Ashley Coates is a host for Thursday dating events, which brings together young single people in real life around the world.

If you've ever wondered how to overcome social anxiety and nerves when talking to women in person, how to make your weirdness a strength, or which city in the US has the best dating scene, Ashley is your girl.

Expect to learn:

• How to master social confidence even in overwhelming situations

• How to make your authenticity your most attractive trait

• Why connection is more important than just checking boxes

• And much, much more

Timestamps:

00:00 The Dynamics of Modern Dating

02:55 In-Person Events vs. Dating Apps

06:06 Creating Comfortable Environments for Connection

08:52 Common Mistakes in Dating Events

11:55 Understanding Attraction and Connection

14:59 The Dating Marketplace: Value and Connection

17:56 Strategies for Meeting People in Real Life

20:58 Navigating Social Interactions and Approaches

25:29 Navigating Dating Apps: The Art of Openers

28:04 The Challenges of Online Dating

29:47 Crafting an Engaging Dating Profile

31:35 The Importance of Authenticity in Profiles

32:51 The Role of Visual Presentation

35:06 Instagram vs. TikTok for Dating

37:23 Comparing Dating Cultures: Chicago vs. LA

44:14 Dressing for Success in Dating

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