#20: Rejection In The Lifestyle: There’s A Mop For Every Bucket!
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🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes related to the ENM and swinging lifestyle. Listener discretion is advised!
This time on Beyond Vanilla, Amy and Emily are diving into one of the trickiest parts of the lifestyle — rejection.
How do you handle being rejected? And how do you reject someone kindly without feeling like an absolute villain?
As Amy always says, “There’s a mop for every bucket — sometimes your mop just doesn’t fit in their bucket, and that’s okay!” 💦
We’re sharing our top tips and tricks for navigating rejection like pros — from setting boundaries and keeping confidence intact to remembering that it’s never personal.
We’re also chatting about neurospicy swingers, the real reasons rejection stings so much, and of course, sharing our usual chaos and funny stories along the way.
Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Absolutely no gatekeeping.
If you’ve ever felt that little sting of “not chosen,” this one’s for you.
🔞 Explicit Content Warning: This episode contains adult themes related to the swinging and ENM lifestyle.




