 2nd round of TMS is going, the process involved, the differences between TMS and ECT, cheese, the importance of putting oil in your car (fire bad) - PLUS Sean's got a new band name suggestion for you (it's weird) and more!**NEW EPISODES TO BE RELEASED EVERY OTHER FRIDAY, INSTEAD OF THURSDAY FROM NOW ON**Support the show

11-18
44:07

Episode 58 - Nama-Stay Grounded Through Meditation

Sean & Cathy dive into the world of meditation, how it can literally help change the way your brain works, and the challenge that Sean has agreed to take on for the next 2 weeks, plus updates on Cathy's mental health, and more!Don't forget to leave a 5-Star review! It sure would help us out!Support the show

11-04
34:23

Episode 57 - The Sweet Relief of Horror

In this week's episode, (just in time for Halloween) Sean and Cathy talk about the ridiculous, yet super-healthy relationship between anxiety and horror movies!An update on Cathy's current situation, her treatments that start this week, her leave of absence from work, and more.Please donate today to help support Cathy's treatment if possible either via: GoFundMe - https://gofund.me/0db97714ORSean's Venmo - @seanonthedrumsPlease take a moment to give us a 5* review! Support the show

10-20
37:24

Episode 56 - Let's talk about where Cathy's at

Cathy really opens up, as she goes solo discussing possible connections between migraines and depression/anxiety, Sean's role as a caregiver and the pressure it puts on him, and Cathy's fears for the future...Thank you for your love and support. Please take a moment to review us wherever you listen and give us 5-stars!Support the show

10-06
24:01

Episode 55 - You Betta Work (on your mental health!)

In this episode, Sean & Cathy talk about their recent mental health happenings, and how drag queens help the healing! Cathy roped Sean into watching RuPaul's Secret Celebrity Drag Race, and, well - you'll have to listen to see how that went.They also discuss mental health statistics within the drag community, and much more! Plus a new "band name" suggestion from Sean and more!Please take 15 seconds to leave us a 5-Star review (even if you don't want to actually type a review, the 5-Star rating makes so much of a difference for us) on Spotify or Apple Podcasts.Support the show

09-22
46:37

Episode 54 - Drugs Can Be Good, Mmmkay?

In this week's episode, Sean & Cathy talk about the importance of sticking with our meds, being consistent, and ignoring that small part of your brain that's telling you, "Actually, I feel fine and probably don't need them..."Plus we'll talk about what's been going on, a pretty rad run-in with AEW wrestling Eddie Kingston this last Saturday, and more! Here's a link to the Eddie Kingston article referenced in the episode: https://www.theplayerstribune.com/posts/eddie-kingston-aew-wrestlingThanks for listening, and continuing to support the podcast! Go vote for a "game night" over on Patreon! Support the show

09-01
41:02

*MINI EPISODE* Spoon Theory, Seasonal Depression & YOU! (Sexy Summer Edition?)

Well, the title pretty much says it all for this one! Cathy's riding solo for a quick chat about these two important - very real - things, as well as how the one can potentially help with the other.Support the show

08-18
19:32

Episode 53 - WTF is the deal with WFH

In this episode, we discuss the data surrounding work-from-home vs working in the office, as well as touching on our personal experiences between the 2 options. You might be surprised about many of the things you hear from us! Plus, a new name for your new band, Cathy's hoping to land a job she interviewed for, and more!Support the show

08-04
48:24

Episode 52 - Who you gonna call?!

988! In this episode, Sean & Cathy talk about the ground-breaking "go-live" of 988!!! This is an incredible resource for anyone struggling with mental health issues. Stick around, because, at the end of this episode, they'll also talk about their little "getaway" for about 2 days for their 4th wedding anniversary (spoiler: it was fantastic, peaceful & relaxing...)Here's a line from the CDC's website describing what 988 is:“988” is the three-digit, nationwide phone number to connect directly to the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. By calling or texting 988, you’ll connect with mental health professionals with the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, formerly known as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. Veterans can press “1” after dialing 988 to connect directly to the Veterans Crisis Lifeline which serves our nation’s Veterans, service members, National Guard and Reserve members, and those who support them. For texts, Veterans should continue to text the Veterans Crisis Lifeline shortcode: 838255.Thank you our amazing patrons! We love you!Support the show

07-21
44:09

Episode 51 - The Mentally Healthy Choice

In light of the recent Roe v Wade decision by the supreme court, we decided it would be best to have a super awkward conversation about it... specifically focusing on the mental health aspects (pros and cons if you will) of abortion.We 100% believe in a woman's right to choose.Support the show

07-07
01:01:41

Episode 50 - Food For Thought

Happy Birthday, Sean!  In this episode, Cathy and Sean decide to have a super awkward conversation about the relationship between mental health and nutrition. It goes WAY deeper than you think.Support the show

