DiscoverTea with Queen and J.#166 Taking Up Space
#166 Taking Up Space

#166 Taking Up Space

Update: 2018-08-07
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Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!

On this episode… Child support and the family structure, who owes what, who does what and who shouldn’t have shit to say about it. Also, new rules for Black hair in the military, and how ‘I don’t see color’ is an act of violence

This week’s hot list: Sorry To Bother You, light skinned mediocrity, ladyhood, African prints, Podcast Movement #PM18, commuting & cultural differences, how do you take up space? “I don’t see color” headasses and mad other ish.

Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

WEBSITE
www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com

SOCIAL MEDIA
Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj
Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj
Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ
Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com

EMAIL
teawithqueenandj@gmail.com

DONATE
www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

TELL BUZZFEED YOU LOVE TEA WITH QUEEN & J. https://www.buzzfeed.com/scottybryan/favourite-summer-podcasts-2018?utm_term=.bkKG8Rm999#.ve0oOayYYY

EVENTS
As always we will be at Afropunk Brooklyn! If you see us say what’s up!

PAY BLACK WOMEN
http://www.busayonyc.com/ 15% off all purchases until September 10th using coupon code provided at the top of the site.


NOTES & EXTRA TEA
7 Activist Groups Supporting Families At The Border That Need Your Help Right Now: https://mashable.com/2018/06/18/child-separation-immigration-charities-donate/#K_qKQT0abqqr

Judge denies US government’s request for ACLU to bear reunification responsibility https://abcnews.go.com/US/News/us-government-argues-aclu-locate-reunite-hundreds-migrant/story?id=57020100

This wee’s moment in Black hair: https://www.ebony.com/news-views/u-s-navy-now-allows-black-women-to-wear-their-natural-hair

This week’s closing clip features Samirah Raheem telling Jesse Lee Patterson to get the hell on: https://www.facebook.com/shilora.flowers/posts/275899229641077

Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/

Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.
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#198 Now I'm Upset
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… We explore labels, gender non-binary and why your friends ain’t really your friends; We shout out your Black male homies who unintentionally erase the fvck out of you while you’re fvcking sitting right the fvck there; And we revisit our discussion on disability and dating.This week’s hot list: We kicked SXSW 2019’s ass, working and relationships and disability, J. is full of fun facts, gendered terms (“lady”, etc.), do your friends respect your pronouns? “Inclusivity” at the expense of Black women, does anybody acknowledge the work of Black women as work? And mad other sh!t. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSSAVE THE DATE#PodinLiveNYC 5/11/19 4pmDetails to comeNOTES & EXTRA TEAListen to “Where Are The Podcast Blaccents?” panel organized by Sam Ridell for SXSW 2019: https://soundcloud.com/officialsxsw/sxsw-2019-where-are-the-podcast-blaccentsA few podcast resources:Inner Hoe Uprising 54 Genders or none: https://soundcloud.com/search?q=54%20genders%20or%20noneAgender Hoe in the Army: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/an-agender-hoe-in-the-army-robisode-1Hoes Like to be courted: https://soundcloud.com/innerhoeuprising/hoes-that-like-to-be-courtedAlso Check out Marsha’s Plate podcast and QueerWOC: The Podcast for more conversations about genderWatch The Grapevine’s “Culture Vultures” episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ubjud6LZk8cCheck out Vilissa Thompson’s (@VilissaThompson) twitter thread on ableism & dating: https://twitter.com/VilissaThompson/status/1105508769763598337Check out Tina’s (@nice_white_lady) twitter thread on ableism & dating: https://twitter.com/Nice_White_Lady/status/1106207362002681856This week’s closing clip features Missy Elliot with Nicole Wray “All N My Grill”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2NAyzeR3QtQThis episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & NaimaLibations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#198 Now I'm Upset

