DiscoverThe Best of You166: When Your Emotions Are at War – Here’s How to Set Boundaries Inside Your Own Soul
166: When Your Emotions Are at War – Here’s How to Set Boundaries Inside Your Own Soul

166: When Your Emotions Are at War – Here’s How to Set Boundaries Inside Your Own Soul

Update: 2025-07-10
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If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by your emotions or stuck in patterns of self-criticism, this episode offers a practical path forward rooted in both psychology and spiritual wisdom.


In this powerful re-air of a foundational episode, Dr. Alison Cook introduces the transformative approach behind Boundaries for Your Soul. Drawing from Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Christian faith, Alison shares how to lead your inner life with clarity, kindness, and strength.


Instead of pushing away difficult emotions, you’ll learn how to create space for them—with healthy boundaries that bring healing and peace.




This episode explores:



  • A step-by-step framework to navigate emotional overwhelm

  • The 3 internal roles we all carry—and how to listen to each one with care

  • Why spiritual growth requires emotional awareness

  • How Jesus modeled soul-level boundaries

  • An effective way to approach anxiety, anger, or fear without shame



Whether you're just beginning your healing journey or deep in the work of personal transformation, this episode will give you tools to understand yourself better and lead from a place of wholeness.




📥 Get your 3 free Boundaries For Your Soul resources here


📚 Explore Alison’s books: 



📥 Get the Alison’s free printable with the five boundary tools mentioned in last week’s episode when you sign up for her weekly email.




For more on internal boundaries, check out:


Episode 40: 5 Steps to Healing Painful Emotions


Episode 41:  Boundaries With Fear And Anxiety


Episode 42: How to Honor Sadness & Set Boundaries with Loneliness


Episode 43: How to Tame Your Inner Critic


Episode 44: Why Anger is a Surprising Friend


📖 Find a full transcript and list of resources from this episode here


💬 Got a question? Call 307-429-2525 and leave a message for a future episode.


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Editing by Giulia Hjort


Sound engineering by Kelly Kramarik


Music by Andy Luiten


While Dr. Cook is a counselor, the content of this podcast and any of the products provided by Dr. Cook are not specific counseling advice nor are they a substitute for individual counseling. The content and products provided on this podcast are for informational purposes only.‍


© 2025 Alison Cook. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED. Please do not copy or share the contents of this webpage or transcript without permission from the author.



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166: When Your Emotions Are at War – Here’s How to Set Boundaries Inside Your Own Soul

166: When Your Emotions Are at War – Here’s How to Set Boundaries Inside Your Own Soul

Dr. Alison Cook