DiscoverThe Pocket with Chris Griffin#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm
#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm

#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm

Update: 2025-11-21
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Today’s episode is with Chris Petkas, former Navy Seal turned VC investor. It was a powerful conversation around grit, determination and the willingness to fail.

Chris’ marriage with Codie Sanchez inspires me, Chris’ well rounded success inspires me and Chris’ calm nature inspires me.




I loved this conversation. We also recorded this in a horse stable just out of Austin with 5 real horses behind us.




Key Discussion Points:



  • Why calm men are often the most dangerous

  • How military training builds composure under chaos

  • Naivety as a superpower when starting hard things

  • The biggest risk in life: choosing who you marry

  • Jiu-jitsu, humility, and learning through losing

  • Patriotism, perspective, and seeing the world

  • Australia’s tall-poppy mindset vs America




Follow Chris Petkas:


https://www.instagram.com/chrispetkas/




Follow Chris Griffin:


https://www.instagram.com/morechrisgriffin/




Chapters:


00:00 Why Calm Men Are the Most Dangerous


05:20 Military Recruitment


10:40 Naivety, Risk and Starting Before You’re Ready


15:55 Failure, Ego and Learning Through Pain


21:00 Suffering in Training vs Real Combat


26:15 Leaving the Military and Entering Business


30:30 The Competence Ladder


33:45 Long Distance Love


36:50 Choosing a Partner is your biggest risk


39:40 Building Marriage and Business Together


46:30 The Loneliness Myth


49:40 Patriotism, Perspective and Seeing the World


53:50 Australia vs America: Ambition and Tall Poppy Culture

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#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm

#112: Chris Petkas: Why The Most Dangerous Men Are The Most Calm

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