2019-03-2001:50:501

#197 You Play The Game You Play Yourself
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Are you being ableist in your relationship? Are you so woke you need a nap? Does your man like that you’re bi but only when it’s fun? And why we haven’t watched Leaving Neverland... TW (trigger warning ): Michael Jackson conversation takes place @ 26:15- 40:15Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSAUSTIN, TX #PodinLiveSXSW - Join Tea with Queen and J., Berry of Podcasts In Color, Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate, Estephanie of Bag Ladiez, and Sam of Inner Hoe Uprising for a podcast meetup on Wednesday March 13th, from 5-8pm at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 East 6th Street, Austin, TX. OPEN TO ALL NO SXSW BADGE REQUIRED.If you are a SXSW badge holder please check out “Where Are The Blaccents” panel on March 13th at 11:00am: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP88534 and “Tea with Queen and J.” Live at 12:30pm: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP102955Other Black centered events at SXSW3/12 Rebel & Rest: www.rosarebellion.com/sxsw-20193/16 Blossom & Sol Culture and Natural Hair Festival: www.blossomandsolnaturalhairfestival.com3/16 CareFreeBlackGirl Cookout @ SXSW: www.carefreeblackgirlsxsw.splashthat.comNOTES & EXTRA TEACheck out Grapevine’s ‘Jussie Smollett’ discussion on youtube:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=373FFDrBZRQCheck out Women of the World Festival in Harlem through 3/17: Tix & info: https://www.apollotheater.org/calendar/?tribe_eventcategory=100Essence write up” https://www.essence.com/entertainment/wow-festival/This week’s closing clip features Nina Simone discussing freedom: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=373FFDrBZRQThis episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima.Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/
#196  Hot Takes For A Living
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Are you a white person who wants me to denounce another Black person because you are wilding and always out of pocket? Are you a Black person with a pocket full of Solange hot takes? Are you somewhere scared and hiding until the current president stops presidenting. Whoever you are, wherever you at, we got it coveredThis week’s hot list: Nuance is not just a word that sounds french, the power dynamics of Tamika Mallory, Louis Farrakhan and the Womens March, Solange is our Black girls delight, that Michael Cohen mess that lead to that racist Mark Meadows mess that Rashida Tlaib tried to pull us out of, who is Monica Roberts? Interpersonal labor, Yolanda Vega a NY legend, Doing something racist vs. being “a racist”, disability rights, Carrie Ann Lucas, health care, and more... Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSAUSTIN, TX #PodinLiveSXSW - Join Tea with Queen and J., Berry of Podcasts In Color, Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate, Estephanie of Bag Ladiez, and Sam of Inner Hoe Uprising for a podcast meetup on Wednesday March 13th, from 5-8pm at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 East 6th Street, Austin, TX. OPEN TO ALL NO SXSW BADGE REQUIRED.If you are a SXSW badge holder please check out “Where Are The Blaccents” panel on March 13th at 11:00am: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP88534 and “Tea with Queen and J.” Live at 12:30pm: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP102955Other Black centered events at SXSW3/12 Rebel & Rest: www.rosarebellion.com/sxsw-20193/16 Blossom & Sol Culture and Natural Hair Festival: www.blossomandsolnaturalhairfestival.com3/16 CareFreeBlackGirl Cookout @ SXSW: www.carefreeblackgirlsxsw.splashthat.comPAY BLACK WOMENLearn more about activist Monica Roberts and help her continue to be Black trans voice in mediaTwitter: https://twitter.com/TransGriotBlog: https://transgriot.blogspot.comDonate: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?token=AL-BYkcKS6n4vpiJTMKpj7vBVyXucM5YM0SJ6JcaYKzws7NajJ3sXXGOw5ByzXIi6v6psW&country.x=US&locale.x=USWebsite: http://www.transgriot.comNOTES & EXTRA TEAListen to Monica Roberts interview on Marsha’s Plate podcast “#71 Houston Rodeo Edition: Monica Roberts the Trans Griot”: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/71-houston-rodeo-edition-monica-roberts-the-transgriotThis week’s closing clip features Rep. Rashida Tlaib confronting Rep. Mark Meadows during the House Oversight Committee hearing of Michael Cohen. Read John Blake’s analysis and watch the clip: https://www.cnn.com/2019/02/28/us/cohen-trump-hearing-race-analysis-blake/index.htmlThis episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam RiddellLibations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#196 Hot Takes For A Living

2019-03-0501:47:373

#195 Good Hair Day
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Our moment in Black hair gets unexpectedly emotional, we finally talk about that hate crime scandal that we didn’t never talk about yet, and the relationship between the Black & Latinx community is too nuanced for even that sentence.This week’s hot list: Nobody beats “The Wiz” go watch it! We’re on this week’s Bag Ladiez podcast go listen, Desus and Mero are kind of an inspiration, that Grapevine episode (xenophobia & regional sh*t), “exotic”, Jussie Smollet and the problem with people and the internet, natural hair discrimination law, policy change over hearts and minds, free yoga vids for the people and more...Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSAUSTIN, TX #PodinLiveSXSW - Join Tea with Queen and J., Berry of Podcasts In Color, Diamond Stylz of Marsha’s Plate, Estephanie of Bag Ladiez, and Sam of Inner Hoe Uprising for a podcast meetup on Wednesday March 13th, from 6-9pm at Licha’s Cantina, 1306 East 6th Street, Austin, TX. OPEN TO ALL NO SXSW BADGE REQUIRED.If you are a SXSW badge holder please check out “Where Are The Blaccents” panel on March 13th at 11:00am: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP88534 and “Tea with Queen and J.” Live at 12:30pm: https://schedule.sxsw.com/2019/events/PP102955 BLACK LATINX WOMEN TO FOLLOW NOWAint I Latina: http://aintilatina.comAint I Latina IG: https://www.instagram.com/aintilatina/Bag Ladiez Podcast: https://www.bgladiez.comZahira Kelly Cabrera aka @bad_dominicana IG: https://www.instagram.com/bad_dominicana/We Come From Queens: https://www.wecomefromqueens.comNOTES & EXTRA TEAWatch us on The Grapevine’s “The Relationship Between the Black and Latinx Community” episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k3brbDaquTQ&t=750sCheck us out on Three Fifs Podcast “An Extra Fif - Black Panther Timecapsule”: https://threefifspodcast.com/2019/02/16/an-extra-fif-black-panther-timecapsule/Check out https://setu.yoga and create a Setu account for access to free yoga videos and learn more about their Setu For You Indiegogo here: https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/setu-for-you#/New NYC hair discrimination law: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/18/style/hair-discrimination-new-york-city.htmlThis week’s closing clip features James Baldwin: https://www.instagram.com/p/BQdolBVDk-h/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=19hj7g9eoopl1This episode was created, hosted & produced by Naima and JaniciaLibations to our friend Domingo who helps keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#195 Good Hair Day

