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196: You’re Not Scared of Women—You’re Scared of Yourself

196: You’re Not Scared of Women—You’re Scared of Yourself

Update: 2025-09-08
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I used to be terrified of talking to women.


And not in the “I’m shy” way. I was the varsity quarterback. People thought I had it all together. But inside? I was overthinking every word, afraid of rejection, and had zero confidence around girls.


In this episode, I share two stories—one where I won, and one where I got absolutely rejected—and break down what those moments taught me.


I’ll show you:


- Why most guys are actually scared of themselves—not rejection- An approach that’s worked way better than any pickup line- How to build confidence before you ever say a word


This isn’t game. This is identity.


Because when you actually like who you are, you stop being afraid of what anyone thinks—including her. If you're a guy and want to talk about talking to women with someone who has been where you are and someone who won't judge you, send me a msg on Instagram @djlogory.

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196: You’re Not Scared of Women—You’re Scared of Yourself

196: You’re Not Scared of Women—You’re Scared of Yourself

DJ Logory