🎙️Ep5 Off Topic On Point - Who Were You Before the World Told You Otherwise?
Description
🎧 Episode Summary
This episode is more than a conversation — it’s a call back to your original design.
We unpack what most people avoid: the crisis of identity and the discipline of becoming.
Together with Odette (The Alchemist) and Pastor Christo (The Expander), Dr. Janine Do Cabo (The IN10TIONALIST) creates a space for truth, clarity, and transformation.
Here’s what we cover:
* Why most people have been shaped by performance, pressure, and people-pleasing — not identity
* How to rediscover who you were before life started editing your essence
* What it practically takes to become who you were designed to be
* The two transformative frameworks: FIND and BECOME
* Soul-level questions that unlock clarity and direction
* And the truth bombs that hit deep and stick for life
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This is the kind of conversation that doesn’t just change your mindset — it anchors your spirit.
Episode Breakdown
🔹 Part 1: The Identity Question
“Who am I — really?”
* Identity isn’t found in the noise — it’s uncovered in the quiet.
* Most people lose their identity trying to survive someone else’s version of success.
* True clarity starts when you stop performing and start listening to your convictions.
🧠 FIND Identity Framework
* F – Face the false stories
* I – Identify your inner convictions
* N – Name your natural gifts
* D – Discern your divine assignment
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🔹 Part 2: Becoming That Version of You
“Now that I know who I am… how do I live like it?”
* Becoming is not a crown you wear — it’s a life you live.
* This process takes alignment, daily intentional action, and radical permission to evolve.
🧠 BECOME Framework
* B – Build habits that reflect the real you
* E – Eliminate what no longer fits
* C – Choose environments that reinforce growth
* O – Own your voice and values
* M – Move in aligned action
* E – Embrace process over perfection
Key Quotes & Truth Bombs
💣 “The way you see yourself will always cap the way the world sees your impact.”💣 “You don’t need to do more to become more. You need to believe deeper to rise higher.”💣 “Your future self is waiting on the decisions your present self is afraid to make.”💣 “When you stop trying to be who they expect, you become who you were born to be.”💣 “Legacy doesn’t come from what you build. It comes from who you become while building it.”💣 “Clarity is not a luxury—it’s the permission slip to become unstoppable.”
🎯 Reflection Round: The Question That Changes Everything
Dr. Janine:“Who would I be without fear — and what’s one decision I’d make from that version of me?”
Odette: (TBD – recommend something like)“Where am I moving too fast to avoid being fully seen — and what would alignment look like instead?”
Christo: (TBD – recommend something like)“What vision am I postponing because I don’t feel ready — and who told me I had to wait?”
“If this episode stirred you, good. Let it. Identity isn’t a marketing message. It’s a process of becoming — and that becoming starts now.
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Share this episode with someone who’s in the becoming process. That’s everyone around you.And remember: You don’t need more tips. You need more truth.
Until next time… stay intentional, and keep becoming the best version of yourself.”
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