2019-02-2701:24:172

#194 Black on Black Coworkers
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Are you a sh*tty Black co-worker to your fellow Black co-workers? Why tho? Do you post your lover on social media or are they in witness protection? Also Frederick Douglass was a real one, house parties are supreme, and fvck American grammar.This week’s hot list: We join the #rowlandstones kinda, house parties, seafood, Valentime’s day over Valentine’s day, what kind of hateful ass song is Chante’s got a man? Celebrate the work aunties! Reclaim Black History Month! Mental health breaks, self care, #payblackwomen, use your privilege to help your coworkers, fedex is wack, we miss eggplant fridays, we miss vine, we want teleportation now.Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSAUSTIN, TX - We’re going to SXSW 2019! Help us get there by hitting the paypal or patreon! If you'll be at SXSW check out Queen on the "Where Are the Blaccent's" panel 3/13 at 11:00 and "Tea with Queen and J." live 12:30! If you will be in Austin we will be having a meet up! More info to come!PAY BLACK WOMENHelp Shaina visit her family in Montserrat for the first time: https://www.gofundme.com/shaina039s-trip-to-montserrat&rcid=r01-154743035382-d76fc04943b743f5&pc=ot_co_campmgmt_mCheck out G.R.A.C.E. by Millie Max nail polish!https://gracebymilliemax.comNOTES & EXTRA TEACheck out episode 59 of QueerWOC: The Podcast! Black History Month origins conversation starts at minute 57:48 https://soundcloud.com/queerwoc/59hhhExcerpt from Frederick Douglass’s infamous 4th of July Speech: https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/aia/part4/4h2927.htmlThis week’s closing clip features author Toni Morrison: https://www.instagram.com/thefreeblackwomenslibrary_la/p/BuB81ophQ9R/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=yvflqe39xre9This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam RiddellLibations to our friend Domingo who help’s keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/
#193 Blackface History Month
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Blackface is trying to ruin Black History Month, J.Lo is trying to ruin Black History Month, MAGA hats are trying to ruin Black history Month... but there’s still time.This week’s hot list: Black History Month facts, kids in Blackface become adults in power, Kelly Rowland got bands, Kelly Rowland got a man, Kelly Rowland got plans, the Grammy’s, how we know J.Lo still doesn’t have any Black girlfriends, edge control, MAGA hat sightings, how to leverage your privilege against white supremacist patriarchal capitalism, and mad other sh*t.Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIAHTwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjNOTES & EXTRA TEAPlease check out Cristina’s Latinx survey and pass it along to any and all who identify within the Latinx diaspora: https://goo.gl/forms/oF5ozHpyIVQwSbqH2This week’s closing clip features comedian Godfrey on VladTV: https://www.instagram.com/p/BttRAdwD-hM/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=zhdptlf0oip9This episode was created, hosted & produced by Naima and JaniciaLibations to our friend Domingo who helps keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#193 Blackface History Month

