How much time have you spent trying to figure out what your unfaithful or addicted spouse is thinking? Maybe you haven’t gotten to point where you realize not just it’s futility, but the hindrance it is to your own healing.

In this episode of the Hope for Spouses Lunchtime Live, Kim Pullen discusses three reasons a betrayed partner needs to stay in their own head instead of trying to get in their spouse’s. She talks about the physiological reasons but more importantly, she talks about the spiritual reasons why we need to stop obsessing over what our partner is thinking and focus on what God thinks and says, and on our own healing.

Scriptures References:

1 Corinthians 2:11

Psalm 139:1-4

Galatians 5:16

Philippians 2:4

Ephesians 4:17-24

John 21:22

Luke 13:1-5

Galatians 6:2-5

Romans 12:2

Colossians 3:9-10

1 Corinthians 2:6-16

Romans 8:6

John 12:49 , 14:10 , 17:8

1 Corinthians 3:1-3

Articles:

Two minds: The cognitive differences between men and women

https://stanmed.stanford.edu/2017spring/how-mens-and-womens-brains-are-different.html

Watching porn rewires the brain to a more juvenile state

https://theconversation.com/watching-pornography-rewires-the-brain-to-a-more-juvenile-state-127306

Image of the Three Brains:

https://hope4spouses.s3.us-east-2.amazonaws.com/brain+images+on+porn.jpg

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