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120 | I Need You Where I Am: Infidelity's Surprising Effects for Her (Series 2 of 3)

120 | I Need You Where I Am: Infidelity's Surprising Effects for Her (Series 2 of 3)

Update: 2025-08-25
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Today in the second installment of our series, I Need You Where I Am, we turn the spotlight fully onto the wreckage inside a wife’s body and soul after sexual betrayal.


 


The physical, emotional, and spiritual effects of betrayal trauma are real and profound. A wife experiencing these effects may think she is going crazy. She is not. It just feels that way.


 


As we talked about last week, a husband who “gets it” understands the magnitude of the effects of his betrayal on his wife. This man can show compassion and empathy by looking past his own situation to see his wife’s pain.


 


In this episode, we will share our experience with the effects of betrayal trauma as well as hope for the future where the trauma is healed and life becomes new.


 


We pray this blesses you,


 


Johnny and Emily


 


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RELATED EPISODES:


Episode 22. How Long Will This Hurt? Experiencing The 5 Stages of Grief Through the Lens of Sexual Betrayal


Episode 119. I Need You Where I Am: Why Unfaithful Husbands Just Don’t Get It (Series 1 of 3)


 


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120 | I Need You Where I Am: Infidelity's Surprising Effects for Her (Series 2 of 3)

120 | I Need You Where I Am: Infidelity's Surprising Effects for Her (Series 2 of 3)

Emily & Johnny Spigelmire | Christian Marriage Recovery Coaches