2019-02-1201:22:034

#192 We Don't Know You
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… We’re busting myths from “Black on Black” crime to what do vaginas really smell like, Black girl magic at the Superbowl that nobody and everybody watched, and a reminder that you’re important but everybody don’t know you. This week’s hot list: Targeted anti-Black marketing vs. crime stats, Queen makes good grits (salt over sugar!), when and how to engage or not engage in teaching conversations on social media, buy your comics from a Black woman, vaginal health is vaginal wealth, protect Chloe x Halle, fauxcotting the Superbowl (hey Rod & Karen!), don’t be humble (it’s wack) but show humility (it’s cute), Black Enterprise probably fired their journalism staff (but were you even reading it tho?), and other compelling sh!t!Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSAUSTIN, TX - We’re going to SXSW 2019! Help us get there by hitting the paypal or patreon!PAY BLACK WOMENThe Honey Pot is the first complete feminine care system that cleanses, protects, and balances your vagina Powered by herbs. Made by humans with vaginas for people with vaginas. Tampons, pads, washes & more at https://thehoneypot.coVisit http://www.amalgamphilly.com and order your comics from a Black woman owned shop!NOTES & EXTRA TEAWe referenced the BlackEnterprise.com article “16 Things Black People Say Or Do That Annoy White People At Work (And In General)” but we care too much about you to include a direct link.Chicago Woman Secure’s Hotel Rooms for Homeless During Polar VortexNPR- Transcript for the podcast weekend edition: https://www.npr.org/2019/02/02/690916753/meet-the-chicago-woman-who-rented-hotel-rooms-for-the-homeless-during-frigid-polThis week’s closing clip features actor/social media comedian Lala Milan at the BET screening for Boomerang: https://www.facebook.com/LaLaSizaHands89/videos/830688383946149/This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam RiddellLibations to our friend Domingo who help’s keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#192 We Don't Know You

2019-02-0501:31:504

#191 Dark Skinned Daddy
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Don’t use your dad a ‘the friend’ in your “I have a Black friend” story, the politics of confronting men on the street or anywhere and why men be so scared of men who are also scared of them cuz they stay scared, and culture vs. ageism.This week’s hot list: How to survive Gina Rodriguez (but we not really talking about her because ENOUGH), communicating with your partner like a human instead of a wounded rhino, how to say something when you see something #SurvivingRKelly -ish, the “b” in lgbtqia+ stands for bisexual (don’t act like you forgot), Black American cultural dismissal, auntie-ism, whether to say uncle or nah, and mad other ish! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjNOTES & EXTRA TEACheck out @Blactina’s #darkskinneddaddy challenge on instagram https://www.instagram.com/blactina/This week’s closing clip feature Nikki Giovanni and James Baldwin in conversation: https://www.facebook.com/ATLBlackStar/videos/nikki-giovanni-and-james-baldwin/1870653016395206/This episode was created, hosted & produced by Naima and JaniciaLibations to our friend Domingo who helps keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#191 Dark Skinned Daddy

2019-01-2901:12:492

#190 Who's The Fairest Of Them All
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… One of our favorite shows does an episode on colorism but did they really even wanna talk about it? The politics of what’s “fair”, People who can’t read arguing over books, And will the next generation suck less than we do? This week’s hot list: Black Comic Book Festival & Black Villains Matter, that Twerk video is Black joy, Fyre fest scam, that Black-ish episode and light skinned privilege (again), stop saying fair - words still mean things, redbone vs. brownin', you mad at Marie Kondo or you racist/xenophobic? More partners, better sex, how racist is Gen Z, and mad other ish.Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSBROOKLYN, NYC Sunday, January 27th 5-8pm Join Queen for Ms. Vixen + CareFreeBlackGirl Vision board and Intention Setting Workshop at Cafe Con Libros Cafe & Bookstore in Brooklyn! Tickets & info here: msvixenirl.eventbrite.comBROOKLYN Saturday, January 26th Join Inner Hoe Uprising for a sex positive dance party as they welcome coe-hoe Rob home from active duty! Ihuwinteriscumming.eventbrite.comNYC Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2019/jan/28/bag-ladiez-live/Visit Bag Ladiez website: https://www.bgladiez.comPAY BLACK WOMENMaryann Rolle gofund me: https://www.gofundme.com/exuma-point-fyre-fest-debt?utm_source=twitter&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=exuma-point-fyre-fest-debtNOTES & EXTRA TEAWatch J. on the “Black Villains Matter” panel at Black Comic Book Festival 2019: https://livestream.com/schomburgcenter/events/8529979/videos/186033547?fbclid=IwAR3TC3Dx4sC5EzKD6GVMzFwMIMnvwtreEVuOQ90Zah9pZkWqgbGHB1AfxrkWatch Queen on the “Who Tells The Story of Our Future” panel at Werk It Festival 2019: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ibN5i-1DKeoOR Listen to the audio here: https://www.wnycstudios.org/story/who-tells-story-our-future-werk-it-2018 Gen Z might be more chill: https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/2019/01/17/next-generation-voters-are-more-liberal-more-inclusive-believe-government/?fbclid=IwAR2JF7L1g69VR8wBkQWK7jY9QjWJrinW5gfNZJqTSL9v8DqM8zOHHEwQ49g&utm_term=.c37eb12a6ddeThis week’s closing clip features TMZ’s clip of Erykah Badu wilding: https://www.tmz.com/videos/1_jbi1xmvu/This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam RiddellLibations to our friend Domingo who help’s keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/
#189 Black Ass Feminism
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this spot of tea episode… how to avoid becoming a human sacrifice in the name of Blackness, what the fvck is womanism, and how to get your Black joy on in the face of white consumptionThis week’s hot list: Go see Big Freedia, Jason Mamoa is a complete sentence, brown babies for every body! Protect your neck, womanism vs feminism vs Black feminism vs does it matter, what do academics really do, and mad other ish!Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSHARLEM, NYC Saturday, January 19th J. will be on a panel at the Black Comic Book Festival at The Schomburg museum! Supervillains: A Reflection of Us panel begins at 10:00am. Free RSVP & full schedule: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-schomburg-centers-7th-annual-black-comic-book-festival-tickets-53316870194BROOKLYN, NYC Sunday, January 27th 5-8pm Join Queen for Ms. Vixen + CareFreeBlackGirl Vision board and Intention Setting Workshop at Cafe Con Libros Cafe & Bookstore in Brooklyn! Tickets & info here: msvixenirl.eventbrite.comBROOKLYN Saturday, January 26th Join Inner Hoe Uprising for a sex positive dance party as they welcome coe-hoe Rob home from active duty! Tix & info: Ihuwinteriscumming.eventbrite.comNYC Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on Monday, January 28, 2019! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2019/jan/28/bag-ladiez-live/Visit Bag Ladiez website: https://www.bgladiez.comNOTES & EXTRA TEAReferenced article re womanism: https://www.thoughtco.com/womanist-feminism-definition-3528993Referenced article re Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: https://www.vox.com/identities/2017/3/15/14910900/chimamanda-ngozi-adichie-transgender-women-comments-apologyThis week’s closing clip is by @tpmiller305 on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tpmiller305/Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, learn more about Ohene: https://ohenecornelius.comLibations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#189 Black Ass Feminism

