Today’s episode is going to be a sensitive one and if you’re in a long-term relationship, whether or not you’re having issues with your sexual relations, this is going to be a great listen for you. Why does your sexual identity go away if you don’t feel your husband or long-term partner desiring you? Do not rely your self-worth solely on someone else, do the inner work, and do not wait for someone else to ignite your intimate, magnetic energy.

Show notes:
[1:22 ] Some basic info about me and my husband
[3:39 ] What really bothered me when our sex life declined
[6:04 ] Feeling shame
[7:50 ] Something that Esther Perel said that stuck with me
[10:10 ] Sharing an awkward and vulnerable topic
[12:56 ] Developing a part in you, for you—the intimacy tank
[15:57 ] The struggles of a long-term relationship


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