148. How To Get Over The Fear of Looking Underconfident
Update: 2025-06-17
Description
It’s one thing to feel unconfident - but it’s another thing entirely to fear and focus on the fact that others can see it. That fear can spiral fast: you’re no longer just doing the thing… you’re managing how you look doing it.
In this episode, we explore:
- Why this fear runs so deep — especially for high-achievers and leaders
- How worrying about being seen as nervous fuels more nerves
- The truth about confidence (hint: it’s not about never wobbling)
- What shifts when you stop focusing on hiding your nerves and show up anyway
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Cover art by Jacob McFadden
Theme song by Melissa Carter @ Making Audio Magic
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