2019-01-1501:20:23

#188 Couldn't Be Me Girl
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… We’re shedding old friendships, setting new affirmations and all kinds of fun shit before an in depth convo about #SurvivingRKelly in real life, the docuseries, why it might not go far enough, and who shouldn’t have been included. Trigger Warning: #SurvivingRKelly conversation including discussions of rape, grooming, assault & other abuses starts at moment 48:36 and ends at 2:02:10This week’s hot list: Witches & sorcery & Black girl magic, ending patriarchal friendships with pizazz, processing #SurvivingRKelly and reliving old sh!t, being respectable won’t save you, the fast girl myth, complicit adults, communal accountability, sex tape vs. rape tape (words mean things), celebrity victim blamers (why was Charlechew even in that doc?), and then light and fun sh!t, we promise! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSHARLEM, NYC Saturday, January 19th J. will be on a panel at the Black Comic Book Festival at The Schomburg museum! Supervillains: A Reflection of Us panel begins at 10:00am. Free RSVP & full schedule: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-schomburg-centers-7th-annual-black-comic-book-festival-tickets-53316870194BROOKLYN, NYC Sunday, January 27th 5-8pm Join Queen for Ms. Vixen + CareFreeBlackGirl Vision board and Intention Setting Workshop at Cafe Con Libros Cafe & Bookstore in Brooklyn! Tickets & info here: msvixenirl.eventbrite.comPAY BLACK WOMENCheck out Adorned By Chi, a lifestyle brand for misfits & magical girls: https://adornedbychi.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/adornedbychi/NOTES & EXTRA TEAListen to the latest episode of “A Little Juju Podcast”: https://soundcloud.com/user-991694293/new-years-readingJoin Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2019/jan/28/bag-ladiez-live/Visit Bag Ladiez website: https://www.bgladiez.comListen to our interview with #MuteRKelly co-founder Kenyette Barnes in episode #153: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/153-muterkellyScholly & growninsh are partnering to help pay off your student loan debt. You could have up to 125,000 in debt paid off. Learn more here: https://myscholly.com/grownishAnd here: https://verysmartbrothas.theroot.com/if-you-have-student-loans-grown-ish-and-scholly-are-tr-1831488830This week’s closing clip features Kelechi Okafor (twitter @kelechnekoff): https://twitter.com/kelechnekoff/status/1079780148872953861/video/1This episode was created, hosted & produced by Janicia & Naima with editorial support by Sam RiddellLibations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#188 Couldn't Be Me Girl

