19. What they don't tell you about self-devotion
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In today's episode, I go into something nobody tells you about self-devotion and what it actually feels like when you start putting yourself first.
Self-devotion isn’t bubble baths, crystals, or surface-level “self-love.” It’s deeper, at times grittier, the raw, heartbreaking, while also liberating journey of finally choosing you first, no matter who it disappoints.
In this episode, I riff on:
- Why self-devotion feels more like heartbreak than peace and rainbows at first
- The difference between self-care, self-love, and true self-devotion
- How devotion forces you to raise your standards and piss people off
- Why momentum doesn’t come from hustling, it comes from energy moving you
- The heartbreak of saying no to clients, contracts, friendships, and relationships that no longer align
- Power leaks vs. power holding and how to stop outsourcing your power
- Reflection questions to filter every decision through: Who do I love more? Me or them?
If this cracked something open in you, don’t keep it to yourself. You already know what to do:
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