06-24
01:05:26

Episode 49 - Mental Illness - The Unwarranted Scapegoat of Mass Shootings

Hey everyone, Sean's back!With all of the recent mass shootings, we felt it was our responsibility to do as we'd promised in the beginning of this project - work to mental health stigma. With that being said, there was no way we were going to sit by quietly, while (once again) the worst among us would try to unjustifiably point the finger of these issues directly at mental health and mental illness.Mass shootings have 1 singular thing in common, and we ALL know what that is.Not all mass shooters have mental illness. Not everyone with mental illness is a mass shooter (or even violent.)But enough description reading... Let's have a super awkward - HONEST conversation about it.Support the show

06-09
58:30

Episode 48 - Personality Disorders (pt. 2)

Hey, cool kids! Cathy is flying solo on this one because, well as she'll explain, Sean is dealing with "mouth stuff..." Relax... relax... Anyway, Cathy continues talking about Personality disorders and the clusters - including talking about which cluster she most closely identifies with, and more!Thank you again for all of the love and support. Jackbox Game Night - TONIGHT - May 27, @ 8:00pm on our Discord for all Patreon subscribers! Reach out to us on social media if you want to participate!Support the show

05-27
27:17

Episode 47 - Oh, you haven't "Heard?" We're doing one about Personality Disorders! (pt 1)

In this episode, Sean and Cathy discuss personality disorders, what we know, what we thought we knew, and what we know now. Cathy also explains how much of this related to the current Johnny Depp vs. Amber Heard hearings! Thank you to our amazing subscribers who continue to support us through Patreon! They got this episode early, and in full video (complete with our adorable Boston Terrier, BUDGE!Shout out to Brenda, April, Logan, Jesse, Tristyn, Larry, Josh, Leah, Jason, Mary, Scott and Kate!  We love and appreciate you so much!Click the link to sign up today!Support the show

05-13
56:07

Episode 46 - Storytime with Cathy!

Hellllooo there! We're "off" from regular episodes this week, but we didn't want to leave you empty-handed! On this episode, Cathy will do one of her favorite things: read a story! So, grab yourself a cup of coffee, or tea, or (insert beverage) and relax while she brings you the 2003 Stephen King short-story, "Harvey's Dream."We'll be back in 2 weeks with an all new, regular episode of "the illest couple" podcast!Special thanks to our amazing patrons who support us through Patreon! They got this episode early, and in full HD video!Brenda, April, Logan, Jesse, Tristyn, Larry, Josh, Leah, Mary, Scott, and Kate!!!Support the show

04-28
22:34

Episode 45 - Me, Myself & Us (Let's talk about D.I.D.)

In this episode, Cathy blows Sean's mind by introducing him to the complex world of dissociative identity disorder. This episode was inspired by Marvel's new series, "Moonknight." Plus we meet my friend's girlfriend for the 1st time (a year after they've been dating,) stuff about Budge, and more!Shout out to our patrons!BrendaLoganJesseMaryLarryJoshScottKateTristynJasonAprilTaraSupport the show

04-15
01:01:20

Episode 44 - An awkward conversation about suicide

Quick shout out to our newest Patron, Brenda!!! Welcome to the family!**TRIGGER WARNING**In this episode, we'll be discussing a few aspects of suicide, including those most affected, tackling some of the surprising statistics about who, how, why, and more. We'll also talk about celebrating Jack's 10th, 11th, and 12th birthday in a single day, as well as celebrating Christmas with Cathy's dad during a recent visit - yup - in March.This episode was available early, and in full video format over on Patreon! Sign-up today for this and more great benefits! Patreon.com/illestcoupleShoutouts to our amazing patrons: Brenda, April, Logan R, Jesse M, Tristyn, Larry E, Josh P, Leah N, Jason O, Tara B, Mary M-L, Scott, and Kate G!Support the show

03-31
01:07:04

Episode 43 - GTS (Go To Sleep... Thanks CM Punk!)

Let's talk about sleep! How it affects mental health, ADHD, and more! Plus, you'll get to meet our new family member!Don't forget to rate, and review! It helps more than you know!Full video episodes are available over at Patreon.com/illestcouple for premium subscribers!Support the show

03-18
01:02:06

Episode 42 - Change is Inevitable

On this episode, Cathy & Sean discuss a big change that's coming for them, and it's all about their family situation. They discuss the realities of those upcoming changes, and how to process things emotionally. Sean offers Cathy a lot of insight, having been through a very similar situation several years ago. This and much more, plus a new "band name" idea and other shenanigans.This episode is was made available early and in full video format to our patrons over @ Patreon.com! Sign-up today to get episodes early and as an unedited video episode! Plus some other awesome perks!Support the show

03-03
45:31

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