2019-01-0802:25:562

#187 T'was The Night Before Kwanzaa
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… We put our womanist race nerd spin on the Kwanzaa principles (what are thooooooose!) and show you how and why to incorporate that shit into your everyday life, we’ve got a moment in Black hair for the bearded people in your life, and how to build community in a world full of people who don’t know how to act.This week’s hot list: working with toxic whiteness, Kwanzaa, buy black, indie comics, beard butter is good for you, Janice Dotson, the Sandra Bland act, Donors choose, buy them kids ipads, Black elitism, everybody can’t say “sis” sis, and more!Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjPAY BLACK WOMENHelp Nadejah Whitted fit her classroom with ipads: http://donorschoose.org/Miss.WhittedNOTES & EXTRA TEARead “Tea with Queen and J.: A Podcast for Women Who Won’t Be Silenced” https://medium.com/@DrewBreez/tea-with-queen-and-j-a-podcast-for-black-women-who-wont-be-silenced-84bfeebb1fe3?fbclid=IwAR2Tlzr6juv32t6NuJqccUpNbsKgcG-3OXSNHhYwBVlLGYxSMuGrnpKVTbgSupport “Ajala” Indie comicbook Kickstarter: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1715366249/a-change-of-perspective-special-edition?fbclid=IwAR2vZG34PWkYYeiZ138Y9DClVz-Lg2Ocjl2BgOTbEDGGkeRKhCJ-D4O5dYQCheck out King Butta Love’s natural beard butter & soaps: https://www.etsy.com/shop/KingButtaLove?ref=shop_suggInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/king_butta_love/Join Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2019/jan/28/bag-ladiez-live/Visit Bag Ladiez website: https://www.bgladiez.comRead Essence article on Janice Dotson: https://www.essence.com/news/mentally-ill-black-mother-dies-in-jail-texas/Libations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/
#186 LIVE at WNYC (with Michaela angela Davis)
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… We recap the Black ass Black joy that was our live show at WNYC’s The Greene Space with Michaela angela Davis, before playing what will go down in history as our most epic live podcast taping ever to happen before our next live podcast taping. This week’s hot list: Our live show was lit biatch! Image activist, Michaela angela Davis talked with us about being a Black woman at work, when/where/how to move “unapologetic”, natural hair shit, “image activism”, Black identity & who nurtures us, Halsey, Lena Dunham (insert unhappy face) and more! Also go see Spider-Man: Into The Spiderverse!Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjSPECIAL GUESTFollow our guest Michaela angela Davis on twitter & instagram @michaelaangelaD and visit her website: https://www.madfreelife.comPAY BLACK WOMENHelp Sydney cover current medical school expenses. Donate via cashapp here: https://cash.me/$sydabunnCheck out AmaSpiritArtist infinity scarves & jewelry here: https://www.etsy.com/shop/Amaspiritartist?ref=shop_suggSupport Angela as she recovers from being laid off. Donate via cashapp here: https://cash.me/$theycallmesabblahNOTES & EXTRA TEACheck out photographer Dom Sindayiganza’s work here: https://www.sindayiganza.comFollow Danny & Cleo’s photogaphy on instagram @beatricfilm and listen to their podcast The Danny & Cleo Show: https://soundcloud.com/thedannyandcleoshow/tracksWatch our full live tapping with Michaela angela Davis at The Greene Space on youtube now! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NsqZklMpKEkJoin Bag Ladiez podcast live at The Greene Space on January 28, 2019! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2019/jan/28/bag-ladiez-live/Visit Bag Ladiez website: https://www.bgladiez.comLibations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/
#185 Just F*cking Apologize
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Can you be a whole happy ass bitch and still want a partner (yes, obviously)? Sex work vs. sex trafficking, doula’s for everybody, and how to apologize for old sh*t.This week’s hot list: Apply for healthcare! Transness and family members, white terrorism, wash your wig in the sink it’s great, white privilege and who “deserves” what, Black Lives Matter and real estate, grown ass love and vulnerability or nah, Kevin Hart is wild fam, stop telling women to smile it’s corny and abusive, and more!Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjPAY BLACK WOMENHelp Sequoia Kemp provide doula services to women who need it in Syracuse, NYFollow her on instagram @doula4aqueenDonate via cashapp $doula4aqueenPaypal: paypal.me/sequoiakGofundme https://www.gofundme.com/doula-sponsorship-fund NOTES & EXTRA TEAVisit healthcare.gov to apply for healthcare by December 15th!Watch us on The Grapevine TV’s “White Terrorism” episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M42Yc3SPvJ4Listen to Marsha’s Plate episode #58: Navigating Transness and Siblings: https://soundcloud.com/danella-xuc/58-navigating-transness-and-siblings-feat-rak-marshasplateListen to episode #97 ‘Keep Our Names Outcha Mouf’ where we first discuss Cyntoia Brown: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/97-keep-our-names-outcha-moufBlack Lives Matter Louisville is flipping houses for low income families: https://www.wlky.com/article/black-lives-matter-flips-houses-for-low-income-families/25350577Donate to Black Lives Matter Louisville: https://actionnetwork.org/fundraising/support-stand-up-sundayVisit BLM Louisville on facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blacklivesmatterlouisville/This week's closing clip features @chicodsolo and his daughter @iambrookemonroe: https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq28SIYFa64/Editorial support by Sam Riddell

