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“I Don't Hate Gay People, But...”

“I Don't Hate Gay People, But...”

Update: 2025-08-11
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Have you ever noticed how some of the most hurtful rejections come wrapped in language that sounds accepting? Coded phrases hide judgment behind politeness, creating what feels like acceptance but actually delivers conditional love with strings attached. From military culture to church communities, conditional acceptance creates exhausting energy costs for LGBTQ+ people who must constantly manage which parts of themselves are acceptable. Love that comes with disclaimers and conditions isn't really love at all. 

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“I Don't Hate Gay People, But...”

“I Don't Hate Gay People, But...”

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