What if you could pick up the phone, call a hotline, and ask anything you wanted about confidence?

 

No scripts, no judgment, just a safe space to get answers to the questions that keep you up at night or stop you from showing up fully in your life. That’s the idea behind today’s special episode of GRASP Confidence.

In this solo show, I’m opening up the “Confidence Hotline” and answering real, relatable, and sometimes downright funny questions from people across the U.S. and around the world. These questions touch on everything from raising your prices as a coach to finding your voice in a crowded room, from dreaming of TEDx stages to figuring out how to look confident in photos.

Because here’s the truth: confidence isn’t just for the boardroom, the stage, or the big moments. Confidence shows up in the everyday. It’s in how you walk into a networking event, how you tell your story, how you share your ideas, and yes; even in how you pose for a picture without looking like a confused tourist.

 

Why This Episode Matters

So many of us think confidence is something you magically “get” once you hit a certain milestone. But confidence isn’t a destination, it’s a practice. It’s something you build little by little, moment by moment, decision by decision.

This episode gives you a behind-the-scenes look at what people are really asking about confidence. Not the glossy, Instagram-perfect version of it, but the real struggles:

• “How do I raise my prices without panicking that everyone will say no?”

• “Why does introducing myself feel scarier than giving a two-hour presentation?”

• “How do I share my story when I keep hearing the voice in my head that says no one cares?”

And here’s the thing; if one person is asking these questions, thousands more are silently thinking the same thing. By answering them out loud, we shine a light on the common fears and insecurities that hold us back, and we flip the script to show what’s possible when you lean into confidence instead of waiting for it.

 

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Here’s a sneak peek into some of the questions I tackle and the insights you’ll take away:

✅ Networking without hiding by the guacamole bowl. One listener asked how to walk into an event without wanting to disappear. My answer? Shift from “How do I impress people?” to “How can I be curious about people?” That small shift turns anxiety into connection.

✅ Raising your prices with confidence. A coach from Phoenix shared their fear of charging more for services. We dig into why pricing isn’t about time, but about transformation, and how stepping into higher value attracts the right clients.

✅ Sharing your story. A reader of my book confessed they thought, “Why can’t I do that? Why can’t I share my story?” I talk about how storytelling isn’t about you; it’s about the person who needs your message. Every time you tell your story, you make it easier for someone else to rise.

✅ The TEDx dream. One aspiring speaker asked how to build the confidence to apply for a TEDx talk. My advice? Focus on the one message you’d want the world to remember a decade from now. Clarity builds courage, and courage gets you on the red dot.

✅ Visibility online. We tackle the fear of showing up on LinkedIn and Instagram when overthinking takes over. Confidence online doesn’t come from the perfect post—it comes from consistency, connection, and service.

✅ Owning your accent. A professional from Berlin asked how to stop apologizing for their accent. My answer: Your accent is your credibility. It means you speak more than one language. That’s not a weakness, that’s a strength.

✅ Confidence in photos. A listener from Rome wanted to know how to stop looking like a “confused tourist with a forced smile.” The hack? Think of something that makes you genuinely laugh right before the photo. Real smiles always win.

✅ Party prep gone wrong. Someone admitted they rehearse lines before parties, only to forget everything at the door. The truth? You don’t need rehearsed lines, you just need curiosity. Confidence is about connection, not recitation.

✅ The myth of faking it. One listener asked if confidence can be faked. I explain why it's not about faking it, it's about embodiment. See the difference?

 

Why You’ll Love This Episode

This isn’t a lecture. It’s not a motivational monologue. It’s a conversation, like sitting down with a friend who gets it. A friend who’s been where you are and can give you both the reassurance and the practical tools to take the next step.

You’ll laugh (because yes, confidence questions can be funny). You’ll nod along (because you’ve probably asked some of these questions yourself). And you’ll leave with simple, doable strategies you can apply immediately; whether you’re raising your prices, writing your story, applying for a TEDx, or just trying to get through your next social event without overthinking every word.

Most importantly, you’ll realize that confidence isn’t reserved for “other people.” It’s for you. It’s for the person listening right now who has a message, a dream, or an idea that the world needs but who’s been holding back because of doubt.

 

Final Thoughts

The Confidence Hotline is proof that you’re not alone in your struggles with confidence. The questions in this episode are real, and the answers are for anyone who’s ever doubted themselves, compared themselves, or talked themselves out of going after something big.

Confidence isn’t about waiting until you’re fearless. It’s about showing up while you’re still figuring it out. It’s about taking one step, then another, and building proof for yourself that you can.

So, whether you’re curious about how to raise your voice in a meeting, how to stop apologizing for your accent, or how to finally share your story with the world, this episode will give you the tools and encouragement to step into your power.

✨ Tune in now, and let’s answer your questions about confidence, together.

 

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