#185 Just F*cking Apologize

2018-12-1101:21:593

#184 Black Republican
LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th with special guest Michaela angela Davis! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this spot of tea episode… Remember those viral feel good videos of high school seniors getting accepted to Ivy League schools? Was that shit a lie & a scam? Also, what to do when you’re Black and your mom doesn’t know, and why are their Black Republicans in New York and whose mans are they?Trigger warning for child abuse discussion between moment 36:57 and 57:23Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjNOTES & EXTRA TEACheck us out on The Grapevine TV’s post midterm elections episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NALs0hTL2C8Read the NYT expose on T.M. Landry school’s practices: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/11/30/us/tm-landry-college-prep-black-students.html#click=https://t.co/TqiTukrfpw This week’s closing clip features Stevie Wonder’s tribute song to Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=inS9gAgSENELibations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#184 Black Republican

2018-12-0501:21:011

#183 Wash And Go Where?
LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Is ‘shea butter twitter’ and the natural hair movement a safe haven for white supremacy? Do the white women in your life think they’re doing you a favor? Also, stop saying “that’s gay”, stop giving wack sex, and drink more water.This week’s hot list: Get your arts & crafts on, it’s the holiday depression season!, more from Werk It festival, white liberal fragility right in front of our salad, does every liberal white woman thinks she’s the teacher in ‘Dangerous Minds’? Natural hair shrinkage is racist but we got you covered, Black femme safety, secret relationships, homophobia, transphobia, and Dwight Howard...Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjPAY BLACK WOMENWanna hire Sam Riddell to do some media shit for dat ass? Drop her an email at sam.a.riddell@gmail.com!Check out I Am Goddess by Monna White for handmade bath & body items: https://www.goddessbathandbody.comMonna White on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamgoddess1/NOTES & EXTRA TEACheck out Jessica Pettway’s 4C natural hair youtube tutorial playlist: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLmP_xeU71g7BkrTLqAkoeupS4v48FuWfmVisit Cee Cee’s closet for headwraps and other items! https://www.ceeceesclosetnyc.comThis week’s closing clip features Snoop Dogg accepting his star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame: https://twitter.com/imnwill/status/1065360512639221760/video/1Editorial support and engineering by Sam RiddellLibations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#183 Wash And Go Where?

