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035 When Gratitude Feels Forced: Finding Thanks in the Mess

035 When Gratitude Feels Forced: Finding Thanks in the Mess

Update: 2025-12-09
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When life feels heavy, gratitude can feel fake. Let’s talk about finding real, grounded thankfulness in the middle of the mess.
What You’ll Learn

  • Why “toxic gratitude” makes hard days harder

  • The difference between pretending and practicing gratitude

  • Gentle journal prompts for finding small joys

  • How faith helps you hold gratitude and pain at the same time


Memorable Quotes

  • “Gratitude doesn’t erase pain — it makes room for hope.”

  • “It’s not about being thankful for the pain. It’s about noticing what still holds.”

  • “You can be angry, tired, and grateful all at once.”

  • “Gratitude doesn’t have to be loud — sometimes it’s a whisper: ‘I’m still here.’”


Key Scripture
“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18 (NIV)
Reflection / Journal Prompt for the Week
What’s one small mercy you can thank God for today — even in the middle of what’s still hard?
One Tiny Step for the Week
Write down one moment each day that made you breathe easier, even for a second. That’s where real gratitude begins.
Resources

  • The Rest Without Guilt Checklist -

    A simple, honest look at how to rest before you crash using a one-page checklist that helps you check in with your body, your mind, and your real capacity.



  • Gratitude Prompt for the Hard Days— A super simple daily reflection to help you notice what’s still good, even on low-energy days.

  • The Joy Journal — A gentle guided journal with short prompts to help you rediscover joy one small moment at a time


Credits
Host: April Aramanda
Podcast: The Invisible Illness Club
Music: Audio Jungle
Learn more: theinvisibleillnessclub.com
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035 When Gratitude Feels Forced: Finding Thanks in the Mess

035 When Gratitude Feels Forced: Finding Thanks in the Mess

April Aramanda, Invisible Illness Club