Nic is another brother I met in the men’s work world, and I instantly knew I we were going to be close friends from the moment we met.

Nic has a fascinating story. A guy who from the outside had it all - a career as an architect, married to a beautiful model, and by all accounts had found success. But after the dissolution of his marriage, wrestling with porn addiction, an unfulfilling career, and a lack of direction and purpose in his life, Nic went on a spiritual journey that led him all around the world - rediscovering who he was and what was important to him.

Today, he is a world-renowned teacher of relationship and intimacy - with a particular focus on mastering sexual energetics. His incredible succinct, deep, and well articulated reels on Instagram have amassed millions of views, and he travels the world teaching men and women how to deepen in intimacy and live more vibrant and fulfilling lives - now calling himself an architect of transformation.

In this episode we talk about the importance of rites of passage and initiations, The Native American tradition of sundancing, how we can help our parents heal their traumas, plant medicines, taking frog poison, taking 100% responsibility for our lives, how to find feminine nourishment beyond women, and so much more…

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