2018-11-2701:38:231

#182 We Call Our Cousins,Ya'll Call The Police
LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this spot of tea episode… Some of your elders are bigots... yes the Black ones, Black Santa might be satanic, and violence doesn’t always leave a bruise. This week’s hot list: Queen gets her science and tech on at Werk It festival, what constitutes ‘violence’ and when should we use that term? Black women dismissing other Black women because corporate classism is so fvcking tasty, women are not a monolith (we say this every week, but whateves), white folks who invoke fear cuz terrorism is a white American past-time, Black Santa, consumerism, Afrolatinidad, generational shifts vs bigotry and mad other sh!t.Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjNOTES & EXTRA TEAThis week’s closing clip features Queen & Janina of the upcoming “In Those Genes” podcast on Sam Ridell’s “Who Tells The Story Of Our Future” panel at Werk It Festival 2018. Audio from the full panel coming soon!Engineering by Joshua Perez aka @fazefunk on IG of Talking Shit Podcast & Kinks with KekeLibations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/
#181 J.Lo Doesn't Have Any Black Girlfriends
LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… Are you an “auntie”, an “elder”, or an “old-head” and are any of those terms offensive? We explore ageism and mortality and talk shit about old exes. Have you heard of “n*ggerfishing”? (It’s a thing) Iggy Azaelia has but this song isn’t about her. And finally, women’s empowerment - what even is that shit?This week’s hot list: Queen is taking baths now, men never take baths on TV (there's a reason), J. nerds out on For All Nerds Show, our live show is 12/10 and we got dents! Catfishing gets weirder, Iggy Azalea and J.Lo have big booties so it’s cool (this is sarcasm), ageism for everyone, Be My Eyes app, Dom lemon can never leave the pit - stop asking, women’s empowerment is not another word for feminism - let’s discuss!Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjPAY BLACK WOMENHelp J.’s sister Jasmine raise money towards her real estate classes: https://cash.me/$JasmineFrancisCheck out Katrina Wisdom Charles bamboo earrings and more on instagram: https://www.instagram.com/piecesofwisdom21/And shop Pieces of Wisdom on etsy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/PiecesofWisdomNOTES & EXTRA TEACheck out J.’s guest spot on For All Nerds Show (fka FanBros Show)!: https://soundcloud.com/fanbros/size-wars-rebel-block-party-feat-janicia-f-of-tea-with-queen-and-jLearn more about Be My Eyes app and download it here: https://www.bemyeyes.comVisit https://www.freedomprep.org to learn more about Freedom Preparatory Academy and their residency program in Memphis, TN. Contact Keishana Barnes at kbarnes@freedomprep.org if interested, and let her know you heard it on Tea with Queen and J.!This week’s closing clip features Cardi B: https://twitter.com/Raquel_Savage/status/1058836668218793988/video/1Editorial support by Sam RiddellEngineering by Joshua Perez aka @fazefunk on IGLibations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/
#180 White Feminist Vagina Farts
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this spot of tea episode… Is the patriarchy ruining your relationship? (definitely yes) Hood lit or ‘nigglature’ as it has been called by somebody somewhere is a having a what the fvck moment on social media, Is Rebel Wilson a level 3 white feminist or did she just repeat some dumb shit that her agent said to get her gassed? Or is it both?This week’s hot list: cover yourself in emollients, Will Smith is the TV dad we thought we had, reality tv destroys families, add these podcasts to your rotation: Jade & XD, #Reaganomics, The Black Guy Who Tips, Grizzly KiKi, follow @broobs.psd on instagram. Should we review season 2 of She’s Gotta Have It or nah? We reaffirm our Queen & J. sex policy, Rebel Wilson is bad at twitter, it’s the 20th anniversary of the cinematic masterpiece “Belly” that’s right (muthafuggin masterfuggin piece kinda), Quan Millz, hood lit, opporcoonists, and Vote and break up with your boyfriend it’s probably for the best. Yes, all of you. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSNYC December 10th SAVE THE DATE for Tea with Queen and J.’s Live show! More info to come.NOTES & EXTRA TEAListen to Tea with Queen and J. episode #160 “Superfly In The Belly of A New Jack City” more on Belly: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/160-superfly-belly-new-jackListen to The Black Guy Who Tips interview with author Quan Millz: https://www.podomatic.com/podcasts/theblackguywhotips/episodes/2018-10-30T13_34_27-07_00Listen to our interview with author/cosplayer TaLynn Kel #176 “Sup With Your White Husband?”: https://soundcloud.com/tea-with-queen-and-j/176-sup-with-himThis week’s closing clip features Nas infamous “let’s go to Africa” clip from the film Belly:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEwGwW-vn38Engineering by Joshua Perez aka @fazefunk on IG of Talking Shit Podcast & Kinks with Keke
#179 Vote I Guess...
Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up!On this episode… We talk about the white privilege of Steven Universe (don’t worry, nobody’s cancelled), masculinity on Insecure, we drag the fuck out of people we know , China is legit wilding, and to vote or nah?????This week’s hot list: Steven Universe stays outta pocket, Islamophobia unchecked in China, Queen & J. apologize for what had happened, sisterhood in Syracuse, Black girl wigs for little girl heads, Insecure’s toxic masculinity and why we might be here for Lawrence, you gonna vote or nah on November 6th? Gaslighting Black women in business (we’re over it, and we’re talking about it), and #YouOKSis is a quick and easy way to check on a woman who may or may not be being harassed. Try it sometime.Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!WEBSITEwww.TeaWithQueenAndJ.comSOCIAL MEDIATwitter: twitter.com/teawithqjInstagram: Instagram.com/teawithqjFacebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJTumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.comEMAILteawithqueenandj@gmail.comDONATEwww.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqjEVENTSNYC December 10th SAVE THE DATE for Tea with Queen and J.’s Live show! More info to come.PAY BLACK WOMENHelp Runway Hair by Quilla continue to create free, high quality human hair wigs for children experiencing hair loss Contribute to her ongoing GoFundMe: https://www.gofundme.com/FreeWigs4kidsVisit her instagram page: https://www.instagram.com/runwayhair_/Non-monetary donations can be sent to:Runway Hair by Quilla, P.O. Box 90, Lithia Springs, Ga 30122Check out graphic designer/artist Danyelle Elysee at https://www.hausofelleezus.comShop her work on redouble: https://www.redbubble.com/people/hausofelleezus?asc=uOther items on Easy: https://www.etsy.com/shop/HausofElleezusInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/elleezus/NOTES & EXTRA TEAA Million Muslims Are Held in Detention Camps in China, by Melinda Liu for NBC News: https://www.nbcnews.com/news/world/million-muslims-are-held-detention-camps-china-now-portrays-humane-n922041This week’s closing clip features a moment from the timeless classic Flavor of Love: https://www.instagram.com/p/BpfgrKFA7aD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_linkEngineering by Joshua Perez aka @fazefunk on IG of Talking Shit Podcast & Kinks with KekeLibations to our friends Casey & Domingo who help keep this show running by giving their money to Black women.Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ohenecornelius/Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

#179 Vote I Guess...

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#166 Taking Up Space

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