While in the Bay Area commemorating what would’ve been my eternal love’s 32nd birthday, I was able to have a conversation with someone he loved dearly and referred to as his “twin” Wade King-Gallman, who just so happens to be an Associate Clinical Social Worker as well as an influential role model to the youth; and a pillar in the San Francisco community they both grew up in. In what turned out to be an extremely healing conversation, Wade and I discussed the makings of a good “bromance”, holding yourself and others accountable, calling your traumas and toxic traits out by name, finding and defining peace and the season of life we now find ourselves in.