When it comes to marriage, infatuation and early-marriage butterflies can only sustain the "in-love" feeling for so long. We all have what Gary Chapman refers to as a love tank and it is either being filled or being emptied.

What we often fail to realize is that our love tank is only filled when we are spoken to in the love language we speak. This often means learning a new way to speak. And learning to speak a foreign language is challenging. Duolingo anyone? That is why we need all the help we can get.

Andy and Sarah found themselves in this exact situation only 6 months after disclosure. Their councilor recommended they read the book The Five Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts by Gary Chapman. In his book, Chapman details why the "in-love" experience isn't enough and how you can experience real love that lasts a lifetime.

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5 Love Languages Quiz

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