“An important aspect of this ever-evolving quest for empowerment as a FIlipina-American, was developing the ability TO BRIDGE the PERCEIVED DICHOTOMIES of white = more, brown = less, and man = more, woman = less. It is from a place of transcending this compartmentalized framework that we can find the openness to welcome the fullness of possibility into our lives. The more forgiveness and acceptance I develop for myself, the more I have to offer others. And that, I think, is truly where empowerment lies".

- Ate Trisha Agbulos Cabeje, MA in Women’s Spirituality, Babaylan, Ch.8, pg. 234

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In this latest installment, we dissect the perspectives of what seems to be advice from an Ate/Elder/Boss Babe/Kapwatid, Trisha, regarding her own decolonizing journey. Like many of us, she was born into a Catholic household. Along her life's journey, she returned back to the Philippines and spent some time on the island of Mindinao, and developed a rich understanding of the T’boli people. This led to her psychological breakdown of the contrast and often conflict between the terms of being a Filipina AND an American.

We mention of the stereotypes that exist within the Filipina-American/Filipinx community, especially the work of recalling memories of cultural and gender subordination (i.e. Americanism vs. Filipinoism, Colorism, then Gender-ism).

Trisha "weaves" us into her inner- and under- standing the sacred feminine in the Philippines.

That recognizing the divinity within women AND men is key. 

1. Grounding Prayer & @ 3min, 13sec

2. Heart Check-in @ 5 min, 50sec

3. Chapter Overview @ 9min, 17sec

T’boli women dream weaving discussion

@15min, 25sec

4. Vocabulary Words @ 24min, 5sec

5. Quotes @ 49min, 35sec

6. Closing Prayer @ 1hr, 10min, 45sec