#1 – What the Fine, Single Guys and Ladies Look For
In this episode, Abisola and Seyi discuss answers they got from interviewing guys and ladies on what sweeps them off their feet when they first meet, and big no-no's that make them wave goodbye.
4:00: Types of questions we asked in the interviews.
5:58: Factor #1 that is important at the first meet – appearance.
8:00: What ladies think about appearance at the first meet.
9:58: Factor #2 that is important at the first meet – good conversation.
13:44: What ladies that about good conversation.
17:35: Factor #3 - Be independent, have ambition and drive.
21:23: Other factors – be sweet and kind.
22:05: Other factors – don’t be too materialistic.
22:25: Deal breakers in relationships – character becomes more important than looks.
25:05: Deal breakers in relationships – shared values/faith.
25:45: Deal breakers in relationships – sex.
26:50: Deal breakers in relationships – ideas on gender roles.
27:50: Deal breakers in relationships – continue good conversations and friendships.
28:23: Deal breakers in relationships – personal ambition and desire for growth.
29:23: Other random deal breakers – dishonesty, dating history, kids, financially irresponsible, race.
30:00: Wrap up, and peek into Part 2.